Marian Bernadette Slade
October 23, 1922 ~ March 2, 2011
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, March 8, 2011 at 11:00 AM in St. George’s Catholic Church, Valley Lee, MD with Msgr. Karl Chimiak officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Monday, March 7, 2011 from 5:00-8:00 PM in St. George’s Catholic Church, Valley Lee, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM.
Marian Bernadette Slade, 88, of Valley Lee, MD, died March 2, 2011 peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family. Born October 23, 1922 in Abell, MD, she was the daughter of late John Edward and Lola Lee Hayden Gass. Mrs. Slade was the loving wife of the late John Frank Slade, Jr. whom she married October 24, 1942 in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD. He preceded her in death on February 15, 1967. She is survived by her children; The Honorable John F. Slade, III (Rose) of Valley Lee, MD, Isabelle Carman of Riverview, FL, Marjorie Vaillancourt (Joe) of Bath, ME, Virginia Logalbo (John) of Leonardtown, MD, Ruby Slade and Joseph Slade (Linda) both of Valley Lee, MD, Joan Simmons (Tom) of Callaway, MD, Mary Hughes of Huntington Valley, PA, Florence Turner (Jeff), Susan Alt (Ed) and Edward Slade (Denette) all of Valley Lee, MD, Judith Pates (Tim) of Columbus, NJ, Jacqueline Cusic of Fort Worth, TX and Richard Slade (Michele) of Scotland, MD, 33 grandchildren and 28 great-grandchildren and one great-great grandchild. She is also survived by her siblings; Johnny Gass of Avenue, MD, Margaret Wheeler of NC, Ernestine Keaton of VA and Catherine Corbin of NC. She was preceded in death by her son David Slade, special nephew James Wise and siblings; Horace Gass, Mary Wood, Malcolm Gass, Jeanette Wise, Geraldine Gass, Loretta Wood and George Gass. Mrs. Slade graduated from Margaret Brent High School and was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County. She was a homemaker and raised 15 children. She selflessly gave of her time, at home and throughout the community. Mrs. Slade volunteered at Piney Point Elementary School, helping special education students in the Title I program. She was a Senior Companion assisting the homebound and elderly with routine tasks such as light housework and shopping. She was a CCD teacher, Eucharistic Minister, member of the Alter guild, and participant in Bible study at St. George’s Catholic Church. Mrs. Slade was also a CCD teacher for children with special needs at Holy Face Catholic Church, and an in-home therapy aide for a special needs child. The family will receive friends on Monday, March 7, 2011 from 5:00PM – 8:00PM in St. George’s Catholic Church, Valley Lee, MD with prayers being said at 7:00 PM with Msgr. Karl Chimiak officiating. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, March 8, 2011 at 11:00 AM in St. George’s Catholic Church, Valley Lee, MD. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Pallbearers will be Justin Alt, Johnny Logalbo, Allen Slade, John Slade, IV, Shawn Slade and Joseph Vaillancourt, Jr… Honorary Pallbearers will be Tyler Alt, Nolan Cusic, Zachary Hughes, Hunter Pates, Jake Pates, Daniel Slade, Joshua Slade, Matthew Slade, Nathan Slade and Sean Vaillancourt. Contributions in memory of Mrs. Slade can be made to St. George’s Catholic Church, P.O. Box 9, Valley Lee, MD 20692, the Second District Volunteer Fire Department, P.O. Box 1, Valley Lee, MD 20692 and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“To All Of The Slade, Tim and I are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are we all of you.”
“To the Slade family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“To the entire Slade family: My condolences to all of you on the loss of your mother,grandmother, sister, aunt, Marian. She was a lovely, kindly lady who raised a wonderful family. “
“TO THE SLADE FAMILY(JOAN), SORRY FOR THE PASSING OF YOUR MOTHER…”A MOTHER’S LOVE” IS SOMETHING THAT STAYS WITH YOU DURING GOOD TIMES & BAD… REMEMBER WHAT SHE INSTILL IN YOU AND ALWAYS LOOK UP.. GOD BE WITH YOU ALL…”
“To All the Slade Family, I am truly sorry for you loss, your Mom was a wonderful lady. You have lots on good memories of her, so hold tight to them, they will help you get through this sorrowful time. Love to all of you, and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers”
“Susan, Ed and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you peace during this difficult time. May precious memories of your mother comfort you.”
“To the Slade family I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. What a wonderful woman your mom was. I have such wonderful memories of times spent with all of you. “
“To the entire Slade family, Mrs. Slade will truely be missed by many. She was a kind and wonderful woman. May God bless you all through this trying time.”
“Susan and Slade family, My thoughts and prayers are with you,may your Mom rest in peace.”
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.~~ Rest peacefully Grandma; you are now in the hands of God for all eternity. We will miss you but your memory will always live in our hearts and be treasured until we meet again. I love you. Love, Cathy, Rick, Craig, Derek & Brittany How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. ~From the movie Annie “
“God Bless you, Slade Family. Mama Slade leaves quite a legacy and will live onward through each of you. I feel so privileged to have met her and many of you. She was a great lady. You are a great family. I wish I could be there with you.”
“May you all be comforted by the many warm thoughts of those who care. Your mother was loved and respected by so many and will be greatly missed. Love you all.”
“To all the Slade Family, May you find comfort in knowing that she is now with God, and that you have friends who care deeply and are here for you in your time of loss. To Mrs. Slade: Thank you for the memories and for sharing your love and your life with us — and for giving us so many children to pass your legacy on to! May you rest in peace. Love, The Pattons”
“To all of the Slade Family, as we all know it is very hard to lose someone, but a mother is a very special person. Now she is in heaven with your Dad and David. No more suffering. I know you all have a lot of memories and always keep them close to your heart. Love,”
“Susan,Ruby and the Slade Family, we are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Grandma Slade was “the wind beneath our wings” and the foundation of our family. I am thankful for all the wonderful memories…she will live on in all of us…. until we meet again…farewell,Grandma..love you and miss you!! xo Julie “
“Ruby, Sonny and the entire Slade family, My deepest condolences at this difficult time. My prayers are with all of you.”
“Aunt Marian will be missed by us all especially by my mom, her sister Ernestine. Our love and prayers to all the family.”
“May God grant Aunt Marian eternal rest and may her children and grandchildren hearts be consoled during this difficult time. God Bless you all.”
“We just want you to know that your are all in our prayers,SHE WAS GREAT LADY AND RAISED A GREAT FAMILY.”
“My thoughts are with your family. Mrs.Slade was a wonderful person with a devotion to our lord,she will be missed but we know she is now home. God bless all of you.”
“To the Slade family, I am sorry for your loss. May the memories always bring a smile.”
“”Ruby and family”, So sorry to hear of the passing of your mother – you are in my thoughts and prayers. “
“To the Slade family – I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you all.”
“May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. “
“May God grant Aunt Marian eternal rest and may her children and grandchildrens hearts be consoled during this difficult time. God Bless You All.”
“Dear Flo and the Slade fmaily, We sent our sincere condolences to each of you. I did not have the pleasure of meeting or knowing your Mother but I can tell from the condolences I have read she was a wonderful Mother and friend to so many. Time cannot erase the beautiful memories of loved ones gone to rest. She will never be forgotten by the ones who loved her best. Hold these memories close to your hearts forever. Your Friends, Fred and Julia”
“Slade Family, you all are in our thoughts and prayers. May your mom rest in peace knowing she raised a wonderful family. If there is anything we can do for you please call.”
“My deepiest sympathy to all the Slade family. But you know God needed a special angel and he knew that momma Slade could get the job done. I’m sure all the kids know and are thankful to have been so blessed with such a wonderful mother with so many memories to share.”
“Ruby – I never met your Mom but laughed often at what she said the first time I talked to her on the phone. I spelled my last name out and when I finished she said “You ain’t from around here, are you?” It really tickled me. We’re here for you Ruby – don’t hesitate to call if you need anything.”
“You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God help you all get through these difficult times.”
“I’m sorry to hear of your loss. Take comfort in knowing you will always have your memories of her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.”
“We are sorry to hear of your mom’s passing.You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“My sympathy at Aunt Marians passing.”
” To the Slade family: It is with great sadness that my family and I offer the most sincere condolences for your loss. Mrs. Slade will be missed by many. She was a wonderful person who touched many lives. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Danny and Chantal Adams “
“On behalf of the Cutchember Family: Extending our sincere sympathy and prayers during this sorrowful time.”
“Flo, May you and your wonderful family find peace and strength in your memories and knowing that so many others are thinking of all of you at this difficult time. I know that all of her prayers got us girls though our teenage years… an amazing woman with an amazing family, Love and prayers to all!”
“To all of the Slade family, I am sorry to hear of your mom’s passing… may the many memories of her carry you thru this hard time and bring you peace.”
“My deepest condolences to the Slade family. Mrs. Slade was a pillar of strength. What a wonderful family she raised! May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. “
“Grandma, We will miss you so much!! Years of good memories to live with forever! It is never a good time to say goodbye, so until we meet again!! We love and miss you! ~Alisha & Devin~ “
“Ruby, So sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. It’s never easy losing our mothers. Remember she’s in a better place. You’ll always have the memories to treasure. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“May God’s blessings be upon you at this time of sorrow. Mamma Slade is now flying with the angels in heaven. Peace be with you.”
“My heartfelt sympathy to Susan and all the Slade family. May your Mother rest in peace and may the perpetual light shine upon her. Thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Slade family. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Mrs. Slade.”
“To the Slade Family. SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR Mother’s passing. God’s peace be with you.”
“To All the Slade Family, children and grandchildren, Our sincere sympathy to all of you on the loss of your mother, we are so blessed to have our Mothers so long. We hope all your wonderful memories will help you through this most difficult time. Sincerely Wayne and Joan”
“To Joan and family, So sorry for the passing of your mother. My prayers are with you at this difficult time.”
“Flo and the Slade Family – We were so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Our thoughts are with all of you.”
“Flo, so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart is with you. God bless and keep you all.”
“To the entire Slade family, How wonderful and special to have had your mother in your lives for so so many years. May it comfort you to know others are thinking of you at this difficult time. “
“I am sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Slade. She was a great contributor to our community. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. “
“This wonderful lady will be missed by all who knew her! I have such great memories of her & love your whole family! My prayers are with all of you!”
“Our deepest condolences go out to Ruby, Sue, Joe and the whole Slade family at this time. Your Mother will be greatly missed be everybody, May she rest in peace.”
“Dear Judge Slade, We send our sympathy and prayers to you and your family for the loss of your mother. “
“John, Rose, John IV, Daniel & Julie: It takes a long time to get used to the loss of someone we love, But it’s important to remember that when people die, they leave something very special behind. They leave us memories of many things they said and did. And as long as we have those memories, the people we love will live on in our hearts and minds. I’ve never had the pleasure of meeting Mrs. Slade, but she raised a wonderful family, and especially John Slade, III, I will always treasure our friendship through the Trial Magistrate’s Court, and the District Court of Maryland, when you were the first Public Defender for St. Mary’s County and I was the first Clerk of the District Court for St. Mary’s County. We both started about the same time. Your Mom was very proud of you as Delegate for Maryland and also Judge of the District Court. May God bless the entire Slade family. Skip and I are so sorry that we will be unable to attend any of the services for your Mom, but you will be in our prayers. With love Doris & Skip Jones”
“To The Slade Family – My sincerest condolences. Your mother was a wonderful person and one of the most sweetest and kind-hearted people on this earth. All of you should be so proud to have had a mother and grandmother such as her, she was the best and greatly loved by all, including myself. God Bless.”
“Ruby,I loved your mother and will miss her so much. It was great to talk with her when I would pick you up.”
“Joan,Tom,Alisha and Devin, you are all in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. “
“To the Slade Family, I’m very sorry for your loss. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.”
“Momma is in heaven now and at peace. She really enjoyed visits from her family, friends and neighbors. I would like to thank everyone on behalf of myself and mother for all their love, prayers and support during this difficult time. Momma has paved the way to heaven for us, creating a path to follow when it is our time. She will be there waiting for us with open arms to receive us with our heavenly father. She prayed for us on earth and will watch over us from heaven. May love and faith be your compass and your guide in life and may God forever bless you all. “
“Even the inevitable is hard to accept, but the suffering has ended and now she is in paradise and is full of grace. My condolenses to her family and friends.”
“To the Slade family, my deapest condolences. Mrs. Slade was a great lady who raised a wonderful family. Keep her memories close to your heart and know she is watching over you all. God bless.”
“Flo, May God bless you in this time of sorrow with peace and understanding.”
“We know this is a great loss for your family but your mother is in heaven. Our sympathy and condolence to the family.”
“There is no doubt, Mrs.Slade is in the presence of her God. My prayers and thoughts are with you.”
“My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Slade family. Your Mama was a beautiful sweet woman and I cherish the memories of hanging out at your house when we were younger. May the strength and love of God, the family and your friends help you through this loss.”
“So sad to hear of Aunt Marian’s passing! She was such a wonderful lady who is now with her heavenly Father! May God give comfort & peace to her loved ones. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. Love to all from her sister Margaret, Sandy Hines & Family”
“May you and your family find peace and strength in your memories. I hope you know that so many others are thinking of all of you at this difficult time.”
“To the entire Slade Family: Our sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Marian, Mom, Grandma. She was truly a wonderful person and I know your fond memories will live on.”
“Virginia, I am so sorry for the loss of you Mom. I know what you’re are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and If there is anything Dave and I can do please let us know.”
“To the Slade family: I am very sorry to hear the passing of your Mother (Aunt & Grandmother). She was a wonderful Mama to all and I feel fortunate to have known her. May her tired body rest in peace and may her spirit guide you through this troubled time. Hold your memories close to your heart. God Bless each and every one of you. You are in my prayers.”
“To the Slade Family, It’s not easy loosing a loved one but knowing she has gone to a much better place is very comforting. God has another Angel to help watch over us all. Rest in Peace Mama Slade”
“To the Slade family, We were so sorry to hear of Mrs. Slade’s passing. Please accept our sincere sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this time of sorrow.”
“To the Slade family, you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Mrs. Slade was a wonderful and caring person we will all cherish the memories.”
“To the Slade Family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.”
“My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Slade’s family. My heart is with you in the sadness of having to say good-bye.My heart is with you in sympathy and friendship today and all the days ahead.May GOD give you the strength to overcome the pain. Marian loved her family dearly.She touch the heart of many. May you find comfort in knowing that God’s love surround you and that Marian is safe in His arms FOREVERMORE .God Bless “
“John, Rose and family, we are very sorry for the loss of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sorrowful time. Sincerely, Son and Elaine Wood “
“John, Rose and Family, Our deepest condolences to you and your family..You’ll be in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. Hold on to the wonderful memories your family has created close to your heart.. Joe and Darlene “
“John, Sue, Ruby & Flo, My deepest sympathy to the entire Slade family on the loss of your Mother. I’m sure your memories will sustain all of you thru this difficult time. Love, Gloria (Adams) Wilcox”
” To the Slade Family, I’m very sorry for your loss. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. “
“To the entire Slade family, you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Your mother certainly was a woman of character and an example of what we should all strive for in our daily lives. God bless!”
“Mary, You and your Family are in my thoughts and prayers! May God Bless you during this time of sorrow……”
“How can I say anything more than has already said. Momma Slade you were a wonderful Mother and your children were so proud of you. “
“Judith and Family, My Deepest condolences on the passing of you Mother. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Please accept our deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts.”
“Judith, I’m so sorry to hear about your mother. Know that my prayers are with you and your family at this time. God bless you and yours. Be strong. “
“May god shine a light of strength upon you and your family in this time of sorrow. From the Veerapen family, our most heartfelt condolences to the Slade family.”
“My prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. God Bless you and your Family.”
“Dear Judith and family, now and always may God bless you and be with you at this time and comfort you the way you comfort others, God’s best to you all always! 35th APS Family”
“Your Mom had to be a really wonderful women to have so many children that turned out so well. You are her legacy. I only had to opportunity to meet her once when John was first elected to the House of Delegates. Susan, I know now why you are so patient with the residents at the Nursing Home, You got it from you Momma. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless and watch over you.”
“To all the Slade family so sorry for the lost of your Mother she was a wonderful person may God be with all of you.”
“Deepest condolences to the entire Slade family. Our thoughts are with you. Debbie & Jeff Wilbourn”
“My deepest sympathies to the entire Slade family. Mrs. Slade was a wonderful woman and raised a great family! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.”
“sorry for the loss of your mother. she raised a wonderful family. mary in turn raised a wonderful family in her honor. blessing to all of you.”
“Flo and family, so sorry to hear about your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“I was sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. She was a lovely lady. May God walk with each of you and hold your hand during this difficult time.”
“Marian Slade was such a kind, wonderful person. I know how much each of you loved her and will miss her. She raised you well – you are such a kind, caring family. We love you all.”
“John, my prayers will be with you and your family.”
“To all the wonderful Slade family: Our condolences to all of you; We know that you will miss your mom/grandmom very much but she has left behind such a legacy by having such a big, wonderful family…God Bless”
“Flo,Sue,John&Rose and all the Slade Family,Our deepest sympathy to all of you.Reading all the wonderful comments we know she was a beautiful person inside & out.Each of you should be so proud that you shared a long & loving life with her. May God Bless all of you at this time. May your Mother be rewarded with God’s Amazing Grace. Sincerely, “
“Our hearts go out to you in this time of loss. With deepest sympathy, Joyce and Grafton “
“My sincere heartfelt sympathy to Susan for your loss, may the Lord be with you and comfort you during this time of profound sorrow.”
“Ruby my heart is with you at this time.I am praying for you and your family. Be strong, God Bless.”
“Our prayers and condolences are with you all, during this time.”
“John, Susan, Ruby and all the Slade family – Please accept our most heartfelt condolences at the passing of your beloved mom. She lived her faith and raised a family who has done the same -what a legacy! Miss Marian will live on in, not only in her good works, but in the hearts and memories of everyone she touched. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Slade family. Your Mom was a beautiful and incredible strong woman. May the strength and love of God, the family and your friends be with you during this most difficult time.”
“Jackie and all of the Slade Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! xoxo”
“Dear Ricky and all the Slade Family, To have your mother for such a long time is a gift from God. She left a legacy of love and compassion for her children, grandchildren and friends. Sweet memories of her will always be with you!”
“So very sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts are with you. “
“To the Slade Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“To the Slade Family–My condolences to all of you. Your mom/grandmother led a full and good life and I’m sure was the foundation of so many memories. What a wonderful example she was not only to her extended family but to the community. God bless you all. “
“Momma words can not fully express the love we hold in our hearts for you. You have taught us to be the loving, kind and faithful people that we are today. God allowed us to borrow you for a while here on earth. We are thankful to have been chosen to receive you as a mother. You’ve always loved music, you said it was a joyful sound. In my heart I know you have joined the choir of angels in song to be in your Father’s home. I know you are happy. Rest in peace my beautiful mother. I love you. “
“Margie…So sorry to here about your Mom. My prayers are with you and your family.”
“I was a friend of David. From his stories I know “Mamma Slade” was an amazing mother, woman and person. Accept my condolences and know that Dave is there to welcome her home. “
“The Officers and Members of the Bay District Volunteer Fire Department would like to offer our deepest condolences to the entire Slade family on the loss of your beloved mother. What a wonderful family she has raised and I know that she is smiling down from heaven at all of you. May the peace of God be with all of you during this difficult time.”
“Judith, just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God continue to Bless you and your family.”
“To the entire Slade Family: We are sending you our deepest sympathy and holding you in our hearts and prayers…With so many children, how blessed she was and how very blessed you were to have so many intricate parts of her instilled in each of you. What wonderful memories you must have to last a lifetime. God Bless all of you. Debbie & Glenn”
“Judith and the Slade Family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God Bless, Keep and Comfort you and your family in your time of sorrow. “
“Judith and Family, you will be in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all. Mary and Tim “
“Dear Ann, John, and family, At a time like this, there is a sorrow for which no heart can be prepared. Your mom will be greatly missed but fondly remembered. We pray that the grief you now feel will be replaced with cherished memories. May you take comfort in the love of family and friends and may the heavenly father bless you and grant you peace. We love you and are holding you close in our hearts and lifting you up in prayer.”
“To the entire Slade family, My heart goes out to all of you! Your mother was an incredible woman. Cherish your memories and God bless all of you during this difficult time. “
“We are privileged to know Marian and trust she cares for all just as she always has. “
“Virginia and Families: My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to ALL of the Marian Slade family. May you ALL find comfort in knowing that Mom Marian is at peace. Cherish and remember all of the good times and memories as it will help get pass all of the days ahead. May God Bless you ALL.”
“To the Slade family ~ we were so sorry to hear of your loss ~ our thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“The bucket of tears I have cried and the sadness I feel can not compare to the joy I feel knowing that Mama is with our heavenly father. I feel so blessed to have had her as my mother and role model. I am proud to be apart of her family good time and bad.”
“To the Slade Family, We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. She raised a wonderful family and through all of you her memories will live forever. “
“May you all find peace in your hearts knowing she is at peace and with God. Word’s cannot express how much she will be missed by all who knew and loved her.We were very blessed to have such a wonderful mother.May God Bless You all and comfort you in the days to come.We Love You All Flo and Jeff “
“Momma,I knew God took you in his home when I saw the halo around the sun. I could feel you smiling down on all of us. I love you sunshine..thank you for all your prayers..you will always be in my heart..love you momma”
“I know you are in amazing hands with your family. I hope I can also offer my love and support to you as you have always graciously done for me. I know this is a difficult time. I am truly sorry for your loss. “
“Judith, I’m deeply sorry for your loss. Please extend my sincere sympathies to your family. You’re in my prayers. God Bless you and your family “
“Dear Virginia, I send my deepest sympathy to you & your family during this difficult time. God Bless. With Love Joyce Jones”
“My Dearest Mother it’s been 2 years since you went home to our father in heaven. You are always in my heart and missed every day.”