Ronald Felix Carlson, USN (Retired)
May 24, 1929 ~ September 1, 2020
Ronald Felix Carlson, “Ron”, 91, of Lexington Park, MD, formerly from Milton-Freewater, Oregon, passed away peacefully at his residence surrounded by his loving family on September 1st, 2020.
Ron was born on May 24, 1929 to the late Felix Ivar Carlson, and Edith Mattson Carlson in Astoria, Oregon, and was the loving husband of Melba Arlene Potter Carlson whom he married on January 17, 1953 in Gretna Green Arizona.
He is survived by his four children, Ronda Boyce of Castle Rock, CO, Jean Fail (Peter) of Houma, LA, Cathy Gaffney (Jerry) of Richmond, VA and Neal Carlson of Lexington Park, MD, his sister Carol Minsnger of CA, his 6 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren.
After Ronald graduated from Washington High in Portland Oregon, he attended Oregon State University for a few semesters before enlisting in the United States Navy in 1950 as an Aviator. Throughout his 31 years of service Ronald was awarded many honorable medals including: Three Air Medals, Navy Expert Pistol Medal, Vietnam Defense Campaign Medal, National Defense Service Medal with Bronze Star, Antarctic Service Medal, Korean Service Medal, Navy Commendation, Navy Unit Commendation, Navy Expeditionary Medal, China Service Medal, Air Medal with Two Stars and Four Strike Flight Awards, Untied Nations Medal, Expert Rifle Medal, Vietnam Service Medal with Seven Stars, and the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal. He was previously stationed in NAS Agana, Guam where he was reinstated to New Orleans, LA, and Patuxent River, MD where he retired as a Commander from the United States Navy in July of 1981.
Following his retirement from the United States Navy Ron Continued to be an active member of his community, he was a Past Potentate of the Boumi Shriners, a 32nd Degree of the Scottish Rite Temple, and an active member of the Elks. When he wasn’t participating in the organizations, he enjoyed traveling with his wife, and hunting. Ronald was an amazing man and will be deeply missed by his family and friends.
The family will receive friends on Friday September 4, 2020 from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel Located at 41590 Fenwick St, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
Serving as Honorary Pallbearers will be Conor Boyce, Christian Boyce, Nicholas Fail, Caitlin Boyce, Lauren Phipps, and Allison Fail
Contributions may be made to: Shriners Hospitals for Children
Processing Center, P.O. Box 863765, Orlando FL, 32886





Brother Ron “Fair Winds and Following Seas”. We will really miss you. We traveled the road together for over fifty years.Enjoyed many great times together. Goodbye ‘My Brother”.
To the Carlson Family.Sorry for the loss of your Dad, your Family will be in thoughts and Prayers
Arlene and family please accept our condolences. Since joining the TACAMO community in 1982 Ron has always had the respect and admiration from all the aircrew that came after him. Not until I was stationed here in PAX and joined the lodge did I actually have the privilege to meet and know Ron. He embodied the patriotic and humble qualities of a true gentleman. May God Bless his soul and provide comfort to all of your family and those who knew him.
Ron was simply my favorite and most admired Naval Officer and a dear friend. While stationed there for different tours we shared memories of VXE-6. The Navy is a lesser place without Ron.
Harry
To Arlene and all her children,
I’m so sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. Whenever Arlene spoke of Ron, you could tell he was the love of her life. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Dear Carlson Family,
On behalf of the TACAMO Navy community, please accept our sympathies and prayers of peace. A TACAMO Hall of Fame plankowner and truly the ALPHA of our mission/community, Ron was THE ROLE MODEL for so many leaders. In the 30 plus years I have known him, every story told has been preserved and re-discussed. His service and the lessons he shared will serve those who have followed him. So glad to have been able to spend some hours laughing and swapping stories with him last week. He leads a mighty group of Sailors and friends in a Heavenly squadron now. Always cherished and remembered, RON CARLSON.
Arlene my condolences to you and your family I know we haven’t spoke for a whirl but I’m gonna have to call you I’m so sorry to hear it about Ron he was very funny and he was most broken again I’m so sorry you must be going through a lot right now call me when we can do some thing I am so sorry to hear about Ron my heart is broken I really love the ron