James William "Jimmy" Spence, Sr.

james spence, sr.
James William “Jimmy” Spence, Sr., 86 of Bushwood, Maryland, passed away peacefully on June 29,2025 in Leonardtown, Maryland surrounded by his loving family. Jimmy was born on June 14,1939, at Ioka Farm in Ellicott City, MD. He was the oldest son of the late George William Spence, Jr. and the late Frances Cecelia Lord Spence. Jimmy is predeceased by his wife Eleanor Joyce Spence, whom he married at Holy Angels Church in Avenue, MD, on November 28, 1959. They celebrated over 64 years of marriage prior to her passing on October 28, 2024. He is also predeceased by his sister Margaret Elizabeth “Peggy” Guy (Jackie, deceased). He is survived by his three sons, James William “Jay” Spence, Jr. of Bushwood, MD, Jon Robert Spence (Jessica) of Chaptico, MD, and Jerel Hodges “Jerry” Spence of Bushwood, MD. Jimmy is also survived by his grandchildren, Jacob William Spence and Jenna Renee Spence, both of Chaptico, MD. He is survived by his siblings, Robert Henry “Harry” Spence (Maxine, deceased), Alan Thomas Spence (Jackie), and by many nieces, nephews and cousins. Jimmy lived in Ellicott City, MD until the summer of 1946, when his family moved to Scotland, MD. The family later moved to St. Inigoes, MD and then to Budds Creek, MD in 1950. He graduated from Margeret Brent High School in 1957. He and his wife moved to Suitland, MD in 1959 and Jimmy worked briefly for the FBI. In 1960, he and his wife returned to St. Mary’s County. After serving in the National Guard, he worked for Peoples Life Insurance Company and in later years, he worked for the State of Maryland, retiring as the Supervisor of Assessments and Taxation for St. Mary’s County in 2003. Jimmy played several sports while in high school. His love for baseball led him to play for the Old Gum baseball team. He was a Baltimore Orioles and a Baltimore Colts fan. He enjoyed listening to classic country and bluegrass music. Jimmy enjoyed working with horses from an early age, and in later years he raised Appaloosa horses, and he enjoyed participating in horse shows. As his family grew, he gave up his hobbies to focus on raising his children and providing them with a Catholic education. He dedicated a large portion of his life to serving the community and he was very committed to the support of Sacred Heart Church, Bushwood, and Holy Angels Sacred Heart School. Through the years, he participated in numerous committees in support of the community, the church and the school. The family would like to thank MedStar St. Mary’s Hospital, MedStar Georgetown University Hospital Stroke Team, and St. Mary’s Nursing and Rehab Center for their compassionate care of Jimmy and his family during this difficult time. The family will receive friends on Sunday, July 6, 2025, from 5:00PM to 8:00PM, with prayers recited at 7:00PM, in the Mattingley Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Sacred Heart Church, Bushwood, MD, on Monday, July 7, 2025, at 10:00AM, with Father Kevin Fields officiating. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery. Serving as pallbearers will be Jacob Spence, Craig Spence, John Guy, Tom Hodges, Dale Williams, and Patrick Goode. Honorary pallbearers will be Jenna Spence, Annette Hodges and Katherine Perry Mahon. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in the name of James William Spence, Sr. to Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 23080 Maddox Road, Bushwood, MD 20618 or to the Seventh District Volunteer Rescue Squad, 21530 Colton Point Road, Avenue, MD 20609 or to the St. Mary’s Nursing Center, 21585 Peabody Street, Leonardtown, MD 20650. Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.

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  1. In Loving Memory of Uncle Jimmy

    It is with profound sadness that we learn of the passing of Uncle Jimmy, who left us on Sunday. Words cannot fully express the loss we feel, but I want to take a moment to honor him in the way he lived—full of kindness, gentleness, and deep love for his family.

    Uncle Jimmy was one of the finest people I have ever known. He embodied the true meaning of family. He was the kind of man who always put others before himself, who showed up when you needed him, and who loved unconditionally. Whether it was a family gathering, a phone call to check in, or simply a warm smile, he made everyone around him feel seen and valued.

    His kindness was quiet but powerful. He didn’t need to raise his voice or seek the spotlight—his presence alone brought comfort and steadiness. He had a gentle soul that left a lasting impression on everyone who had the blessing of knowing him.

    As we mourn his loss, we also celebrate his life. The love he gave, the laughter he shared, and the values he lived by will continue to guide us. May this message serves as a lasting tribute for family and loved ones to return to—a reminder of how deeply Uncle Jimmy was loved and how greatly he will be missed.

    Rest in peace, Uncle Jimmy. You will forever live on in our hearts.

    With love,
    Anne, Tom, and Jim Hodges

  2. My sincere condolences to the family of Mr. James Spence Sr. It was an honor and a privilege to work under Mr. Spence supervision while he managed the Saint Mary’s County office as Supervisor of Assessment and Taxation. I can attest to his profound professionalism, his honesty and fairness he extended to everyone. Mr. Spence humble demeanor was extremely fascinating. His greatness can never be duplicated. All that he taught me about Assessment and Taxation was highly appreciated. May God Bless Mr. Spence Sr. as the angels escort his soul to his heavenly home. Be thou at peace thy good and faithful servant. Mary Brooks, Valley Lee , Maryland

  3. Uncle Jimmy was the kind of man you may only meet once in a lifetime. I loved everything about him. He was a tremendous illustration of what a man should be in God’s design for us. He was kind, thoughtful, giving, loving and genuinely interested in those around him. I never had a conversation with him that wasn’t centered around how I was doing and what was going on in my life. He would often ask me about how friends and family were and was completely sincere in is caring for others. He was a soft spoken dignified man that was admired by all those who met him. I will miss him terribly. He made the world a better place and we have lost a giant. I loved Uncle Jimmy and send my deepest condolences to Jay, Jon, Jerry and all his family and friends. Whenever you are in a stressful or troubling situation think of Uncle Jimmy and remember the man he was. You will find the serenity you desire. Welcome to Heaven Uncle Jimmy and enjoy your eternal life with Aunt Joyce and all those who have joined God before you. You deserve the light and peace you have truly earned in a well lived live. Love your nephew, Bob Hodges

  4. We were only able to speak a few times, but Jimmy was a very nice and understanding gentleman.
    May he rest in the arms of Our Lord and the Family find solace in prayer

  5. My sincere condolences to the family of Mr. James Spence, Sr. It was an honor and a privilege to work under Mr. Spence’s supervision, while he managed the St. Mary’s County Office as supervisor of assessments and taxation. I can attest to his profound professionalism, his honesty, and fairness, he extended to everyone. Mr. Spence’s humble demeanor was extremely fascinating. His greatness can never be duplicated. All that he taught me about assessments and taxation was highly appreciated. May God bless Mr. Spence, Sr. as the angels escort his soul to his heavenly home. Be thou at peace, thy good and faithful servant.

    Mary Brooks
    Valley Lee, Maryland

  6. I’m so sorry for the loss of Uncle Jimmy. He was such an incredible person and had a way of making everyone around him feel seen and cared for. Some of my best childhood memories are the times I spent with Uncle Jimmy and Aunt Joyce. Their home was always filled with love, laughter, and a warmth that I’ll never forget.

    We’re truly sorry we couldn’t make it up for the services, but please know we’ve been holding you close in our hearts and sending so much love your way.

    Love, Alannah (Michelle) & Chris

  7. Jimmy was definitely the kind of person who made the world a better place. He was a loving and welcoming presence at our cousins’ luncheons and I am so happy that I was able to enjoy many of those times with him. His passing definitely leaves a void, but family and friends will surely be able to fill it with many cherished memories.
    Rest in Peace,
    Mary Lou and John Rutherford


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