Rita Louise Abell
July 7, 1949 ~ October 25, 2010
Services:
A Memorial Service will be held on Friday, October 29, 2010 at 5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will be private.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Friday, October 29, 2010 from 4:00-5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD.
Rita Louise Abell, 61, of California, MD passed away on the morning of October 25, 2010 after a valiant fight with cancer. Born July 7, 1949 in Bethesda, MD, she was the daughter of the late Evelyn Marie Hansen and Robert Henry Schlipp, Sr, USN Ret., of South Haven, MI. After living in numerous places around the world, her military family was stationed at the Naval Air Station, Patuxent River, MD. In 1964, Rita met her future husband, Thomas ‘Wayne’ Abell, Sr. Wayne and Rita were married on May 1, 1966 at Holy Face Church in Great Mills, MD and made California, MD their permanent residence and started their family. Rita is survived by her husband, Wayne; son, Thomas Wayne Abell Jr. (Jaime) of Mechanicsville, MD; daughter, Barbara Marie Buscher (Andy) of Bushwood, MD; her grandchildren, Alexandra Paige Buscher of Bushwood, MD; Chase Christopher Buscher of Bushwood, MD; her sister, Susan Marie White (Lee) of South Haven, MI; her brother, Robert Henry Schlipp Jr. (Brenda) of Henderson, NV; numerous loved nieces, nephews, and sisters and brothers in-law. Rita enjoyed supporting the Navy at the Naval Air Systems Command as a defense contractor with Eagle Systems. Rita believed that success was to be a good wife, mother, ‘Nana’, and friend, which she easily achieved. Over her lifetime, she has enjoyed bowling, softball, darts, and more recently, horseshoes. Every person that had the pleasure to know Rita was touched by her sincerity and pure heart.The family will receive friends on Friday, October 29, 2010 from 4:00-5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a Memorial Service will be held at 5:00 PM with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations be made in honor of Rita Abell, to Georgetown Lombardi Comprehensive Cancer Center, Office of Advancement, 3300 Whitehaven St., NW Ste 4000, Washington, DC (or via web/phone 800-424-2795) and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“My Mother. (reading from service) My Mother told me that she knew at a very young age all she wanted from life was to be a good wife and mother. At 16 years of age she became of wife, and at 19 years of age she became a mother for the first time. So fortunate was I, to have her as a mother. My brother, Tommy, and I grew-up in a very unique and treasured environment. Our Mom didn’t raise us with materialistic things, we were raised with love. Mom was the happiest when we were all together, just visiting. Mom can now rest in peace, knowing that she well exceeded her goal of being a good wife and mother; she was also a true friend, aunt, sister-in-law, and Nana. My Mom opened her heart to everyone that she met… well, wait, not true if you were in the express lane with more than the allotted item count, and geez, don’t even think about writing a check! Or if you were in the left lane going less than 10 miles over the speed limit! Seriously, Mom’s house was the house that always had the hugs, sweet cereals, laughs, kool-aid, kisses, and the cookies – oh, the chocolate chip cookies! And I couldn’t even count how many of our friends adopted Mom as their own! Our lives were never the same after December 24, 2009. Mom fought a tough fight. She never complained, she never had self-pity; she was extremely brave, and fought with conviction and heart. She was a woman that many admired. On October 25, 1973 she brought me into this world, and on October 25, 2010, I watched her leave it. I find beauty in that, and lots of symbology. I believe that Mom was tired, and knowing that she wasn’t able to care for her family to her standards, she left on my birthday to assure me that she was comfortable and ready for me to care for the family from now on. Mom operated in a very simple way… you get what you give. And by the enormous amount of love, support, and care that we feel right now, it is confirmed that she gave lots of love, support, and care. I hope that we all can take those wonderful attributes of Rita’s and continue to live life with them, that way her legacy will go on forever. “
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara, and grandchildren, we wish we had more words of wisdom and comfort, we are just so sorry to hear about Rita. We loved her very much. She is in God’s hands now and will not suffer anymore. And we are blessed with her memories. “
“I LOVE OUR FAMILY, AND MANY THANX, TO EVERYONE’S SUPPORT, WE WILL PREVAIL AND HAVE THE STRENGHT TO GET THROUGH THIS TOUGH TIME, I LOVE YOU ALL THANK YOU. THE SCHLIPP FAMILY.”
“Wayne, Barbara and Tommy we are saddened to hear of Ms. Rita’s passing. She was without a doubt one of the nicest, kindest , happiest peoiple to ever walk the face of this earth. God has called her home to be with him, indead he needed a special angel for himself. You all now have a special Angel of your own. Ms. Rita had a huge heart of gold, and she will be missed dearly. Ms. Rita may you rest in peace, and may God Bless you and accept you in his kingdom. The family is in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Rita lost her battle with cancer today but she will never loose the love and respect that her family and friends that were touched by this incredible woman have for her. We lost an Angel on earth here today but the heaven’s are rejoicing and having a party. Everyone throws a party when someone so special is coming to join them. You will be missed and I can assure you that this world was a better place because you were apart of it. I will continue to pray for Wayne and your family to find peace in this very difficult time. Thank you for everything but most of all for your beautiful soul and contagious smile! “
“Wayne and family our sincere condolences to all of you at this sad time, We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Wayne and Joan”
“Many nights we had fun shooting each other.Taking turns cooking for the other team made many nights more enjoyable to play.We are sorry for your loss and are thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.”
“Wayne and family, We were sorry to hear about Rita’s passing. Keeping you close in our thoughts and prayers.”
“” God has picked another beautiful flower from His garden on earth for His bouquet in Heaven” Rita has been and will be truely missed by all who knew her.”
“Wayne & Family: On behalf of the Norris family, our sympathy on the loss of Rita. God needed another angel and called her home. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.”
“We would like to express our sincere and deepest sympathy to you all and are honored to have had the pleasure of having Rita in our lives. There are no words to take away the sadness but hope you will find strength in her many memories and comfort in knowing she is no longer in pain. Rita’s beauty will shine forever.”
“So sorry for your loss. Rita was a sweetheart. “
“Rita was a lifelong friend who always made us feel better whenever we saw her. We will miss her beautiful smile and her kind heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with all who loved her.”
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara and family, I’m sorry so for your loss and wish you the very best during this difficult time. I told my mother today that I remember your mother’s smile the most. What a beautiful thing to remember about anyone! My condolences, Dennis dmnepini@yahoo.com 910-431-2286″
“Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. The world lost a great woman! Hold those memories close to your heart!”
“Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. She always had such a bright smile and was a pleasure to be around. I know she thought the world of you as you did her so keep the happy memories you had of her and continue to share them with Alex and Chase. Rita will be missed by many, May she rest in peace.. “God Bless””
“It was a complete honor to have worked with Rita. Not only was she funny, caring, professional, witty, etc… She ALWAYS had a way to make everyone feel special. May God welcome you home with open arms Rita…. You deserve Heaven.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy, and those beautiful grandchildren – our thoughts and prayers have been and continue to be with you. Rita was one of the nicest people on earth and it has been our privilege to know her. She made the world a better place for everyone.”
“Wayne and family, No words can express how sorry I was to hear about Rita’s passing. I’ll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Our condolences go out to the family. Rita will be missed dearly!”
“Wayne, I am so sorry to hear about Rita. She was a great lady and I enjoyed every minute we spent together playing Horseshoe. She will truly be missed.”
“Wayne, Barbara, and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Rita was such a lovely person. You are in my prayers.”
“Wayne, I’m so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.”
“As I read through all of these messages, I am overcome with emotion. It brings a sense of peace, and makes me so proud to be Rita’s daughter. She was a remarkable person, and I pray I grow into a woman that is loved and respected as much as she is… She was angel while she was here on Earth and she will continue to be while in Heaven. Thanks to you all, the support is what gets me through the minutes… xoxo”
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara- I love you all. You are like my family – Rita as much of a mother as my own. Prayers and Hugs for your loss. “
“Wayne & Family: What a Wonderful Woman! She graced the halls of ATC. Her smile was enough to change any rotten mood. She looked after us like we were her on children. Every Christmas she would make cookies for all of the controllers. We would look anxiously forward to her cookies! She bent over backwards to do more than was asked of her. She would stand up for us even if it wasn’t her place. She was a beautiful, wonderful, sweet woman! Any woman would be lucky to be half the woman she was! She was like our mother away from home! She was my friend! It was my privilege to know her, to work with her and to love her! You are in my prayers!”
“Wayne, our prayers and throughts or with you and your family.”
“Wayne and family I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“To the Abell Family: You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“Wayne and family – We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.”
“Dear Wayne, Barbara, Tommy & family: Rita made this world a better place especially with her infectious laugh and beautiful smile. She made everyone feel extra special. I will miss her deeply. Hugs to you and rest in peace my dear sweet friend. Love, Connie & Ron Nepini”
“I love Rita so very much. We had many laughs as we worked together, mostly when we were deciding what to have for lunch. Turtle sundaes were our favorite. She always talked so lovingly about Wayne, Tommy & Barbara. I will truly miss my sweet friend. Sending love and prayers to all her family. Much love, Claudette”
“Wayne and family, Our sympathy and prayers go out to you all at this time. I will never forget serving at your wedding mass and the joy on your faces. I rest in the knowledge of Rita’s peace with our Lord from now on. You will always hold a place in our hearts.”
“To the Abell Family…to know that we will never see someone again whom we love dearly is a hard to accept. Please try to find some comfort in your loving thoughts of Rita. I am truly so sorry for your loss.”
“Wayne, Barbara,and Tommy….. So sad about Rita’s passing. The entire Abell family are in our deepest thoughts and prayers. Rita was one of the sweetest people that we were fortulate to know and she will be greatly missed. We will never forget Rita of her kind ways and being that happy person we all enjoyed being around. May she rest in peace. “God Bless”.”
“Barbara, I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. My own Mom passed away some two years ago. My prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you please don’t hesitate to let me know. “
“To Rita Abell Family, I never had the pleasure of meeting you; I am deeply saddened by your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Although it is difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort tomorrow. Rita… she was a wonderful person, I only knew Rita for a brief period of time, she put things in perspective for me a few times with her care-free and charismatic personality, always had a smile in her face, that was Rita. I will forever remember her kind ways and her sincere smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. ~ Rita, you will be missed. “
“Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Your strength and love has been inspirational. I’m glad she had the ‘little things’. I am glad you all had the little things. You and your family are in the Barkhimer prayers. “
“To you all, “God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered “come to me.” Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best”.” May you keep the memories close at heart. “
“Dearest Wayne, Barbara, Tommy, Alex, Chase, and family, I will miss Rita’s courage, smiles and laughter, her passion for life, to dance and celebrate the smallest victories, and her ability to always find the good in others. She loved her family so much. Rita told me that “they were her smiles”. I was honored to have known her, and called her my friend. My deepest sympathy to the entire Abell family. With love and care, Karen”
“Uncle Wayne, Barb and Tommy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Rita was such an amazing person and I love her so much. She is now an angel above us and will always be watching over all of you.”
“Rita was always such a sweet lady. I played ball with her at the Country Tavern years ago, and enjoyed her friendship ever since. She will be missed but not forgotten. My prayers and throughts are with the entire family. God Bless you all.”
“Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. She will be truly missed. “
“Wayne,Barbara,Tommy I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You guys are a great family. Love You, “
“Wayne and family. So sorry to hear about Rita,s passing. Connie had kept me up to date on her and I always had in her my thoughts. She was a fun horsehoe player and a good one. My team who use to play out of 235 Diner has great a great memory of her playing us there. She did have a great smile and I can still see her dancing at last years horsehoe banquet. She definately enjoyed life.”
“I was sad to hear about Rita. I know she fought so hard and I have been praying for her for over a year. I had the pleasure of working with Rita. She was one of the sweetest ladies I will ever know. Your loss will be great, I know. But, remember, the memories will last forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Pop Pop, Barbara, Andy, Alex and Chase. Mike and I are so sorry for your lost. Nana was so sweet and caring. I’m so glad I had the time to visit with her at Chases soccor game and birthday party. I will always remember her with her feet in the pool and her telling me good bye and I love you. I’m so glad you all had dinner together on Sunday to celerbrate your birthdays. God had his way in bringing you all together one last time before calling Nana home. My thoughts and prayer are with you today and everyday until time can make you feel better. Love you all, Miss Janet “
“My deepest sympathy to Rita’s family. I first met Rita in the Spring of 1996 at the Customer Service Team at Pax. What a wonderful person she was. I knew right from the start that we would become great friends. She was a joy to be around. No more suffering Rita. Rest in Heaven Rita, you’ve earned it.”
“Barbara & Family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Although I did not personally know your mother, what I have read about her is amazing. She seemed like such a wonderful lady. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Wayne and family, I am so sorry for your loss. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Rita was a very special lady and will be greatly missed. “
“Abell Family: May God bless you all, and show you comfort during this time. Rita was a special person that I met through a co-worker. She was so full of life, laughing, making others laugh, always had a smile on her face. It was a true honor to know her, and she will be deeply missed. May God Bless all of you, as I will keep you in my prayers.”
“Very sorry to hear about Rita. What a wonderful lady she was and just a joy to know! May all of the good times be a comfort in your time of sorrow.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family–we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Rita was a lovely lady and will be truly missed. She has been in our prayers constantly and while it is so hard to lose someone dear, our Lord needed her with him and she will now be free of pain and smiling down on her beautiful family and will remain in everyone’s hearts forever.”
“Wayne, Barbara and family. Our deepest condolences go out to you all with the passing of Rita. Rita was a wonderful person who brought happiness and joy to so many lives. The kindness and love she showed to everyone was infectious and she will be missed dearly by all of us.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy & Family, I am grateful to have known such an extraordinary person. She is beautiful in every sense of the word. Her heart was so full of love for all of you. We pray that you find peace through this heartache and know she is loved. We will never forget her kindness, her smile, and the way she reached out to us during our difficult times. “
“Barbara & Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Rita was a wonderful lady who always had a smile on her face. I will never forget her kindness and excitment over the birth of my two children and how she sent gifts for them after they were born. I think she was so excited since our oldest, our daughters were only a month apart being born. She was a good friend to my Mom and we will never forget her. You all are in my prayers.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family. You have my deepest condolences. Rita was a wonderful person and will be sadly missed. She will be in all of our hearts forever. Time will heal you and memories will be cherished. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Wayne and family, Words are of little comfort at a time like this but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Rita was truly a wonderful person and will be sorely missed.”
“Wayne and family, I only knew Rita for 2 years, but she was a very caring and fun lady to be around. I could tell how much she loved you all in that short time I knew her. Hold your memories close. She was a wonderful person.”
“Wayne & Family: Our sympathy on the loss of Rita. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy & family, my heart aches for you guys…Rita was a very special lady & was loved by all who knew her. I have some wonderful memories of her & the times we had working together. She loved her family…called them her “smile”. You all are in our thoughts & prayers.”
“Wayne, I am so sorry to hear the passing of Rita. When I first met her she was so nice and happy go lucky person so I do know that there is a good angel now that god has and she will be looking down on you and your family. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts in prayers. “
“May God grant you peace and healing in this time of grief and loss. Rita always treated us like family and will be truly missed. You are all in our prayers.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. The circumstances that brought our families together over the last few months were not good but whenever we ran into her, Rita was her usual sweet and humble self. She fought as best she could and now her suffering is over. Your hearts will ache for not having her here with you, but hold tight to your memories of a life of happy times.”
“Dear Wayne, Tommy, Barbara and Abell Family, Words can’t convey the sadness I felt yesterday when I heard of Rita’s passing. I’ll always remember her beautiful smile and the freindship that she and your whole family have shown to mine over the past 25 years. Love and Prayers, Carmel, Gene and Family.”
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Rita was a wonderful person and the memories of her will live on forever. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Wayne our thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“To the Abell Family: Rita and I worked together for several years. She was an outstanding and dedicated team member, and always went above and beyond. She always made us laugh and looked for the good qualities in all. Rita loved and enjoyed life but her greatest love was her family. Rest in peace my friend and suffer no more you because you have earned your place in heaven.”
“We send out deepest condolences to Rita’s family. We missed her playing horseshoes this year and will miss her for all the years to come. She was a wonderful lady and a great sportsman in all the games she played. May she now rest in peace. “
“I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers. Rita was a wonderful person. She will be greatly missed by all.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family, There are no words. We are so very sorry for your loss, Rita was a special lady and will be missed greatly.”
“To the whole Abell Family I am so sorry for your lost. Rita, was one of a kind. Know matter where you seen her she alway’s had a smile. She will be missed by many but not forgotten. She is your angel now watching out for all of you.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and the rest of your family, I am deeply saddened by Rita’s passing. I do believe that God has much bigger plans for her. She was the most caring and incredible lady. I will miss her very much!! My thoughts and prayers have been with all of you and still are. Rest in peace Rita.”
“To the Abell Family, you lost an Angel today. She will be missed dearly. Hold the memories of her close to heart.”
“To the Abell family, Rita was without a doubt the nicest, most caring and kindest human being that I have ever known. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very sad time. May God bless you and welcome you with open arms my friend.”
“God bless you all. Rita was a sweetheart. I had the honor of knowing her and working with her for a short period of time. May God shine his love on you all.”
“Wayne & Family, I’m sorry for your loss. Rita was such a friendly person. After you met Rita she was always a friend from that point on. Take care!”
“WAYNE, I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS. RITA WAS A WONDERFUL AND HAPPY PERSON; WE ALL LOVED HER. YOU SHOULD HAVE MANY HAPPY MEMORIES AND THAT’S WHAT SHE WOULD WANT. KNOW HOW MUCH WE ALL WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. LOVE, BRENDA”
“I am filled with heartfelt Sympathies after reading this news. I met Rita on Base many years ago at the CST. We instantly bonded & a wonderful relationship grew both professionally & personally. She made the entire working environment more pleasant & was actually one of those people you just couldn’t wait to see & hear about the latest news. She’d always speak of the Family with much pride & you just knew that she was never lost, but very much in love with Life & the happiness that was nearly contageous while you’d be around her. I wish the Family those continued memories that you nodoubt have & just know that she is definitely among those supreme gentle Spirits that rest in Heaven.”
“I had hoped that Rita was going to beat this…I’d kept imagining messin’ with her again back at her desk and she would be giving me ‘WHAT FER” back at me. Rita was one of those very rare people that when you first meet her, you feel you’ve known her forever. She really took care of us…I could always hear her in somebody’s cube explaining how to process travel orders, vouchers, Micro Soft stuff, etc. I know that was her job but, she had always perform it in a fun but caring manner. Oh how wonderful you were Rita. I’m thinking of the pain her family and friends are going through….I feel the pain as well…but through the pain and tears Rita, I can see your amazing smiling face. I so glad I had the privilege to meet and work with you. I miss you so very much… Ed Schaeffer “
“Wayne, Tommy & Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about Rita’s passing. I no longer live in St. Mary’s but heard the sad news. Rita was one of the greatest people that I have ever had the pleasure to work with. It was an honor to know your wonderful family. You are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of your loss.”
“”Wayne,Tommy,Barbara and family. So sorry for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Rita.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommie and family, We were so sorry to hear about Rita. We know she’s in a better place but it’s stll hard. We only wish we would have been able to see more of you through the years. Just know our love & prayers are with you.”
“Barbara, Tommy and Mr. Abell – words cannot express the sadness I feel for your loss. How many times did your mom take us to skate station or pick us up? How many sleepovers did we have? Or how many shopping trips did she take us on? She was like a second Mom to me. You all have my prayers and love during this difficult time. Love you! “
“Wayne and family, My deepest condolences to you all. Rita has been a friend since high school. I am saddened of her condition and how it could strike such a sweet person. She will always be with you in your hearts and watching over you as your guardian angel. God bless you and your family.”
“Wayne, Keep in mind the great love and happy times you and Rita had together. Wish there was something I could do for you to make this easier. I will keep your family in my prayers.”
“I was so sorry to hear about Rita’s passing. She was a wonderful lady with a huge heart and a great laugh, and the world will not be the same without her. Please know that our thoughts and prayers will be with you all. Take care of each other.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and Family-Lance and I are so sorry to hear about Rita. She will always be remembered to our family for the warmth and welcome she extended us through darts so long ago. Our Dianna was in such loving hands being passed around during those times…You are all in our prayers. “
“Wayne, Tommy, and Barbara,We are so deeply sorry to hear about your loss. Our heart goes out to you and your entire family. There are no words that will make it better or take the pain away. But please know that your mom, wife and friend is and will always be a remarkable and strong person, who will always be in our hearts. She is always full of smiles and hugs. And… “she made the best cookies ever”. If there is anything we can do or anyway we can help you and your family Please ask. Love you guys. “
“Wayne, Barbara, and Tommy, I am so saddened to hear of Rita’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. She was a great lady that will be missed dearly.”
“I cant express how sorry I am for the emptiness and loss to Rita’s family and friends..I wish I had gotten to see her more often than I did. She was a real trooper in this horrible disease, but then Rita was a trooper in everything she did. She will truly be missed. And the only comfort I can give is that she fought the battle with all she had like she did everything in her life, always strong and determined. May you all find peace in knowing Rita’s battle is over and she can now rest comfortably in the arms of our Lord, Jesus Christ. Welcome home Rita.”
“Dear Wayne and Family, It breaks my heart for you all to have to lose someone so special. Her smile always left you feeling like you had one of the best friends you could have in life. She loved you all dearly and I know it will be hard but remember she is in our hearts and that is where she will always be. Love ya Mary Lou and Little Billy “
“Once we went to a new restrauant and afterwards Rita wanted to go get a sundae to get the taste out of her mouth and this from someone who would put buttons in her mouth. Just one of many wonderful memories. I will miss the fun she always brought into simple everyday things. She was a ray of sunshine.”
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara, and my entire family, I feel truly blessed to have had a mother-in-law as special and wonderful as Rita. Even though it was for a short time, my life has forever been touched. I know her love and kindness will always shine down on all of us and she will always be in our hearts.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family,Our condolences to the family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Her memories will help to keep her close to your hearts. May she rest in peace. Clarence and Betty Goddard”
“Wayne, Tommy, Barbara and family. We lost a special neighbor and friend. Now the family and the neighborhood have its own special guardian angel smiling down on us, and she always had a big smile for everyone. We all have our special memories to keep her in our hearts forever. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Rita was of the sweetest of women I’d ever met. Every time I thought how much I loved my sis-in-law, how much fun she was, and her general kindness, I always linked this to her wonderful parents. Her mama’s smile lives on in her children and her warmth (and outstanding cookie baking skills) will never be forgotten.”
“Abell family, I am so sorry for your loss. Rita was one of the most wonderful ladies I have ever met. She will be in our hearts forever…always remember the good times.”
“Wayne, Tommy and Barbara, I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you all know how much I love your family, it’s my second family. I am so glad I came to Chase’s soccer game and got to see Rita that one last time and I recived that big hug from her. I feel I am truly blessed to have know Rita. She brought out the best in everyone. I’m here for whatever you guys need me for, no matter how small it is. Love you all. “
“Barbara, We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. May you treasure all the memories you had with your mom and know that she is forever with you. God Bless. Magen and Lee”
“Barbara, I am sorry to hear this sad news. I always enoyed seeing your mom at the salon. She was always so sweet and positive! This is a sad loss for us here on earth, but a beautiful, wonderful gift to Heaven.”
“Wayne, Tommy & Barbara..my heart goes out to you and you’re in my thoughts & prayers. Rita was a fantastic lady and I know you have a million great memories of her. Her memory lives on and she’s always going to be there with each of you in spirit. God bless…”
“Barbara I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and the family in my prayers and please let me know if you need anything.”
“I am sorry for your loss Tommy. You and the faimly will be in my prayers.”
“Wayne, Barbara and Tommy, no words will make this very difficult time any easier. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We loved “Goofy” and love you all.”
“Barbara and Family, please accept Mike and my condolences of the loss of your mother. Although I only met her once, at your daughter’s birthday party, she seemed to be a very warm and kind person, who enjoyed sharing herself and family with others.”
“Wayne, Barbara and Tommy: I am so sorry for your loss! Ms. Rita was a wonderful wife, mother and Nana. When I transfered to NAS Patuxent River, I considered her my “mom” away from home. She was always a positive and a love filled person. When I was pregnant with my first child, I would stop in her office every morning and we would talk. She would tell me what a joy her kids/grandkids were and all the wonderful times I would have ahead. The morning I delivered, I walked into work to tell her about the doctor’s appointment the day before and started crying. She said “What is wrong?” I told her I was in pain. She said “Let me time your pains! You are in labor. Call the doctor and tell them you are on your way.” I will never forget what a great person she was to me and all the advice she has given me. She will be truely missed! With Love!”
“Wayne and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Always remember all the good time you had together.”
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy, and family. You are in our prayers during this time of loss of Rita. There are no words to express our thoughts and prayers to you but to know that we have a wonderful Lord and Savior. He is there for all of you. With our deepest sympathy.”
“Wayne and familu – As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens. “
“Wayne and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is so hard to lose someone you love so dearly. May God comfort you and give you peace.”
“Wayne, I was very sorry to hear about Rita. I know she was so very loved and will truly remain in everyone’s heart. Trust in God and he will give you and your family peace. We are all missing you and thinking of you daily.”
“Barbara, I’m so sad for your loss but I want to take the opportunity to tell you what a joy it has been to witness the relationship you had with your mom. I loved hearing you talk about planning for her 60th birthday party last year – from then on I always wished to meet her, a woman who inspired you to put so much effort forward just to make her smile! It’s been a blessing and for me, sets a standard – I hope I can be the kind of mom who inspires that kind of love and loyalty in my children. So your mom, although I never met her, remains an inspiration to me. I know you’ll miss her terribly; you and your family are in my prayers. “
“Wayne & Family, Sorry about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. “
“My deepest sympathy goes out to the immediate family, and to the extended family (Mary and Leslie) through whom I met Rita.”
“Barbara, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was such a beautiful lady! I’m thinking of you and your family. ((BIG HUG)). “
“Wayne and Family, I was very saddened to hear of Rita’s passing, my sincere condolences to you and all your family….Tony”
“Tommy, Wayne , Barbara, So sorry for your loss,I’d like to leave this poem I wrote hope it’s some comfort;Going Home, Don’t cry for me when I am gone,I’m just around the corner on my way home ,Don’t cry for me when I’m not there, I had to go home for special care,Don’t cry for me when I am gone ,I’m just over the hill, waiting for you to come home .By, Eileen Mc Dermott..”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May your memories bring you more joy than sadness. “
“To the entire Abell family, We are all saddened by your loss. If you need anything do not hesitate to ask.”
“Brother Wayne and Family, Our hearts break for the lost of Rita. She was such a beautiful person. Our thoughts and prays go out to you all. One thing I do know, she is an angel now looking out for all of us that love her.”
“There are no words I can tell you (Wayne, Barb, Tommy, Andy, Jaime) that you don’t already know. Our last conversation last Friday ended like this “I love you Debbie, I love you too, Rita, Ok, talk to you later for sure.” I love you Wayne, Barb, Tommy, Jaime,and Andy. Talk to you later, for sure! “
“During all these months with all your trials, you are an example to each of us. You show us how to love, regardless of events that take over our lives. Thank you for allowing us to witness the beauty and power of unconditional love. “
“Wayne, Deb and I are very sad to hear of the untimely death of your dear wife Rita (Our cousin). It seems like yesterday that she was this cute little girl with that most unusual voice (accent) that I loved. I wish I could have spent more time getting to know you Rita, and your children Thomas and Barbara but our paths did not cross that often. But someday I hope to see you again when I reach that better place too. In the meantime Rita, I know you will enjoy seeing your mother and father, grandparents, and others now that you have experience God’s great mercy. (Ps.23) God’s peace (Shalom) to you Wayne, Susan, Rob, and children. Cousin Dan & Deborah Dykstra”
“Wayne we are so sorry to hear about Rita passing our condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. Rita was lovely always had a smile and kind word for everyone.I enjoyed playing darts agains her . Rest in Peace Rita.x”
“To the Abell family,I send you my thoughts and prayers. Rita’s warm personality, beauty, strength, humor, and accepting nature was and still is a gift to all who know her. “
“My thoughts & prayers are for all of you. The loss of such a precious, loving person is difficult to bare alone. Lean on those around you. May God’s love comfort you. “
“Barbara, Words seem so inadequate to express the sadness I feel about your mother’s death. Having lost my our mother last year, I understand the pain you’re feeling and my heart is breaking for you. Please know that I am here for you if there is anything I can do. Peace, Prayers and Blessings to you and your family. “
“These condolences are wonderful to read. I smile knowing there are so many people Mom shared her company and beautiful personality with. Mom has a surplus of love she gave unconditionally and I can feel it now as much as ever. I know she will always be closer than a phone call or a visit away, she is right here in all our hearts. Shine On Mom, I love you!”
“Wayne and family, I am so sorry to hear of Rita’s passing. It was just a short time ago I learned she was ill. I met Rita through the horseshoe league and always enjoyed her smile and sense of humor. Heaven has truly gained an angel.”
“Wayne and Family, We send to you our sincere condolences. Rita was a very pleasant person to be around. Time cannot erase beatiful memories of a loved one gone to rest. She will never be forgtten by the ones who loved her best. Your Friends, Fred and Julia”
“Wayne, Barbara and Tommy, Our family has lost another treasure. Rita was one of the sweetest ladies I’ve ever known. She brought such joy to everyone who knew her. Now you have two angels watching over you, Aunt Kay and Rita. God bless you and keep you strong during this difficult time. Bruce and Joan Baker”
“wayne, Barbara, Tommy and Family: A life well lived weaves its gentle pattern on the hearts of all and the world is a lovelier place because one person touched it with warmth and goodness and grace. She reminds us to hold with both hands each precious, glittering moment of our lives. Our heartfelt sympathy.”
“Wayne and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Rita. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Wayne and family; Thinking of you during this most difficult of times and lifting you up in prayer. “
“Wayne, my prayers are with you and your family. we know you loved her, but,God loved her best and took her home to rest. God will Bless you and the family and give you peace to go on with life after the loss of your loved one.”
“Wayne&Family, We are so sorry to hear of Rita’s passing. She truly was loved by many (especially her sister). We ask God to give you strength at this very difficult time. She will always be w/you in many different ways. She will be missed but will always be loved. “
“Barbara, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The tribute to your mom, that you wrote and so courageously read at the service, was deeply touching and beautiful. I encourage you to post it here, so that friends and loved ones that could not attend the service can take comfort in it as well. “
“Wayne, Barbara, Tommy and family — Rita was a very special lady and friend and will be greatly missed. She was an absolute angel in life and is definitely an angel in heaven. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.”
“I had the pleasure and wonderful opportunity of meeting Rita and Wayne through Barbara’s work. She was a very kind individual and I could see why she is so deeply loved by everyone. Much deep condolences to Barbara and rest of her family. “
“Rita was one of earth’s angels. My prayers and love to you, Godfather – and your family.”
“Happy Birthday I miss you girl.”
“Rita, well its two years today .Boy do I miss you.I love you girl.”
“Happy Birthday I miss you.2013”
“Merry Christmas Rita love and miss you.”