James Willard "Jimmy" Abell
June 25, 1960 ~ February 10, 2011
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, February 16, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. John's Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, February 15, 2011 from 5:00 PM-8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM.
James Willard “Jimmy" Abell, Sr., 50, of Mechanicsville, MD, died February 10, 2011 in St. Mary’s Hospital, Leonardtown, MD. Born June 25, 1960 in Leonardtown, MD, he was the son of the late Joseph B. and Ann Hope Clarke Abell, Sr. He was the husband of Mildred “Denise” Burroughs Abell whom he married on November 22, 1986 in St. Joseph’s Catholic Church, Morganza, MD. Mr. Abell is also survived by his children; Amanda Burroughs of Dunkirk, MD, James W. “J.W” Abell, Jr. of Hollywood, MD, Jessica Abell of Mechanicsville, MD and one grandson Derek as well as his siblings; Mary Ann Yount (Jeff) of Mechanicsville, MD, Joseph B. “JB” Abell, Jr. (Donna) and Randy Abell (Joanne) both of Leonardtown, MD, Susie Woodburn, Rose Gatton (Danny) and Robert Abell (Vicky) all of Hollywood, MD. James was preceded in death by his daughter Amy Abell and granddaughter Destiny Burroughs Dukes. Jimmy joined the United States Army after graduating from Great Mills, High School, Great Mills, MD. He was a self employed construction worker and was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County. He enjoyed spending time with his grandson Derek, family and friends, playing cards, watching NASCAR, listening to country and bluegrass music. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, February 15, 2011 from 5:00PM - 8:00PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00PM. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, February 16, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. John Francis Regis Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be J.B. Abell, Jr., Randy Abell, Robert Abell, Charlie Thompson, Mike Anderson, and Andy Wood. Honorary Pallbearers will be Joe. P. Dorsey, Terry Gatton, George Jones, Wayne Smith, Buck Shotwell, Bon Dee Thompson, Jeff Yount and Danny Gatton.
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“To Denise & Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jimmy was a good person and was always there to help when I needed him. He will be missed by all.”
“We are sorry for your loss. We will miss Jimmy, you guys are in our prayers If there is anything that we can do let us know. “
“You will be missed, but I have the great memories from when I was a little girl, you always knew how to make people smile. With love always, Little Linda “
“Neicy and Family, Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of Jimmy. Know that you all are in our prayers. Love, Cheryl & Family”
“Niecy & family; We are sorry about your loss. I will miss the card games we use to have, they were fun. Words cannot express our sympathy enough for the family. I know what you are going through. Time will help you through this. We will miss Jimmy dearly and you all are in our prayers. Joan,Julie & Brian”
“To my sister Niecy and her kids Amanda, JW and Jessie, we will miss seeing Jimmy at dad’s house with a Budweiser in is hand, playing cards. He loved his wife, kids and especially his grandson Derick very much. He is now up in Budweiser Heaven. Niecy, all of your sisters and brothers are here for you. Be strong and have faith that God will get you through this sad time. You have our love, deepest sympathy and condolences.”
“Niecy & family, I was deeply shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. Words cannot even begin to express my sorrow. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“REST IN PEACE, JIMMY MY GOOD BUD WE WILL MISS YOU”
“To the family of Jimmy Abell; I am so sorry for your loss. Jimmy was a very nice person, he would do what he could for anyone. Like myself he was a big Dale Earnhardt fan and he and I would spend lots of time talking about Dale and the races. He will be missed. He left us at such an early age. Take Care and my God Bless is family. Beth and Ronnie Ward “
“I love you guys and I’m so sorry about your loss. “
“Niecy, Kids and Family. We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express our sympathy enough for you all. You are in our prayers. If you need anything at all you know we are here for you.”
“Niecy and family, I’m sorry for your loss. I didn’t know Jimmy as with so many more family members being of the younger bunch, I just wanted to let you know that if you need anything to let me know. God Bless You All.”
“Niecy and family, We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. R.I.P. Jimmy”
“Rest in Peace Jimmy. You will be missed by many. To Denise,J W,Amanda, Jessie , Sue, Mary Ann, J B, Rosie, Randy and Robert, our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I will always remember Jimmy and the alligator in the coffee that he told Aunt Ann he had that turned out to be a big green lizzard. Well he’s in heaven now with God at now longer hurting. Love to all. Debbie and Jose Mejia”
“Denise and family, I am sorry for your loss, may the memories and good times get you through the days ahead. No words will change or make things better right now, just hold on to one other. Know that all of your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Cindi “
“Denise, Amanda, JW, and Jessie; I am so sorry. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Our prayers go out to the Abell family.”
“”Some of my most cherished childhood memories are being at Grandma’s house with my aunts & uncles. I was Grandma’s little Matilda and I would often yell “Grandma Jimmy’s aggravating me again”. Uncle Jimmy called me a few weeks ago and we chatted and I am so thankful for having that memory. He talked about Derek and how he’s Pop’s boy! Denise I wish I could tell you things will be ok. I too lost my husband and it leaves a hole in your heart forever. In time it does get easier and your family & friends will help you get through the tough times ahead. Know that Jimmy loved you so much! If you ever need someone to talk to or to listen I am here for you as I know too well what you’re going through.””
“JW and Jimmys family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Jimmy was a kind hearted guy and would do anything for anyone. If you need anything please dont hesitate to call me JW. Rest In Peace Jimmy . “
“To my lifelong friend; I will miss you, Jimmy. God bless you up in Heaven. To the Abell family, may God keep each of you strong as you endure this loss. My sincere condolences.”
“Jimmy From little kids til now, We all got along somehow. From school to married to Grandchildren and how, We still got along somehow. From disagreeing to liking, from loving to fighting, We still got along somehow. From sober to drinking, from working to thinking, We still got along somehow. To your family and your friends, you are still here. Though you are gone you still live on, WE WILL GET ALONG …..SOMEHOW Susie, Mary Ann, JB, Rose, Randy and Robert “
“Dear Jimmy, Through the years we have had our ups and downs. As a family we have had our good times and bad times, but no matter what we have always been there for each other as Mom & Dad taught us to be. I will always remember when you called it was always the same, “Hello Sis, this is your brother Jimmy” if you had to leave a message it was always the same “Call me when you get this, it is very important” “Love you Sis”. Even when we spoke you always ended with ” Love you Sis”. Well Brother as you have always known “this Sis has always loved you and always will”. Everytime I make a Strawberry cake I will think of you! Know as in the past we will be here for Denise, J.W., Amanda and Jessica. May you rest in peace. Love you, your Sis Mary Ann “
“I am sorry for your loss. Jimmy was a good friend and a kind man. He would give his shirt off his back if someone needed it. He will be missed.”
“To the Abell Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. You are in my prayers, and my heart goes out to you. “
“NIECY, KIDS, AND TO THE ABELL FAMILY, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU. WE ARE HERE IF YOU NEED US. SINCERELY,HELEN,BRENDA,JOY,JIMBO,DUANE,AND FAMILIES”
“To Jessie and family, I was so shocked to hear what happened to Jimmy. Just keep your head up and you are in everyone’s prayer’s.”
“so sorry for your loss Denise, J W, Jessie and Amanda…..Rest in Peace Jimmy.”
“” In Loving Memory of My Brother Jimmy” Jimmy, I think about you all the time, and the wonderful memories you left behind. Your great intentions and precious heart, and I know at the end of the day, we are very close and not far apart. Jimmy, although we are separated through time and space our souls will connect in another place, you will be the one to guide me in, and to comfort me in the end. With our souls progression and high level of spirituality, your goodness and kindness will be my reality. Jimmy, I saw a vision that was revealed to me with God’s permission you were soaring with Angels and protected by the almighty’s hand, this opened up to me in an unfamiliar land. Jimmy, the spirit world is a glorious place, and I see you filled with joy, love , happiness and grace. So Jimmy, until we meet again I will love you forever and always to the end of time. Love you, your little sis!”
“Denise, Amanda, JW, Jessica, and baby Derek! We are so very sorry to hear of Jimmy passing on, It was a real shock to both Jeff and I. He will be missed. You all mean a lot to us, so please call on us if you need to. We Love you all! Jeff and Anna”
“We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Jimmy will be missed greatly. Please call us if you need anything. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers.”
“Niecy I want you to know how sorry I am for what you have been through these last couple of months. I know how much you both loved each other. Our families will get through this difficult time. Now Derek has a guardian angel to watch over him. I”m here if you need me.”
“Niecy, I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. To much has happened to you but please hold tightly to your kids, grandkids, sisters and brothers. They will help you get thru this most difficult time. God Bless You Guys! “
“Niecy & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember everytime I seen you guys in walmart or foodlion Jimmy would always be smiling. He will be missed but not forgotten. He will be watching out for you from above. If you need anything please call me.”
“Mary Ann and family, Our heartfelt sympathies and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.”
“Niecy and Family I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything please let know. My prayers and thoughts our with you and your family.”
“Jimmy was a good man, he will be missed… R.I.P Jimmy “
“We are so sorry to hear of Jimmy’s passing, he will be deeply missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.”
“Randy and Family, We’re so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed working with Jimmy. He was a good guy.”
“OUR SYMPATHY TO ALL AND MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP ALL AT THIS HARD TIMES.”
“JW, our deepest appologies go out to you and your family. You guys are in our thoughts. May time easy your pain, and may your family keep you strong. “
“To Jimmy’s sisters, brothers, wife & children, We are sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Aunt Denise, were are so sorry for your loss and know that if you need anything don’t hesitate to ask that is what family is for.”
“The entire Abell Family is in my thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express my sincere sympathy enough. It was such a shock to hear of Jimmy’s death. Another taken way too soon. “
“I hadn’t known Jimmy for very long, but the time we did know one another, we bonded in a comical kind of way. I will hold dear to my heart, the night Jimmy, Denise, and Jw, came to play cards with us, and we had a great time. As of that night, I became Jimmys “Sandy Bottom’s Redneck”. We treated each other like we had known one another for years….and I will never forget that. We love you Jimmy, and you will be dearly missed by many. God Bless you all!! For all of the family, Take care, and please call if you ever need anything.”
“Niecy,you and Jimmy had the marriage that was bonded by something that only you two could have shared and your strength was extreme when you had difficult times. The family love that you all shared was amazing. Joey was stunned and has reminiced of the times at the Half Way House when he and Jimmy toasted many times. Our memories bring smiles so I’m sure you and the kids will too in time. Pain never dies but it does get tollerable and you will find ways to smile again. God rest his soul and stand by you. Love Snooky”
“So sorry for your loss.”
“My Prayers to the Family. Rest In Peace, Jimmy.”
“I am so Sorry to Hear of Jimmy’s passing, God bless this whole family forever and always..The best family I ever new…love Di..”