Donald Thomas Howard

donald howard

March 14, 1939 ~ November 16, 2010

Services: A Memorial Service will be held in Lexington Park United Methodist Church, Lexington Park, MD on Friday, November 19, 2010 with Pastors Doug and Lori Hays of Lexington Park United Methodist Church officiating. Interment will be private. Visitation: The family will receive friends on Friday, November 19, 2010 from 6:00 PM-7:00 PM in the Lexington Park United Methodist Church Hall, Lexington Park, MD. Reverend Donald T. Howard, 71, of California, MD died Tuesday evening, November 16, 2010, in the Hospice House of St. Mary’s in Callaway, MD. Born March 14, 1939 in Eustis, Florida, he was the son of the late Charles Jefferson Howard, born in Eatonton, Georgia, and Lucille Amanda Howard, born in Jasper, Florida. He graduated from Robert E. Lee High School in Jacksonville, Fl. in 1957, enlisting in the U.S. Navy Air Reserve in April of that year, serving at NARTU Jacksonville, Fl., NAS New Orleans, LA., Andrews Air Force Base, Washington, DC, VP-68 NAS Patuxent River, MD, and VP-62 Jacksonville, FL. After retiring from the Navy in February 1978 as an Avionics Master Chief, Don worked for several defense contractors before accepting a position in November 1980 with Naval Aviation Logistics Center, Patuxent River, MD., retiring from PMA 207 Naval Air Systems Command in November 2000. While working for PMA-207, he met and married Leilani Pearl Watts, his wife of 28 years. Reverend Howard began his ministerial studies at Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, DC in June 1989, graduating in July 1994. He was ordained by the Baltimore-Washington Conference of the United Methodist Church at the National Cathedral in Washington DC in June 2002. He was first appointed as a local pastor to St, George Island UMC, MD., in August 1992, serving there nearly ten years. In addition to this appointment, he served First Friendship UMC, Ridge, MD., Olivet UMC, Lusby, MD., and Howard Chapel-Ridgeville UMC, Mt. Airy, MD. He retired from the ministry in June 2007. Don is survived by his devoted wife, Leilani Pearl Howard, of California, MD; his brothers, Stephen C. Howard of Dunn, NC and David J. Howard of Pensacola, Fl.; his loving children, Susan Clarke, of the Sailing Vessel S/V Calypso of Marina Del Rey, CA, Leroy M. McCarty, of Overland Park, KS; Karl O. Howard, of Shepherd AFB, Wichita Falls, TX and Michelle L. Oyama, of Charlottesville, VA. He is also survived by his four grandchildren, Shelby and Jacob Miller, and Austin and Jenna McCarty. A memorial service will be held at Lexington Park United Methodist Church this Friday, November 19, 2010 by Pastors Doug and Lori Hays of Lexington Park UMC. The family will receive fellowship with loved ones from 6:00-7:00 p.m. in the church hall, after which time the memorial service will begin in the sanctuary at 7:00 p.m. Since Don wishes to be cremated his ashes will be interned at St. George Island UMC cemetery in a private family service. Contributions may be made to the Hospice House of St. Mary’s, the American Cancer Society, St. George Island UMC, Piney Point, MD., or Lexington Park UMC, Lexington Park, MD.

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  1. “When Don was Pastor of St. George Island Methodist Church he would call me if he had copier or printer problem and I would go out and try to fix them. On one visit Don invited me to start attending church and I humbly informed him that if I walked in the plaster ceiling would fall off and hurt a lot of people. A few months later he called again for help. While there he invited me into the church to view some work that had recently been done After viewing everything we went outside and Don locked the door. He then said “Did you notice none of the plaster fell from the ceiling.” I have lost a good friend, but, God has given a deserving man a beautiful home. “

  2. “PASTOR HOWARD WAS THE BEST PASTOR-WHEN HE VISITED ME IN THE HOSPITAL HE SAID-I CAME TO SEE YOU BUT I ONLY HAVE A FEW MINUTES-BUT HE STAYED AND LISTEN-AND I WILL NEVER FORGET HIS KIND WORDS-I WILL MISS YOU-ENJOY HEAVEN”

  3. “Joe and I both worked with Don over the years at Patuxent River. He has been my “email buddy” for years and I will miss him for sure. May God bless your family and provide comfort, peace and strength.”

  4. “Don, You said this day would come soon and it did. Your love for the Lord took you through these final days with great faith and peace. Now you have your reward for a life well lived. Condolences from us part of the Lee Class 1958”

  5. “I remember Don from football at Lee. May he rest in peace.”

  6. “You fought the good fight and now it is time for you to rest in his arms. My condolences to his wife and family. Leesie Knight Snell Robert E. Lee Class of 1958”

  7. “I have known Don since we were young boys in Lakeshore, Jacksonville, Fl. Don lived in a home directly behind ours. I remember the local baseball and stick ball games we enjoyed. I have not seen Don since 1956 but our friendship endured. My deepest sympathies to the Howard family. Billy Clinton Winter Park, Florida”

  8. “Our Thoughts and Prayers are with His Family. Carl Cochran, Lee class of 1958.”

  9. “I worked with Don many years ago and really enjoyed those years. I have thought of him often over the years but had lost touch with him. I can certainly say that he did not miss his calling. His entire family is in my prayers.”

  10. “I worked with Don for quite a few years. After his retirement I attended a service at St. George Island Methodist Church. I could see his congregation was very fond of him. May he rest in peace.”

  11. “Don was such a wonderful person. I think everyone who knew him loved him. Vick thought the world of him. St. George’s Island Methodist Church lost a great pastor when Don left. Don will always have a special place in my heart. Leilani, if there is anything that I can do for you or the kids, please let me know. My love and prayers go out to you and yours. God Bless you all. He will take good care of Don until we all meet again. Love you.”

  12. “PASTOR DON WAS SO TRULEY SPECIAL TO ME HE WAS THERE AT A POINT IN MY LIFE WHEN I NEEDED A FRIEND HE SHARED THE GIFT OF CHRIST WITH ME AND MY CHILDREN MY DAUGHTER MOLLY WAS THE FIRST PERSON HE BABTIZED AND I FOLLOWED MY LAST TIME WITH HIM HE TOLD ME HE DIDN’T HAVE MUCH TIME LEFT AND HE LOVED ME AND I LOVED HIM ALSO I DIDN’T HEAR OF HIS PASSING TILL A FEW DAYS LATER WHICH I WAS UNABLE TO ATTEND I’M VERY SORRY FOR YOUR FAMILYS GREAT LOSS. CAROLANN GOD BLESS”

  13. “Don was Pastor at the ST Georges church where he ministered to many members of my family. His warmth and kindness was the trademark of this good man. My deepest condolences to the Howard Family. He will be truly missed by all.”

  14. “To all of our wonderful friends and family, Words cannot begin to express our deepest gratitude for the showers of love, prayers, and support you have shown us. Thank you so much for your expressions of comfort during this difficult time…we shall never forget your kindness and love. To my beloved husband, You were always on my mind and you will always be in my heart. I love and miss you so much… It hurts to be without you but my heart is full of joy for our years together. Thank you for the tenderness you’ve shown me- thank you for our deep, deep love and commitment. I cherish all of our wonderful memories and it brings me such happiness and peace to know that you are now “feasting at the table”. You are now well, happy, and FREE! All my love forever, Lani “

  15. “Your Baby-Girl misses you so much. Our depth of sorrow is only overcome by the joy of knowing that you are safe and comforted in the Master’s arms at last…. no more suffering or pain. You were such an amazing example of strength and courage to me and I will love and cherish you forever. I love you, Daddy! Shell “


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