Gerald Wayne "Jerry" Mattingly
August 2, 1959 ~ April 29, 2012
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, May 8, 2012 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church Leonardtown, MD with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will follow in the Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Monday, May 7, 2012 from 5:00PM until 8:00PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home chapel where prayers will be recited at 7:00PM.
Gerald Wayne “Jerry” Mattingly of Hughesville, MD formerly of Leonardtown, MD died on April 29, 2012 in Washington, DC. Born on August 2, 1959 in Leonardtown, MD., he was the son of Robert (Bobby) Louis and Elaine Wood Mattingly of Leonardtown, MD. Jerry is survived by his significant other Judy Hoover, his children: Nicole Lynn and Kelsey Leigh Mattingly both of Hughesville, MD. He is also survived by his sisters Brenda Kay Mattingly of Annapolis, MD., and Cheryl Mattingly Thuot (Pierre) of Hollywood, MD., nephew Christopher Thuot, and niece Danielle Thuot. Mr. Mattingly attended Leonard Hall Junior Naval Academy and went on to graduate from Ryken High School in 1977 he also attended the Charles County Community College. Jerry was a Southern Maryland resident and worked as a District Manager for Aero Energy for 11 years, he also worked for Pargas, Suburban, and United Gas Company’s. Jerry was a member of the Knights of Columbus, Mid-Atlantic Propane Association, Hughesville Baseball Association (Coach), Sunday Youth Basketball League (Coach), and St. Mary’s Ryken Softball (Coach). Jerry was a very special person who provided services to friends, family, and community, and continued his giving and generous spirit by giving life through his organ donation. The family will receive friends on Monday, May 7, 2012 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD with prayers recited at 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, May 8, 2012 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church Leonardtown, MD., with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be: Ken Allston, Tom Agostinelli, Tommy Bellere, Christopher Thuot, Keith Wood, and Roger Wood. Honorary Pallbearers will be: Thomas Agostinelli, John Knott, Clarence Thomas, Roger Wood, Jr., Jamie Mattingly and Larry Mattingly. Contributions may be made to the Nicole and Kelsey Mattingly Educational Trust Fund c/o PNC Bank P.O. Box 655 Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“Bobby, Elaine, Cheryl, Brenda, Pierre, Nicole, Kelsey, Christopher, Danielle, Judy and the entire Mattingly family. No one has to to tell you how special a person Jerry was. He was always kind, considerate, very thoughtful with NEVER an ill word about or toward anyone, and NEVER complained about anything. NEVER in over the 30 plus years that I knew him did I see him loose his temper or raise his voice about anything. Although, over the past 10 years I only saw Jerry a few times, I will always remember the many times in 1984 and 1985 that I would fly him back and forth to Accomack County on the Eastern Shore of Virginia where he was a manager of Pargas. This kept him from enduring that gruesome 5 hour drive. From those times on, he called me “The CAPTAIN” and I called him “CAPTAIN ACCOMACK KID”. One night flight on December 9, 1984, Bobby and little Tom went along for the ride. (Bobby’s last flight ever in a small plane!) Fog had set in at the Accomack County Airport and we couldn’t land. We had to return to St. Marys Airport. Jerry then had to make that 5 hour drive back. Most people would be stressed out and complain, but NOT Jerry. His comment was, “Oh well, I guess I’ll have to drive!” That was Jerry. NOTHING seemed to bother him ever. The world would be a better place if more people had Jerry’s demeanor. His smile and attitude towards life will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace my friend. You are now truely one of the “CAPTAINS” in GOD’S hands. When it is time for me to leave this Earth, I hope you will be there to greet me with your ear to ear smile and be my “CAPTAIN” and fly me away.”
“I am so sorry for your loss, Jerry was a wonderful person and will be missed greatly. My prayers are with the family.”
“”Our thoughts and prayers”
“We extend our deepest sympathies to the Mattingly family. Rest in peace Jerry.”
“To The Mattingly Family, Sorry to hear about Jerry was a good man and he always had a simle on his face. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of sadness.”
“Mr.& Mrs. Mattingly, Cheryl and Brenda, We are so sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. May he rest in peace. He was such a kind and gentle man. Our prayers are with you all.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.”
“Bobby, Elaine, Cheryl, and Brenda, Praying for your strength during this awfully sad time. I have fond memories of Jerry – the first thing that comes to mind was his beautiful and quirky smile! He was such a nice guy growing up .. never a bully, always kind, considerate, honest .. and a great sense of humor. Love and prayers, Cheryl”
“Our deeepest sympathies. We loved him. He is in our prayers. “
“To the Mattingly family, sorry to hear of the loss of Jerry. He was a good, kind man. Your family will be in our prayers.”
“You have our deepeet sympathies. We loved Jerry a lot. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. So sorry for your loss. Jerry will be missed.”
“Bobby, Elaine & Family, We are so saddened to hear of the loss of Jerry. I remember Jerry as a very polite, kind, young man when he was attending Ryken. What a fine person he turned out to be. Our prayers are with you. “
“To the Mattingly Family, we are sorry for your loss, he will be missed by many. Jerry was a great guy with a wonderful smile. Special thoughts go to Nicole and Kelsey. Our prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Gail, Cassie and Ben Raley”
“As a boy my older brother Larry was always my hero especially in athletic pursuits.I remember as a kid going to watch Larry and Jerry’s baseball games and watching Jerry play catcher on their teams thru the years and how much I admired him also. Even though I was the annoying younger brother he always treated me with good natured humor and kindness that he always seemd to extend to everyone. Growing older and having the honor of drinking a beer with him or playing a game of pitch at a family outing he always made me laugh and appreciate his zest for life. I think we go thru life not truly appreciating the impact little actions we take or words we say have on others around us. What greater testimonial than to say whenever I think of Jerry a smile immediately comes to my face. Sorry I cannot be at the services but please know my prayers will be with everyone in the family. “
“Nicole, Kelsey, Mr. & Mrs. Mattingly, Cheri & Brenda, Our heartfelt sympothy goes out to your family. We will keep you close in our hearts & prayers. God Bless”
“Bobby, Elaine and tje Mattingly family: We are so sorry to hear of Gerry’s passing. He will be peaceful with no pain. He will be in our thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other.”
“Bobby,Lainey, and family, we are so sorry for your loss. If we can help in any way you know our number. Find peace in your memories. Another one gone way before his time.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you- “
“To the Mattingly Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“Jerry was a remarkable, extraordinary person. I truly loved him. When my father passed away, Jerry came to Daddy’s prayers and through his tears, he told me “I am sorry I missed Nanny’s prayers, but I would never miss Bill’s. He was a great man!” And he held me tight and we cried. If Daddy were still here, he, too, would hold me tight and through his tears he would tell me “Jerry was a great man!” I know that above all else, Jerry cherished his family. May God bless and comfort each and every one of you. I send my heartfelt love to you all.”
“Hard to believe. Will be thinking of all of you.”
“Our sincere thoughts and prayers go out to the Mattingly family. Jerry was and always will be a wonderful man and a true pleasure to know. He will dearly be missed by everyone. “
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Mattingly family.May you find peace and comfort in each other and the memories that you share.Jerry was a very special person to all who knew him.I worked with Jerry for many years,he was much more than a boss he was a great friend. He will be greatly missed”
“Sorry for your loss. Jerry will greatly be missed. He would do anything for you.”
“Bobby, Elaine, Cheryl, Brenda & entire family our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.”
“We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. Jerry was a wonderful person and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Debbie and Dave Griffin”
“To the Mattingly Family: My deepest sympathies on your loss. Jerry was a wonderful man and father. Though we drifted apart in later years, I value the friendship that we had throughout our youth. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate his life. “
“Bobby, Elaine and Family, My sincere Condolences is expressed to you all on the loss of “Jerry”. My thoughts and prayers are with you ALL. I wish you ALL comfort, Peaceful Moments, Renewed Strength, Hope and my Deepest Sympathy. May “Jerry” Rest in Peace.”
“To the Mattingly family, we are so so sorry to hear about Jerry. He was truly a wonderful and kind man. Jerry will be missed dearly. Our prayers are with you.”
“To the Mattingly family – Jerry was such a wonderful person, inside & out. We have many good memories of him, we’ll miss his smile and his kindness to everyone. He was a great friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“My deepest, heartfelt sympathy to all the family. God must love Jerry very much to have wanted him to be with Him so soon. With many thoughts and prayers and love to all. May he rest in peace and keep watch over you. God bless……”
“I am so sorry to learn of Jerry’s passing. Jerry was held in high regard by those of us in the propane industry and I, along with many others, will miss him. His smile always revealed his friendly manner and he had a way of putting people at ease. My deepest condolences to the Mattingly family.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Jerry always brightened the room with his beautiful smile. The memories of him will live on forever in the hearts of those who loved him so much. “
“My love and prayers go out to the Mattingly family. May your precious memories of Jerry bring you strength and comfort now and in the days ahead.”
“Nicole and Kelsey, I am so sorry to hear about your father’s passing. Hold onto tight to the memories you hold dear, they will live with you forever. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Sincerely, Mrs. Landau, St. Mary’s Ryken High School”
“To all of Jerry’s family members – Our most deepest sympathy to all of you. Jerry was one of the most kind, sweet and caring individuals, one could ever meet. His bright, beautiful smile will most definitely dim our existence on earth, but will most assuredly light up our heaven above. “Till we meet again, Jerry!” Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time. God Bless You All.”
“Brenda and family, so sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. Our prayers are with your family and may he rest in peace. Mr and Mrs Joseph “
“Bobby, Elaine and family, we are sorry to hear about the loss of you son, Jerry. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.”
“Mr. & Mrs. Mattingly, Cheryl and Brenda – I am so sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Nicole, Kelsey, Mattingly family,My deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you in this difficult time.”
“I am deeply saddened to learn of Jerry’s death. He was a unique person, always laughing and smiling. I am so sorry for your loss, a loss that will be felt by many for Jerry touched many lives in his way too short time on this earth. “
“Laney and your whole family – what can I say? Haven’t seen Jerry for years, but when I did he was always had the biggest smile and laughing. What a handsome man! I love you all!”
“To Brenda and family – my deepest sympathies to all of you during this time. May he rest in peace.”
“Elaine, Bobby and Girls, we are so sorry to hear about Jerry, please accept our sincere condolences. “
“We are very sorry for the loss of your son. May he rest in peace”
“My condolences, thoughts and prayers are extended to the family of Jerry Mattingly. “
“Dearest Bobby, Elaine, Cheryl, Brenda and Family, We wish we could take away your pain; Jerry was a very special person who grew up with our children and shared many happy days at Ryken together. You all are in our hearts and our prayers. God Bless!”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.May the love of family and friend help you all through this sad time.God Bless and Take Care “
“Elaine, Bobby and family. We would like to express our deepest sympathy in your loss of Jerry. “
“My deepest sympathy to Jerry’s family & friends. I enjoyed working with Jerry @ Aero Energy & I will forever remember the talks & laughs.He was a great person both in & out of the office. His smile was one of a kind! Hold onto the memories and know Jerry will always be with you. I will truly miss him! Thoughts & Prayers, Joyce Miller Aero Energy Hanover, Pa “
“To the Mattingly Family, I am so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Jerry. I fondly remember him from high school. There is a guardian angel looking down upon all of you.”
“Our deepest sympathy to all of Jerry’s family. We always considered Jerry to be more than just a good friend but part of our family. I read a quote not long ago that said ” Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart” Well Jerry left a lot of footprints on our hearts. He will be greatly missed but not forgotten.”
“Nicole, Kelsey and the Mattingly Family, Loved him very much, but God loved him more. Treasure all those memories as they are for life! He was truly wonderful inside and out!! I will pray that you all have the strength to get through the days ahead and I am here if you need anything. “
“I got to know Jerry from being a member of the St. Mary’s Bryantown School Community. He truly had a smile that could warm your heart and make you feel special. I hope that he knew how special he was as well! Kelsey and Nicole I know that no words can ease your pain but know that you have many prayers coming your way and that you have a extended family that is here for you when needed. To the Mattingly family may the memories of Jerry’s laughter give you comfort during this difficult time. “
“Elaine,Bobby and family our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son. The loss of ones child is the hardest pain to endure.Our prayers are with you.”
“Nicole,Kelsey, & The Mattingly Family: We were saddened to hear of the passing of Jerry. Always cherish the wonderful memories and good times shared together. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Diane & Frank Bell”
“My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. May he Rest in Peace.”
“Our love,thoughts and prayers to his daughters and family. What a great guy, gone to soon. Robert & Boe Cromwell”
“My sincere condolences. May God Bless all of you in this most trying of times. My cousin,my love to you and my prayers are with you. Louis”
“We are keeping you in our hearts and prayers. May you find comfort and peace in knowing Jerry is watching over you every step of the way. “
“Bobby, Elaine and family – we are so sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May he rest in peace.”
“My thoughts,and prayers are with the family. Jerry was a great guy,and truly a great athlete. He was always willing to help others. His kindness will never be forgotten.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you, members of Jerry’s family. He was a special person with a smile you could never forget. Our world has lost a shining light.”
“To the Mattingly Family, We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. It is so hard to say goodbye to your child. But you know he is in a better place and smiling down on you. May God Bless your family and help you through this sad time. “
“My prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time. Jerry always helped us at St. Mary’s Bryantown. He gave of his time and talent. May he rest in peace and God bless you all.”
“Dear Brenda and family, What a shock to hear about Jerry’s passing and my heart is heavy for all of you. I send you my most sincere condolences and pray God comforts you in the days and weeks ahead. “
“We are so sorry for the loss of your son, father and brother. Please know that all of your are in our prayers.”
“Our sympathies go out to your family. Jerry was a great friend for many years. We will miss him. “
“Our deepest sympathies to all of you. Jerry was a very special person. We will miss him dearly. “
“Bobby, Elaine, Brenda, and Cheryl, we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jerry. Probably hadn’t seen Jerry since the days all of us were going to Redskin games. A lot of fun times back then. Really enjoyed the time with Jerry talking about our jobs, reminiscing about our days at Ryken, and fun times at RFK cheering for the Redskins. The Mattingly family is in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Judy, my prayers are with you and Jerry’s family. I am so sorry for your loss. “
“Dear Brenda & Family, My heart breaks for you… My thoughts & prayers are with you all at this sad time.”
“Precious in the sight of The Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116:15 Brenda and Family, may God extend to you the grace to accept this promise.”
“Bobby, Elaine, Cheryl, Brenda and extended family, we were deeply saddened to learn of Jerry’s passing. Our hearts go out to you all. Jerry was the best. “
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the Mattingly family. I came to know Mr. Mattingly 4 years ago on a school trip to New York and since then we became friends. Met so many times in Hughesville. I cannnot imagine he is not with us any more. My deepest sympathies to the family. Rest in peace Jerry”
“Our prayers are with your family, especially Nicole and Kelsey. God bless.”
“It was truly a pleasure and honor to have known Jerry. His gentle demeanor, his warm smile and his giving spirit, were all examples of God’s love. We will truly miss him. May you all find comfort in the memories this wonderful man has given you. “
“We will all miss Jerry. I will never forget when he nominated me to become President of the Sunday Youth Basketball League , the Catholic Middle School basketball league in Southern Maryland. Little did he or I know at the time how much that would mean to me or how many lives I was able to touch because of this one single gesture of his. He had a way to inspire people to do things they didn’t know they wanted to do or were capable of doing. He touched more lives by that simple quality than he ever knew or realized. So humble. A great person and I was lucky to be part of his life.”
“Cheryl, Brenda and family – Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness.”
“Our thoughts are with you, he was a great guy.”
“Nicole, Kelsey, Bobby, Elaine and family, I’m so sorry to hear about Jerry. He was one of a kind. Always with that beautiful smile and loving ways. He always put everyone else first and took care of anyone that needed anything. I remember he babysat my oldest daughter when she was an infant so that Jamie and I could spend some time alone together. How many boys would you find that would do that? He even gave Patti a birthday card with raffle tickets in it and wrote a note in there saying he hoped she would win. What an exceptional boy! Jerry and Cheryl were God Parents to my youngest daughter. As a man, Jerry was still just like that, giving to everyone. I will miss him, even though I didn’t get to see him that often. The Lord takes the good ones and leaves behind those who are not worthy of his kingdom. I love you Jerry and you always made me feel like I was part of the family. Rest in peace because you truly deserve it. God Bless all of the family.”
“Judy, I would like to thank you for bringing Jerry into our lives. We also loved Jerry and are so blessed to have spent his last week with him during his and your vacation. We have lots of memories and my heart breaks for all of the family and because of you we came to know Nicole and Kelsey and see how much they meant to their dad. I really wished I had got to meet the rest of the family before this tragedy, They are all great people. Just know I will always be here for you. May God give all of you the strength you need during this trying time.”
“I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry initially installed the gas system when my home was built 11 years ago and over the years helped numerous times whenever there was a question or issue regarding the gas system. Every time, Jerry went out of his way to help, but more importantly, treated me so very kindly. I will always be grateful for that kindness. You now have him as an angel in heaven, just as he was an angel here on earth. May Our Lord help you through this difficult time. “