“Shirley our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. “
Joseph "Lenox" Dean
Joseph "Lenox" Dean
October 8, 1937 ~ July 5, 2009
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, July 9, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD with Fr. Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, July 8, 2009 from 5:00 -8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM.
Joseph Lenox “JL” Dean, 71, of Clements, MD died on July 5, 2009 at his residence. Born October 8, 1937 in Dynard, MD, he was the son of the late James Levi and Agnes Loretta Hall Dean. He was the loving husband of Shirley Ann Dean whom he married in 1960 at Immaculate Conception Church in Mechanicsville, MD. He is survived by his children; Donna D. Cooper of Lusby, MD and Joseph Michael Dean (Tammy) of Mechanicsville, MD as well as his siblings Sue Gibson (Jim) of Bushwood, MD, Sylvia Lacey of Chaptico, MD and Bert Dean (Carole) of Bushwood, MD and his grandchildren; Jessica M. Nelson (Scotty), Dean P. Cooper, Joseph M. Dean II and Victoria M. Dean. He was preceaded in death by his brother Aloysius Dean. A lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County, Lenox attended St. Mary’s Academy and worked in the automobile industry as a service manager for 25 years (Guy Chevrolet in Clements, Barnes Chevrolet in La Plata and Standard Pontiac in College Park). He became the owner/manager of JL’s Shell in Clements, MD from 1982 until he retired in December of 1999. He loved the stock market, Redskins, NASCAR, working crossword puzzles, surfing the web on his laptop computer and Sunday dinners with his children and grandchildren. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, July 8, 2009 from 5:00-8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, July 9, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD with Fr. Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Pallbearers will be Dean P. Cooper, Michael Dean II, Jamie Dean, J.D. Lacey, Alan Dean, Leroy Russell and Bobby Anderson. Contributions may be made to 7th District Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 7, Avenue, MD 20609 and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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October 8, 1937 ~ July 5, 2009
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, July 9, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD with Fr. Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, June 8, 2009 from 5:00 -8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM.





“Shirley and Family, We were saddened to hear that Lenox had passed away. He was such a good room mate with Dad last year at the Nursing Center, always talking about what they were going to do when they got out, and sharing tall tales about way back when keeping a smile on both of their faces. I will always think that Lenox helped Dad to continue to heal inside and out. “
“Mike, Tammy and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult. “
“To the Dean family – please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you…just remember that you now have your very own angel watching over your family!”
“Shirley and family: Lenox will be forever in your hearts. He is in a quiet place now. Think of him as your guardian angel. If there is something we can do, please call. You all will be in our hearts and prayers.”
“”Shirley & Family, We were so sorry to hear of Lenox passing, may God Be with you and your Family in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“To all of the Dean Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this tough time. You’ll always have the memories. Cherish them.”
“Shirley, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time. “May the God of all comfort fill your hearts with His peace and comfort in Christ our Lord”. 2 Corinthians 1 “
“Shirley, Donna, Mike & family, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers thru this difficult time. He is in a much better place and better able to watch over you all. God Bless.”
“Shirley and family, I am sorry for your loss. My condolences are with you. If there is anything I can do just let me know. Lenox is no longer suffering he is in a better place now. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“To Shirley Dean & Family, Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”
“Donna, Jessica & Dean, We are sorry to hear about your Dad/Pop. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“Donna, Shirley and family–you are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. Your tears will fall now but they will lead to smiles down the road. Take each day,one at a time and you will smile sooner then you expect. God rules with a strong hand but offers a soft shoulder.”
“Shirley, I am so sorry to hear of Lenox’s passing. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. I will keep you and your family in my prayers!”
“Mrs.Shirley my thought and prayers are with you and your family. Just stay strong and know im always here for u.”
“We have many fond memories of Lenox and know that you will all miss him greatly. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to let us know. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Mrs. Dean, Donna, and Mike: I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Dean. Donna – your Dad was always so tolerant of our “antics” during our play-dates growing up. My thoughts are prayers are with each of you during this difficult time.”
“To the Dean Family; I am so sorry about your loss. Your family is so very close to one another and I know that closeness will see you though this. I am so glad my son picked your family to be a part of his life. I am here if any of you need anything. “
“Shirley and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. God bless you all.”
“Shirley,Donna, Mike and family,when the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. You’re in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Shirley, You have always been very close to me and we have shared so much during the years. Please know that I think the world of you and your family and I am keeping each of you in my prayers.”
“Shirley, Donna, Mike & Family, I know you will all miss Lenox but know that he is no longer suffering and can now be at peace. He leaves behind a very dedicated wife and loving family of whom he was very proud. You will get your strength to get through these next few days by remembering all the good moments that you shared and with the help of your many friends. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. God bless the entire Dean family.”
“To Miss Shirley, Mike and Donna and family, so sorry to hear that Lenox had passed away. I realize it has been a difficult time for all, these last few months. Lenox was my first employeer at JL’s Shell. He could be a pain in the rear at time, but he was a good man. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Shirley and family, Although Lenox is no longer with us we will always remember him in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. “
“Shirley our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.”
“Aunt Shirley, Donna, Mike, Tammy, Jessica, Dean, “Lil” Mike, and Tori – our thoughts and prayers are with you. We were so lucky to have shared in many joyous times with Uncle Lenox, he will always be with us and we are blessed to have such lovely memories! I’m so thankful I was able to see him recently, and he was right, he left me with memories, more than what he joked that he was leaving me with! Love always!”
“SHIRLEY AND FAMILY, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE OUT TO YOU ALL, HE WILL BE DEERLY MISSED.”
“Mrs Dean, Donna and Mike, May God give you strength at this time. God Bless you all. Thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Shirley, Leonox’s fight is over. He has suffered so these past few months, he is at peace. May God Bless and Keep your family in His embrace as you grieve. Love and prayers.”
“Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.”
“Shirley and Family, my prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this sad time. Rely on family and friends and don’t hesitate to ask for their time and company. Shirley, you have fond memories of Lenor as well as the rest of us. God Bless!”
” To: Mike & Family Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.”
“Donna, Jess, Dean, Shirley, and Mike, All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. May the quiet places in your hearts always be filled with love and special memories.”
“Shirley & Family I am so sorry to hear of Lenox’s passing. Your faith and family will see you through this difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless you!”
“Shirley, Donna, Mike and Family, My sincerest sympathy to all of you. Lenox will be greatly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. May Lenox rest in peace. “
“MY VERY BEST WISHES TO SHIRLEY AND HER CHILDREN.”
“Shirley, Donna, and Mike. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Lenox. I have known him since the days at Guy Chevrolet and then working for him at J.L.’s Shell for years. He had a heart of gold and I will always consider him a dear friend. May he rest in peace. “
“Mrs. Dean, Donna and Mike, my thought and prayers to you and your family.”
“Mike, I am so sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Keep fond memories of your dad close to your heart and speak of them often. Bless you and your family during this difficult time. May God give you Peace.”
“Shirley & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. God bless al of you!”
“To the entire Dean Family my thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Shirley,Donna,and Mike. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May all the good memories of Lenox give you peace and comfort.Take care of yourselves and your families.”
“Mike & Family our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow.”
“Shirley & Family, So sorry to hear about Lenox. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. God bless you and may Lenox rest in peace with the Lord.”
“Ms. Shirley, We are so sorry for your loss. We just heard of Lenox’s passing today, and am so sorry we missed the viewing. You are in our thoughts and prayers and if you need anything, please don’t hesitate to ask. “
“Shirley, Donna, Mike and Family, Please know that we are all very sorry for the passing of Lenox. We are thinking and praying for you and your extended family at this sad time. Please take comfort in knowing that you all made his last days very comfortable and his suffering is over. May he rest in peace. In sympathy,”
“Mike and Tammy.. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you and your whole family remember the warm memories with your Dad. God Bless you all.”
“Mrs. Dean, I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers and thoughts are with you.”
“Shirley–We were so sorry to hear that Lenox had passed–We just arrived back in town but I assure you that you and your children and extended family were in our thoughts—We are sorry to have missed prayers and the funeral. I hope to see you shortly and I have a hug just for you. Love Kathy “
“Shirley and family We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Mrs. Shirley, Mike, Donna and your families we are so sorry for your loss. You will miss him so much but now that he is always with you in everything you do. Enjoy the memories that you have of him. It will help to laugh. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“All of us at Frame A Lot send our prayers at this time of your husbands passing. “
“We want Shirley and the family to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort each of one of you during this difficult time. “
“Dear Shirley, Donna and Mike, I was so sorry to hear this. You’re in my prayers.”
“Mike, Tammy, Little Mike, and Tori, So sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. “
“Shirley, Donna & Mike – I was out of town during the services for Lenox or I would have been there. Having just gone through losing a parent I know your pain. We should all take comfort in knowing that their suffering is over. “
“Shirley and family, we just found out about Lenox. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lenox and I go back a long way. Shirley, remember the trips back to Washington in the 58 Impala? It was a good time for us all. We will miss him and I know he is at peace now. Take care and God bless you and your family.”
“I’ll miss that gruff sense of humor that Lenox had. No one like him! I know that he will always be in your hearts.”
“Shirley: I just found out that Lenox is no longer with us. I pray that you and your family find comfort in knowing that he is now at peace. God Bless you and your family.”
“Shirley, I just came across Lenox’s announcement. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the family always. May God bless and help you through this time of grief.”