Frederick Eugene "Gene" Merson
October 25, 1947 ~ November 26, 2010
Services:
A Memorial service will be held on Monday, December 6, 2010 at 5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD with Fr. Keith Woods officiating. Interment will be private.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Monday, December 6, 2010 from 4:00-5:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD.
Frederick Eugene “Gene” Merson, 63, of Leesburg, VA, formerly of St. Mary’s County, MD died November 26, 2010 at Cornwall Hospital in Leesburg, VA. Born October 25, 1947 in Leonardtown, MD, he was the son of the late Joseph Lewis and Claudia (Guy) Yates. Mr. Merson was the loving husband of Dana (Martin) Merson whom he married on September 16, 1995 in Occoquan, VA. Mr. Merson is also survived by his children; Duane Merson of Ft. Lauderdale, FL, Gina Merson of Leesburg, VA, Melissa M. Merson of White Plains, MD and Derek Merson of Waldorf, MD, as well as three grandchildren and many beloved nieces and nephews. He is survived by his siblings; Robert "Frankie" Merson, Dale Yates, Lewis Yates, and Jennifer Yates all of Clements, MD. Mr. Merson was preceded in death by his sister Claudia Lynn Burroughs. He graduated from Chopticon High School before joining the Army, serving in Vietnam where he honorably served as a Green Beret and appointed to the Airborne Special Forces Division. He was extremely proud to have fought for our country. Subsequent to his military tenure, for approximately forty years, Mr. Merson was highly successful in the field of secure defense telecommunications, federal contracting and procurement practices, and biometric identity management. Mr. Merson was extremely well respected in his field. His most recent position was Director of Federal Sales for Endace Network Systems Inc., in Chantilly, Virginia. Other employer included Nortel Networks, Timeplex Federal Systems, Codex and Motorola. His passion outside of work was boating, which is how he met his surviving wife Dana, and held a U.S. Coast Guard Captains license. The family will receive friends from 4:00-5:00 PM, Monday, December 6, 2010 in the Mattingley- Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a memorial service will be held at 5:00 PM with Fr. Keith Woods officiating. For friends and business colleagues in the Northern Virginia area, the family will also be holding and additional memorial service in early January, with more details to follow. In lieu of flowers Gene would appreciate contributions to the Veterans Administration, 810 Vermont Avenue Northwest, Washington, DC 20011, and the Leonardtown Vol. Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 299, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“Jenny,Louis, Dale and Frankie: My heart goes out to you on your loss. I am so sorry. I didn’t see much of him, as he moved away a long time ago. Lynn and I used to talk about him a lot. He was a gentleman. He is at peace now and will be his children’s guardian angel. If I can be of help, please call. Love to you all, Mary Agnes”
“I can’t tell you how shocked I was to hear the news. Gene and my father Carl were the best of friends and I had the pleasure of spending time with Gene growing up. My family sends our deepest condolence to your family. Now Dad and Gene are together once again!”
“We are shocked and extend our deepest condolence to Frankie, Jenny and Gene’s entire family.”
“We are sad to learn about this. We extend our heartfelt love, thoughts and prayers to all the family during this most difficult time. “
“My condolences to Gene’s family. Gene was a great American, a top level patriot, and a good friend. While I had lost contact with him for a number of years, I was blessed to see him again back in July. I will miss him.”
“To my Dear Friend, Gene…I will miss you terribly my old friend. My utmost heartfelt condolences to the entire family, his lovely wife, and most especially to Gina…he spoke of you often with the greatest of a father’s love… God Bless You All….”
“My sincerest condolences to Frankie and all of Gene’s family. May his soul rest peacefully with our Lord and with loved ones gone before him. Rest in peace my friend.”
“To the Merson and Yates family Gene and I went to school together, I was shocked when I heared the news. GOD has taken another angel into his arms.”
“My thoughts and prayers are out to the Merson Family in their time of sorrow. May the peace of the Lord comfort you. Gene, you will be missed.”
“Jenny, Frankie and family, Our heartfelt thoughts, prayers and condolences are with you all during this difficult time. “
“Wishing the family and extend my condolences to Gene’s entire family. He was a great person to work with at Eagle Systems “
“To the Merson Fanily: So shocked to hear this! Gene was proud to wear our Country’s uniform and he made us proud to know him. You are in my prayers and thoughts…”
“My deepest sympathy. I worked with Gene when we were at Codex. He was always a great guy and a class act. I heard from him this summer and we were going to get together when he next had a trip to Boston. He will be missed by his many friends from Codex.”
“Our deepest condolence. We love you Melissa.”
“I have fond memories of Gene from my childhood. We are praying for the family and please call if there is anything we can do.”
“This picture is exactly how I think of Gene – it’s perfect! He was a rare, exceptional individual and I feel lucky to have worked for him. My deepest sympathy. “
“We extend our deepest sympathy at such a sad time. Please know we are thinking of you, Dana and Gina.”
“A soldier and civilian patriot, who gave professionally, personnaly, and cared for all, he will not be forgotten for who he was and what he gave to others.”
“I truly believe that everything happens for a reason. Heaven must have needed Gene for something much greater than anyone could comprehend. I send my deepest condolences to anyone who may have suffered during his passing. Sadness is temporary, but Gene’s life in heaven will be eternal.”
“I am Gene’s brother-in-law (Dana’s brother)and I have been in touch with many of his friends and colleagues from his personal, professinal and military life. I have been overwhelmed by the tributes to and about Gene. I obviuosly did not know well the man described in those, but now I do. He was obviously a man of honor,of the highest ethics and morality; a man who could be trusted. Gene was a great friend, father, colleague and someone whom you would want on and by your side in need and at war.”
“Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Melissa. I know how much you’re going to miss your dad. May the Lord give you strength, comfort and peace in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“We were saddened to hear that Gene had passed. Our prayers and deepest condolences go to all the family. Lenny, Mary B., Cassie & Rob Cheseldine”
“My deepest condolences go out to Dana, Gina & the rest of his family. Although we ended our working relationship 20 years ago when I retired from the Army, we had stayed in weekly contact since that span. Gene was a true patriot, hard worker and a wonderful friend to have. Ron Sage”
“With my wife Janet we offer our sincere condolences at this trying time. We knew Gene well in our younger days and always enjoyed meeting up with hi. Always a good time and much laughter. Once again with much sympathy and understanding, Louis Buckler”
“Gene’s Family: I am so sorry. Gene was a wonderful and caring friend. I’ll miss his bigger than life smile and warm personality. My thoughts are with you. “
“Sympathy goes out to the family of Gene. Went to school with Gene many years ago and can still remember his warm smile and nice greeting. RIP Gene”
“My thoughts and prayers are with you “ALL”. May you find comfort in knowing that Gene is at peace. Cherish and remembers all the memories and good times. It will Help get pass all of the days ahead. May God Bless you All. “
“My deepest sympathy goes out to Gene’s family. He has been a positive influence in my life from the day we met. I will miss him. “
“Jenny,Frankie and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May your memories of Gene give you comfort and peace. God Bless you all.”
“Our Condolences. “
“To the Merson/Yates Families: You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“We are so very sorry for your loss. Gene was a terrific person and will be missed very much. We will keep you all in our prayers.”
“I only worked with Gene for one year 2009 – 2010. Gene was a good man and an American Patriot. God bless you Gene. Semper Fi!”
“My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.”
“Shocked to hear the news of Gene’s passing. We shared some wonderful experiences growing up together and I always regarded him as a great friend. I send my most sincere condolences to his family.”
“Frankie, Yates family, Dana his Wife and children: I am so sorry I could not attend the memorial for Genie. We go a long way back as cousins and friends. May God bestowe his many blessings upon you and your family, as well as his wife and children.”
“Gene was of the highest morale standards and ethics. A positive Influence on myself and all those that he came in contact with. He loved his family, friends and a good challenge in the office. We talked and emailed regularly and I will dearly miss him. Joe”