Anne Marie "Sissy" Alvey

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October 6, 1959 ~ May 5, 2022

Anne Marie Alvey, “Sissy”, 62, of Leonardtown, MD, passed away on May 5, 2022 at home. Born on October 6, 1959 in Leonardtown, MD, she was the daughter of Lois Ann Alvey of Leonardtown, MD and the late Leonard Jackson “Jack” Alvey. In addition to her mother, she is survived by her children Shannon Daly (Matthew) of Mechanicsville, MD and April Long (Michael) of Leonardtown, MD, her siblings Ronnie Alvey (Denise Costanzo) of Colton Point, MD, Barbara Emmart (Michael) of Mechanicsville, MD, and Eddie Alvey of Hollywood, MD, as well as her grandchildren Jayden, Trevor, Jackson, Raina, Owen, and Saylor. Sissy was a lifelong St. Mary’s County, MD resident and graduated from Chopticon High School in 1977. She started her career with the St. Mary’s County Library at Tudor Hall in Leonardtown, MD at the age of 15. Sissy served the patrons of the library for 46 years, making numerous friends throughout her time there before her retirement in 2021. After her retirement, Sissy spent her time making her log cabin a cozy gathering place for all, especially her grandchildren. Family was of the utmost importance to her. She hosted family dinner every Wednesday, making sure every grandchild’s favorite foods were served. Sissy was a devoted mother and grandmother, never missing a birthday, sporting event, or any chance to spend with her daughters and their families. She was an avid gardener and worked diligently on her lawn and flower gardens, watching her flowers bloom with each season. The ocean called her name every year, and she took beach trips each June with the whole family joining her. Sissy enjoyed lengthy walks on a daily basis. She loved travelling with her best friend, Tere Vallandingham; from the Grand Canyon to the Smokey Mountains and everywhere in between, they were Thelma and Louise. Sissy was a beloved daughter, sister, mother, gram, and friend who will be sorely missed. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, May 11, 2022 from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a funeral service will be held at 11:00 AM in the funeral home chapel with Father Ray Schmidt officiating. Interment will be private. Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.

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  1. Mrs. Alvey and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Anne always had a smile when we saw her.Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. May she rest in peace.

  2. Cathleen and Ryan Emmart says:

    Shannon, April and families- we are so sorry for the loss of Aunt Sissy. She was a beautiful soul and will be deeply missed. Our hearts are broken for you all. We know life will never be the same, but please know that we are always here for you and we love and support you.

  3. Dear Alvey family, I am so sorry for your loss, I was shocked to hear this devastating news today. I worked with Anne for many years and she was a great mentor as well as a great friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in you time of sorrow, she will truly be missed. Many Blessings

    Karen Ogletree & Family

  4. Shannon, April and family,
    I am so very sad to hear about Anne. She was so very proud and happy to have wonderful daughters like you. She always shared little tidbits about the grandchildren and the overnights at her place with them. Little stories of her visits. . She so loved her family dinners with all of you.
    I hold you all in my prayers and send my deepest sympathy to you and all the grandkids.
    Sincerely,
    Sue Clifton (Leon library)

  5. Shannon, April, Mrs. Alvey, Ronnie, Barbara and Eddie,
    Words cannot express the profound sadness I felt when I heard of the sudden passing of Anne. Anne was truly a wonderful person who worked hard and loved even harder. She was a wonderful Mother and Grandmother and loved you all deeply. May you hold close to your heart all of the precious memories you have made together to help get you through the tough days ahead. May Anne rest in peace.

  6. Shannon, April, Lois Ann, Ronnie, Barbara and Eddie, Sissy created so many beautiful memories, a life that can truly be celebrated even as we grieve. You have our heart’s deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are being sent to you all.

  7. Mom, Shannon, April & family. I am so heartbroken to hear of Anne’s passing. I have known Anne for many years and have wonderful memories of our times at work. We always had great laughs together. She was one of a kind. So hard working and never complained. She always shared stories of her family and you could see the love in her eyes. I know she loved Ocean City and I loved her pictures and the memories she made. Rest In peace my friend till we meet again. Marie Ward

  8. Shannon, April & Family,
    Please accept our condolences for the loss of your sweet mother, Anne. She loved her girls and her grandchildren. I went to school with Anne, she was so kind and pleasant. Lifting you all up in prayer for peace and comfort during the difficult days ahead. Cheryl, Kelly & Terra

  9. Please accept my condolences for the loss Anne….

  10. I send my deepest condolences to Anne’s family. I always enjoyed talking with Anne at the library over many years and we would catch up on our kids–she was always so proud of them. We were blessed to have such a dedicated and good person at our library and I will always remember her fondly.

  11. Dear Shannon & April,
    What a legacy your Mom has left! You and your loving families AND….

    A dynamic, customer focused St. Mary’s County Library system.
    I had the honor of working with Anne when I was the County Library Director from 2003 to 2015. As the Manager of Leonardtown’s Circulation Department (the 2nd busiest library in all of Southern MD), Anne not only provided excellent customer service but she also spent endless hours learning about and helping us select the automated circulation system for all of the Southern MD libraries. Anne was an invaluable voice-of-reason and mentor to other managers and to her staff.
    I also know, without a doubt, that Anne’s advocacy skills helped us push the new Leonardtown Library over the finish line. She helped us pack the County Council room, time and again, for the endless number of public hearings.
    So whenever you visit the Leonardtown Library please make sure your children know that it would not have happened without their Grandma 🙂
    Shannon & April, my heart aches for you. My only prayer is that the love and joy which your Mom shared with you will bring you strength and happy memories in the days head.
    Godspeed,
    Kathleen Reif

  12. Lois and family, i’m so sorry for the loss of a beautiful daughter ,sister, mom and grandma .Jack will meet her at the gates with open arms.

  13. Shannon, April & Family, My heart aches for you. Thinking of you and praying Anne’s love and beautiful memories will provide comfort and peace to you in the days ahead.

  14. So sorry for your loss. We did not know Anne until she moved in behind our home. This Spring we exchanged some flowering plants. She was an avid gardener and walker and we will miss seeing her working in the yard!

  15. So sorry for your loss. Ann was a sweet lady.Hugs and prayers to all.

  16. My heartfelt sympathies for the family. Anne was a great person! May you find comfort in your special memories of her.

  17. Lois and all of Sissy’s family – I was so sorry to hear of Sissy’s passing. I know Eva, Jack, and Jean greeted her with big smiles and open arms.

  18. Praying for you all, and sending my deepest condolences. Anne absolutely adored her grandkids, and would always tell us stories about her visits with them. Anne was my supervisor from 2013-2020 at the Leonardtown Library, and I couldn’t have asked for a better person to learn from. I appreciated her kindness and willingness to teach others so much. I will forever cherish those 7+ years.


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