Charles "Garner" Hayden, Sr.

November 14, 1929 - June 15, 2009

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Services:
 

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, June 19, 2009 at 10:00 AM in St. John's Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery

Visitation:
  The family will receive friends on Thursday, June 18, 2009 from 5:00 -8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM.
  Charles “Garner” Hayden, Sr. , 79, of Hollywood, MD, died June 15, 2009, at St. Mary’s Hospital in Leonardtown, MD, after an eight year battle with cancer.  Born in Hollywood, MD on November 14, 1929, he was the son of the late Thomas Alvin Hayden and Dorothy Frances (Garner) Hayden of Hollywood, MD.  He was the loving husband of Mary Lou (Tennison) Hayden whom he married on November 10, 1951 at Holy Face Catholic Church, in Great Mills, MD.  He was the father of Charles G. Hayden, Jr. of California, MD and Robert W. Hayden, and his wife, Kathy, of Baldwin, MD.  He is survived by six grandchildren, Nicole Hayden and Steve Walker of Dameron, MD, Britany Hayden of Park Hall, MD,  Erin Hayden of Owings Mills, MD,  Lauren Hayden of Baltimore, MD, Bobby Hayden of Baldwin, MD and Catherine Hayden of Hollywood, MD.  He is also survived by two great grandchildren, Adelle Hayden and Lilian Walker.  He is survived by his sisters, Caroline Murphy of Hollywood, MD and Louise Hewitt of Fort Washington, MD.  He was predeceased in death by his siblings, Thomas A. Hayden, Jr., William A. (Lefty) Hayden, Regina H. James and by his son Michael A. Hayden.  Garner was a lifelong resident of Hollywood, MD, building his family home on his parent’s farm where his neighbors were all family.  He was a Charter Member of the Hollywood Lions Club and was currently serving as Treasurer.  He was a member of the St. Mary’s Amateur Radio Association for many years and was currently serving as Treasurer.  He was a Lifetime Associate Member of the Hollywood Volunteer Fire Department.  He was also a lifetime member of St. John Francis Regis Catholic Church where he attended grade school.  He graduated from Great Mills High School in 1948.  After graduating from High School, he went to work for SMECO as a member of the brush crew.  He continued to work for SMECO until June of 1989 when he retired as part of management.   Garner loved traveling in his motor home with his wife, being active in his various associations, stuffing hams for the HVFD and talking on his Ham Radios.   He loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren by whom he was affectionately called “Daddy Garner”.The family will receive friends for a visitation on Thursday, June 18, 2009, from 5:00 to 8:00 pm at the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home in Leonardtown, MD, where prayers will be said at 7:00 pm.  A mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, June 19, 2009, at 10:00 am at St. John’s Francis Regis Catholic Church in Hollywood, MD.Pallbearers will be Joey Tennison and Jack Hewitt who are two of his god-sons, his nephews Steve Murphy, Dale James, Gil James and his grandson, Bobby Hayden.   Honorary pallbearers will be his good friends Frank Dean, Charlie Wible, Billy Huseman, Francis Norris, Re-Pete Mattingly, Gene Talley and the Hollywood Lions Club.In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the St. John’s Building Fund or the Hollywood Volunteer Fire Department.

Guestbook Signatures and Condolences

"Mary Lou, Charlie, Bobby and families. I was so sorry to hear of Garner's passing. He was such a good father and neighbor. I have many many good childhood memories. One that stands out in particular was one of the times Mike and I were playing at my house in the summer with walkie-talkies, we were maybe 10. But after an hour or so Garner broadcasts on our walkie-talkies saying Mike - you need to come home for lunch. Uh-oh... I will keep your family in my prayers - I know this is a very difficult time."
- Jeff Davis
- Posted: Saturday, June 20, 2009

"I was very sad to hear of your loss, Charlie. Please know that my thoughts are with you and you know we are all here for you should you need anything. Much love!"
- Ellen Hobby
- Posted: Friday, June 19, 2009

"Mary Lou and Family: So sorry to hear of Garner's passing. We have been out of town and missed the services for Garner, but be assured that we will offer our Mass on Sunday for him. What a fine person Garner was, he will be missed. Our prayers will be with all of you."
- Aggie & Robert Lee Owens
- Posted: Friday, June 19, 2009

"Marylou, Charlie & Bobby, I am very sorry to hear about Garner's passing. As difficult as times like this are, take comfort in knowing that he is in a better place. You are in my thoughts and prayers."
- Ellen (Tinsley) Bailey
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"We are sorry to hear about Garner,, We didn't see him often but it was always a pleasure when we did. We would always have a good conversation about about Ham Radios."
- Harry & Jackie Dalton
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"There is a silence on Mt. Pleasant that is deafening. Garner will be surely missed. May the love within your family and the community carry you through this difficult time. "
- Danny & Sara Greenwell
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"Our deepest sympathy to the family."
- Stump, Cindy, Matthew & Cody Spalding
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"Mary Lou, Charlie & Bobby, my deepest condolences. "
- Sandra Femiani (Russell)
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"Mary Lou & Family: We are sorry to hear about the loss of Garner and will miss all of the great times that we had together at the Hollywood VFD and our trips we all went on during the past years. He will truly be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family."
- Shirley & Snookie Miedzinski
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"Mary Lou, Charlie, Bobby and Family: We are so sadden to here the loss of Garner. He was a wonderful man with a golden heart. Our prayers and thoughts are with each of you. I will cherish all the great fishing trips that we had together and all the great moments. God Bless and please let us know if there is anything we can do during these sadden times."
- C.P. & Mandy Miedzinski
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"Dear Mary Lou, Charlie, Bobby and families please accept my heartfelt condolences. I know the pain of losing a parent. My childhood memories of living in the neighborhood with all of you are some of my most treasured. I remember playing with Mike in the treeforts and playing "Germans", being at your house at Christmas and other times and visiting with "Uncle Alvin" on the hill. In my adult years, Garner was always extremely nice to me and ALWAYS had a smile. He always seemed to be having a good time--a great person. I'm thankful to have known him. What's that word.."surreal"??? Losing this generation is hard...we just think they're always going to be there. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care. "
- Cathy (Russell) Greer
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"We are so sorry for your loss. Mr Hayden was truly a good man; husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He was a great volunteer and friendly to all. We will miss him. You are in our thoughts and prayers. "
- Rick and BJ Raley
- Posted: Thursday, June 18, 2009

"MARY LOU,WE ARE TRULY SORRY TO HEAR OF GARNER'S PASSING. HE SURE WILL BE MISSED. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL"
- CHRIS & BUBBA SCHUHART
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"To the Hayden Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you."
- Kenny Dement Mary Dean
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"Mary Lou & Family Jenny and I was so sorry to hear of Garner's passing May God Bless you and your family in this time sorrow. Garner will be missed in Lions world he was a very good Lion."
- Clarence & Jenny Bowles
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"Mary Lou and Family, Garner always was most willing to help any other Ham operators in the community with his radio and antenna expertise and especially offering his agile tower climbing ability. He was always easy-going and had many friends. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Garner's friendly smile."
- Julia & Jim Forest
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"To Charlie and the Hayden family: We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Garner and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Charlie if you need anything we are here for you."
- Connie & Blair Anderson
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"To the Hayden Family: We are so sorry for your loss. I will always think of him with that perpetual smile on his face. My Dad has reminisced so much over the last few weeks about their great friendship and is so saddened by the news of Garner's passing. We send our heartfelt sympathy and prayers to you all."
- Betty (Spalding) Smith
- Posted: Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"Dear Mary Lou, Garner will be missed very much, I will miss talking to him on the radio. "
- Larry Norris N3JTN
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"To Marylou and all the family, Our deepest sympathy to you all. Garner was a good man and Wayne always tells the story of our lines being torn off the house when a car hit our pole and Garner told Wayne about it the next day and Wayne asked Garner why he didn't wake him up and Garner replied I beat on the house , lights flashing I figures if that didn't wake you up nothing would.. He will be missed and we are so sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers. Wayne and Joan"
- wayne and joan thompson
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"Charlie and Family, I am saddened to hear about Garner passing away. He was one of the nicest men I have ever met. He was a true gentleman. I will pray for all of you. Try to hold on to the good memories. Time does help but most of all having a good family will get you through this tough time. Take care and God Bless all of you. I will be out of town until Friday. I will see you soon Charlie. Bill "
- Bill Mattingly
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"MY VERY BEST WISHES TO MARY LOU AND ALL THE HAYDEN FAMILY. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF GARNER."
- ROBERT STEELE POGUE
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"Dear Mary Lou, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Garner was such a kind man, always helping out wherever he could. I will cherish the fine times Eric and I spent together with you both and Warren and Polly Dean on our visits to Hollywood. Love, Relinda ( from Belgium )"
- RELINDA STEVENS
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"Very sorry to hear of the passing of "Garner". The HAM community will miss a stalwart. Pleaae accept our heart felt condolences. You will be in our prayers, Dave & Marjorie - Parker, CO"
- Dave Clingerman - W6OAL
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"We were so sorry to hear about Garner. He was a man who always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say. We enjoyed him and MaryLou at the campground and will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family."
- Patti and Jimmy Anderson
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"We've known Garner for along time. He will surely be missed. We brought our first camper from him and our boys, still talk about how much fun they had camping. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. "
- Danny and Debbie Dixon
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"Charlie & Family: Warren and I are sorry to hear about your Dad. Keep all the memories close to your hearts. God Bless. Warren & Brenda K. Webb"
- Brenda Webb
- Posted: Tuesday, June 16, 2009

"Mary Lou and family: I am so sorry for your loss. Garner was a good man. He is resting in peace now. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary Agnes."
- Mary Agnes Plunkett
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"Mary Lou and family: It is difficult to find the 'right' words to say in this very sad time in your lives but I want you to know that Garner represented the very best in human decency and public service. As probably the longest serving Treasurer of any organization ever, Garner was always devoted to the St. Mary's County Amateur Radio Association (yes, I know that you probably did all the real work) and I enjoyed chatting with him regularly about keeping our membership lists updated and what new 'DX' he had worked on his ham radio. On behalf of the entire membership of the St. Mary's County Amateur Radio Association, please accept our deepest sympathy and sorrow. If there is anything we can collectively do for you, please do not hesitate to let us know. Garner will be missed so much. - Pete Butt, President, St. Mary's County Amateur Radio Association"
- Pete Butt
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"We first met Garner while we were stationed at NATC Patuxent River back in 1965. Being Amateur (Ham) Radio operators, we have kept in touch via radio with an occasional visit over the years. He will be surely missed by both family and his many friends. Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family in these trying times."
- David and Bonnie Letterman
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

""To the entire Hayden Family: We truly express our deepest sorrow for your family's recent loss. Garner was so kind to us whenever we had a get together at Charlie's and we always enjoyed his company--to my very good friend Charlie--I treasure our friendship and I am here for you always. My thoughts are with you now and my support forever. XOXO Kathy "
- Kathy and Greg VanMeter
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"My condolences to the Hayden family. Garner was more than a customer, he was a good friend. Whenever he would come by for a part for his motorhome we would set and talk for awhile. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these sad times."
- Dick & Joan Smythers
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"My heartfelt sympathy to MaryLou, Bob, Charlie and the extended family. Garner will be greatly missed by all who knew him"
- Jack Raley
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"To the Hayden family; please know that you are not alone in your sorrow and loss. Garner was a special person and all those who had the privledge of interacting with him were blessed and affect by the relationship. May his soul and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, Rest in peace."
- The Venerable Fr. Joseph H. Dobson, Jr. +
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"To the Hayden Family: We are extremly saddened by the news of Garner's death. May God be with you as you grieve the loss of your loved one. Remember you will always have your cherished memories. Take care and stay close to your love ones. Hollywood Volunteer Fire Dept. will definitely be mourning the death of Garner. Skip and I are so sorry that we will be unable to attend any of the services for we now live in Alabama. We love living in Alabama, but miss out whenever our friends pass away. We will keep you in our prayers. With love, (A former HVFD Ladies Auxilary member) Doris & Skip Jones"
- Doris & Skip Jones
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009

"We were so sorry to hear about Garner's passing. Please know that we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers and if you need anything at all please do not hesitate to call."
- Wayne and Eleanor Norris
- Posted: Monday, June 15, 2009