Joseph "Howard" Lacey

joseph  lacey

December 1, 1930 ~ January 25, 2019

Joseph "Howard" Lacey, 88 of Avenue, MD, passed away at MedStar St. Mary's Hospital on January 25, 2019 with his loving family at his side as they have been for some time. He was born on December 1, 1930 in Oakley, MD and married the love of his life, Dorothy Marie Bowles on October 30, 1954 at Sacred Heart Church. He is survived by his wife, Dorothy of 63 years of marriage. They were companions and a sign of "true love" for their children to cherish. He was the loving son of Walter Lacey and Minnie Lacey. He is survived by his sisters, Shirley Knott of Chaptico, Dorothy Trossbach (Philip) of Avenue, brothers, Ed Lacey (Ida) and Joe Lacey (Gertrude) both of Avenue. He is also survived by his four children, Catherine Hayden of (Mechanicsville), Linda Reinmuth (Dale) of Mechanicsville, Donna Goddard (Sam) of Dameron, and Patty Burch of Bushwood. He is survived by 7 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his sisters, Margaret Hill, Louise Mattingly, Ann Cheseldine and Theresa Thompson, brothers, John G. Lacey and Andrew Lacey. Joseph worked for the State Highway in Highway Maintenance and then as a Mechanic along with farming. He worked 30 years until his retirement. He loved his four girls and did everything he could possibly do for them. He was loved dearly by his girls and grandchildren and will be greatly missed by all who were blessed to have known him. He enjoyed family gatherings. He also enjoyed gardening, hunting and mechanic work. His favorite hobby and past time was fishing. Time spent on the water was like heaven to him. He was of the Catholic faith and it meant the world to him. Sacred Heart was his Church home. The family will receive friends on Thursday, January 31, 2019 from 5:00 PM to 8 PM and prayers at 7 PM in the Mattingely-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, Feb. 1, 2019 at 10:00 AM. at Sacred Heart Church in Bushwood, MD with Father Samuel Plummer officiating. Interment will follow in the Church cemetery. Pallbearers will be his grandsons, Rick Murphy, Joe Jackson Jr., Steve Murphy, Sammy Goddard Jr., Allan Goddard and Cody Burch. Honorary Pallbearer will be his granddaughter, Lacey Burch. Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of St. Mary's, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650 or Seventh District Vol. Rescue Squad, P. O. Box 7, Avenue, MD 20609.

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  1. Elizabeth Ann Bowles says:

    Dorothy, and All of Howard’s Family: Every name’s a touchstone that leads to a place and time, Where God has used another’s heart to reach out and touch mine. Uncle Howard was welcomed by the Angels. One of the Finest men I had the pleasure of knowing, and Best Brother-In- Law for sure. Love Big Sis Dorothy. Prayers & Love, ANN

  2. Joan (Bowles) Snodderly says:

    My thoughts and prayers are with Joseph’s family and friends. May the many happy memories that you shared w/him throughout the years, bring you comfort in the days ahead.

  3. To the Family Of Howard I’m so sorry for your loss . May he rest in peace and May the Lord Give Peace & comfort to the Family God Bless

  4. Carol Ann &Satch Hall says:

    Mrs. Lacey & Family,
    We are very sorry for your loss. Mr. Lacey was a real gentleman and will be missed by many. Please be assured of our continued thoughts and prayers through this sorrowful time for all of you and may he rest in peace.

  5. Aunt Dorthony and Family,
    so sorry to hear about Uncle howard,
    no more pain and we have gain a angel
    prayers and love

  6. Mrs. Lacey, Linda, Donna & Patti and family,
    Our heartfelt prayers for you and your family. May your memories help you through this most sorrowful time. May you be comforted by the many thoughts and prayers of those around you. May he rest in peace.

  7. Shirley Combs Trossbach says:

    Mrs. Lacey, Aunt Debbie, Linda, Donna, Patti & family:

    My thoughts, prayers & condolences to you all @ this sad time. Please know that I’m thinking & praying for you all. God Bless.

    Shirley (Steve Combs’s niece)

  8. Dorothy, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Howard. I will keep him and you in my prayers. Mary Frances Abell.

  9. What a sweet courageous gentleman!
    Will miss his kindness and tolerance.

  10. So Sorry, Dorothy and family. He was a good man. I know you will miss him greatly.Condolences to all his family.

  11. Aunt Dorthy and girls, so sorry to hear of Uncle Howards passing, he will be missed by many. Hugs and prayers to everyone!
    Toni

  12. Frankie @ Pat Vallandingham says:

    Lacey family, so sad to hear of Mr. Lacey’s passsing. He always meant me with a smile at the radiation place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!

  13. Larry and Sharyn Adams says:

    Dear Dorothy and Family,
    We are so very sorry for yours and your family’s loss. Howard was a very nice man and a fine gentleman. My/our privilege to have known him. May all of your loving memories sustain you at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless and watch over all of you.
    Love,
    Larry and Sharyn Adams

  14. Mrs. Lacey & Family,
    We send our sincere condolences on your great loss! Over the years, from what I have heard he was a wonderful man! Carry his many wonderful memories close at heart, he will always be with you! He is now your guardian angel from above!
    Tommy & Rose Goldsborough & Family


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