Patricia "Patsy" I. Cheseldine
March 26, 1943 ~ March 31, 2022
Patricia “Patsy” Anne Irby Cheseldine, 79 of Leonardtown, MD, formerly of Avenue, MD peacefully passed away on March 31, 2022, at home. She was born March 26, 1943, in Farmville, VA she was the daughter of the late Fannie Mae and Sam Moses Irby.
Patsy was the loving wife of John William “Billy” Cheseldine, Sr, who she married on September 16, 1961, at Holy Angels Church in Avenue, MD. She is survived by her children Johnny (Beth) Cheseldine of Clements, MD, Gary (Michelle) Cheseldine of Hollywood, MD, and Scott (Christina) Cheseldine of Aberdeen, MD. She is also survived by her 8 grandchildren, Desiree Nuckols, Ivy Cheseldine, Colin Lorah, Mason Cheseldine, Tricia Cheseldine, Kaylee Cheseldine, Olivia Lorah and Ashley Cheseldine. In addition to her parents Patsy was preceded in death by her amazing husband Billy and her 9 siblings.
Patsy moved from La Plata to St. Mary’s County in 1961. Patsy was a devoted wife and a boys’ mom. She always put her husband and children before herself. She retired as the Director of Medical records after 30 years at St’ Mary’s hospital. After leaving the hospital, she worked at the Cheseldine Auto Group until she fully retired in 2017.
Through the years Patsy volunteered with the 7th District Optimist Club, 7th District Rescue Squad and ACTS of Avenue. She was a lady of faith and attended services at Holy Angels Church and the Grace Chapel Ministries in Mechanicsville under Pastor Carl Snyder.
Patsy had a great sense of humor and loved to dance. Patsy and Billy would often be seen out with friends enjoying the sounds of laughter and good music. Those who knew them know that everyone in heaven can hear her calling “Billllllll” right now. Patsy wasn’t the best cook in the world, however she always made sure her family was provided for.
A special thank you goes out to the amazing caregivers that provided unrelenting, heart filled care and family support for Pasty over the last couple of years. Thank you, Bernie, Carolyn, Theresa, Sharika, Peaches and Lisa. Thank you also goes to the team at Hospice and her special nurse Theresa.
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, April 6, 2022, from 6:00 Pm to 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD, where a funeral service will follow at 7:00 PM with Pastor Carl Synder officiating. Interment will be private. Serving as pallbearers will be Mason Cheseldine, Kaylee Cheseldine, Olivia Lorah and Ashley Cheseldine.
Donations can be given to ACTS of St Mary’s County P.O. Box 54 Bushwood, MD 20618 or the Leonardtown Rescue Squad P.O. Box 50 Leonardtown, MD 20650.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A. Leonardtown, MD.





To the Cheseldine family, remembering Patsy with much fondness. Take care & cherish the memories!!!!
Dear Family, so sorry to hear of Pasty’s pasting. May she rest in peace!Take Care to All!
SO sorry to hear about Patsy. I worked with her for ten years at St. Mary”s Hospital. May she rest in peace.,
To all family, so sorry to hear of Patsy passing. Deepest sympathy for all. Patsy was a wonderful lady. Always liked talking with her. Known her since my days at the BOE. She is now with all her dancing buddies.
Johnny, Gary & Scott – I am so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. She was a lovely lady and will be missed.
Joann
When Mr. Bill died & your mom moved to Leonardtown the creek got quieter. I miss them both. Tom & I had such fun with your parents. They were great people. Hard times for you guys. I pray for you all.
Deepest sympathy to Johnny, Gary, Scott and family. Patsy was a nice woman who always greeted everyone with a smile.
My deepest sympathy to the Cheseldine family. I loved when
Patsy would come in the Frame Shop we always have such great conversations. I will always have fond memories of Patsy.
Johnny, Gary, Scott, & your Familiws,
Sorry to learn about your Mom’s death. Bert & I had many good times when we got together with your Mom & Billy. Heaven now has two new angels who will look down on you. I’ll sincerely miss Patsy and my prayers go out to your families.
Bonnie Cheseldine
The world has lost an incredible life. You have our sincere condolences, our deepest sympathies, and our unending love. She can enjoy Mr Cheseldine (Billy) was also great person. My father and mother and the rest of family adored them. She will be truly missed. Love the family always”
From the Young’s Family
Johnny, Gary, and Scott and families, I am so very sad to hear of Patsy’s passing. I will keep all of you in my prayers. I feel blessed to have grown up with your family. May the Lord bless you and your loved ones during your time of loss.
Johnny, Gary, Scott and family – on behalf of the 7th District VRS, please accept our condolences upon the loss of your dear mother. Her volunteer service with the Rescue Squad as an active, and later Associate member were much appreciated. Rest in Peace Patsy, we will take it from here!
George Kennett
Squad Chaplain