Roger Lee Vallandingham
July 24, 1952 ~ April 26, 2010
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 30th, 2010 at 9:00AM in Holy Angels Catholic Church Avenue, MD, with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will follow in Queen of Peace Cemetery, Helen, MD.
Visitation:
The family will recieve friends on Thursday, April 29th, 2010 from 5:00PM-8:00PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where prayers will be recited at 7:00PM.
Roger Lee “Bummie” Vallandingham, 57, of Mechancisville, MD died April 26, 2010 at his residence. Born July 24, 1952 in Leonardtown, MD he was the son of George Francis and Margaret Shirley Vallandingham. He was the loving husband of Sandra Lee Vallandingham of Mechanicsville, MD and is also survived by his children Christopher Wayne (Rebecca) of Colton’s Pt., MD and Heather Marie Boszko (Justin) of Mechanicsville, MD and his step children Terry Lynn Williams (David) of Clements, MD and Tammy Marie Barrick (Shannan) of Great Mills, MD., 4 Grandchildren, 4 Step Grandchildren, his siblings George Lawrence (Laura), Francis Parran (Pat), James Michael (Theresa), John A. (Linda), Timothy Allen, and Tammy Ann (Wade), and many many nieces and nephews. Roger Lee was a mechanic throughout his life. He loved Tractor Pulls and was a member of the Antique Tractor Association; he loved his many tractors, especially his D17 named Miss Delores, which was named after his dear friend Delores Callahan whom preceded him in death. Roger Lee also enjoyed oystering, crabbing and playing cards. He loved spending time with his family and friends. He was the type of guy that if you needed anything he was there. The family will receive friends on Thursday, April 29, 2010 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in The Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD, where prayers will be recited at 7:00PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 30, 2010 in Holy Angels Catholic Church Avenue, MD at 9:00AM with Fr. William Gurnee officiating. Interment will follow in Queen of Peace Cemetery, Helen, MD. Pallbearers will be David A. Williams, Artie Guy, JR Wood, Nick Vallandingham, Bo Vallandingham and Terry Lee Nelson.. Contributions may be made to assist with funeral expenses.
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“Sandy, You and the family are in our prayers. Roger Lee will be grately missed by many.”
“I can’t belive this has happened. Their is nothing I can say to make anyone feel any better. He was a great man and WE all loved him so very much. We have so many memories and will hold them dealy. You all are in our prayers.”
“To John and the rest of the family: I am so sorry for your loss. Just know that he is Home and with you always. My prayers for you all as I know your hearts are truly breaking.”
“Our sympathy to all of Roger Lee’s family and friends. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Sandy – There are no words that will say how very much we will miss Roger Lee. Leroy considered him more brother than cousin and is so glad that he was able to spend time with him a couple of weeks ago. Please know that we are here if you and the family need anything at all. Our prayers are with you.”
“Sorry for your familys loss. “
“TO THE NELSON AND VALLANDINGHAM FAMILY, SORRY FOR YUUR LOSS, ROGER LEE WAS A GREAT MAN, I REMEMBER HAVING A FEW DRINKS WITH HIM AND HIM FIXING MY DERBY CAR FOR ME, IM GONNA MISS HIM, AND SO WILL ALOT OF OTHER PEOPLE, IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE LET US KNOW.”
“To the Vallandingham Family – Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss. Roger Lee was a great person. We have so many fond memories of him and they usually involve laughing, dancing, having a “cold” one and a good time. He was full of life and always the life of the party. He will be greatly missed. If we can do anything to help you through this tough time, please let us know. With all of our love,”
“I know there are no words to make anyone feel any better at this time but know Bummy is watching over everyone and is not in pain anymore! He has touched so many peoples lives and will be greatly missed. We have the entire Vallandingham & Nelson family in our prayers.”
“To the family and to Sandy- Roger Lee was someone who touched lives and always left a small piece of his personality with them. Young and old-he always had you smiling, The kids and I will truly miss that charactor. Sandy- remember, the door is open. Love, Snooky”
“Our condolences go out to the family.”
“Sandy..I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Hold on tight to the memories you have and lean on those close to you for comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Dear Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.”
“Johnny & Linda, We are very sorry for your loss. “
“Sandy, just wanted to let you know that you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let us know. Hold on to your memories as no one can take those away.”
“To the family of Roger Lee We send our deepest sympathies. We will keep all the family in our prayer and thoughts. WE WILL MISS HIM please let us know if you need anything. “
“I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Roger Lee. He was a very special guy and will be missed by all who knew him.”
“Roger Lee was a wonderful man. No matter how long I went between seeing him, he always made me feel welcomed when I did and he let me know that I was family and always welcomed. He was always full of great stories and always smiling. He has now joined many many others of our wonderful family and I feel blessed to know he is now watching over us all. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone..”
“Our deepest condolences to the family, we are very sorry for the loss of Roger Lee, thoughts and prayers are with the family.”
“To all the family-We are deeply sorry to hear that Rodger Lee has gone home to the Lord. We will always cherish our memories of him. He made us feel so welcome in the seventh. We will miss him. All our love and prayers at this most difficult time. “
“Mike, Frankie, Porky and families, We were shocked to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with during this sad time. That smile of his will be missed.”
“Much love to you and Baby. And right now Roger Lee’s riding a brand new super-dooper tractor for Heaven’s Tactor Pull!! XXOO”
“Sandy, I was shocked to hear of your loss. Please let us know if you need anything. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. “
“Sandy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Sandy, On behalf of the California branch we would like to tell you how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Sandra, We are so very sad for your loss. I know how much loved him. Our prayers are with you.”
“Chris and Heather – We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. You are both in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. “
“To our Daughter-In-Law, Heather, Bonnie and Family, Dave and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you, Bonnie and your family on your Dad’s passing. Even though we only had the opportunity to know him for a few years, we can honestly say that he loved you so very much. One of the most special days in his life was when he walked you down the aisle on your wedding day. You could almost see the tears in his eyes. He was so very proud of his beautiful daughter. Hold tight to the many happy memories for strength and comfort. Always remember to lean on your family and friends who truly love you so much through the days ahead. Don’t forget that we are ALWAYS here for you. Love you forever, Dave and Karen “
“Roger Lee will be dearly missed. He was a wonderful person and was always keeping you laughing. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Vallandingham, Nelson family. HE WILL BE MISSED!!!!”
“Our deepest sympathies to you all for the loss of a great guy. “
“Sandy, So sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.”
“Shirley & family. Our deepest sympathy and prayers to the entire family. May the fond memories and good times shared together keep Roger Lee’s memory forever in your hearts and minds. With all of our love.”
“My dear friend Sandy, this is so hard to believe. Life doesn’t seem to be fair. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you and the family.. “
“To the Family and Sandy: My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in knowing that Roger Lee is at peace. May God Bless you All.”
“We send our deepest sympathies and most sincere prayers. May fond memories of Roger Lee comfort you and bring you peace during this very difficult time.”
“Heather and Family, Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Know that he is at peace now, watching over his family. “
“Roger Lee was always a boatload of fun and one of the most cheerful people we have ever known. We will miss him.”
“We Remember Them From the Gates of Repentance New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe Author Unknown At the rising of the sun and at its going down, We remember them. At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter, We remember them. At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring, We remember them. At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer, We remember them. At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn, We remember them. At the beginning of the year and when it ends, We remember them. As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us, as we remember them. When we are weary and in need of strength, We remember them. When we are lost and sick at heart, We remember them. When we have joys we yearn to share, We remember them. When we have decisions that are difficult to make, We remember them When we have achievements that are based on theirs, We remember them. As long as we live, they too shall live, for they are a part of us, as we remember them.”
“Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May the strength of your close family be a comfort at this most difficult time. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. “
“Johnny & Linda, we are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“”To The Vallandingham Family” Our deepest Sympathy to all of the Family. May He rest In Peace.”
“Terry and Ninnie, May God bless you at this most difficult time.”
“”My Dear buddy going to miss you brother going to miss our good times but we will meet again someday””
“Shirley and the family – Roger Lee is another Gaurdian Angel in Heaven looking down on his family and friends and will be taking care of all! “
“Sandy, I am so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. I of course, send my condolences. I would also like to tell you I will be there for you,if you ever need to talk. I have a great deal of understanding of what you are going through. My phone #’s are 3018610185-work, 3016480141-cell, and 3016381540-home. If I don’t answer please leave a message. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“Sandy, My heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this most difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Such a great loss… Roger Lee was a great man… There wasn’t nothing he wouldn’t do for anybody.. My heart goes out to his entire family…We will miss you Bummie.. Rest in peace hun.”
“Terry & Ninnie, I am soo sorry to hear about Roger Lee’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please let me know if you need anything. “
“Sorry for your families loss.”
“Sandy – Sammy and I are so saddened to hear of Roger Lee’s passing. Time does not separate friendship, so if there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. We pray for you and the family to have the strength to see you through your sorrow.”
“We are so sorry for your loss.”
“Roger Lee was one of a kind. I remember so many funny things he would do and say. He was a friend to everyone. My deepest sympathies to the Vallandingham Family. “
“Our deepest sympathies to the entire family. You all are in our prayers. “
“I’m so very sorry for your loss. May God provide you all with peace, comfort and guidance throughout this most difficult time, and always. “
“”My condolence to the Vallandingham Family, I am sorry to hear about the passing of Roger Lee. He will be greatly missed. My son Tony just adored him growing up and hanging out with Chris and Heather. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.””
“Heather and Chris I’m so sorry that you have lost your dad. Just remember that he loved you guys so much and that nothing you did could ever change that. You to are strong and you will get through this together. If you need anything just call you know where I’m at. “
“Sandy, I am really sorry to hear of your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Brad Howard “
“To Sandy- I was saddened to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers and please remember God will take care of you.”
“”We wanted to let you know that you have our greatest sympathy, and our hearts are truly saddened by your loss. My sincere thoughts and prayers to the whole Vallandingham & Nelson family.” “
“To the Vallandingham Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“You will be greatly missed but the wonderful memories & good times will be held close! The entire Vallandingham/Nelson family is in our thoughts and prayers. We love you Uncle Donnie & Aunt Sandy”
“To The Vallandingham Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you through this troubling time and may God bless you and comfort you. “
“TO the entire family and My mother Sandy. Pop will be missed very much so. I am glad he came into our lives. He made me feel special as his Step Daugther. I will always remember the times me and my kids and Shannon had spent with him. He is in heaven now on his D17 with a beer in one had and Moonshine in the other. He will get everyone through this. And Heather and Chris I am so sorry about your dad’s passing. If there is anything I can do for anyone just let me know.”
“To the Vallandingham Family: You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“Sandy, My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“Sandy, May God hold you in his arms and gently wipe away your tears. I know how much you loved Roger Lee. Everytime the sun shines on your face know that it is him. Everytime you hear a bird sing know it is him. He is with you and will always watch over you because he loves you still. You will be in my prayers. “
“Roger Lee, You made such a difference in my life, you taught me that it was OK to trust when it feels right. You always made me feel so very special. You made my boys feel so loved and cared about, They both just adored you. There wasn’t anything you wouldn’t do to help and keep us safe, and I did feel so safe with you around. I do believe you’d made a few visits like today. Just as I told you as your time was come to an end, I LOVE YOU, and thank you for showing me what a Father really was all about and about Unconditional Love. And thanks for being the true Love of my Mom’s life! Heather and Chris, Thanks so much for sharing your Dad with the boys and I!”
“Though times come and times go I was very sorry to hear of your loss. It is never easy but with God’s love you will get through this.”
“Sandy I am so so sorry for your loss of Roger Lee. May God Bless you my friend if you need moral support don’t hesitate to call I know you were the love of his life as he was yours God Bless you and your family my friend.”
“SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ROGER. WE WILL KEEP HIM IN OUR PRAYERS”
“There is not a day go by where the kids & I dont think about you. You are so so missed. WE LOVE YOU FOREVER! “