Carol Jeanette Ballew Porter

carol ballew porter

September 14, 1969 ~ February 18, 2024

Carol Jeanette Ballew Porter, 54, of Hollywood, MD, gained her angel wings in the early morning hours of Sunday, February 18, 2024. Carol leaves behind her loving parents, Kay and Ray Ballew of Hollywood, MD, her sons whom she dearly loved, Darren and Daniel Ballew, her best friend and husband, Mark A. Porter, her brothers, Ray Ballew (Lisa) and Donny Goble, her sister, Sissy Goble of NC, four grandchildren--- to Owen, she was “Gigi”, as well as two special fur babies that she loved, Minnie and Daisy. Carol graduated from Leonardtown High School. Carol married her husband, Mark, in 1996, after meeting him at a Crime Solvers’ Dance. They shared 29 wonderful years together and were married for 27 years. Carol worked at the St. Mary’s County Sheriff’s Office and retired due to health issues that plagued her throughout her life; however, she was a fighter, and at times, hard-headed, which helped her overcome those health issues. She was then diagnosed with lung cancer in July 2023 and underwent three major surgeries in November 2023, but she never quit fighting. Carol had a heart of gold and her smile would light up a room. She had many friends and always made time to speak with them. Carol had a love for sunsets and filled her phone with beautiful photos of them. She was a bright light with her beautiful brown eyes and special smile, and an incredibly remarkable woman who will be greatly missed and never forgotten. To know her was to love her. When you stop to take in a sunset, think of Carol; she is now free from pain. Fly high, my Carol. The family will receive friends on Thursday, February 29, 2024 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a funeral service will be held in the funeral home chapel on Friday, March 1, 2024 at 10:00 AM with Pastor Gwen Banks and Pastor Larry Crabtree officiating. Interment will follow at Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Serving as pallbearers will be her sons, Darren and Daniel Ballew, Kevin and Joey Somerville, her brother, Ray Ballew, and her husband, Mark A. Porter. Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.

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  1. Rip Carol, spent a lot of time working together at s.o. Lots of memories. Rip. Hugs n prayers to the family and friends.

  2. Shirley Combs Trossbach says:

    Mark, Mr. & Mrs. Ballew, Daniel, Darren & Family:

    Our thoughts, prayers & condolences go out to you all on the passing of Carol.. I’m lost for words since I had just spoke to Carol on the Wednesday before she passed & she sounded so good.. God must of wanted her w/him as an Angel; which he sure got a beautiful one.. May you all hold your memories of her close to your hearts.. She’s your guardian angel now.. She’s got her wings spread wide soaring the heavenly skies watching over you all.. I will miss you, Carol.. It’s not goodbye, it’s I’ll see you later..

    Shirley Combs Trossbach & family

  3. Prayers and condolences to all of Carol’s family. May she Rest in heavenly peace.

  4. David and cyndi wood says:

    Mark, Kay and Ray…. So very sorry to hear of Carol;s passing ,, Shocked would be the word… We had many laughs together and many long talks. She was a Delight for sure.. Loving Rum cakes and Rum Balls . Will now have a Special meaning.. Mark Our door remains open for you at anytime.. We will miss her.. Rest in Peace Carol free from pain . David and Cyndi Wood

  5. Mark and family,
    So sorry to hear about Carol’s passing, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Carol was a beautiful person who loved life to the fullest. May God wrap his loving arms around her and may she rest in peace.
    JoAnn Gatton Demko and family

  6. I didn’t know Carol or Mark outside of the Pharmacy at PJ Bean but we became good friends through the “window”. No matter how bad she was feeling or how bad her day was, she always had a smile on her face. I could even hear the smile on her face when she called. I gave her the nickname “Smiley”. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers to Mark and family

  7. Mark, sending my deepest condolences for the loss of Carol. Keeping you and the family in thoughts and prayers.
    Michelle Roberts

  8. I want to send my condolences to Carol’s family She was a very strong woman who will be missed by many. Sending Hugs and good thoughts to all of Carol’s family.

  9. Carol was one of the first girls I met at Leonardtown High School when I moved here to St. Mary’s County in the 9th grade. What struck me was her beauty, then I came to love her heart. She was a sweetheart with a strong will and I know she fought long and hard. My deepest condolences to her family. Love you Carol!

  10. Pop, Sue, Ray-Ray, Darren and Daniel. We are so sorry about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers, Angie and Jd Moore.


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