Eleanor "Virginia" Payne
September 9, 1941 ~ October 4, 2009
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A graveside service will be held on Friday, October 9, 2009 at 11:00 AM at Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Eleanor “Virginia” Payne of Mathias, West Virginia, formerly of Compton died at her home on October 4. She was born on September 9, 1941 at John Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore to Albert and Virginia Quade. Because of her mother’s death during child birth, she was adopted and raised by her Aunt and Uncle, Elizabeth and Martin Pilkerton. She attended St. Joseph Parochial School in Morganza for eight years and after graduating Margaret Brent High School in 1959, she married George “Buster" Payne on July 4, 1959. They lived in Dover Delaware for the remaining 8 months of George’s time in the Air Force. Virginia is survived by her husband, George, Sr. of Mathias, WV, two daughters Frannie Buckler (Donnie) of Lusby, Gail Woodburn (Dennis) of Leonardtown, two sons, Michael Payne of New South Wales, Australia and George Payne, Jr. of Hollywood. She is also survived by her grandchildren, April and Bobby Oswald, Bryan Buckler, Kyle and Kurt Woodburn, Michael Payne, Jr., Lauren Ullrich (Matt), Darren Payne and Savannah Payne and one great grandchild, Taylor. She is survived by her brothers and sisters Bill Pilkerton of Tennessee, Betty Almond (Mike) of Mechanicsville, MD, Donna Roberts (Steve) of Concord, California, Albert Quade, Jr., of Hughesville, Joe Quade of La Plata, Barbara Samuels, of Virginia, Margaret Miles of Kansas, Anna Herbert and Margie Gogate. In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by 2 brothers, Bernard (Pic) Pilkerton of Mechanicsville, Jerry Quade of Hollywood, one daughter-in-law, Jeanne Payne and one sister-in-law, Lorraine Pilkerton. Virginia was a full time homemaker and mother until her husband started taking over the family business, J.J. Payne & Sons Well Drilling. She then became secretary and bookkeeper for the company. She loved Nascar racing and enjoyed camping near the race tracks when she was in good health. Her favorite drivers were Richard Petty and Mark Martin. She also enjoyed the mountains where she and her husband bought a place in 1979 as a “get away” place which turned into a full time home in 1999, when her husband retired. Her only regret with being in West Virginia was being so far away from her children and grandchildren. Burial arrangements were handled by Mattingly Gardiner Funeral Home. A private funeral was held at Charles Memorial Cemetery. She wanted this added to her obituary – “To all my friends and relatives who were not notified of my death: These were my wishes – a private burial. Please try to understand. You did not have to say good bye to my body. Just send your thoughts and love in prayers. I will hear them.” Love, Virginia(Ginger, Ginny)
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“Our deepest sympathy to your family at this sad time. I know what it is to lose a parent, and I hope you can take comfort in the fact that your mom will always be there to watch over you.”
“Buster, Fran, Gail, Mike and George; I truly loved Ginny, she always treated me as an adult even thought I was a child (bratty) when we met. I have so many “fond” memories that no one can ever remove. She was my dear friend and I loved her dearly! God bless all of you and know you are all in my prayers. You all were a part of my life that meant so much to me! Bus, I was always envious of how she loved you and that was so special, I had always hoped I would have that some day for myself. Ginny, until we meet again… Love you!”
“Frannie, Gail Mike, George and Buster: I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. She will be looking down on each of you to guide you for the rest of your life. She will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other.”
“Something made me check out this website because sometimes you never hear until the last minute that someone you know and love has died. I know Ginger was sick for a long time and Buster I love you so very much. I am sorry for your loss to the family. I hope to be able to come to prayer but I possibly might have to work. In case, Buster, you don’t know who this is, it’s the lil’ girl that use to be scared of you when I was little because of your voice. Kay’s daughter, love ya and sorry for your loss. “
“It was so nice to talk with Gin at the Margaret Brent High School Classs of ’59 50th reunion. We had twelve years of education in the same room at St. Joseph’s and MBHS. Gin never missed a day of school in those twelve years. She said she was determined not to miss the reunion either. She had the same dependability and determination as her mom, Aunt Liz and her dad, Uncle Martin. They were all magnificent folks. “
“Dear Uncle Buster, Frannie, Mike, Gail, and George. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I am so grateful for Aunt Ginger continually reaching out to Tracey, Lee, Cathy, and me. I will miss her smiling face and loving personality. Her arms were always open. I know you will miss her tremendously. Love you.”
“If I only had five minutes, the morning you passed away, I’d give you one last hug so tight and see your great big smile. I’d tell you that I don’t think I could live without you, not even for awhile. I’d kiss your cheek and take your hand and tell you its okay to go and tell you that I’ll miss you, more than you’ll ever know. But you were gone so quickly, Before you even knew it, you were standing at heavens gate. Now God has called upon you, it’s time to get your wings. To leave this life behind you, and enjoy all of heavens beautiful things. So wait for me in heaven Mom Don’t let me come alone. The day the angels come for me, please be there to bring me home. I know the time will seem like forever till I see you again but in God’s eyes It will be a blink in time. Mommy I love you so much. “
“To the Payne family our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Frannie and family, sorry to hear about your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God Bless your Mother and Family at this time. Wayne”
“Buster, Frannie, Gail, Mike, and George; My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Buster, I recognized, even as a youngster and neighbor to you “many moons ago”, that Virginia was the love of your life. Treasure the memories. Take care.”
“Buster, I really know how hard this is for you. I am so glad you got to celebrate your Anniversary. I have remembered so many of the fun times the four of us had since Rick passed. I have sincerely missed not being close to Virginia this past year. Talking to her made me feel at home again. You have been my Brother-In-Law for 44 years and I have been closer to you than my own brother. You have my love and heart felt sympathy for your loss. Please give Frannie, Gail, Mike, and Georgie a comforting hug from Aunt Dot and tell my prayers are with them. I miss you all.”
“Uncle Buster, Frannie, Georgie, Gail & Mike…..I am deeply saddened by this turn of events. Aunt Ginger will be greatly missed….She is in my thoughts and prayers…as well as the family. Keep up your spirits, as now she is watching over us all…”
“Uncle Buster, Mikey, Georgie, Frannie, Gail and the rest of the family, I am so sorry that Aunt Ginny has left us. I will hold her memories very near to my heart! I love you all very much and we all will miss her like crazy! Words can not take the pain we feel away. It does make me feel better to know that I have her watching out for all of us. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. If you need anything please let me know. Aunt Ginny I love you and miss you very much!”
“My deepest sympathy goes out to the Payne family. Reflect on all your wonderful memories shared with your mother. Find comfort in each other and know she is in a much happier place.”
“George, I was sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. Please accept by sincere condolences. Remember the good times. Joe, Lexington Park PO 1967-1989”
“To the Payne Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May God bless the Payne family. Doris & Skip Jones”
“Frannie, Gail & The Payne Family. We are so sorry to hear about your Moms passing. Now she is watching over you. Let us know if there is anything we can do!”
“Buster and family, I am so sorry to hear about Virginia’s passing. My prayers are with you all.”
“To Donna and the entire Payne Family – I am deeply saddened to learn of Ginger’s passing. She was the definition of a “true lady.” Donna, I won’t be able to make the service because I am going out of town on Friday. My prayers are with you and the Family. I will be in touch.”
“TO THE PAYNE FAMILY. IAM VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOMS PASSING. SHE WAS A VERY LOVELY LADY. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.”
“To the Payne Family our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. If there is anything you need please let us know.”
“To Donna, the Roberts Family and the Payne Family, please accept our condolences and sympathies on the passing of Ginny. Our family’s thought and prayers are with you.”
“Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We will keep you in our prayers.”
“George, I am so sorry for your loss. I know it’s hard to loss two people that were so close to your heart and you love so much. Ask the Lord for strength he will get you through these painful times. They ‘re both in a much better place. You may think you will never get over these losses but it will get less painful. Please know that you are in our prayers. May God Bless You and your family.”
“I have been the partner of your son Michael in Australia for the past two years, I would like to pass on my condlences to the family,I was very sad to hear of her passing, I thank her for having Michael,and that he is sharing my life,I know she will be looking over you all with much love, because my mum does. With love Noleane “
“Frannie, I do send my prayers and sympathy to you and your family in this difficult time. May God bless you and get you thruough.”