James Henry "Jay" Bowles, Jr.
September 12, 1959 ~ August 10, 2023
James Henry Bowles, Jr., “Jay”, 63, of Leonardtown, MD, passed away on August 10, 2023 in Alexandria, VA. Born on September 12, 1959 in Leonardtown, MD, he was the son of Margaret L. “Peggy” Bowles of Leonardtown, MD, and the late James H. “Jimmy” Bowles, Sr. Jay was the loving husband of the late Marlene Klear Norris, whom he married on March 10, 2017, and who preceded him in death on June 7, 2022. He is survived by his stepchildren Lindsey Norris and Brennan Norris ( Ann Marie Cameron) all of Leonardtown, MD, his sister Mary S. “Sue” Abell (Francis) of Leonardtown, MD, his nieces Brittanie Hickey (Tommy) of Great Mills, MD and Lauren Abell (Richard Kruckow) of Leonardtown, MD, and his great nephews Callan and Archer Hickey of Great Mills, MD, and Reese Kruckrow of Leonardtown, MD.
Jay was a lifelong St. Mary’s County, MD resident and graduated from Chopticon High School in 1978. He was employed with SMECO, retiring in September 2018 with 38 years of service. At the time of his passing he was working for A&G Electric. Jay was a member of the Leonardtown Vol. Fire Department from 1975 to 1985; he rejoined in 2015 and was active at the time of his passing. He was also a member of the Leonardtown Vol. Fire Department Auxiliary and the Leonardtown Rescue Squad Auxiliary. Jay enjoyed golf, movies, travelling with his wife, and spending time with friends and family.
The family will receive friends on Friday, August 18, 2023 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, August 19, 2023 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church, Leonardtown, MD with Father David Beaubien officiating. Interment will follow at Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Serving as pallbearers will be Mike Merican, Kenny Scully, Ricky Guy, John Connelly, Dale Abell, and J.W. Vallandingham. Honorary pallbearers will be Wayne Cook, Jeff Pilkerton, Tommy Fowler, Brennan Norris, Bobby Glascoe, and Gilbert Murphy.
Contributions may be made to the Leonardtown Vol. Fire Department, P.O. Box 50, Leonardtown, MD 20650, Leonardtown Vol. Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 299, Leonardtown, MD 20650, and/or Leonardtown Vol. Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary, P.O. Box 361, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.





To the family of Jay Bowles: A wonderful young man with a beautiful, gentle soul. You made a big difference in this world. God will surely invite you to sit by his side and reunite with his family . Diane Duke Dorsch and family .
Jay was such a great person I worked with him for 29 years. Prayers for his family, I know Marlene was waiting for him with open arms. God only takes the best I’m sure he has him under his wing.
To my Sister Peggy, Sue, and family We are all in shock with having to hear of our Jay leaving us way too soon. We can only feel in our hearts that God must have needed him to come home so he could be with all our family in heaven. I thank God for all the memories that I hold in my heart from our childhood growing up until now with Jay. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
To the family of Jay, I’m so sorry for your loss ,May he RIP .Jay was a good guy , I knew him from Smeco.
I know Sherman & Jay will have a lot to talk about Up there .I Pray the Lord will give Peace & Comfort to all he has left behind .
My Sympathy & Prayers to Everyone God Bless
Johnny and I send our sincerest condolences to Jay’s family during this difficult time. We both have many wonderful memories of working with Jay and the time spent outside of the office. I cherish the time on the ballfield with him and oh, the times we had after the games! He was definitely one of a kind and will me missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing him. May he Rest in Eternal Peace.
Sylvia & Johnny Welch
Peggy and family, Sending my thoughts and prayers. Jay was such a wonderful person we will all miss him. RIP neighbor.
Jay was one of the most wholesome humans I ever met. Literally never said a bad word about another person in my presence. He epitomized turning the other cheek.
Rest in Peace Buddy
Bill Soule
Our deepest sympathy to your family. He was enjoyable to talk to and kind to everyone.
John Cameron and Nancy Hicks