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"We just heard the tragic news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you"
- Doug and Josie Catron
- Posted: Sunday, November 29, 2009
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"My family called to advise me of your loss. Miles and years never change the way a person feels about people who were family, once upon a time; especially when you know they are hurting so badly. No one can tell you how to handle this loss, you have experienced it before just as I have and we somehow pick ourselves up and those around us who also loved the one we have lost and we live on, the best way we know how. Vicki, although I don't know you personaly, please know that my message is as much to you as to Tom, Lynn, Robbie and Tom Sr. I am certain Mary and his little brother welcomed Travis in to heaven, where they are waiting and still loving all of you just as you love them. Peace and Love always."
- Pat Bailey Leslie
- Posted: Thursday, November 5, 2009
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"Travis was a great friend with a great personality who was always there for all his friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mr. and Mrs. Cross. May Travis rest in peace."
- Tanner Kellogg
- Posted: Wednesday, November 4, 2009
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"To the Cross Family:
When death comes without warning, the disbelief and shock can be devasting. It's just not the natural order for a child to die before his parents and it is even more intense when the death is sudden and there is no chance to prepare; resolve misunderstandings, or say good-bye. In an instant life is changed forever and only time will allow the reality of what has happened to sink in. Lots of parents are overridden with guilt about what might have been done to prevent the death, and the what if's and if only's are only normal, but eventually, the need to blame oneself will move on to a level of acceptance that many tragedies in life are not preventable or foreseeable.
While complete recovery from losing a child is a myth, the healing process slowly changes the intense pain to warm memories and a commitment to lead a life that would make Travis proud. We didn't know Travis, but Skip was a Master Barber back in the 1960's with
Tom Cross, Sr. at the Leonardtown Barber Shop.
Travis will live forever in the hearts of his family and friends. May God bless the Cross Family.
Love, Doris & Skip Jones"
- Doris & Skip Jones
- Posted: Tuesday, November 3, 2009
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"I did not personally know Travis however, two of my children did. Sadie my daughter is a Chopticon class of "2010" student who has known Travis since middle school. She has happy memories of Travis being a very kind person and speaking of his pets. My son Perry who just started high school was saddened to hear of Travis's death because Travis made him feel comfortable starting high school, going out of his way to talk to him. I as a mom feel such saddness for the family and friends of this young man who obviously lost a kind and gentle son, friend, and classmate. Praying for all."
- Kathy, Sadie, and Perry Gallion
- Posted: Monday, November 2, 2009
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"We are deeply sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers. "
- Dave and Connie Gebhardt
- Posted: Monday, November 2, 2009
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"Travis was always the nicest person he could be and i personally know how many people loved and cherished him. Rest in Peace Travis, you will always have a place in everyones heart. <3"
- Colleen Wersick
- Posted: Monday, November 2, 2009
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"I am sorry for your loss. I knew Travis when I was in middle school. He was a very nice young man. My prayers and thoughts go out to those who are hurting. Rest in Peace Travis."
- Lindsey Graves
- Posted: Sunday, November 1, 2009
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"Travis was an amazing person. He had a wonderful eyes, a beautiful smile, and a great personality. He would always be there for you no matter what. If you needed him, he would drop whatever it was that he was doing to help you. I am going to miss seeing his smile, hearing his laugh and voice, i am just going to miss him in general. I know we will see each other again, but until we do hold the place down hunny. I love you Travis Alexander Cross forever and always<333"
- Lizzi Morgan
- Posted: Sunday, November 1, 2009
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"Everyone who loves Travis and knows what a beautiful person he is needs to know that pain is just as strong in every one of you and it helps to focus on the times when he was here. Everyone grieves in their own time and their own way; no one is wrong. Let reality come in at your own pace. Sometimes it will rush and overwhelm you; other times you will have a break and can enjoy his smiles and good times. Although I wasn't I didn't know Travis, I've been challenged by so many losses, the last was too recent; but I can tell how Travis made this world a better place while he was here. Thank God we had him for such a short time. I thank his parents and true friends for sharing him with the world. "
- Another Caring Mama
- Posted: Sunday, November 1, 2009
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"My memories of Travis are all of him with a smile on his face - checking on the welfare of a neighbor, stopping for a chat, out working in the yard with Blackie, or riding down the street to have an adventure in the woods. Travis was a wonderful person, someone I always looked for on my way in or out of the street. I will miss his smile and wave every day. I hope that knowing how much Travis touched everyone he met, from neighbor to stranger, brings the Cross family peace. My thoughts are with you."
- Sarah Guy
- Posted: Saturday, October 31, 2009
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"Tom & Vicki - You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you both and give you the strength you need. Travis will be missed. May he rest in peace and make sure your travels in life are safe. Please let me know if there is anything we can do for you. Our sincerest condolences."
- Matt & Amy (Joe & Barb Baker's Daughter) Voorhaar & Jenifer McLaren
- Posted: Friday, October 30, 2009
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"Travis
I knew you for just two months. But you showed me a person of true character. I enjoyed you as my student and will miss you.
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- Kurt Knower
- Posted: Friday, October 30, 2009
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"Travis you were an amazing person, and you will truly be missed. You always tried helping me and I will never forget the many laughs that we shared together. Mr. and Mrs. Cross, my condolences to you both, just know you raised an amazing son.Rest in peace. Forever in my heart."
- Katie Gardiner
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Travis. Although I did not know this young man, my heart goes out to all of you. May Travis rest in peace. Hold his memories dear and he will always be with you."
- Kay Knott
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I personally didn't know Travis.But just by reading,he was a well loved kid.His parents should be proud.My heart goes out to all of his loved ones.May he rest in peace,and begin his journey to better lands."
- St.Mary's County Mom St.Mary's County Mom
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I didn't personally know Travis, but when I asked my son Tony if he knew him he said he did, he said he helped him with work he had a hard time with from sixth grade to eight grade, and he wouldn't have passed without his help. I too have experienced the loss of a child and there are no words to describe the feelings, the only thing you can do is just lean on your family. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. And isn't it nice to know that Travis was a wonderful boy that was willing to help other students. The Brash Family"
- Annette Brash
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Tom and Vicki, Our thoughts and prayers are with you."
- Frankie and Barbara Lacey
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace."
- Larry and Cora Norris
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I know that his parents and I never got along or at least got to know each other. I still want to show my respect to the family and Travis. Travis was a dear friend of mine and close one at that. He shared to me about most of what was going on in his life and I told him mine. Travis was a good and kind person to me and to everyone around him. I am so sorry that it had to end this way. May God take best care of Travis. My thoughts and prayers are with the Cross family and his friends. Keep in mind that he will be with you forever in your heart and to never forget that."
- Daniel Herndon
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers."
- Donna Cross
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Travis was my dear friend and I will truly miss him very much. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mr. & Mrs. Cross on your loss. Chopticon Class of 2010 lost a great person. May God Bless you all."
- Kaitlyn Crowningshield
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"We are so very sorry for your loss. Travis was a kind and thoughtful young man. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. "
- Kevin & Shawn Putnam and family
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I am so deeply sorry. You're on my heart and I've asked God to hold you close and comfort you during this time. May He be your rock.
God Bless"
- Angela (daughter of Jimmy&Ann King) Senechal
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Vicki and Tom, I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of Travis visiting my home briefly on a couple of occasions. He was a well mannered and respectful young man. I offer my prayers and this thought-when your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories, family and dear friends can help.
God Bless You and Keep You. Travis, Rest in Peace."
- Marty Owens
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with his family. May peace be with Travis."
- Mother & Grandmother
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"My heartfelt condolences goes out to Travis' family and friends. I can't imagine losing a child. God bless you all and keep you in his care."
- A Mom in St. Mary's County
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Uncle Tom and Aunt Vicki, I love you and Travis so much. It hurts so much to have lost my cousin and I know you are hurting so much for losing your son. Lean on your family members now, we are here for you. I love you and wish I could be there. Rest in Peace Travis, we miss you."
- Carrie Cross
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Please accept our deepest sympathy for your great loss. May you find comfort during this difficult time. "
- Charlene Mattingley Kelly and the Charles Memorial Staff
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Please don't be angry at Travis,
tell us about him. We need to grieve together. Travis we remember your life!!"
- Classmates & Friends Chopticon
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. My sincerest condolences and prayers. God Bless."
- A Mother & Grandmother in the Community
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Travis will always be in our hearts. He was a loving, respectful and caring young man and we always loved having him at the house. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always and hope that God watches over you both during a most difficult time. Travis will remain forever in our hearts - may he rest in peace."
- Debbie & Kenny Nicholson
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Mr. and Mrs. Cross: Please know that you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our sincerest condolences. "
- Rusty and Melissa Lacey
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I remember Travis from his elementary school days. He was such a nice young man. It is hard to believe he is gone. My Condolences to all who were close to him. Travis - Rest In Peace."
- Karen Buckler
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"My sincere and heartfelt condolences go out to you. Trust in God and keep his memory in your hearts forever."
- Concerned Community Member
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"I was conpletely shocked and saddened when I heard of Travis' passing. Even though I have not seen or talked to him since he was 14, he left a footprint in my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Cross Family. God Bless him and his family! Rest In Peace Travis A. Cross, he will be Greatly Missed!"
- Heather Hare
- Posted: Thursday, October 29, 2009
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"Travis will always remain in my heart. He was loving and caring and was always there for anyone. Mr. and Mrs. Cross I wish the best of luck and that God may watch over you and guide you through such hard and troublesome times. Forever in our hearts. R.I.P Travis Alexander Cross "
- Eric Sirk
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Tom & Vicki, our prayers go out to you and your family. May Travis rest in peace."
- Johnny, Debbie, Katlyn, JJ & Jay-me Meadows
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Vicki - I am so very sorry to hear about Travis. My heart goes out to you and your family. I am glad I had the opportunity to meet Travis a couple of times. Please accept my deepest felt condelences and I will see you tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you."
- Jamie Coster
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"No words can soften this pain...only time. Hold on to the precious memories and your son will be with you always. One day at a time... sometimes...one minute at a time. Thoughts & Prayers are sent your way. Just remember the way he lived not the way he left. My condolences... "
- unknown community friend
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"We are so very sorry to hear about your son. We all hold such a Heavy heart for you all. May God comfort you all and guide you thru this sad loss. all of are prayers to you, God Bless."
- The Faunce and Thompson Family
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss and sadness."
- George and Diane Quade
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS."
- Greg & Amanda Mattingly
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Our thoughts and prayers are with the Cross family."
- Larry & Cora Norris
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"My thoughts and prayers have been with your family since I heard the tragic news. Remember the good times and trust God to take care of easing your pain. Travis, may you now rest in God's love as you are now at peace."
- A Mother St. Mary's County
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Tom & Vicki,
What can I say, Travis was like family to me. His passing hit me so hard and I can't imagine how you must feel. He will be deeply missed by both myself and my family. I wish you the best of luck in these most troubling of times."
- David Saavedra
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"I lost a child also and I know the pain you are going through. Its a long and painful journey. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. He is in a much better place. May he rest in peace. "
- community member
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"My Thoughts & Prayers are with the Cross Family. Travis was such a wonderful person who will be missed by all..Forever in our hearts,Class of 2010.God Bless."
- Mindy Moore
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"I offer my deepest and sincerest condolences to Travis' family and his friends. Hold tight to each other. God Bless."
- A fellow St. Mary's Countian
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"I personally did not know Travis or the family, but this story saddens me. My heart felt condolences go out to all of his family and friends. It is never easy to loose a loved one. May God help you get through this difficult time. God Bless <3"
- A Community Member
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Just getting over a tragic loss myself, I wanted to send my condolences and prayers to the Cross family.. Children are a precious gift..God Bless."
- 7th District Community Member
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Our thoughts and prayers are with you ."
- Eddie & Kay Mayor
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Tom and Vickie, sorry to hear of the tragic news. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. My deepest sympathy and condolences go out to you."
- Melissa Dean
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
The Trossbach Family "
- Becky Trossbach
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Travis was such a great person and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Im so sorry for your great loss. "
- Emily Hall
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Travis was a huge part of our family and a great friend. We will miss him. Vicki, Tom and Pop, we will pray for you."
- Sheree & McKenzie Paust & Rivard
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Tom & Vickie I send out my deepest Sympathy & condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. My God bless each of you."
- Alison Beavan
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers extend to the Cross family, and friends during this time of sorrow."
- Teresa and Sammy Smith
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Tom and Vicki I am so sorry to hear about Travis. Keep in mind that he was a good kid, and nothing you did to or for him made it turn out this way. It was the plan God had set forth for him in the very beginning. He will be missed, but he will not be forgotten. Grunt-Man may you now find peace on your next journey, that you did not find in this one. God Bless the Cross family, and may Travis Rest in Peace. Our sincerest condolences."
- Gary , Cindy and Kirstin Norris
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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"Our thoughts and prayers are with the Cross family. God Bless."
- Terry & Helena Pogue
- Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
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