Adam Palmer Burch
November 9, 1990 ~ October 15, 2009
Services:
Services will be held on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 at 10:00 AM in the Encounter Christian Center located at 29948 Three Notch Rd. Charlotte Hall, MD., with Rev. Dr. W. Morales officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Monday, October 19, 2009 from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM in the funeral home chapel with prayers being recited at 7:00 PM.
Adam Palmer Burch, 18, of Avenue, MD died October 15, 2009 in Bushwood, MD. Born November 9th 1990 in Leonardtown, MD, he was the loving son of Ernest Benton and Brenda Catherine Morris Burch, Sr. of Avenue, MD. He is also survived by his siblings Connie Rice and her husband Bobby of Callaway, MD, Ernest Burch, Jr. and his wife Lindsey of Salisbury, MD, Jennifer Suite and her husband Bobby of Bushwood, MD, and Tiffany Richards and her husband Chris of Mechanicsville, MD, as well as four nephews. Adam was a lifelong St. Mary’s County resident, where he was a member of Chopticon High School’s “Class of 2008.” He was a service station attendant in Clements, MD and during his free time he enjoyed football, music and spending time with his friends. The family will receive friends at Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, on Monday, October 19, 2009 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, where prayers will be said at 7:00PM. A funeral service will be held on Tuesday, October 20th, 2009 at 10:00 AM in Encounter Christian Center, Charlotte Hall, MD, with Rev. Dr. W. Morales officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be David Hall, Matt Quade, Jack Villareal, Gary Nelson, C.J. Huseman and Ritchie Gibson. Honorary Pallbearers will be Kyle Hudson, Robert Hidey, Steven Bailey, Colby Beavan, J.D. Ryce and Glenn Buckler. Contributions may be made to the 7th District Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 7, Avenue, MD, 20609 and/or A.C.T.S (A Community that Shares), P.O. Box 54, Bushwood, MD 20618. Condolences may be left to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A.
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“Tiffany and Family, we are so sorry to hear about Adam. May your faith in God help you through this very difficult time. Please know we are here for you.”
“Sorry for your loss, he was a good friend. “
“Benton, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“To the Burch family: We are so sorry for your loss. He is in a quiet place now. He will feel no more pain. He is young, but God needed another angel to help guide you all. Take care of each other. We are here for a short time. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Benton and Brenda, I am so sorry to hear about your son. I will keep you in my prayers.”
“To the entire family, we are so very sorry about your loss – there is none greater than the loss of a child. We so enjoyed seeing Adam at Barbara and David’s house having such a good time with everone there. Adam was a sweet child and always so respectful. God bless you all and we will keep you all in our prayers.”
“Brenda, Benton, Tiffany and Jennifer: Children are the angels that remind us of love, peace and hope that will always be with us. The passing of a child is like a candle extinquished in the night. May God provide light for your path to find peace and hold on to all of the wonderful memories you have made together. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.”
“Brenda, so very sorry to hear about the death of your son. Losing a child is the worse thing that can happen to anyone. Please know that if you need me, I will be there for you. God Bless.”
“Brenda, Benton, Jennifer and Tiffany We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts goes out to you and your family. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“I am truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all of you. “
“To Adams Family, May God Bless you all during these most difficult days ahead. I’m truly sorry of your loss. There are just no words to heal the pain at this time. Perhaps in time God will ease your pain. God Bless you all.”
“For the entire Burch family, you are in my prayers. I miss Adam. When we hung out and played basketball at Davies house. I miss you Adam”
“Our deepest sympathies go out to Adam’s family. He is in God’s hands now, and at peace.”
“Brenda, Benton, Tiffany and Jennifer, There are no words to express how very sorry I am for your loss. You are all in my prayers. “
“We are all so truly sorry. God is still with you– as is your entire community. Lean on us.”
“”To the entire family” So sorry for your loss. We will miss seeing Adam’s smile down at the station(Pilkertons). All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Tiffany – I’m so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. “
“Brenda & Benton, Words cannot express the sorrow that I feel for the loss of your precious child. I am so sorry. Praying for you all.”
“Brenda, Benton, Tiffany, and Jennifer, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for your loss. If there is anything we can do you know we will help. “V” and Tim”
“”Brenda we are so sorry to hear about your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. From the George and Thompson family.””
“Connie – My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your entire family. May God hold you ALL close and comfort you during this most difficult time. I’m truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Burch Family, Please know that the entire community mourns with you. There are no words that can take your pain. All that can be said is, I am so very sorry for your loss. “
“To the entire Burch family your all in my prayers. I’ve been friends with Adam for a long time and we’ll all get through this together.”
“To the entire family, you are in my prayers. As I did not know Adam personally, my heart goes out to you all at this very difficult time. “
” Brenda ,Benton, Tiffany and Jennifer so very sorry for your loss you are all in my prayers.”
“Brenda, Benton and to the entire family, our saddened hearts are with you and keeping you in our prayers. “
“Benton and Brenda, We are so sorry to hear about Adam. Please know that our thoughts are with you and we are praying for you and your family during this difficult time.”
“Benton,Brenda,Connie,Ern,so sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers. “
“Benton and Family. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers as you prepare for Adam’s spiritual journey.”
“I don’t know Adam but recieved an email a couple of days ago stating he was missing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May God give you strength and comfort you in this trying time. Peace and Blessing. “
“Benton and Brenda, We are very sad to hear of the loss of your son. God helped us when we lost our son, and we know that God will help you also. We are praying for you and your family.”
“Im sorry for the loss. I love Adam. He was my best friend and he will never be forgotten.”
“Dear Burch Family My thougths are with you all at this sad time. May Adam rest in peace, GOD BLESS!”
“Dear Brenda, Benton, and Family: Together we stand heart to heart with you in the sacred oneness of our universal experience with loss and suffering. May the Light of Adam’s life continue to shine brightly on all the lives he blessed, and may this Light be your source of strength and refuge. Love & God Bless,”
“Benton and Family-I am so sorry for your loss. My Prayers and thoughts are with you. Take care of each other.”
“Brenda,Benton, Tiffany and Jennifer, My heart goes out to your family. I know how hard it is on the loss of a son/brother. Remember all the good times, it will help you get through. My prayers are with your family.”
“Sorry to hear of the loss of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“The entire 7th District community (family), and all of St. Mary’s County, are here to support you in your sorrow. Reach out to those around you and we will be there. May God grant you peace and understanding. Rest In Peace Adam.”
“Brenda,Benton & Family – Words can’t express our sorrow for your loss. I am glad I met him at your retirement party. Keep the Faith as we will remember him and all of you in our prayers.”
“Benton, Brenda, Connie and Ern, I am so sorry for your loss. You all will be in my prayers and thoughts. “
“We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“I didn’t know Adam, but I do have children, and I can’t even imagine the pain you must be feeling. Remember God is always with you in the good times and the bad. Lean on Him, cry out to Him, and know that I will be praying for all of you. “
“I am very sorry for your loss, the love of a child will forever carry on in your heart, Adam will live on in your memory’s, thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family and help to carry you through this time of loss.”
“Thinking of the entire family at this time. Adam will be missed, and even though god has a plan for us all sometimes it is hard for us to understand it. May your friends, family, and god give you the strength that you need at this time.”
“Our prayers are with you.”
“To Benton and family ,sorry to hear about the death of Adam, lossing someone we love is really difficult, but God is always with us we all know HE will take away all the pain we have. I’ll always pray for you guys. Again my condolence.”
“Brenda, Benton, Tiffany, Jennifer, Connie, Ern and family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Hold tight to happy memories of Adam for comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Brenda and Benton I was shocked to hear the terrible news of Adams death. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. We will be there on Tuesday for you guys.”
“To Brenda, Benton, Tiffany, Jennifer, Connie, & Aaron: We’re so sorry for the loss of your son & brother. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all, and our “Abby” will be missed deeply. We will always be here for you in your time of need. We love you all.”
“To the Burch family, we are so sorry for your loss. Will keep you and the family in our prayers, at this diffcult time.”
“Benton,Brenda,Connie,Ern and family…So heartbreaking to hear about the loss of Adam. Hope it helps to know that others are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of lossing a Son, Brother and friend..Love you…Karen and Timmy”
“Adam will be missed. We will pray that with the help of friends and family, you will survive this test of faith.”
“Brenda, Benton, Jennifer, Tiffany & family, We know that words cannot for one moment take away the pain you are feeling. We’re a big family and we will all be here to help each one of you through this. Adam will never be forgotten and we are here to help support your heavy heart. Love you all…”
“Brenda,Benton,Jennifer & Tiffany and the entire family, we are sorry for your loss our prayers are with you all.” “
“Mr. Ernest & Brenda, my condolences and congratulations. Nothing can replace the loss of a son but acceptance can give us comfort and the need to move on. Remember St. Francis of Assissi ” for it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardon; it is in dying that we are born, we are born to eternal life. You are always included in our daily prayer. We love you.”
“My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in the loss of your son. God will bring you through this.”
“Benton and Brenda, My heart is broken for you. I am thinking of you and praying for you. “
“I had just recently met Adam, and he always had a smile and a good comment. My condolences go out to you and your family. God Bless.”
“Brenda, Benton & family, I know words cannot alleviate the pain & sorrow that you feel and we just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you. Love you.”
“To Adams Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is not much I could do to make things better for you other then be there for you. There hasn’t been one day I haven’t thought or prayed for you all. If there is anything I could do to help I will. My prayers and thoughts to all. “
“We are so sorry for your lose,you are in our prayers at this very difficult time.”
“Benton & Brenda, Annie and my hearts and prayers are with you a this time of a terriable loss. Annie and I know how hard it can be as we lost our son not so long ago. Vic and Annie Marciano “
“BRENDA, BENTON AND FAMILY. SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ADAM. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. PLEASE LET US KNOW IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO. GOD BLESS. “
“Jennifer,Brenda, and the entire Burch family I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time.”
“Benton, Brenda and Family, My sincere condolences to you all. I wish comfort, Peaceful Moments, Renewed Strength, Hope and my Deepest Sympathy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Brenda, Benton and family – words cannot express the sorrow that you must be feeling. May you find comfort that Adam is in a better place and at peace. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.”
“To the Burch Family: Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”
“Brenda, Brenton and Family, Jenny and I send our deepest sympathy to all of the Burch family in this most difficult time our prayers are with all of you. May he rest in peace and God will take care of you now.”
“Benton, Brenda, Connie, Ern, Jennifer, and Tiffany no words can express the sadness that we feel in our hearts for all of you. Please know that our love, support and prayers are with each of you. “
“Benton, Brenda and Family, Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Benton and Brenda, we are with you at this sad moment. You are with our prayers.. “
“Brenda and family, our hearts go out to your family for the loss of Adam. I can not even imagine the pain but, always remember your friends are here to help in anyway your family needs it. We will keep you in our prayers.”
“Benton,Brenda,Jennifer,Connie and Tiffany, So sorry to hear about Adam’s passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Keep your memories of him close to your heart and never stop talking about him. He’s up in heaven where GOD will always be there to take care of him and he will be an angel looking down on all of you forever. Jennifer and Tiffany hold on to your mom she will need you girls close to her and hold on tight to her. Love you guys so much. Rest in peace Adam and GOD BLESS YOU ALL. Gwen Murphy”
“My prayers go out to you. Adam was a dear friend who will never be forgotten. “
“To Brenda and Benton, sorry for Adam but always remember Romans 8. Our love and prayers be with you all. We love you very much. “
“We’re so sorry for your loss. May Adam rest in peace.”
“Benton, Brenda & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Adam was a pleasant young man and always had a kind word to say. We will always treasure his friendship with C.J. and miss his friendly smile. The memory of Adam will always be in our hearts. God bless you all.”
“To all of the Burch family. I had the pleasure of attending high school with Adam. We shared every single class our senior year. He never failed to make my day as long as everyone else around us. He is deeply missed. You all are in my prayers. “
“To Adam’s family, I did not know him or you, but my heart goes out to you for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.”
“Brenda and family, My heart goes out to you. Please know you are in my thoughts as each day brings expressions from the many who care about you and your family. May a memory of a smile, a shared time, help find some peace within. With care and warmth, Sara “
“To the Burch family, I would like for you to know that your family are in my prayers. My son Brandon went to school with Adam and he told me that Adam was a really nice young man. Please remember that you have family to lean on during this hard time and the Lord to hold you up and keep you strong. May God Bless you!”
“Brenda, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. God bless you all.”
“You’re in our thoughts Please know how much you are loved and how deeply your loss is felt by all.”
“Dear Brenda,Benton and family, Please accept our deepest sympathy and love at this most difficult time. May you find peace.”
“Brenda and family, my deepest sympathy to you on your loss. I cannot begin to know your hurt and emptiness you must be feeling. God bless you all.”
“I pray that the Lord comforts you in this sad time. I am so very sorry for your loss and although no words can possibly ease the pain of a child missing, hold on to the grace and mercy, comfort and peace that only GOD can give you. He knows all about it because He gave His only begotten son for us. Love, always love each other.”
“My heart goes out to your family. I will continue to keep you in thoughts and prayers. “
“Brenda and family, You and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of so many people in this county. We cannot take away your pain, no matter what is said or done. That is up to GOD. He must have really needed a tall, strong, and well-raised new angel in heaven at this time. You all did your best to find him, now you know where he is–in heaven. Hold on to the wonderful memories you made with Adam, and know you will see him again.”
“Jennifer, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family. Adam was a good young man. Always remember that. He is at peace now.”
“Brenda and Family – May the God of comfort help you during this difficult time and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.”
“I had the joy of haveing a class with Adam my Jr. year. He always had a way to make me laugh. I will forever cherish memories with him. May you rest in peace and love! Adam, we’re already missing you like crazy, watch over us<3 "
“Tiffany, Chris, and Brody, Our babies— how we know your hearts are hurting. How sad it is to lose someone so young. We have so many guestion in our hearts, but lean on the Lord . He knows the answer. He is still in control even when we can’t understand. He loves us so much we just can’t see the big picture. One day we will and our tears of sorrow will be tears of happiness. We love you dad and mom R.”
“Connie and family I’m sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. If you need any thing feel free to contact me. Love always Christine Angell and Family”
“Brenda and Benton, we join with you and the community in sharing the deep sadness of the loss of Adam. You and the family are in Our prayers “
“Tiffany & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Brenda, I am truly sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain of losing a child. I will pray for you and your family.”
“To Adam’s family and Friends: Please know we are thinking of you and praying for you in this difficult time. We are so sorry for the loss of such a loved young person. “
“Brenda, Benton and all Family Members, Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers in this time of sorrow. Adam had many friends as does your family and hopefully this will be a great comfort to you. Remember how much he loved you all and the special times that you shared. Unfortunately, our family lost a loved one during this same time period and that is why we were unable to make an appearance at the funeral home as we were with my Mom, Lucille Bailey Doepkens, as we lost our step-father. We just wanted to let you know that we were thinking of you as the Bailey and Burch families have always been special friends. Take care and you will remain in our prayers. “
“Benton, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is heavy and I am praying for you and your family. Dolly Sedwick Former High School Classmate”
“Sincere sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Brenda, My heart goes out to you and your entire family. God Bless you all. Sharon Ryce Reeves “
“Condolences and prayers to all his family and friends.”
“Brenda, Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry and saddened by your loss. “
“I was friends with Adam in High School, Sadly we lost touch after graduation. Adam was a GREAT friend and had a great personality! There was never a boring moment with him! I love him very much and he will be greatly missed! God Bless Adam & His family!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you all..”
“Brenda & Family, Please know that we are praying for you all at this difficult time. Hold the memories of Adam close to your hearts and never forget how much he loved each of you. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Ronnie & Becky Trossbach “
“Brenda and family, I am so sorry for this terrible loss, please know that you will always be in my prayers, God Bless”
“Jennifer, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family during this most difficult time. You, your family, and Adam are in my prayers.”
“Benton and family. We are keeping you in our prayers at this sad time. May you find comfort in the arms of your family and friends. “
“Tiffany and Family: Extending my heartfelt sympathy during this sorrowful time. God Bless…”
“Tiffany ~ my heart goes out to your entire family. I know it’s difficult to lose someone you love, especially someone so young. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time.”
“Although I did not know Adam, I received emails & text messages in reference to him missing. I was deeply saddend with the outcome. I myself recently lost a young loved one and know the pain you are going through. Thoughts & prayers are with Adams family & friends during this difficult time. May he rest in eternal peace. God bless you all. “
“My heart goes out to you and your family in this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“To the Burch Family, my heart goes out to you. Losing a child is an impossible thought, I know. I know the pain that can’t be described, so very many “what ifs”. Keep Adam in your heart. Prayers, family, friends and most of all time will help you deal with this horrible loss.”
“Brenda & Family, There are no words to lighten your feelings. Just hold onto to the memories and each other. I am here if you need anything at all. Love to all.. “
“I am sorry for the loss of Adam. I have also lost a child recently and I know the pain you are going through. Its a long painful process, but time will heal your pain and you will get through it in time. Hold onto all those wonderful memories he left behind and keep in mind you will see him again one day. Dont think of this as a goodbye, but more of a see you later. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God only takes the best. May he rest in peace.”
“To the Burch family; We are so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in our thoughts and in our prayers everyday. Hold on to all your dear memories. My heart goes out to you all at this very difficult time. “
“Brenda and Burch Family, There are no words to express our condolences for the loss of your son, Adam. “Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.” May he rest in peace and God take care of you now.””
“Jennifer, My heart goes out to you and your family. Just know that I’m here for you. You’ll be in my prayers. We love you!”
“TO BRENDA AND FAMILY. WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU . IF ANYTHING YOU NEED WE ARE HERE FOR YOU. “
“Benton & Brenda, There are no words to express our condolences for the loss of your son, Adam. We are praying for you. “
“To the Burch family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I am sorry for your loss.”
“To Brenda and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Nothing can prepare you for the loss of a child. “
“Brenda and Family, The loss of a child is the most intense grief known, I understand your pain. Please know I am here for you. “
“In the quiet moments, when the hurt is hard to bear, May love become your shelter and may the beauty of precious memories be your comfort. You are held in gentle thoughts and prayer. “
“Brenda, there are no words to adequately express my sorrow at the loss of your son. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God watch over your family at this difficult time.”
“Brenda and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. Losing a child is something beyond comprehension. You are all in our prayers.”
“My heart and prayers go out to the Burch family, and all of Adams friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“To Adams Family, I am so sorry about your loss. I am not able to attend, but you all are in my thoughts. I went to the same school as Adam. He was a great guy who always knew how to put a smile on everyones face and he had a great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed. “
“To all the Burch Family,My prayers are with you,my deepest smypathy.”
“Connie and Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. “
“Connie and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.”
“Brenda, words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Brenda and family, my thoughts are prayers are with you.”
“Benton, Brenda and family, we have no words that will comfort you, just know that we are thinking of you and hope that your cherished memories will help to sustain you through this most difficult time. God Bless, Ron and Nicky Nicholas “
“Brenda, you and your entire family are in my prayers. If you need someone to talk to or a shoulder to lean on, I am here for you. May Adam Rest in Peace!”
“My prayers and thoughts are with your family. “
“Brenda, Benton, family,and friends… We want to let you know that we are so sad to hear about your loss and want you to be assured that we have been praying for all of you and will continue to remember you daily in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Benton and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. “
“Benton, I am sad for you and your family. If there is anything I can do to support you please call upon me.”