Cody Alexander Sir
July 14, 1989 ~ May 9, 2021
Cody Alexander Sir, 31, of Mechanicsville, MD passed away on May 9, 2021. He was born on July 14, 1989 in Leonardtown, MD and was the loving son of Michelle Norvell and Step Son James Bynaker both of Mechanicsville, MD. He was the son of David Sir of Daytona Beach, FL. Cody was the loving father of Edward (Eddie) C. Sir of Mechanicsville, MD. Along with his sister Sandra Bynaker of Mechanicsville, MD.
He was a lifelong St. Mary’s County, MD resident and graduated from Chopticon High School. Cody was a Funeral Service Associate for the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD.
Cody joined the Mechanicsville Volunteer Rescue Squad in 2009 as an active member. In 2010 he obtained his EMT Certification and eventually obtained his IV Tech Certification. Cody later obtained his EVOC Certification and was turned over as a driver. He was active within the organization at the time of his passing serving as a previous Training Officer, a driver trainer, a crew chief trainer, a field training coach and a top runner.
Whenever anyone thinks about Cody, they think of him as their best friend. A True Friend that would do anything and everything to help them whenever they needed him, to make them laugh and to just make them happy with his genuine personality. He was generous, compassionate, kind and dearly loved by his family and friends beyond measure. He had a huge heart to match that big personality. No one was a stranger to him. If you met him as a stranger, you walked away as a friend. He made everyone laugh, and laugh hard, at his pranks, his jokes and his songs. (Especially Harper Valley PTA). He was as forgiving as he was thoughtful and loving. He really did make a difference and this world is better for him being in it. Loved one’s will grieve terribly, but as the circle of life dictates, they will move forward. He will always be remembered and the memories will all be wonderful ones. Thank God for those memories. He will definitely be the brightest star we are pulled towards.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, May 18, 2021 from 9:00 AM to 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. An EMS Service will be held at 10:00 AM followed by a Funeral Service with Bishop William McClean officiating. Interment will be private.





No words can ever be said to make this better, Thinking of all of you and know I am here if needed. Praying for peace and comfort for you all.
My heart breaks for this family and especially little Eddie. No parent should lose a child. My thoughts are with you during this time.
Michelle and Sandy and family… my heart filled condolences to you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that my family is keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. Princess
Michelle,
My deepest sympathy for your loss! There are no words to take away your pain. Please know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers!
Tammy
Cody we will miss you. Fly high with the Angels. Give Me-Maw and Pop-Pop a hug and kiss. You have left many memories in our hearts.
Michelle, James, Sandra and Eddie you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
We are thinking and praying for you and your family Michelle. We love you!