Philip Donald "Donnie" Bassford
February 18, 1958 ~ December 3, 2010
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, December 8, 2010 at 11:00 AM in St. John's Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, December 7, 2010 from 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM by Deacon Lou Koeniger.
Philip Donald Bassford, Jr. 52 of Hollywood, MD passed away December 3, 2010, at the Hospice House, in Callaway, MD. Born February 18, 1958 in St. Mary’s Hospital Leonardtown, MD he was the son of Philip Donald Bassford, Sr. whom preceded him in death and Mary Louise Bassford of Hollywood, MD. Donnie is survived by Cathy Bassford whom he was formerly married to and has remained friends with and step children; Chris Hammett (Shelly) of Hollywood MD and Tammy Owen (Robbie) of Mechanicsville, MD, siblings; Janice Dixon, Terry Derby, Debbie Fenstermaker and Kristi Kovich all of Hollywood, MD. He is also survived by step grandchildren; Jessica White, Kayleen Owen and Dylan Owen. Donnie graduated from Chopticon High School, he was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County and worked for Taylor Plumbing & Electric, Inc. as a Plumber and has been self employed for thirty six years. Donnie loved fishing, crabbing, playing horseshoes, watching the Redskins and having lunch and dinner with his family. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, December 7, 2010 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM by Deacon Lou Koeniger. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday December 8, 2010 at 11:00 AM in St. John’s Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Pallbearers will be Chris Hammett, Freddie Fenstermaker, Chris Derby, Jamey Bassford, Michael Curley and Mike Derby. Honorary Pallbearers will be Corey Dennee, Brandon Dennee, Ricky Goldsmith, Melissa Curley, Jenny Pierce and Amy Derby. Contributions in memory of “Donnie” can be made to Hospice of St. Mary’s. P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650 or the St. John’s Building Fund, 43950 St. John’s Road, Hollywood, MD 20636.
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“Donnie, my little bro, I am going to miss you so much. I am happy that you are now at peace with the Lord and that you will have no more pain and suffering. You meant the world to me and I have all the memories in my heart that we have shared together.I will see you again my dear brother. Rest in peace, Love Janice “
“MaryLou, I remember oystering with Donnie when I first got out of the Army. We had a lot of good times. You and the family are in our prayers.”
“My brother….I am so deeply saddened and do not have words to express my sadness. I love you and will miss you so much. My heart aches and I have so much I would still like to say. You have fought so many battles I often said you had nine lives. Little did I know you only had three and so fought to give up the last one. You were a strong and giving man but always had that tough “Bassford” attitude. A trait that I have inherited whether I like it or not. Look down on all of your sisters and dear mother…we love you so much.”
“Marylou and Family, our prayers go out to you and your family. May the memories you will have of Donnie keep his spirit alive within your hearts. From the Sydnor/Parrott families.”
“Our prayers go out to the family.”
“Janice, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“To MaryLou and your Family, Even through I have known Donnie for a short amount of time, I knew he was a good man. I considered him a First-Class Friend and he will be deeply missed by all of us. May God’s Love embrace you all and give you strength.”
“Mary Lou, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Donnie. It only seems like yesterday that we all played cards and the kids all played together. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.”
“Donnie, you will truely be missed by all. You were a great inspiration and a great step dad and pop. We will always cherish the good times we had. May you rest in peace . Love, Chris, Shelly, and Jessica “
“Marylou, Janice, Terry, Debbie, and Kristi, your family has been a part of my extended family for a long time even though we aren’t blood related. Please know that I am thinking of all of you during this difficult time. You know how to reach me if you should ever need anything. X0X0”
“MaryLou, Janice, Terry, Christy, & Debbie, My heart goes out to you all. Only time will ease the pain. Donnie was a good man & left us a lot of great memories to share with each other. During his life here on earth he left Chris, Tammy & me a wonderful new family of which we love dearly. Donnie was so good to granny he took her into our home when she was very ill and never said a word about it. Donnie excepted and loved my children just as if they were his own. It was a honor to have shared Donnie’s last days on this earth with him and everyone of you. Love Cathy “
“We understand the loss of a love one that is so dear to you all. May the love in this family and the support from your friends help you through this emotional time. Donnie was “one of a kind” and Charlie told many stories about the two of them. They both had kind hearts and are watching out for us from heaven. We can embrace their gift of love through our connection with the Holy Spirit. May the peace of the Lord comfort all of you during this time of grief. Our love goes out to you all. “
“To the Bassford Family: We are deeply saddened by the loss of your son & brother. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. We hope it may bring you some comfort knowing that Donnie is now in a far better place than we can ever imagine. May Our Dear Lord welcome Donnie into His heavenly kingdom where he may rest in eternal peace. With Our Love, John & Shirley”
“Donnie, Words can’t convey the sadness that I feel knowing that you are gone. I feel truly blessed to have had a step father as special and wonderful as you. You took our family in and treated us as your own. We have so many special memories (weekly fishing trips, my casting lesson, crabbing, pitch games, family gatherings, vacations) that I will treasure in my heart forever. You will be missed so much by everyone! Rest in peace Donnie. Love you always, Tammy. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May your happy memories help get you thru the tough days that lay ahead.”
“To The Bassford Family, We are very sorry for your loss, and which we had the right words to take your pain away. Hold tight to you may precious memories, and remember he is no longer suffering. Your family is in our prayers! Tommy and Rose Goldsborough “
“My sympathy goes out to the entire family and friends of Donnie. I will always remember his beautiful smile even if he was way across a room where we were at the time . RIP Donnie”
“So sorry for your loss, your family is in our thoughts and prayers….”
“It’s hard to say the right thing when a loved one passes, we will remember him as being a very nice guy, funny sweet and loving, take all those memories and keep them deep within your heart.”
“MaryLou, Janice,Terry,Kristi and Debbie, Donnie was such a fighter, We will always remember the good times, the dinners we shared and the love you all shared as a family. We know Donnie is at peace and free from pain. We love all of you and stand ready to help any way we can. Love Madeline and Bill Derby”
“Mary Lou and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in knowing that Donnie is at peace. Cherish and remember all the memories and good times. It will Help get pass all of the days ahead. May God Bless you all.”
“My dearest brother Donnie, I am going to miss you so much. You were the strongest person I will ever know and such an inspiration to me. You continued to fight this awful sickness all the way to the last days of your life. May you now be at peace free from all pain and suffering. Nicholas said to me this morning that Uncle Donnie is in heaven with Jesus and all the angels. He is so right. Please continue to watch over our family and I know that we will meet again someday. I love you so much. Please always know that you will be forever in my heart. Love Kristi”
“May Donnie be at peace, prayers for the family.”
“MaryLou, Janice, Terry, Christy, and Debbie,I’m so sorry to hear of your lost. Try to remember the good times and the laughter,Donnie will always be near watching over you. Your family is in my thoughts and prayer.”
“To the entire Bassford family, sorry to hear of the loss of Donnie, my prayers goes out to the entire family. “
“MaryLou, You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Anything we can do;please call.”
“I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.”
“Mary Lou, Janice, Terry Kristi, and Debbie: It is a blessing that Donnie is now at peace. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Just remember all the good times you had with Donnie and, one day in the future, you will meet again. We know he is with the Lord at this time. “
“Donnie is now in a better place, free from all his pain and suffering. Your in our thoughts & prayers. “
“To The Family, May it comfort you to know that , your loved one is safe in God’s care now, and that friends are praying for you in your time of sorrow. With deepest sympathy.”
“We are so sorry for your loss. The family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love, Michelle”
“Donnie Sure had alot of fun playing horse shoes in the old days with you my friend.”
“Terry and family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts go out to all of you. Please call if there is anything we can do for you.”
“To the Bassford family: Your family have my sincere condolences at this most diffcult time. God’s word tell us at Revelation 21:3,4 that Jehovah God will wipe out ever tear from our eyes and death will be no more neither will mourning nor pain be anymore. God’s word also speaks of a resurrection, right here on earth, John 5: 28,29. We can take comfort in knowing that whatever God tell us it will take place Isaiah 55:11 Some my word that goes forth from my mouth will prove to be,it will not return without results.I hope that in time you will find comfort knowing that you are not alone in your time of sorrow. 1Peter 5:7 says throw all your anxiety upon him,because he cares for you. “
“Kristi, Terry & family -Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of your brother. I did not have the pleasure of knowing him, but am sure he was one heck of a guy! I hope the memories of the good times help you during this very difficult time. God bless.”
“Terry- I know how fondly you spoke of your brother and the unconditional love you have for him. May the Lord help to guide you through the dark times ahead and the wonderful memories shine a light on your brother’s time on this earth. May he rest in peace. If you need anything, just call me.”
“To The Bassford Family, Sorry for your loss. I know you have a lot of memories, so keep them close to your heart. Will keep the family in my prayer’s.”
“Mary Lou and girls: “When someone you love becomes a memory, those memories become a treasure.” Cherish dearly all the blessed and difficult times you shared. May God’s peace and love surround you as you begin this healing journey. Mary Lou: I know how much spirit, love, support, & inspiration you have ALWAYS given to your family and your LWE friends. We love you. “
“Donnie, I am going to miss you so much. Thank you for being a part of my life. Our family will not be the same without you. I find comfort in knowing you are in heaven with our Lord and Savior. I pray for peace and healing for Mommom, Mom, Terry, Debbie, Kristi and our extended family and friends who have been so strong through this experience. I will never forget that time I was on vacation in New York City and I called you in an absolute panic because a pipe had burst in my living room and the floors were all flooding uncontrollably. It was a disaster. You were so calm and collected. You helped me in my moment of need and I will never forget that. You were always there to help others. Also, thank you to the wonderful Hospice staff. It takes a special kind of person to do that job. We love you and we’ll miss you. Rest in peace, Love, Miss “
“Mary Lou, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I will keep you in my prayers. Mary Frances”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the memories you hold so dear comfort you. Please let us know if you need anything as we are just a phone call away.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. May you find peace in knowing he has family waiting to embrace him in heaven.”
“MaryLou, Janice, Terry, Christy, & Debbie – I am so sorry about your brother. May he be at peace. “
“Donnie Bassford;Shirtless and barefoot, always enjoying the very simple pleasures of life & family in Southern Maryland. That’s how I will forever remember Donnie…may you rest in peace.”
“Kristi, John and family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. Lean on friends and family to get you through. God Bless your loving families.”
“MaryLou and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May your love and memories of Donnie get you through this difficult time. He will always be with you, he will forever be in your hearts.”
“Mary Lou, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine losing a child, so I can’t say I know how you feel because I don’t, but I do know God is good and I will keep you in prayer that HE will ease your pain and help you through this. God Bless you, and please tell Janice, and all your fmaily how sorry I am. Love, Audrey”
“To Donnie’s entire family I would like to send my condolences. I graduated from St. John’s with Donnie. He was a very nice person. May God be with you all during this difficult time. Take Care Beth “
“MaryLou, I am so sorry for your loss. You’re a kind and wonderful person. I know the Lord will protect and guide you through this difficult time. You and your family are in my prayers. Love ya sister, Judy Fulir”
“Donnie,Going to miss you at the ball games. Had lots of good times. Rest in Peace.”