Sharon Ruth Varela
April 25, 1954 ~ December 14, 2008
Services:
A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel at 7:00 PM with Deacon Jeff Delano officiating. Interment will be private.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends for a visitation on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 from 5:00- 8:00 PM in the funeral home.
Sharon Ruth Varela, 54 of Waldorf, MD, died December 14, 2008 at St. Mary’s Hospital. Born April 25, 1954 in Prince George’s County, MD she was the daughter of Norma Marie Headley of Waldorf, MD and the late Stanley Clark Headley. She was the loving wife of Frederico Michael Varela whom she married on September 10, 1973 in Upper Marlboro, MD. She is also survived by her children; Tony Varela, Stacey Varela, Brandy Yates and Christopher Varela, all of Mechanicsville, MD as well as her brother Michael Headley of Merced, CA, her sister Katheleen Stanalonis of Woodstock, GA and ten grandchildren. Sharon was a graduate of Potomac Senior High School who enjoyed crocheting and playing bingo. She was a member of the Ladies of Moose and was employed with Nordstrom Department Stores, where she was an inventory, integrity and quality assurance person. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home were a funeral service will be held at 7:00 PM. with Deacon Jeff Delano officiating. Interment will be private. Contributions may be made to Avon Walk for Breast Cancer, c/o Jodi Stanalonis, 42142 Cider Lane, Hollywood, MD 20636.
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“Thank you God for giving Sharon to the world. Thank you Sharon for raising Chris. He’s a good friend and my prayers are with him and his entire family. Rest in complete freedom from pain and suffering…rest in peace.”
“I’m gonna miss you so much… You were my “everything buddy”. Thank you for a life time of memories, we’ll have our talk later… till then, I love you Mom. “
“I love you Me-maw, I wish you didn’t have to go but I know you are in heaven and you were nice as ever to me. You were the best Grandmother ever. I will be sending you balloons soon, they will be the ones that say “I love you” in pink markers. I really love you, Love Blake”
“Sharon (Me-maw) taught me so much about life. When I lost my mother ten years ago, she instantly stepped up to the plate and showed me love only a true mother could display. I will miss her each and every day so badly. I do keep comfort in knowing she is no longer in pain ~ she was too good for that and He knew it~ and she is now sharing the Lords home. I will thank her every day for my lifetime for the love and lessons she taught me. “
“sharon may god be with you and your family , a very sweet lady , I will never forget you for getting june a job at Nordstrom . REST IN PEACE “
“I was so sorry to hear of Sharon’s passing. Aunt Norma, you are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Sharon was like a second mother to my family. She was one of the most loving people I know. We will all miss her so much. To her family – I’m here for you. I love you.”
“I am so sorry to hear that Sharon has passed away-She is in a far better place-She is having the Ultimate Hansen family reunion! Aunt Norma, and all the family -God Bless you and keep you in this sad time, All my love, Veronica”
“My deepest condolences for the entire Varela and extended families. Sharon is very fondly remembered as one of the original Olson Street gang as well, and she will certainly be missed. God Bless you all in your loss. Sincerely, Dan Crusan”
“Her Nordstrom family was truly blessed to have her in our lives for so long. Her selflessness was such an inspiration to so many of us. She will be greatly missed and I for one know that I am better person for knowing her and having her in my life. I am sorry for you loss.”
“Please accept our “Deepest Sympathy” at this time. Sharon was a beautiful person. She was a loving caring wife, mother, grandmother, sister and daughter. She will truly be missed by all. We will keep Sharon and all of you in our thoughts and prayers.”
“”You Have Our Deepest condolences To You And Your Family Mike Over Your Lose, The Huseman Family””
“Our Love and prayers for the family during this time of physical loss. We will miss Sharon but beleive that God has completely healed her and has carried her to His mansion where He has already prepared a place. John 14:1-4.”
“Aunt Norma I’m sorry for your loss. As well of the rest of the family. (hugs)”
“Sending my sympathies and love.”
“My deepest condolences for all the family. She was a really wonderful person and will be greatly missed by me too.”
“Our deepest condolences to Sharon and family and Aunt Norma as well. We were saddened to hear of her departure at such an early age. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.”
“My deepest sympathies go out to the family. Sharon was one of the best co-workers I have ever had the privilege to work with. Her face lit up whenever talking about her grandchildren and her dogs. She will be missed.”
“Tony, Jen and family…you are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember Tony’s mom from my childhood living in Bannister. She was a really great woman. If you need anything let us know. Much love to you all.”
“Your memories will keep you strong in this difficult time. Sharon was my moms best friend and will be truly missed by our entire family. Love and Peace -Tomasello Family “
“Mike, Tony, Stacey, Brandy & Christopher, I was so sorry to hear about Sharon. My children (Derek, Deidra, George & Jimmy) & I have fond memories of your family when we all lived on Brightwell Ct. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this difficult time. Lovingly, Norma”
“Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of the family. “
“Mike & Family I am sadden to hear of your loss. May God provide you the strength to move forward while cherishing her memory.”
“memaw i miss you soo much im gonna finish the blanket she started with me soon i wish she didnt have to go everyone is missing her i love you memaw”
“To Sharon’s family and Aunt Norma, Love and hugs and many thoughts, and many prayers are with you as you celebrate the life of your beloved wife, mother,and daughter. “
“May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. “
“Mike, Norma, and Family, We are so sorry for you loss. Sharon was such a beautiful, soft spoken, caring woman who always had a kind word for everyone. She will be missed. We love you all.”
“To my beautiful daughter..you will always be in my heart. i’m glad that you’re not in any more pain and that you’re in a much better place. i love you so very much. you will be greatly missed and in my heart forever…”
“(savvannah said)that i love you alot you are my best frined she was always there for me she was always nice to me.i LOVE u and you are the best grandmother i could ever have you are much better cause you are not in any more pain and in heaven.i miss u and i LOVE u brianna says: mawmaw you were everything in my life i wish you could be here with me right now. you were in alot of pain and now you are in a much better place. i miss you and i LOVE you so much more than i have ever loved anyone else. you are the nicest person to me like ever in the whole world. i love you mawmaw<3<3<3<3<3<3 "
“you werent just any mother-in-law to me you were a mother to me.you took me under your wing like i was one of your own and that i will never forget. you were the one person i knew i could tell anything to and knew you would never look down on me for what i told you. you were a gift from god that can never be replaced in anyone’s eyes.you meant more to me than i could ever express in words. i love you and will truly miss you.”
“me-maw i love you so much and can’t believe your gone. you are my insperation, your my hero, and your were the best grandmother anyone could ask for. You were always there when i needed you even when i didn’t want anyone around. I never got to tell you how much i love you. I can’t believe your gone. I thought you were getting better when i left the hospital thats the only reason i left if i knew this was going to happen i would have stayed by your side the whole time. You were a good woman and will be truely missed. i love you with all my heart and no one can replace you. I wish we could have spent more time together. You are so amazing. The only thing i wish i could have said to you was im sorry. I was such a jerk to you the last time i saw you and i take it back i didn’t mean anything i said. I love you me-maw and will never forget what a wonderful woman you were and how many lives you touched.”
“To the most beautiful woman in the world..u were an angel sent from god who took care of us children NO matter what. you never turned your back on me no matter what i put you through. you loved me with all of your heart and i love you with of my heart. you are the best mom in the world now and forever and i will never forget what you have taught me.there is nothing that can take away the pain i feel now because i have lost my angel. you were truly my angel that i miss now and forever. i love you mom and you will truly be missed so very much..love you bunches brandy..”
“I will miss you so much. You are my best friend. I never felt so much hurt before. I will always love you.No matter what i did wrong in life you still loved me and stuck by side that meant the world to me. I will never stop thinking about all the good times we got to shared together.”
“My heart is broken, my funny bone is broke, Sharon I love so much. There is so much pain in my heart. I never lost anyone. I miss you so much.You taught me how to love. I can not fill those shoes of yours. You will be a tough act to follow. Thanks. GOD be with you. I will miss you [my little white rose]”
“Varela, Headley and Stanalonis families, I just can not seem to find the words to express to you all how I feel. Sharon was not only my cousin and best friend…she was my kindred sister. As all you …I will be lost with out her. My Deepest Sympathy to All of you, Love, Barbara Delano “
“Our deepest condolences for the whole family. Sharon was a wonderful woman who will be miss by all. We will keep you in our prayers. “
“To Mike, Tony, Stacy, Brandy and Christopher, you know she loved you unconditionally. She did not leave you until she knew you were strong enough to stand on your own. She was so proud of all of you. She told me the other day that over these weeks while she has been so sick that all of you came to her rescue and that even though it was bad circumstances she was so happy spending this time with her family united. To all of her beautiful grandchildren, please remember the words of guidance that she gave, remember how much she loved you – make her proud. To Mom, our baby is gone, the three amigos are now two – stay strong for me…I love you with all my heart. To my wonderful brother, you were the big brother she looked up to and loved very much. Stay strong…I’m here for you. To Tammy, Barbara, Lois, Tom and all of her friends and family, she loved you. Sharon was my sister, my best friend, my everything-our hearts were entwined as one. I know she is no longer in pain and I know she is in a better place, but she took my heart and I am lost…I love you my guardian angel.”
“Dear Family, While I didn’t know Sharon well, I have the wonderful blessing of calling Michael my other brother. Jay and I send our love and have been praying for you since we heard of her cancer. We believe too that she is in the best of all places and pray that you will experience the comfort of the Lord. Our love and sympathy to you, Jay and Polly Alterman”
“”My deepest sympathies go out to the family. Sharon was a co-worker at Nordstrom. She will be missed.” “
“Mike, no one can ever know the depth of your pain. I can remember how lovingly you spoke of Sharon when we worked together. I am sure that she is still looking down from heaven and watching over you and your family. You have our heartfelt sympathy.”
“Sharon was loved by so many. She had a gentle yet firm way of showing guidance to anyone that came in her path. This includes a time we remember when there was a party at a restaurant…management was basically asking us to leave for another party. The next thing we knew there was Sharon quietly telling the manager what she thought…needless to say, next thing we knew things were better and we were staying!! Thanks also Sharon for being such a special mom and friend to our sister, Jen. We hope that everyone has a special good memory of Sharon to remember in your heart forever. “
“I just cant believe she is gone, still to this day my heart is so heavy. I think about her so many times through out the day and dream about her at night. She was the most wonderful mother-in-law any one could have ever asked for, she was my best friend. I love you Memaw.”