Thomas Elwood "Nick" Downs
October 6, 1937 ~ March 5, 2009
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 12, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will be private.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, March 11, 2009 from 5:00 - 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM.
Thomas Elwood “Nick” Downs, Sr., 71, of Avenue, MD died March 5, 2009 in Washington, DC. Born October 6, 1937 in Avenue, MD he was the son of the late Joseph Clifton and Helena Mildred Bailey Downs. He was the loving husband of Emily Patricia “Patsy” Downs whom he married on October 28, 1961 in St. John’s Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD. He is survived by his son Thomas Elwood “Ted” Downs, Jr. of Colton’s Point, MD as well as five siblings: Ann Huseman of Hollywood, MD, James M. “Buddy” Downs of Abell, MD, Thelma Reingruber of Annandale, VA, Joseph Downs of Bluffton, SC and Patricia Troger of La Plata, MD and also by many nieces, nephews and cousins. He was also preceded in death by his two siblings Walter B. Downs and Joan Downs. Nick was a lifelong St. Mary’s County resident who attended Margaret Brent High School and worked as a self employed home builder for fifty years until his retirement in 2002. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, March 11, 2009 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, where Prayers will be said at 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 12, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will be Private. Pallbearers will be James M. “Jimmy” Downs, Jr., Danny Huseman, Charles D. Downs, Joey Huseman, Mike Reingruber and Ricky Downs. Honorary Pallbearers will be Robbie Goddard, Robert Keener, Wayne Keener, Jamie MaGill and Kenny Reingruber. Contributions may be made to Holy Angels Sacred Heart School , 21335 Colton’s Point Road, Avenue, MD 20609 and/or 7th District Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 7, Avenue, MD 20609.
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“Patsy and Teddy: So sorry to hear about your loss. I really enjoyed the times I had laughing with Nick. I will miss those moments. Let me know if I can do anything for you during this time. Much Love!”
“PATSY my deepest sympathy to you and the family”
“Ted: I’m so sorry about your dad’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“PATSY AND TED: I AM SADDENED AT NICK’S PASSING. MY VERY BEST REGARDS.”
“Patsy and Ted: We are very sorry for your loss. I’ve known Nick a long time. He is finally at peace with no more pain. You will both be in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Patsy, so sorry about Nick. He isn’t suffering anymore, so that is good. Call if you need anything. M”
“Miss you already uncle nick. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.”
“Aunt Patsy and Teddy, We are so sorry for your loss and so happy we came to see Uncle Nick before we moved. He will be missed alot but the memories he gave all that knew him will live on in all of us. Our thoughts and prayers our with you.”
“We want to extend to all of the family our sincerest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“PATSY, WE ARE SORRY TO HEAR OF NICK’S PASSING. OUR CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND TED.”
“Patsy and Teddy; Nick has gone to a new hunting ground now, some how as hard as it seems he will be happier. We will all miss him.”
“”Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 – Nick fought his illness with courage and dignity…and now he has found peace. Patsy & Ted you were there to comfort him and he felt your love. God Bless and help you through this sad time. Love”
“Patsy and Ted – We were so sorry to hear about Nick. May he rest in peace. “
“Patsy and Ted: So sorry to hear of Nick’s passing. You are in my prayers and thoughts. “
“Sorry we have to say goodbye to another old friend. Our deepest sympathy to Nick’s family. May he rest in peace at last….”
“I am greatful to have been able to care for your husband/dad @ St Marys Nursing Center during his recent illness. In talking with Mr Downs, he always expressed how great his love was for his family. No matter how bad he felt, he never complained about anything & was always a pleasure to be around. I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you. Wendy Cameron, (nurse)”
“Our sincere sympathy, Patsy. The 7th District has lost a great personality and good man. He will be missed by all who knew him. “
“Patsy amd Ted: I am very saddened to hear of Nick’s passing. Just hold on to all of your special and happy memories. He will truly be missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Patsy and Ted, Keep the fond memories close at heart. We always enjoyed seeing Nick and Patsy playing cards with Reggie and Peggy. Nick always had a joke to tell and kept everyone laughing. He will be missed. Please accept our deepest sympathies. “
” We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and Teddy.”
“Patsy & Ted: I am very sorry to hear of Nick’s passing. He will be greatly missed by many. “
“Patsy, Thinking of you and your son during this difficult time. God Bless.”
“Patsy & Ted: We cannot express our sorrow for your loss. We thought the world of Nick. We so enjoyed visiting with him while he was doing the family room addition to our home. We had alot of good laughs. We will really miss him.”
“Ted, Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family. -The Tyler Family”
“PATSY,AND TEDDY, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOU’RE LOSS. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU…..”
“Patsy, So sorry that I din’t get to see Nick when I visited the Nursing Center, But I prayed for him every day. I know that you will miss his earthly presence, but believe me, you WILL feel his spiritual presence, also.”
“Patsy & Ted We’re so sorry to hear about Nick. We’ll remember all the good times we shared. God bless both of you in your time of loss.”
“Patsy & Ted, So sorry to hear about Nick. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time. God bless you & may Nick rest in peace.”
“Patsy and Ted: We are sorry for your loss. Nick is not suffering any longer. Patsy call if you need anything. Our prayers are with you both at this time.”
“Pasty and Teddy, we are so sorry for your loss he was a great man. we have had a many laugh together. We will keep you in our prayers. God Bless you both.”
“”Patsy and Ted: We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Ted, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I will be thinking of you praying for you and your family.”
“Dearest Patsy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Teddy during this difficult time. May he rest in peace. “
“Aunt Patsy and Ted, We are so sorry about Uncle Nick, We will keep him in our hearts forever. He will be missed alot. Just remember we will be there for you Ted. We love you!!!!”
“WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR THE PASSING OF NICK. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY. “
“Ted I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Downs family during this difficult time.”
“Ted, Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family, the Campbell Family.”
“Sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family. “
“We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.”
“Mrs. Downs, Ted, Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Husband and Father. Although it’s difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you. God bless you in this difficult period. Rod Raymor “
“Patsy & Ted, Our deepest sympathy to you. Both of you are in our thoughts and prayers. George & Hattie”
“Ted: I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. At least he is no longer suffering and is at peace. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Ted, I am so sorry to hear about your father. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything to let me know.”
“Mrs Downs and Ted. I am sorry for your loss. Your dad went in peace knowing his family loved him very much. Let me know if you need anything Regards and Sympathy Danny “
“Aunt Patsy and Ted We are are so sorry for your loss. We know it is hard ,but he is no longer suffering. Uncle Nick always made us feel so welcome when we came down there. He always catered to the girls and made sure they had fun. We will miss him so much. Love Always”
“Uncle Nick, you are finally at peace. You don’t have to call” Momma, Hey Momma.” Your needs and request have been answered. The love, peace and needs were always answered by you, whenever I requested them from you. From, when I was a child to present time and in the future, Thank you. Don’t eat too many oysters. And say Hi to Dad, give him a hug for me. Love always your nephew Wayne.”
“Patsy and Teddy: We are sorry for your loss. We know he will be in a better place now, no more pain and suffering. We will keep you in our thoughts.”
“Mom and Ted, our thoughts and prayers are with you. He is home now and no longer suffering… in that we find peace.”
“PATSY & TED ” WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO NOW THAT NICK HAS GONE, WE WILL NOT HAVE ANYONE TO TEASE US ANYMORE.” WE HAD SOME GREAT TIMES TOGETHER. ALL THOSE TRIPS AND THE DAY BUTTON’S WAS FLOWN TO GEORGE WASHINGTON, HOW THE TWO OF YOU STUCK BY OUR SIDE. I’ll NEVER FORGET. THANKS FOR BEING SUCH GOOD FRIENDS. LOVE YOU ALWAYS. “
“”Patsy and Ted, I’m very sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.””
“Dear Ted and Mrs Downs, It breaks my heart to hear of you dad’s passing. The only was we can deal with this is to know that he is no longer in pain. The Good Lord has him now and he will suffer no longer. He will always be in your hearts and in your memories. Peace be with you both. Mary Lou and Little Billy “
“Patsy and Teddy: So sorry for your loss but Nick’s in a better place now and probably living it up. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. Love, Millie & Norma”
“PATSY AND TED, SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, NICK WAS A GOOD MAN, I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE TIMES WE CRABBED, HUNTED AND FISHED TOGETHER, AND ME HELPING YOU OUT PAINTING AND ETC, YOU ALWAYS CALLED ME SMOKEY, EVERYBODY IN MY FAMILY WILL MISS YOU.”
“Patsy and Ted, We are all so deeply sorry for your loss. We will keep you both in our thoughts and prayers. “
“To all the Downs Families, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Ted, I extend my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Although I was never fortunate enough to meet him, I know he was an amazing man. Your fond memories of him will always be there to cherish. Find comfort in his peace.”
“Aunt Patsy and Teddy, I am so very sorry to hear about uncle Nick. I always will remember the fun times with him. He would always call me “Dude” and asked if I had any girlfriends yet, which was a funny thought. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the family. Love you!”