Lewis Xavier Nelson
September 16, 1964 ~ April 27, 2009
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, May 5, 2009 at 11:00 AM in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church, Chaptico, MD.with Fr. Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, May 5, 2009 from 9:30-10:30 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD.
Lewis Xavier Nelson, 44, of Washington, DC and formerly of Chaptico, MD died April 27, 2009 at his residence. Born September 16, 1964 in Chaptico, MD he was the son of Mary Helen Bush Nelson of Chaptico, MD and the late John Cornelius Nelson, Sr. He is also survived by his siblings; James Alfred Nelson, John Cornelius Nelson, Jr., Helen Theresa Butler, Linda Louise Brock, Dinah Marie Nelson, Lillian Rosetta Nelson, Lawrence Jerome Nelson, and Mary Ann Nelson. He was preceded in death by his brothers William Herman Nelson, Sr. and Steven Gerard Nelson. Lewis received his education in the St. Mary’s County School system and then moved to Washington, DC after high school. He worked as a Human Resources Specialist in the Department of Health and Human Services for the U.S. Government for 26 years. He liked music, from piano classics and rock and roll. Lewis also enjoyed writing and was the author of three books. He loved to travel and traveled the world abroad. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, May 5, 2009 from 9:30 – 10:30 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church, Chaptico, MD at 11:00 AM with Fr. Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.
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“Our deepest condolences go out to the Nelson family. We are so saddened by the sudden passing of Lewis. He was a great and inspirational person. He will be deeply missed by so many. May God’s comfort and prayers be with his family during this terrible tragedy. “
“My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Xavier’s family and friends. He was a thoughtful and encouraging coworker and I will miss our talks about travel and family. “
“I was a co-worker of Xavier’s and was stunned to learn of his passing! He was quiet but when I got to know him better I found that he a dry and delightful sense of humor. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.”
“My condolences to Xavier’s family and friends. Xavier was well liked by his co-workers. As we teased each other, I learned that Xavier had a great sense of humor”
“I worked with Xavier ar HHS for many years he was very nice and pleasant and always had a smile he will be missed.”
“My deepest sympathy to the family. I am really going to miss hearing about his travels. I work with Xavier at HHS/OCSE.”
“Xavier (the name he used in the office) was a colleague for several years and he will truly be missed. My sincere condolences to all of his family and friends. “
“To Xavier’s family and Friends He will be missed. I really enjoyed taking about his trips. He was such a nice person and he will be missed.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of sorrow. May you find comfort in your memories of him. May God Bless and Keep the Nelson family in his tender care.”
“My condolences goes out to Lewis family.”
“My deepest sympathy goes to Xavier’s family and friends. I worked closely with Xavier for several years and we often discussed his travels which he dearly loved. He will truly be missed.”
“My deepest sympathy to the family,I am a desk clerk where Xavier lived, I must say I am going to miss seeing him stopping by my desk everyday chit chatting with me and telling me all about his trips.It’s still hard to believe that he’s gone but at least he is in a much better place and resting very well.Rest In Peace Xavier “
“Deepest sympathies to the family and friends. Xavier was a good worker and private individual, but his humor and intelligence was evident to all. He will be missed. “
“My condolences goes out to my Aunt Tiney. Lewis will be highly missed. Lewis introduced me to “Wine in a Box”. I had a family gathering @ my house in WDC and Lewis showed up with a box of wine that was Great! Now that he’s gone to a better place, Wine in box will never be the same for me. God keep you safe in your new resting place. Good Bye my Friend / Cousin “
“Xavier was in the division I work for. Even though we didn’t work with each other, Xavier was a friendly person to be around and he worked very hard. I pass along my condolences to his family and friends during this heartbreaking time. May he rest in peace. “
“My sincere condolences to the family of Xavier. I also worked with Xavier at HHS/OCSE and enjoyed our many conversations about travel and his books. Xavier, I will miss you.”
“It is with great sadness that I learn of Lewis’ passing. From my earliest memories of high school Lewis was always smiling and fun to be around. May the lovely memories of him give you peace and comfort. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all during the difficult days ahead. His life will always be reflected in the caring friendships he has made. “
“My deepest sympathy to Xavier’s friends and family. He will be missed. “
“I want to express my sincere condolences to the family of Xavier. He and I worked together when he first moved to ACF approximately 17 years ago in the Assistant Secretary’s office. He was bright-eyed and willing to absorb whatever he could in that office. He was always a very private person and a true professional. We ventured off to separate offices over the years and ironically have gone full circle. Xavier and I have worked together again in the same Division since 2007. I have been his next door neighbor for over a year now so each day I didn’t see him in the office made me pray harder and harder for him. I will miss you Xavier. Peace and Blessings to you and your family.”
“My condolences goes out to the Nelson family. Xavier was a very quiet person but as I sat not far from him in the office, I got to know him, not much but a little for he was also a very private person. Rest In Peace Xavier! I will miss you. “
“The Nelson family would like to express sincere gratitude for the thoughtful notes and presence at(my bother)Xavier’s service. Xavier would appreciate your kind gestures. Many of you expressed such beautiful sentiment about conversations and friendships. It’s during a time like this that we learn how much friends and family really mean to us. Thank you for your sympathy and support. “
“I was truly shocked and saddened to hear of Lewis passing away. Lewis was a classmate and good friend of mine all through middle and high school. He was such a joy to be around and always had a bright smile. He will truly be missed. My deepest condolences are extended to all his family during this difficult time. May god bless each and everyone of you and keep you all in his care.”
“Condolences to Xavier’s family. He was a work colleague and a valuable, creative employee. He will be greatly missed by us all.”
“My deepest condolences to Xavier’s family at their time of grief. Xavier and I were friends and we spent many hours talking about his travels and his life. He was a remarkable young man with many talents. He will be missed by many.”
“My deepest sympathy to the Nelson Family. Dinah, God made your brother special. I will keep him in my prayers.”
“Dinah and Linda, Look to the Lord for comfort during this difficult time. The family has my heartfelt sympathy.”
“Aunt Mary Helen, I’m John & Evelyn Nelson’s oldest daughter. Johnny told me about the passing of Lewis and immediately my heart goes out to you and the family. I didn’t know Lewis well; however, from reading the messages, he sounds like a delightful person to be around — obviously well traveled and loved people. Grief is something that takes it course; however, try to focus on the loving memories of your son. “Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding” — He will give you strength. With Much love!!”
“To the family of Xavier, I extend my deepest sympathy and prayers for the loss of your love one. Xavier and I worked together in Child Support Enforcement for several years. We became more than coworkers. We enjoyed wonderful heartwarming spiritual conversations. He introduced me to the most elegant restaurants in Capitol Hill. He signed two of his books for me which I find comforting as I sip my Saturday Morning tea. He had such eloquent taste and I shall truly miss his genuiness.”
“May the Lord bless you and keep you, and cause His face to shine upon you, and grant you peace during this time of sorrow.”
“My condolences go out to Xavier’s family.He was a colleague who will be truly missed. I always looked forward to hearing about his travels and his opinions about what was happening in today’s world.”
“My sincere condolences to the Lewis Family. May the God of comfort hold you in his arms and keep you doing your time of grief. Xavier was a gift from God on loan to us here where he worked, I got to know and respect Xavier as a very inspiring and knowledgeable person. Xavier lived,worked and shared his life with many and I am glad to have been included in that circle of colleagues. Xavier will be truly be missed. But God had a plan for his life and it was good. Jeremiah 29:11. “
“”Xavier rest in peace my friend! My condolences to his family and friends. Xavier and I were co-workers and I will truly miss our little chats about travels, family and seeing the beautiful pictures he shared with me””
“At times like this, friends want to share the sorrow that you feel and let you know their caring is so very warm and real, my deepest sympathy to the family of Lewis X. Nelson”
“Dinah, Lill, Linda and the rest of the Nelson Family. May God wrap his loving arms around you during your time of need. Hold on to God he will see you thru. Your family is in my prayers.”
“My deepest condolences go out to the Nelson family.”
“Having just learned of the death of your loved one, Xavier. I want to express the sincere condolences of my family. He was a fine person who added much to the lives of the people that he knew and who knew him. Sincerely, David Gray”
“To the Family of Xavier, I send my sympathy for the loss of your loved one. Xavier was a nice person and I enjoyed chatting with him.”
“I PRAY THAT GOD GIVES YOU THE STRENGTH YOU NEED TO GET THROUGH THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME.HE IS IN THE GOOD COMPANY WITH HIS BROTHERS WHO PRECEEDED HIM AND THE LORD JESUS CHRIST,GOD BLESS”
“I was a good friend of “Alex” for over 20 years although I had been out of touch recently. What a shock to learn of his passing. My deepest condolences to his family. He was a wonderful person with a great sense of humor and a great smile. I always enjoyed hearing about his many trips abroad. Please know I am thinking of him and praying for him.”