Burton Benedict "Benny" Raley
December 13, 1927 ~ September 24, 2015
Burton Benedict (Ben) Raley, 87, of Lexington Park, MD passed away surrounded by his loving family on September 24, 2015 in Washington, DC. Born on December 13, 1927 in Callaway, MD, he was the son of the late Rose Marie Price Raley and Harry Hamilton Raley. Ben was the loving husband of the late Frances (Sissie) Raley, whom he married on April 29, 1965 in Leonardtown, MD and who preceded him in death on May 8, 2003. Ben is survived by his children: Debbie Abell (Norbert) of Chaptico, MD, David R. Raley (Sally) of Lexington Park, MD, Judy Bean of Great Mills, MD, Lillian M. Raley-Clarke of Great Mills, MD, Betty Jo Tennyson (Donnie) of Ridge, MD, Chuggy Raley (Christina) of Ridge, MD 20 grandchildren, 20 great grandchildren, daughter in law Lee Lee of Hermanville, MD, and sister Marjorie Causey of Prince Frederick, MD. He was preceded in death by his son Marvin Raley, daughter Darlene Connelly, siblings; Maude Twiss, Joseph Raley, Genevieve Payne, Ralph Raley, Woodrow Raley, Virginia Lewis, and Harry Raley.
Ben graduated from Great Mills High School in 1944 and was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County, MD. Ben served in the United States Army from February, 1946 to April 1947, earning the World War II Victory Medal. Ben started working at PAX River in 1943, at the age of 16, on the trash truck. When he retired in 1974, he was the supervisor of the transportation department. After retirement as a civil servant, he worked with his brother Doc running their own carpentry business. After retiring from carpentry, he worked as a tavern operator, retiring in 2005. Christmas was his favorite holiday. For many years, his house was an extravagant light display for all to see. Family was the most important aspect of his life. Anytime spent with family, was time well spent for him. He loved traveling, cruises and spending time at the lake with Connie. The lake house was where he fed the squirrels and deer, watched the birds, and enjoyed time on the pontoon. Ben enjoyed reading, watching westerns, playing cards and maintaining his yard.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, September 29, 2015 from5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday, September 30, 2015 at 10:00 AM in the funeral home chapel with Father Scott Woods officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be: JC Connelly, John Connelly, Eric Wood, Andy Wood, Justin Raley, and Sonie Hubbard. Honorary Pallbearers Dale Abell, Tracy Keen, Melissa Thompson, Becky Griffin, Kathy Wood, Tabatha Bennett, Joshua Hubbard, Kristine Pomory, Angela Tennyson, Elizabeth Long, Hannah Raley, Blake Raley, Brandon Jinnette, and Ayla Keenan. .





Connie and the Raley Family
I am so for your lost every time I saw Ben he always was smiling and was so happy. My prays go out to all you you.
Heartfelt love, hugs and prayers for the entire Raley Family. Steve and I have fond childhood & adult memories of Benedict and your whole family. He was the epitome of kindness, with a gentle spirit. He was a true gentleman and great example of a dedicated family man. Connie: Thanks for bringing him so much happiness in his later years. Love to you all.
My prayers and condolences to family and friends.
Raley family : you have our deepest sympathy and prayers during this difficult time . Benedict was a great man and will truly be missed ! R.I.P. Benidict
Debbie, Judy and family, My sincere condolences on the loss of your father, you are in my prayers.
To Connie and the entire Raley Family .benedict was a truly good man I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
We wish to express our deepest sympathy to Connie and the Raley family on the loss of your partner & dad. But rest assured – remembering how much he loved to dance, I’m sure he’s dancing in heaven right now! Thinking of you all and praying god walks with you during this difficult time to ease your sorrow and pain.
May our Lord wrap you all in His loving embrace during this most difficult time. I’ll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
To Lillian and all of the Raley Family, I am sorry to learn of your Dad’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lillian and family, you have our deepest sympathy on the loss of your Dad. If there is anything you need please do not hesitate to call.
Raley Family and Connie, Sorry for your loss. Keep all the great memories close to your heart. Sorry I can’t make the services but will keep all in my prayers! RIP Benedict!
Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. Your father was a good man who welcomed everyone into his family with open arms and he will surely be missed by everyone.
My sincere condolences to Chuggy and the entire family at this time. May God speed healing and comfort to each and everyone of you.
Chuggy and Family – So sorry to learn of your Father’s passing. He lived a good life. We are praying you all get through this very sad time with ease.
Sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with all of your family. Memories take me way, way back.
I was saddened to hear of Benedict’s passing. He was a friend of my fathers many year back, then became family to me years later. He was such a wonderfully happy person. May God be with all of you.
Dear Connie and the Raley Family,
Rick and I still think of Ben often and wish that Connie and Ben could both have visited us in Florida this Winter. We’re sorry that we couldn’t have been in Maryland for what we heard was a wonderful celebration of Ben’s life. We have added a little to his legacy by making a donation to Hospice of St. Mary’s. Sending love and prayers too.