John David Gibson
November 1, 1942 ~ July 31, 2009
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, August 3, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Bushwood, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Sunday, August 2, 2009 from 2:00 - 5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 3:00 PM.
John David Gibson, Jr., 66, of Avenue, MD died July 31, 2009 at his residence after a long battle with cancer. Born November 1, 1942 in Leonardtown, MD, he was the son of the late John D. Sr. and Mary Dora Gibson. He is survived by one sister, Delores Burch of Compton, MD. He is also survived by his wife of 44 years, Phyllis A. (Stasch) Gibson, whom he married on May 15, 1965 at Immaculate Conception Church in Mechanicsville, MD. Together they had two beautiful daughters, Pamela S. (Gibson) Long and her husband, Paul of Hollywood, MD and Lisa A. (Gibson) Buckler and her husband Glenn of Avenue, MD. He is survived by three beautiful and loving grandchildren; Adrienne Buckler of Savannah, GA, Allison Buckler of Avenue, MD and Paul Long of Hollywood, MD. He adored and loved spending time with his grandchildren and going on many family vacations together, dining out and watching NASCAR races. He will miss their smiling faces and always calling for Pop! He was someone who knew how to enjoy life and he shared so many good times with us all. He also leaves behind one very special aunt, Eunice Guy of Loveville, MD; mother-in-law, Agnes Stasch of Mechanicsville, MD; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Paul and Paula Stasch of Okolona, MS and David and Cindy Stasch of Mechanicsville, MD, brother-in-law, Jerry Burch of Charlotte Hall, MD and nieces and nephews; Taylor Stasch, Angie Roberts, Becky Sternberg, Kristin Stasch, Kelsey Stasch, Kylie Stasch, David Stasch, Jr., Jerry Burch, Jr., and Charles Burch. John David graduated from Margaret Brent High School in 1960. He went to work at Indian Head Naval Base for one year and then started his 46 year career as a brick mason working for Pierce & Gibson, Deane Guy Masonry and Quality Masonry during that time. He was known for this witty sense of humor and telling jokes. He enlisted in the U.S. Army National Guard in 1964 and was stationed at Ft. Leonardwood, MO and received an Honorable Discharge in 1970. He was an avid softball player playing for Pierce & Gibson and Capt. Sam’s softball teams for twenty some years and coached Capt. Sam’s Young Men’s and Women’s Softball teams in the St. Mary’s county Young Men’s/Women’s League. He was inducted into the St. Mary’s County Young Men’s Softball League “Hall of Fame” on November 9, 1996. He enjoyed watching all professional sports: baseball, basketball, football, ice hockey, golf and especially NASCAR. His favorite drivers were Dale Earnhardt, Sr. and Dale Earnhardt, Jr. The family will receive friends on Sunday, August 2, 2009 from 2:00-5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 3:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, August 3, 2009 at 10:00 AM at Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery, Bushwood, MD. Pallbearers will be Thomas (Boozie) Farrell, George Payne, Eddie Payne, Ronnie Guy, Pete Griffin and Ronnie Trossbach. Honorary pallbearers will be players of Capt. Sam’s Young Men’s Softball Team- George Bowles, David Nelson, Jebb Morris, Keith Williams, Mark Bailey, Gene Woodburn, Charlie Russell, David Russell, Jimmy Ryce, Wayne Buckler, Glenn Buckler, Ricky Nelson, Jim Hayden, Mike Wathen, Bernie Mayor, Joey Lynch, Ray Curry, Bruce Monteith and Mike Wise. Contributions may be made to Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650 and/or the Seventh District Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 7, Avenue, MD 20609.
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“Phyllis,Lisa, Pam and family: So very sorry for your loss. John David was a special person. He is at peace now. Take care of each other. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.”
“I’m so thankful for the time I had with John David on Wed before leaving for CA. Wish I could be there…please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“I can’t remember a time of not knowing John David. He lived one house down the road from me when we were kids, and we attended school together. After High School, our lives took separate paths, and the few opportunities we got to talk, we would usually end up reminiscing with “remember when.” With John David’s passing, I feel as if I have lost a cherished piece of my childhood. I would like to extend my deepest condolences to his entire family. “
“Phyllis,Lisa and Pam, We are so sorry for your loss, John David is at peace and he’s not suffering anymore. God must of needed a new joke teller. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God Bless you and help you get through these hard and lonely times. Ray and Angel Quade”
“To the Gibson Family: Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”
“PHYLLIS AND FAMILY I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT JOHN DAVID PASSING. YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS, I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH ITS HAS BEEN SEVEN MONTHS SINCE I LOST RICKY AND IT IS STILL HARD. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. JOAN DIEHL”
“Deloris, I am so sorry for your loss. I miss you so much. If there is anything I can do for you please call me.”
“Phyllis, Pam, Lisa, and family.. My heart breaks knowing what you’re going through. I know the devistation and sorrow losing a loved one brings — there are no words… Just know that there is an Angel looking over your shoulder’s and his name is John David. He’ll always be with you. Pam — you are my dearest friend. I love you and am here for you. You need ANYTHING you call — I’ll be there. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Luanne”
“Phyllis and Family. John David was ONE OF A KIND!!! He could make anyone laugh. Such a sense of humor!! Remember the good times, as they will sustain you in this difficult time. God Bless and keep you!”
“Phyllis,Pam and Lisa, Our sincerest condolences to you and all those that knew and loved John David. Know that we share in your grief and pray God gives you the comfort you need to get through these sad times. God bless all of you. Judy & Phil”
“Phyllis and family, My prayers and sympathy are with you all. No words can say what is really in my heart. Just know that he is in a better place, a place we are all going to reunite one day. God bless you all.”
“My heart goes out to Phyllis & family. I worked with Dave for 7 years at Deane Guy Masonry & have many memories, stories, & jokes from the experience. On the very hot, dirty, gruling days in the trade, I can honesty say he would make the day go by alot quicker with his crazy sense of humor!! I would often wonder how Phyllis could put up with the man but she would inform me he was totally different at home. I believe he led two different lives between work & family. I remember Phyllis’s accident was extremely trying for him. I’m glad to have been able to meet the man & it does sadden me to hear of his passing.”
“Phyllis, Pam, Lisa and all of the family, we are so sorry for your loss. John David was so much fun to be around and we are fortunate to have so many happy memories of him. He always made us laugh and not many people in this world are blessed with that gift. His passing will be a loss to so many. He fought a tough battle and may you have confort in knowing that he is no longer suffering. We are here for you. Our Love and Prayers.”
“Phyllis & Family, Please know that you all are in our prayers at this difficult time. Dave was one of a kind and he will always be remembered for his sense of humor and that whitty personality. I know it has been a long hard road, he is at peace now and is no longer in pain and he will always be watching over you. We are thankful for the years that Dave worked for us and he will be truly missed. If there is anything that Ronnie & I can do, please let us, we are just around the corner. Ronnie, Becky, Josh, Jenn & Lee”
“Phyllis, Pam, Lisa & Family, We send our sympathy in friendship. John David is no longer suffering and that should help ease the pain you are going through during this very difficult time. We will keep your family in our prayers.”
“To John David’s wife and family, I am so sorry for your loss, but John David is no longer in pain and I expect he has already rounded up some friends to play softball in the green fields of heaven with Jesus as referee. I have fond memories of him from high school and our high school reunions at the American Legion hall. When we graduated from Margaret Brent, as we were marching out, he loudly pretended to be crying as he went out the door. That typical behavior made all of us laugh because how could you cry after something like that? My thoughts and my prayers are with you. “
“Lisa, Pam, Phyllis & families: John David was an absolute character. He will be missed. Hopefully we can find comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering.”
“Phyllis, Pam, Lisa and Families. We are so sorry to hear of John Davids passing. Keep the memories you have of him close to heart, he was a wonderful man. Ours prayers are with you. Stanley, Janice and Family”
“PHYLLIS,PAM,PAUL,LISA,GLEN I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT JOHN DAVID. HE WAS A GREAT MAN,GREAT SOFTBALL COACH AND A CARING PERSON. MY HEARTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND I KNOW HE IS IN A GREAT PLACE NOW. THE PLACE ONLY TAKE THE BEST. IF YOU NEED ANYTHING LET ME KNOW. I AM HERE FOR YOU GUYS. JUST CALL .”
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam and family. We were so sorry to hear of John David’s passing. Cherish the memories and may he rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam and families, I am so very sorry to hear of John David’s passing. You are all very close in thought and prayer during this very difficult time. “
“Dear Phyllis and Family: We are so sorry about John David. You can find comfort in knowing that you did everything possible to help him through his terrible illness. It has taken some wonderful people. Take care of yourself, Phyllis. The rest of your family needs you. And girls, take care of your Mom. She is a special lady. Keep wonderful memories of John David close to your heart. “
“Phyllis,Pam, Lisa and families,We are so sorry for your loss. I know you will be losT without him. We hope that love,prayers and memories will help you through these rough times.”
“Lisa & Family, We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. He was a kind, fun, and loving soul and we know that you will miss him terribly as will we all. We continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers as you make your way through the end of this painful journey. Although you will always miss him you will always have him with you in the wonderful and special memories of him that each of you hold in your hearts. So his love for you and yours for him will live on in you forever. Try to find comfort knowing that he is no longer in pain and is now at peace with our Lord. Hugs and Love to you all! “
“You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Phyllis, Please know that you and the girls are in my thoughts and prayers. “
“Phyllis and family,so sorry to hear about John David. I feel a bright light went out in the world today. John David’s smile could light up a room. He was fun and good times. When the thoughts get unbearable, remember the smile and the happiness and it will help you get through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“Ms Phyliss,Pam,Lisa,Allison and the Gibson family, We are saddened to hear of John David’s passing, Hold true all the memories of him , and know that he was the overseer of a truely great family. You should be as proud of him and what he has accomplished as he was of each and every one of you. He was all about family, and he has a very good one. You are in our thoughts and prayers”
“Phyllis and Family ~ Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. “
“John David definately made going to MBHS interesting. We should all remember to enjoy life and and laugh more often. He will be missed by so many friends.”
“PHYLLIS,PAM & LISA, NO MORE SUFFERING NO MORE PAIN. JOHN DAVID IS AT PEACE NOW. OUR CONDOLENCES “
“WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,JOHN WAS SUCH A FREE SPIRITED GUY AND SO FUNNY !!! YOU JUST HAVE TO SMILE WHEN YOU THINK OF HIM, HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.”
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam and families. John David fought a gallant fight, his suffering is over. May your loving memories help you during the grieving process. God Bless”
“To Mrs.Gibson and family, I was so sadden when mom had told me today about Mr.Gibson’s passing. It would brighten my day to see him in Walmart when you guys would come in to shop, he would brighten anybodys day cause thats just the kind of person he was. But now he is with GOD where he is not in pain or suffering. God will take care of him now and he will be looking over all you guys to make sure you are okay. To Pam and Lisa take care of your mother she will need you to lean on and always talk about the good times or bad that you guys had with him, keep the memories close to your heart it always helps, its one thing nobody can take away from you. May he rest in peace,God Bless You and take care. I will be praying for all of you.”
“Phyllis and family, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have fond memories of John David from M.B.H.S.class of 1960. “
“Phyllis and family: Although words are of little comfort at a time like this, please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. I still look for JD when I pull into Capt Sam’s Liqour Store in the morning. He always made my day with his funny remarks of the day. I will also cherish the fun times we had with him on our first Cruise. We loved him and are here for you and hope that you will call on us if there is anything at all that we can do. Love to all.”
“Our hearts go out to you but now John David is a peace. Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.”
“MY VERY BEST WISHES TO THE GIBSON FAMILY.”
“Phyllis and family: We know John David is at peace and no longer in pain. Phyllis, I know what you have undertaken in the last few years with your Mother, Father and John David’s battles. You have been a strong and loving wife and daughter; it is now time to take care of yourself. Girls, stick by Mama, she will need you more than ever.”
“Pam, Paul, Little Paul and family – You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We certainly know what you’re going through with the recent loss of Lynn’s dad. Keep talking and sharing all of your good times and funny stories. It will help you get through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers continue for you all.”
“Phyllis, Pam, and Lisa, We are so very sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband and father. While it is comforting that John David is no longer in pain, he will be missed so much. Take care of each other.”
“Dear Phyllis, I feel so deeply saddened for you and your family. I know how strong you are, but I hope you will let the love, prayers and hugs of the people who care about you into your heart. We will be there for you forever, as you are for us. “
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam and family. Our hearts go out to you and yours. May John David find peace and rest with the Lord. God Bless you all. The Morris Family, Nell, Chuck, Sharon, Kathy, Michelle, Jimmy, Thelma Davis and all of our families”
“Lisa and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God, Family, and fond memories of your loved one! You’re in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam and family. I am so sorry to hear of John David’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God’s peace and comfort blanket you and your family during this overwhelming loss.”
“Phyllis, Pam & family – I am so sorry to hear about John David’s passing. He was such a unique individual, and I feel very blessed to have had the pleasure of knowing him. Phyllis – I always looked forward to the two of you coming to watch our softball games and seeing your smiling faces. Pam – I’ve always treasured having you as a friend, and I always will. All of you have wonderful memories of John David – hold on to that, for he can never leave your heart. God Bless All of you.”
“Phyllis, It is sad, I just found out about John David’s passing one hour before the funeral. I am glad I got to visit him and you at home a couple weeks ago. As a kid I always looked up to him, later when he coached Capt. Sams Y.Mens softball the fans went to the games to see the coach just as much as for the team, he entertained the whole crowd. He already is and will be greatly missed by all who knew him and loved him. That guy could make anyone laugh, he missed his calling. He should have sat in Jay Leno’s chair, he would have done a better job. Sorry I missed the prayers and funeral as I heard too late. Love to all of you.”
“Phyllis & Family: So sorry for your loss. God Bless.”
“Phyllis and girls, I know how much you will miss John David and I hope he’s at peace now. We will all miss him but he did the best he could to beat that dam cancer. We will always remember him on the ball field. “
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Hold the wonderful memories of John David close in your heart and they will help you through the sad days ahead.”
“Phyllis, Pam and Lisa – We are back in Mississippi, but my heart is still in Maryland with you guys. No matter what the situation, John David could always make you feel better. He brightened every room that he entered. I wish that I had him on video, so when I am having a bad or down moment, I could turn to him. John David has been in my life for the past 20 years and I was truly blessed to have had him as a brother-in-law. I loved him dearly and will never forget his visits to Mississippi with us. I love you guys more than anything. You are strong and will continue to do the things that John David would want you to. He is at peace and is no longer battling that terrible disease. My love is with you and I smile when I think of JD. Love you guys.”
“Dear Phyllis, Pam, Lisa and families– Until a family has dealt with cancer first-hand, they do not know what a devastatingly horrific experience it is. Please try to take consolation in knowing it is all behind John David now. Life does goes on for the rest, and believe me when I say that as time passes, memories will bring a smile to your face more often than tears. May God bring comforting peace to you all. “
“Pam and family, Although its been few years since I last saw you, we are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“Phyllis, Lisa, Pam, Delores and family. We want to extend to each of you our friendship, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time in your life. John David was loved by so many. We hope you can find comfort and strength in knowing that so many care about you. “
“Thoughts and Prayers to the family. Many good laughs in the years past at MBHS with John David. Louis Buckler Class of 58”