Dorothy Victoria "Vicki" Hayden (Kucher)
January 15, 1947 ~ February 15, 2020
Dorothy Victoria “Vicki” Hayden, 73, of Bushwood, MD passed on February 15, 2020 at her residence. Born on January 15, 1947 in Washington, DC, she was the loving daughter of the late Dorothy Bailey Kucher and Andrew John Kucher.
Vicki was the loving wife of James Stanley Hayden, whom she married on February 4, 1967 in Holy Angels Catholic Church in Avenue, MD.
Vicki is survived by her son Todd Bailey Hayden (Chandra) of Abell, MD, 3 grandchildren Jeb Grayson Hayden, Jill Victoria Hayden, and Carrie Elizabeth Hayden. She is preceded in death by her son James Shawn Hayden and her brother Carl Francis Abell.
She was a lifelong St. Mary’s County, MD resident. Vicki graduated from St. Mary’s Academy in 1964 and was a homemaker. She loved helping others, knitting, sewing, spending time with friends and family. As well as supporting the Sacred Heart Catholic Church Parish in Bushwood, MD.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, February 20, 2020 from 5:00 to 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, February 21, 2020 at 11:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Bushwood, MD with Father Samuel Plummer officiating and Father Wyble Con-Celebrating.
Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Serving as pallbearers will be Jeb Hayden, Ron Triplett, Tony Bailey, Brian Hayden, Jon Spence and Patrick Goode.
In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the Seventh Dist. Vol. Rescue Squad P.O. Box 7 Avenue, MD 20609 and Hospice of St. Mary’s P.O. Box 625 Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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I’m so sorry for your loss .I went to school with Vickie , she was so quiet ,But was always so happy , and alway willing to help you in any way she could ,such a great person .I did a lot of sewing for Vickie this past years. Vickie was a great friend also – I will definitely miss her God Bless
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hayden family and during this time of sorrow. Treasure the many memories that you created and shared with Vicki. She will be missed by all.
Nina Bowles, Joan Snodderly, Donna, Derek and Michaela Adams
Dear Hayden family,
Our deepest condolences go out to you and your family. We are praying for your loss and for comfort for the family. I will never forget Vicki and all the help she gave to us at the rescue squad auxiliary. She was such a pleasant, beautiful person who was always a joy to work around. We will miss her.
Steve & Nancy Daigle
Dear Stanley, Todd and all the Hayden family and many friends,
Our sincerest and heartfelt sympathy to you during this most difficult time. Be assured
of our love, thoughts and prayers. Vicki was so sweet and kind and we were all blessed knowing her and all of you too. We will greatly miss her as will so many others. May you all find comfort and strength in the days ahead and please know that we are always a phone call away if there is anything you need or if we can help in any way.
I am so sorry for you loss. Vickie was a very sweet person. I will keep your family in my prayers. Mary Frances Abell.
Stanley Todd and the Hayden family, we are so sorry to hear of the Loss of Jamie and Vicki so close in time. What a tragedy. You all are in our prayers.
Todd and all the Hayden family Sorry to hear this….
Stanley, Todd and Family, I was so sorry to hear this. Remember whenever you see a feather on the ground an Angel is near. My deepest sympathy.
Stan, Todd, and family, hugs and prayers to help you through this difficult time. There are just no words to express how we feel. You are family to us and we are here if you should need anything.
Love you guys, Toni and Jimmy
We are so very sorry for your loss. I have never met a more gentle soul. Prayers and condolences.
We are so very sorry for your loss. I have never met a more gentle soul. Prayers and condolences.
Todd, Chandra and all the Hayden Family
Our most sincere condolence on your great loss. May she rest in peace and may God lift you up at this sad time. God bless all your family.
Wayne and Joan Thompson
Stanley, Todd and the Hayden family. We are so sorry to hear of Vicki and Jamie passing. May the many wonderful memories made over the years, bring you all comfort and peace at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Hayden Family: My deepest condolence. In the short time I knew Vicky, she truly touched my life with her beautiful self. She was an amazing human being and will be missed! May she rest in peace.
Stanley, Todd, Chandra and family,
Ron and I send our love and prayers to all of you. Vicki will be greatly missed by our family. May the wonderful memories you carry in your hearts bring you peace now and in the days ahead.
We are so sorry to hear of Vicki’s passing. Over the years our paths have met, and she has always been such a beautiful, kind spirit. I recently saw her at McKays in Leonardtown on December 22 and we talked for about 20 minutes. She will be greatly missed around the community. God bless you and your family.
Stan and family: We are so, so sorry to hear of your loss of both Vicki and Jamie. We are thinking of you and have you in our prayers. God bless.
Stanley, Todd, Chandra and family,
We extend our deepest sympathy on your loss. We will miss this special lady. Please let us know if we can be of any assistance. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Stanley, Todd & Chandra & Family, my heartfelt prayers and condolences to you all during this time. Ms. Vicki was such a sweet woman who always smiled and spoke whenever she saw us. God Bless you all.
Todd my heart goes out to you and to your family.Vicki had a heart of gold.Whenever she saw me she would always stop and say hello.I will keep you in my prayers.
Dear Stanley and family, our sincere condolences on the loss of Vicki and Jamie. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time.