Stanley Joseph Williams
May 31, 1932 ~ November 3, 2013
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, November 8, 2013 at 10:00 AM in Holy Angels Catholic Church Avenue, MD. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Thursday, November 7, 2013 from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM in Holy Angels Catholic Church Avenue, MD with prayers recited at 7:00 PM .
Stanley Joseph Williams, Sr., of Avenue, MD died November 3, 2013 at his residence. Born May 31, 1932 in Taylorsville, MD, he was the son of the late Joseph Stanley and Ethel Florene Wright Williams.
Stanley was the loving husband of Mary Ann Williams, whom he married in Leonardtown, MD on December 14, 1991. He is the father of Stanley (Joan) Williams of Hollywood, MD, David (Missy) Williams of Mechanicsville, MD, Wayne (Brenda) Williams of Trappe, MD, John (Caren) Williams of Hughesville, MD, Vivian (Mike) Bruner of Callaway, MD, JoAnne (Marvin) Phillips of Chester, VA,, Phyllis Spalding of Valley Lee, MD, Belinda (Brad) Phillips of Hollywood, MD, Jane (Ken) Cusic of Leonardtown, MD, Faye Wheeler of Clements, MD, Chris (Brenda) Farrell of Mechanicsville, MD, and Robert (Wendy) Farrell of Port Republic, MD, siblings, Doris Heard of FL Leroy (Margaret) Williams of Bushwood, MD, Helen (Buddy) Bowling of Charlotte Hall, MD, Faye (Jimmy) Gatton of Leonardtown, MD, Ann Marie (Bernie) Quade of Avenue, MD, and Nancy (Alvin) Kragh of Heathsville, VA, Stanley is also survived by 20 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by his siblings, James and Raymond Williams. Stanley was a lifelong St. Mary’s County resident, graduating from Margaret Brent High school, he worked for Burch Oil from 1950 to 1953, served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War from 1953 to 1956, was a self employed Manager of the Mechanicsville Gulf Gas Station , and he was with the St. Mary’s County Sheriff’s Office, from 1969 until he retired in 1994 during this time he was the Jail Commander for the Detention Center, St. Mary’s County Court Security and Bailiff for the Judge’s of the Court. Stanley was a life member of the Mechanicsville Volunteer Fire Department (Past Chief and Past President), Charter member of the Mechanicsville Volunteer Rescue Squad (Past Chief), the 7th District Optimist Club from 1986 to 2013 (Past President), American Legion Post 221 from 1992-2013, Avenue, MD, and St. Clements Hundred. Stanley especially enjoyed hunting on the Eastern Shore with friends, boating, going to car races, driving his tractor, spending time with his family; he was a man of faith attending Holy Angel’s Catholic Church. The family will receive friends on Thursday, November 7, 2013 from 5:00PM to 8:00PM with prayers recited at 7:00PM, Fire Department and EMS, Optimist, and American Legion prayers to follow in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday, November 8, 2013 at 10:00AM In Holy Angels Catholic Church. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be; Mike Wise, Billy Alderman, Ken Cusic, Ryan Wheeler, DJ Williams, Kyle Cusic, Tony Norris, and John Butterfield, honorary pallbearers will be; grandchildren, Members of Mechanicsville Vol. Fire Dept., Mechanicsville Vol. Rescue Sq., American Legion Post 221, Avenue, MD, and the St. Mary’s County Sheriff’s Department. Contributions may be made to the Mechanicsville Fire Department, Mechanicsville Vol. Rescue Squad and/or Holy Angel’s Catholic Church. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.
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“To the family I’m sorry for your loss. I worked with Stanley prior to his retirement from SMCSO he always had time to talk with me. Thoughts and prayers, Stanley you will be missed.”
“To the Williams Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“David, D.J.and Jace sorry for your lose, prayers and thoughts.”
“David and the family so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad thoughts and prayers to u all.”
“To Stanleys Family We are sorry for the loss of your loved one, He was a good Man, Your Family will be in our thought and Prayers.”
“Death leaves a heartaches, no one can heal, love leaves so many memories no one can steal. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family”
“Sorry to hear of his passing thoughts and prayers to the family “
“TO THE FAMILY, WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR THE PASSING OF STANLEY, OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH THE FAMILY.”
“I extend my deepest sympathies to the family of Stanley. May you find peace in your heart and the fond memories carry you in the days ahead. Thinking of you…”
“You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers…”
“To the family sorry to here of your loss, thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“David sorry for to hear about your loss, thoughts and prayers..”
“Mary Ann & the family: We were so sorry to hear of Stanley’s passing. He fought a long & and hard battle. He is at peace now. He will be missed. He will also be in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care.”
“To all of the Williams family our deepest condolence on your loss. I remember Stanley from his time as Fire Chief at the Deuce. This was a time when men were men and he was all man. He joins some fine company in our Lord’s palace and together they make up the best darn fire department you could find. To my pal Stanley Jr. Love Ya Man and if there is anything our department can do for your family you have my number.”
“We are thinking of you during this time of sadness and will continue to keep Stanley and his family in our prayers. He is at peace now and no longer ill. Your wonderful memories will keep him close to your hearts always.”
“my deepest sympathy to all the family,”
“Little Stanley, Mary Ann and Family, I am very sorry for your loss. “
“Jo, Stanley, Vivian, Susan , Wayne. We are so sorry to hear of your dads passing. Will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Love you all. “
“We are so sorry for your loss. Stanley was a man of integrity who was an outstanding citizen of St. Mary’s County, a great husband, father and grandfather and a great friend to all who were privileged to know him. Our sympathy to all of you for your loss.”
“Lt. was my first supervisor at the Sheriff’s Office. It was an honor to have served with him and a pleasure to have known him. My condolences to the family.”
“an example of St. Mary’s Finest”
“Mary Ann and family – We are so sorry to hear about losing Stanley. We are praying for your family for peace and comfort during this most difficult time. God Bless.”
“My deepest sympathy to the family. Remember all the wonderful time you had together.”
“Dear Stanley ,David, Mary Ann and the entire family. We are very sorry for the loss of your loved one. We loss a great man and a buddy. We had alot of great times together the three of us. I will always remember that. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless You Bud. Rest in Peace “
“Mary Ann & Family, My deepest sympathy. Sonny will be missed by many. He was a good and thoughtful person. I will keep you and the family in my prayers.”
“Phyllis, Brenda and the Williams family, you’re all in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy. Julie”
“Maryanne, Faye, Ryan and Families, We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Our deepest sympathy to the family. Stanley was a great guy and very dedicated to his family and community. He will be greatly missed. I enjoyed our early days in the fire department and working with him over the years. He always had a smile and pleasant greeting when he would see you out in public. “
“Our Thoughts and Prayers to Stanley’s family! May he rest in peace.”
“My prayers go out to all the Williams family. May he rest in peace.”
“My condolences go out to the family. “
“STANLEY WAS A GREAT MAN AND WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. MAY HE REST IN PEACE.”
“I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOVED ONE’S PASSING, BUT KNOW THAT HE IS WITH GOD AND THE ANGELS IN HEAVEN WHERE HE WILL SUFFER NO MORE AND NOTHING CAN HURT HIM. STANLEY HAS BEEN REBORN AND WE WILL ALL JOIN HIM IN THE FUTURE. KNOW THAT HE IS WITH LOVED ONES THAT HAVE GONE BEFORE. WITH SINCERE HEARTFELT SYMPATHY, EVELYN”
“Stanley Williams was one of the finest people I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with. Quite simply, he was a dedicated public servant who loved his Country, his County and most certainly his family. Many of us were “schooled” by him not with a ticket, but a stern yet humorous conversation with him. Our world is certainly a better place because of him. My thoughts and prayers are offered to his family and friends. May God give you all some peace of mind knowing what a great man Stanley was. “
“Mary Ann and family: our deepest sympathy is with you all. Stanley was a good friend and we will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Rest in peace Stanley. Love to you all. “
“Mary Ann, Stanley Jr. and Family, my deepest condolences on your loss. I have known Stanley since 1976 when I went to work at 9-1-1. We became friends and have remained so since. He will be greatly missed. Another ICON has passed from St. Mary’s County. RIP my friend.”
“Maryann and the Williams family, I’m so sorry to hear of Stanleys passing. He was a very pleasant man and well thought of by everyone. My prayers are with the family at this time. May you find peace in Gods love.”
“Stanley was a very good man and a friend. I first recall Stanley when he was in Helen, Md. And on the Sheriffs Department. We always had a good relationship and had a good time. Rest in peace my friend”
“I have many great memories with Uncle Stanley. They bring a smile to my face every time I think of them. Especially all the wonderful camping trips and Myrtle Beach trips. And Dad and him on the golf cart. Hugs, and prayers to all the family…”
“David, MayAnn and all the Williams and extended Williams families. We were saddened to hear of Stanleys passing. He is without pain now , and you all have a special Angel to watch over you. Stanley was a great , honest and polite man. He greated us always with a smile and a handshake. Rest in Peace Fellow Optimist Member. May God bless you and your entire family……”
“So saddened to hear of the loss of uncle sonny. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this most difficult time. May he rest in peace.”
“We will miss you Uncle Sonny. Our thoughts love and prayers are with the rest of the family”
“My prayers are with you! He was a wonderful man and I enjoyed working with him at the Courthouse and seeing him around! He will be missed.”
“David sorry for the loss of your father and best friend, thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Cherish the memories.”
“Uncle Sonny we will miss you very much…your were an awesome Uncle ..we love you May you finally rest in Peace…our thoughts love and prayers are with the rest of the family”
“We are so sorry for the loss of our Uncle Sonny we will always remember the fun we had with him our thoughts love and prayers are with you and the rest of your family May he finally rest in Peace we love you Uncle Sonny”
“David and Maryann….our hearts are heavy for you. Stanley was an amazing man and will forever be missed! We will remember his smile and the many times we were able to share a good laugh with him at the racetrack. Let the wonderful memories get you through this difficult time. “
“We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“To all of Stanley’s Family: I send my deepest sympathy and prayers for God’s comfort for this deep loss for all of you. So many wonderful memories of Stanley fill my mind…quick to smile…quicker to help anyone in need…selfless and sweet. He will be deeply missed. Love and Hugs to all.”
“To all of the Williams family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Dorothy and Francis Russell”
“David, sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. Remember all the good times you had together. He will always be with you only in a different way now. Take Care!”
“Our sincerest condolences to all of Stanleys family. May he rest in peace and may Our Lord and Savior give his family solace.”
“Mary & Family, We are sorry to hear of the passing of Stanley. He is no longer in pain and is now your guardian angel. Remember the loving times to help you get through this rough time.”
“To all of Stanely’s family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. (Sonny) was a wonderful cousin, and a great man.”
“It’s the little things, the small, everyday occurrences that you’ll remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with you Mary Ann and all of the family. So sorry for your loss. I’m just around the corner if you need anything. “
“Our sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family. We are here for anything you need.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Stanley’s family. We are so sorry for your loss.”
“Our heartfilled prayers and thoughts go out to Family and Friends at this time to: RAYMOND,ANNAMARIE, NANCY,HELEN,DORIS,FAYE AND STANLEY JR. AND ALL OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS AT THIS TIME! We love you and we are here if you need us!So sorry for you loss and we LOVE you and only a phone call aWAy!!!!!! “
“To Stanley’s Family…So Sorry to hear of Stanley’s passing. My thoughts and Prayers are with you as you travel this heartbreaking road. Our Lord has Called him home and in His Arms he will be. God Bless you.”
“I remember this man as the bailiff this summer in court. He was kind and courteous everyday and ready with a wink and a smile each time I looked at him. May he rest in peace….”
“Mary Ann & Family, You are in My Thoughts & Prayers. God Bless the William’s Family”
“Thoughts and prayers to the family on your loss. I got to know Stanley when he worked at the courthose. He was always great to talk to and he had a fine sense of humor. I will miss seeing him at the courthouse. god bless.”
“The loss of Stanley comes with a tremendous sadness. I worked the road with Stanley and Ray, having served with the MSP from 1969-1990. Nothing can be said to return the loss, but Stanley is with good company now also. “
“Our thoughts and Prayers go out to Uncle Leroy, Aunt Margaret, Aunt Linda, Stanley Jr. and David. Uncle Stanley will truely be missed. God speed comfort to all of you and the rest of the family at this time. “
“Stanley was one of the first officers I met when I joined the Sheriff’s Office in 1978. He and Raymond were the only brothers at that time working for the Office. He was great influence on me and many young officers, always a guiding word based on his experiences. He will be missed greatly by all who have had the pleasure to spend any time with him. To the Family please know that you all are in our hearts and prayers. Stanley is doing double duty now watching over all the new officers for both Fire and Police. “
“To the Family: So sorry to learn of Mr. Williams passing,we met through our jobs, Mr. Williams always had a smile for everyone he encountered and brightened up our court days. He will be missed. My prayers to his entire family.”
“Thinking of you all during this difficult time.”
“So sorry to hear of Stanley’s passing. He always had a smile and always spoke when he saw you. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.”
“Mary Ann & family…My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. Another 7th district angel has joined his family & friends. God bless”
“Our sincerest sympathy to all the family and many friends of Stanley’s. He was such a great person and we will really miss him. If there is anything we can do to help in anyway, please know that we are just a phone call away. We have wonderful memories of him and we will cherish those memories as we know you will too. God bless him for all that he has done for so many and may he now rest in peace with Our Lord and Blessed Mother in heaven. “
“We would like to send our condolences out to Vivian and her family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“David and Family. Sorry to hear of your loss. Your Dad was a good man who did a lot of good for the people of this county. He will be sorely missed. Celebrate his life.”
“Wayne and I were so saddened to hear or Stanley’s passing. He was definitely a kind man and always spoke whenever he saw you. He will definitely be missed in the community. We are sorry we cannot be with you all at this time but you are all in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Your brothers and sisters at FOP 7 wish to express our eternal gratitude for your service to St. Mary’s County, and to FOP 7 as a charter member in 1971. You will always hold a place of honor in our Order. Our thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones. God speed our friend…”
“Lt. Stanley was the first supervisor I spent real time with at the Sheriff’s Office back in 1987. He was a good man, a knowledgeable police officer, and he looked out for the new officers with his wisdom and advice. I never had a negative experience with Stanley or anyone from his family. He will be missed, and my thoughts are with his loved ones…”
“We send out our deepest sympathies and send prayers for comfort during this time. Lt. Williams will be missed and forever remembered as a good man and brother of Blue. God Bless.”
“David, Chris, and the whole family we are so sorry to here of Stanley’s passing. Know we are praying for you all. God bless.”
“A respected law officer, a family man, and a friend. Stanley will be missed by everyone who knew him. Sue and I send our thoughts and prayers.”
“David and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Mr. Williams from elementary school. He was a very nice man and always had a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. GOD bless you all.”
“”You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers…” “
“To Stanley Jr and Mary Ann,I am so sorry to hear the passing Of Stanley. My prayers and thoughts are with the family. May he rest in peace”
“All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We made some great memories with Stanley, MaryAnn, David and other members of the Williams family. Know we are thinking of you and remembering our wonderful times. God Bless! “
” ANN,JUNE,JOANN,STANLEY JR,SUSIE,VIVIAN,JOHN,WAYNE,DAVID,AND THE REST OF STANLEYS FAMILY I PRAY YOU ALL REMEMBER ALL OF YOUR DAYS TOGETHER HE WILL BE MISSED.”
“Aunt Mary Ann, We are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Uncle Sonny. You all will remain in our thoughts and prayers. “
“I’m so sorry for your lose. If anything i can do please call.You guys are in my prayers.”
“Our deepest sympathy goes out to Mary Ann and family. We are so thankful to have such great neighbors. Stanley was a big influence with the boys joining St. Mary’s Sheriff Department. “
“Mary Ann please know that we are sending our sincere sympathies to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are sent your way!”
“Stanley,….we are sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the Williams family at this sad time. Stanley was a fine person. He will be greatly missed!!! May he rest in peace!!!”
“Mary Ann and Family, on behalf of the members Sheriff`s Office, past and present, I would like to express our condolences and deepest sympathies on the passing of Lt. Stanley J. Williams, Sr. Stanley is a revered member of our Sheriff`s family and during his service brought great credit to his agency and profession. Stanley touched the lives of many people and provided direction, wise counsel, and encouragement to many young officers. I was honored to have work for him, and with him. His selfless service to our Country and County is an example for others to aspire to. We are all better for knowing him. God bless you all, our prayers are with you. “
“He was a good man and officer. I remember him scratching his head as he was editing one ofmy first reports when I started as a Deputy back in 1988. I laugh about it now but I wasn’t then. I also remember he and Mary Ann making sure I had some stuffed ham while on patrol over the Christmas Holidays.My thoughts and prayers are with the family that God will strengthen and comfort you.”
“David sorry for the loss of your dad. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family”
“Stanley was a good man. He taught me many life lessons when we were on the Sheriff’s Department together. He had more “common sense” than anyone I know. I will miss him. I always knew he had my back in any situation. God bless him. May he rest in peace.”
“Dear Family & Friends: Our deepest sympathies on the passing of a wonderful man and public servant. I recall many times at the BOE in Loveville of working with Stanley. A good friend who will be missed. Our prayers to you.”
“My deepest sympathy to the family, Stanley was a great man and will be missed by many.”
“Mary Ann & Family: We were so sorry to hear about Stanley’s death. He will be missed by all. He is in a better place and at peace. “
“Mary Ann, David and all of the Williams family, our sincerest condolences on the loss of Stanley. He will be missed greatly, especially here in the 7th district. We will keep you all in our prayers. “
“Mary Ann and family, You are in my prayers during this difficult time. Sonny as I new him growing up was a wonderful man to be around always laughing and with a smile. I know as hard as this is the memories in your heart are important. Thinking of you all.”
” Stanley and Joan. So sorry to hear of the passing of Stanley. He was quite a gentleman and will be sorely missed.”
“To all of the Williams family our deepest condolence on your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. “
“SORRY FOR UR LOSS, STANLEY U WERE A GREAT MAN AND A GREAT DAD, U LEAVE BEHIND ALOT OF MEMORIES FOR ALL OF US TO SHARE, I WANNA THANK U FOR TAKING ME TO DIRT TRACK AS A KID AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES U AND MY DAD HAD, PRAYERS ARE WITH THE ENTIRE FAMILY”
“We are so sorry for your loss of a wonderful Brother, Father, Husband, and Friend. God’s blessings will help you through this time of sadness. We send our Love and Hugs… “
“We are so sorry to hear of loss of Stanley. I had the honor of working with Stanley when I was a young MSP trooper in the early 70’s. Stanley was always there to show all of us “youngsters” the way to be real police officers. Of course, he was also the first to play that practical joke on you also. I will never forget his kindness, and willingness to serve his community. Stanley, my brother in blue – you will be greatly missed! Bill & Janice Cummings”