Robert Louis "Bobby" Mattingly
August 2, 1935 ~ April 25, 2015
Robert Louis “Bobby” Mattingly of Leonardtown, MD, passed away peacefully at home on April 25, 2015 surrounded by his loving family. Born on August 2, 1935, he was the son of the late J. Louis Mattingly, Sr. and Margaret Mary Mattingly.
Bobby attended St. Mary’s Academy in Leonardtown, MD and graduated from Margaret Brent High School, Helen, MD in 1953. He worked as a salesman in the automotive parts industry and was well respected for his knowledge in this field. His places of employment included McKay’s Implement, Hayden Auto Supply, and Bussler’s Ford. He retired in 1997 and spent his time crabbing and fishing on his Key West boat, cheering on the Washington Redskins and Nationals as well as NASCAR racing, and providing his expertise on mechanical repairs for family and friends.
Bobby was married to Dorothy “Elaine” Wood Mattingly on December 29, 1957 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Mechanicsville, MD. They were married for over 57 years and have three children: Cheryl Mattingly Thuot (Pierre) of Hollywood, MD, the late Jerry Mattingly, and Brenda Mattingly of Annapolis, MD. He is survived by four grandchildren: Christopher Thuot (Miriam), Nicole Mattingly Kosky (Mike), Kelsey Mattingly, Danielle Thuot, and a great-grandson, John-Paul Thuot to whom he was known as “Pop-Pop.” He is also survived by siblings Patsy Mattingly, Lily Mae Beck, J. Louis Mattingly, Jr., David Mattingly, Mary Linda Gass, and Jamie Mattingly. He was also a loving uncle to many nephews and nieces and shared a very special devotion with Tommy Bellere, Jr. and Kevin Bellere. Along with his parents, he is predeceased by his sister Marian Bellere and his beloved aunt A. Naomi Mattingly.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, April 30, 2015 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, May 1, 2015 at 11:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church Leonardtown, MD with Father David Beaubien officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be: Christopher Thuot, Kevin Bellere, Larry Mattingly, Steve Lawrence, Keith Hewitt, and Rayner Blair. Honorary pallbearers are: Norris Shepherd, Jimmy Nelson, Donald J. Mattingly, Dick Hutson and Roger Bussler.
Contributions may be made to the Leonardtown Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 299 Leonardtown, MD 20650, and /or ACTS( A Community That Shares) P.O. Box 54 Bushwood, MD 20618.
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Lanie, Cherly & Brenda,
We were very sad to hear the news of Bobby’s passing. Dave cried when he heard the news. May God’s soothing arms wrap around all of you during this difficult time.
Love,
Dave, Cathy, Dylan & Anastasia
Bobby was such a great person and a good friend to my Dad. Prayers to the family.
Brenda: Thinking of you and sending prayers for courage and strength to all the family at this time when your hearts are so heavy with pain. May you find comfort in knowing that your dad knew how much you loved him and valued your times together.
Bobby was a great man it was a pleasure knowing him. He and our father worked together at Hayden’s Auto . you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and have you deepest sympathy. R.I.P. Bobby .
So very sorry to hear of Bobbys passing . You have our deepest sympathy. Bobby is no longer in pain but now watching over the family . Bobby was truly a great man and will be greatly missed . R.I.P. Bobby .
Norris and I are so sorry to hear of bobby’s passing. Norris is going to miss crabing , fishing and his jokes. We both are going to miss him on the bus trips. We all had a lot of fun! Just remember he is now playing cards with Frank, Jack Alvey and Mrs Annie (mom). Please know we are right up the hill if you need anything please call. We will keep all you in our prayers.
Sincere condolences to the Mattingly family.
Bobby is now free from pain. I’m sure he was met by “family and friends” who have gone before him. He will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers to the Mattingly family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Elaine, Brenda and Cheryl during this time of loss. May we always keep the precious memories of Bobby close to our heart. He is now resting in peace with our Eternal Father.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the love of family and friends help you all through these difficult days. Bobby was a wonderful person and a pleasure to work with at Bussler Ford. May God Bless You All.
Take Care Jeff and Flo
Bobby was such a nice person. He had that little smile that seemed to say he knew something you didn’t! He was one of my father’s best friends and I have fond memories of the two of them laughing over something – most of the times they were ever together.
I am so sorry he is gone and please know I share at least a small portion of your huge loss.
We are so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. He was such a gentleman and a great help at our Christmas bazaars at St Francis Xavier. He will always be remembered as a good friend. May God bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Dear Elaine, Cheryl and Brenda, I am so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort with you memories knowing that Bobby is no longer suffering. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you!
I am so sorry to hear about Bobby. He was the most KIND and HONEST man I have ever known. When I lived in Maryland and needed any work done on a car, Bobby was always there to either fix it or give advice on how to do it. He always seemed to have time to talk and help. Although I haven’t seen Bobby for almost 3 years, we did keep in touch with a few phone calls here and there. He will be TRULY missed by all of his family and friends.
Brenda and family, I remember your dad from Haydens Auto and enjoyed dealing with him there. He was such a nice person. Thinking of you all at this time.
Elaine and family – we are very sorry to hear about Bobby’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Rest in peace, Bobby.
Mrs. Mattingly, Cheryl and Brenda,
Ron and I send our love to all of you at this most difficult time. May your many fun, loving and precious memories bring you comfort and strength now and in the days ahead.
Our sincerest sympathy to Elaine and all the Mattingly family. Be assured of our love, thoughts and prayers.
Bobby was such a great person and a good friend to my Dad. Prayers to the family.
Elaine & Family, Maythe good lord be with each and every one in this of need & sorrow. I am very sorry that I did not get back to see Bobby. We all have been there and I know what you and your family is going thru. Just remember that death leaves a broken heart and wonderful memories will last you life time. May
Bobby rest in peace now his work on earth is done. May the good Lord be with you all.
Elaine and family. Just to let you know that Jimmy and I are thinking of you and your family. We are sending our most sincere condolences.
Elaine, Cheryl, and Brenda, so sorry to hear of the passing of Bobby. Dad (and I) really enjoyed the time with Bobby attending Redskin games years ago. Sometimes they might have had too much fun (if you know what I mean). I did most of the driving those last couple years. Ha! Ha! Dad really looked forward to those Sunday afternoons with Bobby. Bobby had a way of making you feel very comfortable…a very sincere man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Mattingly family.
To my loving family Lainie,Sherry & Brenda,I know how your heart aches about losing Bobby.When I lost our father “Louis” I lost my father and my best friend and now I’ve lost my brother and also my best friend. Bobby reminded me every time I saw him which was very often he reminded me of my father. They were so much alike and I cherished every time we were together. It was Louis’s way and Bobby’s way. I had a tough time losing Daddy and now Bobby but I know they are together again as well with all our family and they will help all of us through this sad time. Bobby, “I LOVE YOU BUDDY” and I will always miss you. Rest in peace and pray for us down here. I promised you that I will take care of Lainie and I will, Love Jamie & Brenda
To the Mattingly Family: We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this very sad time. God bless you.
Lainey and family, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss of Bobby. He was such a nice person and always had a smile and a laugh. Back in the day we all had some good times, keep those memories close along with all the most recent memories. May he rest in peace and each of you know that he is still amongst friends and family. Love, Pat
Lanie and family, we are so sorry to hear that Bobby has left us, but we all know he earned his wings. God must have needed a special angel, and he surely found one in Bobby.
There were so many people waiting for him that he won’t get lonely. Remember we are here if you should ever need anything.
Dear Elaine,Cheryll, Brenda and family, We were so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. May you find comfort in the prayers and thoughts sent your way at this difficult time.
Thinking of your family. In this time of loss and grief, hoping you will have special memories of Bobby to make you smile and laugh.
Lanie and Family, I was so sorry to hear about Bobby. He was such a nice person
and will be missed by all.
Brenda – we were very sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Dear beautiful Brenda, I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. May you and your family find comfort in the prayers and thoughts sent your way at this difficult time. I so understand since I lost my dad last March. God Bless!
Elaine and Family, I was very saddened to read of the passing of Bobby. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.