Kenneth Edward Shelley
March 25, 1970 ~ May 31, 2010
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday, June 4, 2010 at 11:00 AM in Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church, Lexington Park, MD with Fr. Jack Kennealy officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Thursday, June, 3, 2010 from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home chapel with prayers being recited at 7:00 PM.
Kenneth “Ken” Edward Shelley, 40, of Leonardtown, MD died May 31, 2010 in Mary Washington Hospital, Fredericksburg, VA. Born March 25, 1970 in San Juan, Puerto Rico, he was the son of Kenneth L. and Jane E. Young Shelley. Ken was the loving husband of Pamela J. Shelley. Kenneth was also survived by his children Sean Michael O’Donnell, Lauren Elizabeth O’Donnell, Lindsey Danielle O’Donnell, Sydney Jane Shelley and Kenneth Andrew Jeffrey Shelley all of Leonardtown, MD as well as his siblings Jennifer Wilkinson (James) of Brigantine, NJ, Penny McKay (George) of Callaway, MD and Vanessa Whalen (Dave) of Audubon, NJ. Ken moved to St. Mary’s in 1982 from Virginia Beach, VA and attended Great Mills High School where he graduated Class of “1988.” He was a program manager for 17 and a half years for Wyle. Ken was a wonderful man. He enjoyed a full life which included his family, friends, golfing, fishing, crabbing, camping and cooking. He was a diehard Redskins fan. He was a devoted husband and father. He was passionate about golf, and made countless friends on the golf course. He was dedicated to his work at Wyle. He had many close friends. He had a wonderful sense of humor and a magnetic personality. He was a selfless man, always putting others before himself. Those who knew him loved him. He exuded a perpetual happiness that everyone around him benefited from. He had an infectious laugh. He will be dearly missed by many. The family will receive friends on Thursday, June 3, 2010 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in the Mattingly-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where prayers will be said at 7:00PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, June 4, 2010 at 11:00AM in the Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Lexington Park, MD with Fr. Jack Kennealy officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be David Hacker, Dickie Wose, Bill Jenner, James Wilkinson, George McKay and Dave Whalen. Contributionsin memory of Ken may be made to The Shelley Memorial Fund, Cedar Point Federal Credit Union.
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“Lauren…and Family, I know you will get tired of hearing this, but I am sorry for your loss. I know what losing someone you’re really close to. I too lost my father, October 7,2008. Lauren, I know it was your step father…but I’m pretty sure it’s basically the same thing. I won’t tell you life will get any easier, because the feeling won’t go away. This time in your life will make you stronger, and Lauren you already are so strong…you showed us all by walking on June 2nd. I admire you so much for that. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I am here for you, my love. <3"
“I know words aren’t enough, but know that love and prayers are behind the words. You are still family at LES and we all are here for you. God bless all of you and help you find peace.”
“All of your families are in my prayers. I wish I had words to ease your pain. I am so sorry for your loss.”
“Jane, Buz, Pam, & Kids, we are so very sorry to hear about Ken and your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are truly with you all during this tough, very sad, and very hard time. Ken will surely be missed.”
“Pam, Buzz, Jane, and family ~ I was so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. May you find comfort in your many wonderful memories. We will keep your family in our prayers.”
“Pam, Sydney, Kenny & family; we are all very shocked and saddened to hear about Ken. Please know that we are all thinking about you and the kids during this very difficult time. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers. “
“We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Ken was a wonderful, funny guy who will truly be missed.”
“I was so saddened to hear about your loss. Please know that your family is close in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult of times.”
“Pam, Buzz, Jane and family, Kenny was a bright, warm and caring person and we were privileged to have known him. We are praying that our Lord will bless, comfort and strenghten all of you during this time of profound loss and grief. “
“Jane, Buzz, Pam & family, We are very sadden by the loss of Ken and would like to express our condoleneces. Just know that he is in a good place and I know that Nana is taking very good care of him. Love Tina, Jay and Lindsey”
“I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. Ken will be truly missed by so many. He was a wonderful person with a great spirit. Pam, Buzz, and family-my thoughts and prayers are with you. Look to God, family, and friends for strength during this tough time. May peace be with you all.”
“Ken was a good friend, I will miss him greatly.”
“I am so sorry for your loss. My family and myself were at the accident helping you. Our prayers are with you and your family and we greatly feel your loss. May God help you and your family through this sad time. “
“I can’t imagine the pain you and your family are experiencing. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my prayers.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayer are with you in this time of grief and loss. “
“Pam honey, I don’t have any magic words for you, the kids, or his mom,dad, and other family members…I wish I did. All I know is you must let the love of friends and family sustain you through these days. Truly, it is the only thing that will help you put one foot in front of the other as time goes by… I pray God will surround you with love, laughter,courage, and happy memories to get you through.”
“Pam and Children, We’re so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all. Sincerely, Concepcion Family “
“We are so sorry to hear about Kenny. You all are such a loving, close-knit family. We can’t imagine the loss you are feeling right now. We will keep you all in our prayers…”
“Dear Buzz, Jane, Pam and Family, Our most sincere condolences with the loss of Ken. May his memories always shine with those who knew him.”
“To all of Ken’s family, our heartfelt condelences to you and yours during this difficult time. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him, especially those of us at Wyle.”
“Debbie and I wish to express our condolences to Penny and her family. So sorry to hear of your loss.You will be in our prayers. Phil Caroselli”
“Pam,Children,and Family: Rich and I are so sorry for the unexpected sudden loss of Ken. May you all get strength from each other and your faith see you through this very difficult time. You are all in our thoughts. “
“I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of Ken.”
“I did not know him, but as a Wyle employee, I am so sorry for your loss. The news was quite shocking.”
“Buzz, I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your son. My condolences to you and your family. “
“Buzz & Jane, Very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam & Family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Kenny will always be remembered for the gentle, lighthearted, funny “boy” that he was around work. He could make anyone laugh just by looking at that smirk that was always on his face. Kenny lived life to the fullest and anyone who knew him at all knew what his family meant to him. Treasure your memories – he lives on in each one of you. With Heartfelt Sympathy, Betty & Gordy”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam and family. We would like to express our deepest condolences to you and your family on Ken’s passing. You and your family are in our family’s prayers in this difficult time. Peace to you all. “
“Pam and Family, Although I never had the priviledge of meeting Ken I realize from all the messages what a wonderful man he was. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you travel this difficult road. God Bless!!”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam and Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“My heart goes out for Parents, Wife and Children. Even though I do not know you personally, as an Wyle employee I feel that we have lost someone in the family.”
“Pam, Buzz and Jane. Our thoughts are with you and your family. May you find solace in all of the good works performed by Ken.”
“Pam, Buzz, and family, I feel heartbroken for all of you during your time of loss. He is gone but will never be forgotten. I was so shocked to hear of Ken’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“Buzz and family, in this time of great loss we hold you close in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace and comfort knowing Ken will forever be in His arms and in your hearts.”
“I worked with Ken many years ago. He was always a joy to be around. I know he will be a big loss to your family. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam, and family: Please accept our deepest sympathies. May God bless you all.”
“Pam and family, please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your your loss. Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. “
“I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.””
“Pam and family, Ken and I became fast friends over the last year because of our mutual love of fishing. I will always cherish the memories of catching rockfish together and swapping fish stories out on the Chesapeake Bay. He had a lust for life that made him a joy to be around. I am proud to say that he was my friend, if only for a short time. He was one of a kind and will be missed by all of the people whose lives he touched. My heart goes out to you during this time of profound sorrow.”
“Buzz, Pam and Jane, Carol and I are truly sorry for your loss, and our prayers are with you and your family. “
“Your Family are in my prayers and thoughts. May God help your family during this loss.”
“Im am so sorry to hear of Ken’s pasing. He is now in the Lord’s hands. Please take comfort in knowing tht he is watching over you now. He was a friend and fishing partner. He is missed. May God Bless you all. “
“To the family of Ken Shelly, thought we have never met I have known and worked with Ken for a several years and no words can express my feelings for your loss. Ken, Dickie, Marty and I were fish’n buddies and worked together and it feels like I just saw him yesterday. My family’s thoughts and prayer’s are with you and yours….”
“Buzz and family, I was so sorry to hear about Ken. I hope that time will ease the pain you feel today and that your memories will fill your heart with joy and bring a smile to your face. Dorian”
“We are so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. We are sending all of you our strength and prayers during this difficult time.”
“My sincerest condolences. Ken’s kind smile will missed so much throughout the hallways of Wyle. Lifting you up in prayer… “
“My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kenny will be greatly missed by many, he was a great man. Just know that if you need anything I am here for all of you, always. I am praying for all of you. God Bless, Love Debi”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam and family – We are praying God’s strength and your memories will comfort you. “
“I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. Please let me know what I can do to assist you in any way.”
“Pam, Buzz and Family, I am so sadden to hear about Ken’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this diffcult time. Ken was a great co-worker and he will be greatly missed by all. “
“Pam, Buzz, and Jane, My heart goes out to you and your family as you deal with this most sudden loss. I can think of no words to ease your pain, but I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.”
“Buzz and family, my condolences on the loss of Ken.”
“Buzz and Jane – I individually and personally share in your grief and loss. As the apostle Paul states “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep”. Today I weep for the Shelley family as does your friends in Sustainment Engineering and especially Jacksonville. Rick “
“Miss Jane, Mr Buzz, Penny, Jenny, Pam and Family, I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Kenny. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this diffucult time. My God watch over you all.”
“To all of Ken’s Family, I am so so sorry for your loss! Ken was a great person and I truly wish that you all did not have to go through this difficult time. My thoughts and Prayers are with you all.”
“Mrs. Shelley – our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss… Love to you all!”
“There really are no words! I am so sorry for Ken’s departure, and I ask God to comfort you until you are ready to carry on with memories. You take all the time you need, for your friends will be there as your crutch. My prayers are with you.”
“Buzz, Jane, and Pam, Beverly and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and standing by to provide any assistance needed. “
“Buzz, Jane, and Pam, We were deeply saddened to hear about Kenny and will always fondly recall seeing him at all the LHS band events. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. “
“Pam & Family, I am so sorry to hear of your husband Ken. Take each day as it comes and God will walk with you. Take care of yourself & cherish the memories. XO”
“Buzz & Jane, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.”
“I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I joked around with Ken a lot. He was a type of person who had a wonderful sense of humor. Pam, Buzz, Jane & family I am praying for comfort for all of you in this very difficult time of grief. Ken will be missed greatly. “
“Buzz, Jane, Pam, and extended family – Please know that you are in my prayers. May the peace of the Lord be with you.”
“We’re so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.”
“Buzz and Pam I am so very sorry for your loss. Ken was a good friend and a really Super person. I wish there was some way to ease your sorrow but all I can offer is my prayers and to let you know I am here if you need me. “
“Pam, I am truly sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“My prayers go out to your family during this difficult time. I know Ken will truly be missed, but know that he is in God’s hands and He will continue to watch over all of you.”
“We were saddened to hear of your tragic and untimely loss. Please know that we are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Ed & Linda Mitchell”
“I am so very sorry for your loss. He will be missed. You are in our prayers. He was a great friend.”
“Mr. & Mrs Shelly Jenny and Penny, We are so sorry to hear of your Kenny’s passing. May the good memories of him help you through your time of greif. You all are in our prayers.”
“Pam, Buzz, Jane and Family. I’m so sorry for your loss. Ken will be missed.”
“Pam, Buzz and family – it is truly so sad to hear about Ken’s untimely passing. Many condolences and prayers for strength for you and your family are coming from Wyle TDS.”
“We are very sorry and saddened to hear of Ken’s passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.”
“On behalf of the whole Haggard family we are very sorry to hear of Kenny’s passing, our thoughts and prayers go out to the whole entire family. May God help all of you through this truly sad time. “
“Buzz, Jane, Pam, and extended family – We pray that the Father will send His Comforter to you, and we stand available to you as you walk this difficult journey…”
“Pam and Family, Please know that your are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of loss.”
“Pam & Family, We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in our prayers during this sad difficult time. “
“My condolences… I have known Kenny and family since 6th grade. I am saddened by this loss! Family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Pam, there are not words to comfort, nor enough time to heal. Know that we will be here for you. Maybe 1 Thessalonians 5:13-18 will help. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. He was obviously a wonderful man who will be greatly missed. May God comfort you.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam and family, My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family. Ken was a great guy who had a wonderful sense or humor. He loved his family so very much and was so proud of his children. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. “
“Pam & family; We were so saddened to hear about your loss. Please know that your family is our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult of times.” “
“Pam, Buzz, Jane, Lauren and family, I’m so sorry to hear about Ken. I am going to miss him. I stuck my head in his office almost every morning on my way to get coffee. We’d talk about family and college basketball mostly. He always brightened my morning. I’m out of town on travel. But please know you are all in my prayers.”
“Buzz and Jane, I have such fond memories of your family. May memories of Ken and the prayers for your family make your loss less heavy to bear.”
“Pam and Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Alicia and Andy both spoke very highly of their “Uncle Ken”. May God help you get through this difficult time.”
“It is so hard to say goodbye to Ken. We talked almost every day, and I could always count on him to give me parenting advice, laugh at whatever stupid topical thing I said, or just reflect on life. (I also valued his opinion on business matters.)In the almost 8 years I have known Ken, he grew to hold a large place in my heart. I will miss him very much. God bless his family and hold Ken in everlasting peace. “
“Ken was a bright spot in everyones life who ever met him. We can never imagine how you must feel.Our prayers are with you and your family. “
“Buzz and Family, We are thinking of you and including you and your family in our prayers often.”
“Kenny was a wonderful man and a great friend. He will be missed by all at Breton Bay.”
“Buzz, Jane and family, Our hearts hurt for your loss. My family and I join with the many others here to offer our love and prayers. “
“Penny and Family…I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. “
“I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.”
“To the Shelly family. We would like to express our deepest condolences to you on Ken’s passing. You and your family are in our prayers during this difficult time. “
“Pam and family: We are so shocked and sad to hear about Ken. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“We are so sorry for your loss. Your extended IHM family will be praying for you all. May God’s love bring you comfort and peace. “
“All of us in the Dallas office are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and we hope that in your faith you are able to find the strength to make it through this difficult time.”
“Buzz&Family – Very sorry to learn of your loss. My deepest condolences.”
“Buzz and family; Our prayers, thoughts, and sympathies are with you and your family. May the love of family and friends comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead. God Bless!”
“Pam, Sydney and Kenny, Please know you are in my prayers. Please don’t hesitate to call on me for anything. May God’s peace surround all of you.”
“We are so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in our prayers.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam & Family, practically everyone in our family has known everyone in your family for so long that the loss of Ken is hard to fathom. No words can make the pain pass but just know that you loved him and he loved you. Our family will keep yours in our prayers. “
“Buzz, Pam, & Jane – Please know that you and your entire family are in the prayers and thoughts of your friends. May God bless each of you with strength and peace.”
“Buzz & family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“Buzz and family – Words cannot express our feelings for your loss. You and all your family are in our prayers.”
“Buzz Jane and family, I was saddened to hear of your loss. Know at this moment your friends and family hold you close in their thoughts and prayers. Nothing can ease the pain of such a loss, but please know we all are thinking of you our prayers are with you.”
“I only met Ken once, but it was obvious how full of life and love he was. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.”
“Buzz & family, Our sincerest condolences to you and yours. Please know that we are thinking of you in your time of great pain, grief and loss.”
“Pam and family, may your loving memories comfort you during this difficult time. It has been years since I taught Sean & Lauren in play school, but please know that you are in my prayers.”
“Buzz, Jane, Pam & Family, you’re all in our daily prayers along with Kenny. We grieve with you but look forward in hope to that time when we’ll see Kenny and all of our loved ones, and enjoy their company once again. May the good Lord stay close to you and comfort you through this difficult time. “
“Pam and kids, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Buzz and family, my deepest sympathies for your loss. You all are in my prayers.”
“My deepest sympathy to you Pam and your children. Also to Kenny, Janey and the girls. It seems to be harder when our loved ones are called to heaven when they are young. Take peace and comfort knowing he is with the Lord. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless”
“I loved Kenny. He was one of my favorite people. We will all miss him. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength.”
“To the entire Shelley Family: Words can not express my shock at the loss of Kenny. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know his “little buddy”, “Murph-Murph”, was there to greet him.”
“Penny, George and family, Very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. “
“Buzz and Jane, We are saddened for your loss. Please rest assured that you and your family are in our deepest prayers. “
“Pam and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Hold tight to all of the memories that you shared and seek support from your family and friends to get you through this. God is watching over you and he provide you with the strength to go on until you meet up again. “
“Buzz, Pam and family, Ken was a great person, an asset to the company as well as a wonderfull family man. We went back a long way in the work force and I am proud that I could call him a friend. He was a good man and I don’t have to tell how much he will be missed.”
“BUZZ AND JANE,OUR DEEPEST SORROW FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON KEN. NO WORDS WILL RELEIVE YOUR SORRROW BUT HE LEFT A WONDERFUL FAMILY FOR YOU TO GIVE YOUR LOVE TO. I ATTENDED THE FUNERAL SERVICE, BUT DIDN’T HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO TALK TO YOU. JESSIE AND I SEND YOU AND THE FAMILY OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. LARRY & JESSIE MICHELON”
“We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. “
“Pam and Family: Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. “
“I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. “
“I was saddened to hear of Ken’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”
“Oh Pam – My heart just sank when I realized this was you. I can’t tell you how sad I am for what you and your family is going through. I’d love to take you to lunch if you want to talk to someone. I know our paths haven’t crossed in many years but I remember our friendship fondly. My email is laurielee.mueller@gd-ais.com “
“Buzz and family, I almost could not believe my eyes the other day when I saw Ken’s obituary in the newspaper. I am SO SORRY for your loss. I remember the great times working with him and he was such a great person. Always so vibrant and loving life! Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers, always…. Dawn (Patterson) Wood”