Alice Effie Gray

alice gray

April 30, 1951 ~ July 16, 2009

Services: A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, July 20, 2009 at 10:00 AM in St. John’s Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Visitation: The family will receive friends on Sunday, July 19, 2009 from 2:00 – 5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 3:00 PM Alice Effie Gray, 58, of Mechanicsville, MD died July 16, 2009 at her residence. Born April 30, 1951, she was the daughter of the late Norman and Mary Erva Curry Hancock. She was the loving wife of Robert David Gray whom she married on July 1, 1972 in St. Joseph’s Catholic Church. She also is survived by her son David Gray and his wife Jessica, her grandson Gabriel, and her daughter Diana Lewis and her husband Michael, all of Columbia, MD as well as her siblings: Tweet Pilkerton and her husband Winks of California, MD, Sheila Smith and her husband Darren of Lexington Park, MD, Patty Wood and her husband Jimmy of Ridge, MD, Alvin Hancock and his wife Sandy of Leonardtown, MD, Calvin Hancock and his wife Annette of Mechanicsville, MD, Joe Hancock and his wife Pam of Hollywood, MD and Lenny Hancock and his wife Glenda of Hollywood, MD. She was preceded in death by her sister Darlene Snellings and her husband the late Pat Snellings and her brother Norman Hancock, Jr. A lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County, Alice graduated from Chopticon High School “Class of 1969.” She was a childcare provider for many years and loved birds, shopping, and spending time with her husband and family. She loved her daycare children and their parents. The family will receive friends on Sunday, July 19, 2009 from 2:00 – 5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 3:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, July 20, 2009 at 10:00 AM in St. John’s Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be David Gray, Ralph Gray, Jr., John Slade, Michael Lewis, Eric Ward, and Daniel Slade. Rachel Ward will be an honorary pallbearer. Contributions may be left to St. John’s Catholic Church, 43950 St. John’s Road, Hollywood, MD 20636 and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.

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  1. “Dave, I am so sorry to hear of Alices passing. I only new her a short time when I use to help take care of her. Her family and her grandson meant so much to her. She will be missed. God bless you all.”

  2. “Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”

  3. “I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts go to the family.”

  4. “Dave Im sorry for you loss. Alice was a wonderful women, We all will miss her dearly. Much Blessings and Strength through this difficult time. Jessica Eversberg”

  5. “Dear Diana–my deepest condolences to you and your family. I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. She fought so valiantly. She was very loved by her daycare community, I know. She was a wonderful Oakville parent and I’ll always remember you both. Know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers. “

  6. “Calvin and Annette, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. “Weeping may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning””

  7. “David, we are very sorry to hear of Alice’s passing. She will be in our thoughts. “

  8. “To by dear friend family, She was a lady of smiles and so much laughter, she worried about everyone. And now she has no pain and no worries, she is heaven and looking down and saying, I am ok. Dear Friend – Rest in peace. Love – Jo”

  9. “Family of Alice Gray; Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”

  10. “DAVE,SCOTT AND DIANNA SORRY TO HEAR OF ALICE PASSING. I KNOW WHAT YOUR ARE GOING THROUGH BUT SHE IS AT PEACE NOW NO MORE SUFFERING SHE IS WITH THE ANGLES NOW.LOVE JOAN & JULIE”

  11. “David Scott & DIANA, We are so sorry to hear about Alice. She was one of the nicest people we have known. She is an angel above.”

  12. “Shelia and rest of family, so sorry to hear about your sister, may the Lord’s comfort be with you at this time of sorrow.”

  13. “Dave and Family We were so sorry to here about Miss Alice’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.”

  14. Greg & Diana Casoni & girls says:

    “To the Gray family you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time and know Alice is in a better place now.”

  15. “Dave, Scott and Dianna Sorry to hear of Alices passing. But we all knew that she gave a good fight to the end. She is with God and at peace now.”

  16. “TO DAVID, AND THE FAMILY. ALICE WILL BE DEARLY MISSED. I KNOW. I HAD THE PRIVELAGE OF WORKING WITH HER AT MATTINGLYS IGA. WHAT A WONDERFUL, CARING PERSON SHE WAS TO EVERYONE, HER LAUGHTER, AND THOUGHTFULNESS WILL STAY WITH ME FOREVER. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE ALICE.THANKS FOR THE WONDERFUL TIMES, AND FRIENDSHIP.”

  17. “Shelia so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. “

  18. “Lenny, mine and Debbies thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Debbies daughter Shannon is very good friends with Dianna. Alice was a very sweet woman and loved by all who knew her.”

  19. “My thoughts and prayers are with Alice’s family and friends. She was such a sweet and thoughtful person. God bless you all.”

  20. “I went to school with Alice and Robert and I haven’t seen either of you since. Wish we could have reconnected at the school reunion in June of this year. I’m so sorry for your loss Robert. I’m sure you have many friends and family around you to lift you up and keep you strong, until you meet again.”

  21. “I’m so sorry to hear of Alice’s passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers!”

  22. “Diana, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let us know it there is anything we can do for you.”

  23. “To TWEET AND ALL THE Hancock Family and The Gray family our sincere condolences for your loss. May God keep you in His care. Sincerely Wayne and Joan”

  24. “Shelia, My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Your sister is in a better place and I know you will miss you. Love you, Carol”

  25. “”Mr. Gray,” Alvin and Sandy, If there were words that would lessen the pain you now feel, I would offer them to you. May God’s love embrace you, hold you close, and give your comfort.”

  26. “My deepest sympathy to the Gray family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is very hard when you lose a famly member who is so special. God bless you.”

  27. “Sheila and Darren, My thoughts and prayers are with you both during this sorrowful time.”

  28. Genie, Dan & Michael Feliciano says:

    “Dave, Scott & Dianna Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Alice is with the angels now and at peace.”


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