Thomas Francis Poe

May 16, 1934 - January 1, 2008

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Services:

 

A Funeral Service will be held on Friday, January 4, 2008 at 11:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with Msgr. Karl Chimiak officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens in Leonardtown, MD.

 

Visitation:

  The family will receive friends on Thursday, January 3, 2008 from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM, in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with prayers being said at 7:00 PM.
 

Thomas Francis Poe, 73, of Callaway, MD and formerly of Piney Point, MD died January 1, 2008 at his residence. Born May 16, 1934 in St. George Island, MD he was the son of the late Albert and Myrtle Basten Poe. He was the loving husband of Ann Elizabeth Poe whom he married on January 15, 1970 in Leonardtown, MD. He is survived by his children; Ann Alioto and her companion Jay Hills of Callaway, MD, Sandy Littleford and her husband Jim of Lusby, MD, James Albert and his wife Marina of Valley Lee, MD, Bobby Albert and his wife Tessie of California, MD, Bill Albert and his wife Sandi of California, MD, Missy Mattingly and her husband Alan of Great Mills, MD, his brother Tynan Poe of St. George Island, MD and his long time friend Delores Morgan of Callaway, MD. He is also survived by his grandchildren; William L. Farr III, Heather M. Schrader, Brittany Albert, Robbie Albert, Daniel D. Alioto Jr., Nicholas A. Alioto, Logan Bell, Cameron Schrader, Taylor Kimber and Thia E. Albert. He was preceded in death by his son David T. Poe and his granddaughter Crystal L. Albert. A lifelong resident of St. Mary's County, Mr. Poe attended Little Flower School and was a self employed waterman. He served in the U.S. Army in 1957. The family will receive friends on Thursday, January 3, 2008 from 5:00-8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM. A funeral service will be held on Friday, January 4, 2008 at 11:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD with Msgr. Karl Chimiak officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens. Pallbearers will be Daniel David Alioto Jr., Floyd Ashley Jr., Ronnie Lee McGee, Robbie Albert, Doug Ward and Richard Cleveland. Honorary pallbearers will be Nicholas A. Alioto, Logan T. Bell, Taylor Kimber, Heather Schrader and Brittany Albert. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A.

Guestbook Signatures and Condolences

"Ann, I am sorry to hear of your pops passing. I know how much you loved him and how difficult this time will be. Please know that he is in a better place and more able to watch over you and the rest of the family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless."
- Vicky Estevez
- Posted: Monday, January 7, 2008

"Dear Ann and Family, Sorry to read of Tommy's passing. I didn't hear about his death until after the Funeral. You are in my prayers. God bless all the family. Thanks for all you did for Mom too. Love, Mary Ann Saunders/Cullison/Rymer "
- Mary Ann Cullison/Rymer
- Posted: Monday, January 7, 2008

"pop,its so hard to belive your gone!I miss you so much.You were always there for me and mom.And you were the best waterman i ever knew!But most of all I miss your hugs!I want you to know you will always have a place in my heart! love you always! xoxo TaylorAnn."
- taylor kimber
- Posted: Saturday, January 5, 2008

"Pop I can't beleive you are gone, I mean one minute we are laughing and playing and the next you are gone. I know you are in a beter place now, but I still miss you so much. I'm so glad you are not sick any more. You were my hero!"
- Logan Bell
- Posted: Friday, January 4, 2008

"Pop you were the world to me I love you so much! You taught me a lot, from Logan and I starting our own little crabbing business. You inspired me you and Uncle Jim lead me to get my own boating licence. Pop you meant the world to me! you always got me off the bus from school but now that will change but one thing that won't change is that your my HERO Pop I love you you'll always be in my heart. Love always Nickerbocker"
- Nick Alioto
- Posted: Friday, January 4, 2008

"Ann, my deepest sympathy to you and your family through this sad time."
- Peggy Goddard
- Posted: Friday, January 4, 2008

"Pop pop I dont know what to say, you have been gone only a few days and yet im still a wreck, I miss you so much. I can't remember a single memory that doesnt have you in it from the time I used to run to the dock and yell across the river at you and dee dee on your way to get paid lol, all the way to my freshman year, what a year lol. Im a lucky kid, not many kids can say that they have had a pop so good or so long let alone be raised by him. Thank you pop for everything youve done for me everything you have taught me from crabbing to being a man, from telling a sook to a jimmy crab to a pealer to running around with women lol but thank you pop i know i have one heck of a gaurdian angel. I love you pop Love nupe "
- Daniel "Nupe" Alioto
- Posted: Friday, January 4, 2008

"There is nothing stronger then a family bond, and in the over 24 years I have been a part of this family, the bond has only grown stronger. Tommy was a person that everyone adored due to characteristics such as loving, warm, caring, forgiving and supportive. His son Bobby would take him to his doctors appointments at John Hopkins and had many one-on-one conversations that no-one will ever have the privilege of knowing what was said. Though Tom-Bo, as Bobby called him, was his step-father, he was always considered his father in our eyes and heart. I called Tommy "Poopsie", a term of endearment shared just between him and me. During his last few days on this earth, though he may not have opened his eyes, I knew he heard me when I was at his bedside. I felt blessed that I was able to talk to him before he passed on to a better less painful place. Annie Bo, a pillar of strength, was always there for Pop constantly giving of herself. She considered Pop her Daddy, and in truth, he was her Father. Annie has taken care of Pop from day one and if there was anything more she could have given of herself in his final days, she would have done so without missing a beat. Her devotion for Tommy will always remain a beautiful memory for me and I am sure all family members. Selfishly, we all wanted more time with Tommy but we all do know that it was a blessing that he parted from this earth so quickly. I believe he knew long before anyone else knew that his days were limited, which he told Mom at Thanksgiving. Let's reflect on the good memories of Tommy, a devoted husband, father, friend, grandfather and a heck of a waterman. We all need to realize that life is short, and to make the best of it while we have the honor of walking this earth. And most importantly, keep the family bond strong, forgive and live each day as though it was the last. "
- Tessie Albert
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

" Dear Ann - We just heard about Tommy's passing earlier tonight and were deeply saddened to hear such sad news. Our hearts go out to you. Tommy is, without a doubt, one of the finest persons to have ever walked this planet; he will be sorely missed. I know too that he has a special place in Heaven and will wait there in his characteristically patient manner, until you are ready to join him by his side, in all due time. Stay strong and always know that the legions of your family and friends will always be there for you, at your beckoned call. God Bless. Pat & Dick Buckler "
- Pat & Dick Buckler
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"As I read all the wonderful words said about Tommy, they made me cry, and smile, at the same time. I have never heard a bad word said about Tommy Poe, in all my years of knowing him. How could there be? He was an angel in the lives of so many. As Missy said his actions did make "a difference" in so many lives, in this family. Whenever anyone needed something, Tommy would volunteer his time and his energy, even if he wasn't feeling well, himself. His smile is magically unforgetable. My heart goes out to this entire family who has endured so many losses, yet this one, stings so much, because Tommy was usally there to comfort everyone else in times of tragedy. Ann, I love you so very much and know your loss is so great, as it is hard to lose a companion, a best friend, a spouse, a partner, a father and grandfather of your children and grandchildren all in one person. Words do not express the amount of sorrow I feel for you. Annie Bo, you gave him the ultimate sacrifice and for that you should always feel proud. You gave him to us, this family, for years longer than we would have had him. Think of his smile, his always "can do" attitude" and his undying love of this family when things get tough because we all know he is in a better place. My prayers and thoughts are with you all at this time. Love to you all, Audrey"
- Audrey Mosher
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann,my deepest sympathy to you and your family.You will be in my thoughts and prayers..Nancy Norris"
- Nancy Norris
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann and family; We just want to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of such a wonderful person as Tommy. He will be truly missed and never forgotten. We will keep him in our hearts and prayers. You also are in our prayers. If you ever need a shoulder to lean on give us a call. Gail and Billy Norris "
- Gail and Billy Norris
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Pop, We already miss you more than words can say. I will always hold in my heart the last time i scene you. You always brought joy to everyones heart. The times we had at family functions, the rival card games, but most of all the family stories that you would tell. You ARE the glue that held our family togther. You always put a smile on everyones face. For selfish reasons, we were really hoping that you would hold on long enough to see your granddaughter Thea. See would have loved you as much as you would have loved her. I know now that you will be in heaven keeping an watchful eye on all of our family and friends. I promise to take care of Nanny. I know that she is the one that lost the most. The two of you are the true meaning of love and team work. God Bless YOU. We love you very much. Until we meet again, Love Robby, Johanna, Jenna, and YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER, BABY THEA. "
- Robby,Johanna,Jenna, and Baby Thea Albert
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

""Jimmy, we're here for you. We're very sorry to hear of your great loss. It was a shock to when we spoke on the phone this morning and you informed me of your Grandaddy's passing. Words alone cannot describe the loss of a loved one, especially one as close as your family was to your Grandaddy. The one thing that you can do however is live on with his legacy and everything he has taught you. You always spoke very highly of him and I can guarantee you that he will be watching over you. Our deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family. Love you like a brother, Brian and Christine""
- Brian & Christine Hammett
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann and Family--Words can't express the loss that we all feel. We all know that he is in a better place and I am sure that Mom will show him the way. He will be truely missed and I am so glad that we all had the pleasure of knowing and loving him--he was a gift to us all. For selfish reasons we want to keep the ones we love here with us because the pain of loosing them seems to be too much to bear. He is no longer in pain and will be in the company of such wonderful family members who have passed before him. He won't really be gone, beause he will always be in our hearts!"
- Debi Justice
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann, Daniel, Nicholas & Jay, There are no words that can help to ease your pain at this difficult time. We are so sorry for your tremendous loss. Please know that you ALL are in our prayers and thoughts."
- Tommy & Kathleen Crowder
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Pop, What do we say? We miss you already so very much and you just left us. You have been the trunk of our family tree and god we are going to miss you. You have been our friend our listner to all our problems but most of all you have been the best father a child could have. We all are so lucky you have you in our life. Rest in Peace and know we will miss you and love you always. Love your Daughter and Son-in- Law Sandy and Jim "
- Sandy and Jimmy Littleford
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Annie: I just heard of Pop's passing yesterday and am so very sorry. I know how much he means to you and the special relationship that you shared with him (one that not many are lucky enough to have).The 2 of you have been through so much together & given so much to each other. Keep the memories close to your heart and he will always be with you. That's how I remember my dad. Tell Nanny and the boys that we are thinking about them & are so very saddened over Pop's passing."
- Mary Jo Willenborg
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Annie Bo, so sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Mary Frances"
- Mary Frances Abell
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Nanny, Annie, and family - I know there are no words we can say to make this difficult time better. But know that your in our thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy to all of you. I know Pop will be missed by all. We love you all!"
- Leah, Shawn, and Justin Bean
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

""To my good friend Sandy and her family, We pray that God will guide you and give you stength through this very difficult time. Love and prayers to you all." Steve, Mary,Carmen,Mo,Vincent,Dominic and Manna."
- Steve & Mary Principe
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Our deepest sympathy. Our prayers are with you. Tommy was a great person. May the memories of all the good times give you strength during these difficult times."
- Laurie & Jeff Swanson
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann - I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Let the great memories you have help comfort you through such a difficult time. "
- Jackie Lawrence
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann, we are so sorry for your loss. Tommy was a warm, loving man. If there is anything Bobby and I can do for the family please don't hesitate. May the angels wrap their wings around him. You are in our hearts and prayers."
- Bob & Melanie Staff
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Annie - I just realized this was your father this morning, I am sooo sorry to hear of you loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers. "
- Mendi (Nelson) Holley
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Ann, Billy and Family, Extending our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers. God will give you the strength to get through the difficult times. "
- Cathy and Skip Stewart
- Posted: Thursday, January 3, 2008

"Daddy, Where do I begin? I miss you terrible and have the moment you left. A part of me left with you and I fear my recovery is a long way away. I love you so very much that my heart is aching! You aren't in pain or suffering any longer but I am. I know you are in a better place but selfishly I still want to share time and memories. There was so very much we had to discover, explore and years of love to do! I want to be able to see you everyday when I come home! I want to have our chats and most of all take care of you. I know the worse is yet to come for me and I am trying to find the strength to get through. You are my hero in every sense of the word and forever will be in my thoughts and on my mind! You have my heart and I will never get that back! You were the greatest father in the world and truly knew what it was to be a parent and love a child. That in itself was a gift and you were a fantastic role model for all to follow. You and I shared a bond that most only dream of having and I am greatful for that. We had something special that most would say was nothing short of a miracle. You were and always will be my miracle. I will cherish all of our times Dad and God I can't tell you how lost I am. Below is a poem I found and well the words speak for itself. Until we are together again. I love you Daddy bigger than the world! Love always Annie. Dad Was Always There Dad was always there With a nickel or a dime. I always knew he'd give it, if I asked him every time. Dad was always there. He had to make me mind. On those few times he did insist I felt it from behind! Dad was always there In sickness and in health. The knowledge that he would be there Was worth much more than wealth. Dad was always there. He had a gentle smile. Then sometimes he would give a hug. And that was so worth while. Dad was always there. He knew so much of life. With patient understanding He sheltered me from strife. Dad was always there. His final days draw nigh. I want to love him all I can before we say goodbye! Again, I love you so very much and I miss you so badly!"
- Ann Alioto
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Ann and family - We were so sad to hear about Tommy. He was such a nice man and we know you loved him so much. We hope that you find comfort and strength in the love that you share with your family and friends. Thinking of you with love - Tism, Alan & Lauren"
- Tism, Alan & Lauren Blackwell
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Ann and Family, We are very sorry for the loss of Tommy. He was a great person to everyone. He will be missed.Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family."
- Joe & Michelle Nelson
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Dear Ann and Family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time"
- Dickie,Regina,& Family Cullison
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Billy and Sandi, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May God bless you and give you strength to carry you through the days ahead."
- Diane & Bill Dixon
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Ann and family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. May God give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time."
- Crystal (Miedzinski) Lord
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Thinking of each of you and wishing you comfort in this difficult time. Tommy was a good man and will be missed by so many. Sending hearthfelt Sympathy to all."
- Bruce & June Robrecht
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Annie, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family."
- Shirley & Rick Woodburn
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"With Heartfelt Condolences Our thoughts and prayers are with you! "
- Rebecca & Danny Henderson
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"If only I knew the love and strength and support you always given me were about to end, I would run to your side and thank you for the million times you made a difference ......The difference in my life. I treasure the time we were able to spend together and the wonderful memories I will keep close to my heart forever. Dad, you were many things to me, but most of all you were such a wonderful influence on my children Annie & Jimmy and my wonderful three grandchildren. "Daniel, Nicholas and Logan. Thank you Dad for who your were, who you are and all you have ever will be. I love you, I miss you and you will be thought of forever. Love your daughter, MIssy"
- Missy Mattingly
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Ann & Family, We want to send our prayers and sympathy to you and your family. "
- Andy & Ann McNeal
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Tommy was a kind and loving man who will be missed by so many. I know what a terrible time the entire family is going through now and hope you all know that you have my sincere sympathy. If you need anything just give me a call. "
- Michelle Cleveland
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Dear Ann, and Family, We would like to extend our deepest sympathy. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Pop will be missed dearly. May God give you the strength to get through these difficult times. Love you all. Sharon, Mark, Heather, and Billy"
- Sharon Pilkerton
- Posted: Wednesday, January 2, 2008

"Pop- I would like to tell you that we love you very much. You are going to be missed dearly but we know that you are much happier now and that you are watching over us all. We love you very much, and we will meet again! Love you pop a doodle."
- Heather, Billy, Cameron & Brianna Schrader
- Posted: Tuesday, January 1, 2008

"Ann, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Tommy was a wonderful person and will be missed deeply by everyone he touched during his life. Freddie and I will always remember the good times we had and will always keep him in our hearts. Love, Diane and Freddie Norris "
- Diane & Freddie Norris
- Posted: Tuesday, January 1, 2008