Charles Ethelbert "Bert" Abell

charles abell

March 20, 1926 ~ December 7, 2013

Services: A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, December 12, 2013, at 10:30 AM at Our Lady’s Catholic Church at Medley’s Neck, 41410 Medley’s Neck Road, Leonardtown, MD with the Rev. Lawrence A. Young officiating, assisted by Deacon Thomas C. Spalding, Sr. Concelebrants will include Rev. Msgr. Karl Chimiak, Rev. John Barry, and Rev. Rory T. Conley. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Visitation: The family will receive friends on Wednesday, December 11, 2013 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home chapel with prayers recited at 7:00 PM followed by recitiation of the Rosary and Knights of Columbus prayers from St. Mary's Council No. 1470 and the Father Andrew White Assembly No. 377. Charles Ethelbert “Bert” Abell, Jr., 87, died peacefully at his home at Placentia Farm on Breton Bay in Medley’s Neck near Leonardtown on December 7, 2013, from complications of leukemia, with his two children by his side. Born on March 20, 1926 in Leonardtown, Bert grew up on the farm, whose major crops included tobacco, wheat, corn, and beans. He attended Our Lady’s School in Medley’s Neck from 1932 to 1940. He worked on Placentia Farm following high school graduation from St. Mary’s Academy in Leonardtown in 1944. During the 1940s, while in high school during World War II and beyond, Bert often went on fire calls with the Leonardtown Volunteer Fire Department. He also was a member of the National Guard in Leonardtown. After four years of working on the farm while older brothers were aviators in World War II and its aftermath, he attended Mount Saint Mary’s College in Emmitsburg, Maryland, graduating with a BA in history and education in 1952. Following college, Bert served in the United States Army and was deployed in the Army Security Agency at Herzo Base in Germany from 1954 to 1957. Upon returning to Maryland in the late 1950s, Bert began his career in education as a teacher with the Prince George’s County Board of Education in Camp Springs, Maryland. He then worked as a Rural Mail Carrier with a rural route out of the Leonardtown Post Office in the early 1960s, while starting work on his master’s degree in educational administration from the University of Maryland. On August 11, 1962, he married his beloved wife Jane Teresa Ryon, daughter of Allison Ford Ryon and Caroline Olympia Goldsmith Ryon of Waldorf. He was hired by the St. Mary’s County Board of Education as its last teaching principal, managing his own classroom and leading the entire school. Bert served at Piney Point Elementary School from 1963 to 1966. He had a long career as an elementary school principal including opening Greenview Knolls Elementary School in 1966, where he stayed until 1980. He retired as a principal from Oakville Elementary School in 1986, but continued working a variety of jobs including as a mosquito control applicator and dispatcher for the Maryland Department of Agriculture, a guide at the Visitor Information Center at the St. Mary’s County Chamber of Commerce office in Mechanicsville, and a tourism specialist at the St. Mary’s County Welcome Center in Charlotte Hall. Maintaining Placentia Farm was always his joyful second job throughout most of his life, except during his college studies and army deployment and during his final illnesses. Bert was a life-long member of Our Lady’s Church at Medley’s Neck, where he organized the first group of lay lectors and actively served the parish. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus St. Mary’s Council No. 1470 in Leonardtown for over 66 years, and served as Grand Knight and in nearly every position in the organization. He was a member and officer of the Knights of Columbus Father Andrew White Assembly No. 377. To support local charitable groups and Catholic schools, Bert volunteered at Knights of Columbus Bingo on Fridays at Father Andrew White, S.J. School from the late 1950s until August 2013. During multiple decades he served on the Father Andrew White, S.J. School Advisory Board. As a descendant of some of the earliest English settlers in southern Maryland, Bert had an avid interest in local history. He became a charter member of the St. Mary’s County Historical Society in 1952 and participated in the group for 61 years. In recent years he was one of the final two surviving charter members. Bert served as President of the St. Mary’s County Retired Teachers Association (now the St. Mary’s County Public Schools Retirees Association) from 1996 to 1998. Bert was a member of the St. Mary’s County Farm Bureau and volunteered at the St. Mary’s County Fair, both when it was hosted by the Xaverian Brothers at Leonard Hall and later at the St. Mary’s County Fairgrounds. Bert was the Republican Chief Election Judge for the Leonardtown Middle School precinct from its opening until 2006. He was preceded in death by his dear wife, Jane Ryon Abell (died June 14, 1993); by his parents, Charles Ethelbert Abell, Sr. and Marie Whitney Hungerford Abell; and by two brothers, Col. Joseph Dent Abell of San Antonio, Texas and Charles Whitney Abell of St. Cloud, Florida. Bert leaves behind a large number of family members and friends to mourn his passing. Bert is survived by his son Brian Bert Abell of Leonardtown, his daughter Allison Abell Banicki of Austin, Texas, his son-in-law Brian Banicki, and his grandson Elias Ethelbert Banicki. Bert is also survived by his brother and sister-in-law Dr. James Esten Abell and Eda Ann “Sis” Abell of Hyattsville; his sister and brother-in-law Lucille Abell Nunn and Joe Nunn of Rochester, New York; his sister-in-law Rita Ryon Wells of Sangerville, Maine; and his sister-in-law Ann Ryon Perrin Moriarty of Annapolis. He is also survived by numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews, including his goddaughters Dr. Jeanette Marie Abell of Columbus, Ohio; Patricia Abell Fordonski of Geneva, Illinois; and Debby Abell Hays of Jacksonville, Florida; and his godson Mark S. Nunn of Fairport, New York. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, December 11, 2013 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM with prayers offered at 7:00 PM at the Mattingly-Gardiner Funeral Home at 41590 Fenwick Street in Leonardtown, MD. General prayers will be followed by the recitation of the Rosary and Knights of Columbus prayers from St. Mary’s Council Number 1470 and the Father Andrew White Assembly Number 377. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, December 12, 2013, at 10:30 AM at Our Lady’s Catholic Church at Medley’s Neck, 41410 Medley’s Neck Road, Leonardtown, MD with the Rev. Lawrence A. Young officiating, assisted by Deacon Thomas C. Spalding, Sr. Concelebrants will include Rev. Msgr. Karl Chimiak, Rev. John Barry, and Rev. Rory T. Conley. Interment will follow in the cemetery at Our Lady’s Catholic Church in Medley’s Neck. Pallbearers will be Jason C. Abell, Thomas M. Abell, William Smyth Ethelbert Abell, Al Ammann, Charles William Cuffley II, and James W. Mattingly, Jr. Honorary pallbearers will be Dr. John F. Fenwick, Bernard J. Goldsborough, William Edelin Gough, Jr., Jack Hazuda, Brison Hungerford, Robert B. Norris, Paul S. Perrin, and William P. Russell. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the St. Mary’s County Historical Society, P.O. Box 212, Leonardtown, MD 20650 or to Our Lady’s Catholic Church at Medley’s Neck, 41348 Medley’s Neck Road, Leonardtown, MD 20650.

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  1. “We are so sorry to hear of your dads passing. He was such a nice person and always very kind.”

  2. “Blessings to the family. My husband ,Ben, talked a lot about what a good friend Bert was. He and Bert were good pals at Our Lady’s School in Medley’s Neck. Maybe now they are playing baseball together as they did then. I’d like to think that Ben was there waiting for him and welcoming him into heaven. “

  3. “Brian & Allison: Prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Your dad was a fine man who did a lot of good for a lot of people.”

  4. “Brian & Allison – You know that our prayers and thoughts are with you. Your dad touched many lives in a POSITIVE way!”

  5. Peggy and Buck Goldsmith says:

    “Brian & Allison – We are deeply sorry to hear of your dear Dad’s passing. He will be remembered in our prayers. I’m sure your Mom and our dear cousin will be waiting for him in heaven. With our love. Peggy and Buck.”

  6. “My sympathy and thoughts are with you on the loss of your father.”

  7. “We are so sorry for you loss. Bert was a kind and caring principal and all four of our children went through Greenview Knolls while he was there. We felt very fortunate to have known him. He will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”

  8. “Sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. I had the pleasure of working with him several years ago. He always smiled and had a kind word to say. “

  9. “Allison & Brian: Your family have touched my life in so many ways, first your mom was my 4th grade school teacher at Hughesville Elementary School, then she married Bert, had 2 wonderful kids, Allison & my daughter Dedie went to FAW, & St. Mary’s Ryken together, and Brian and I worked together at Century 21 New Millenium, Jane was always my favorite teacher, and then we were so amazed when we both had children in the same grade. Bert was one of the nicest people I’ve ever met and he always had time for me. Skip and I are so sorry we will be unable to attend any services for him, we now live in Florida only 1 1/2 miles from Dedie. You will always have your precious memories, and your faith to help ease the pain, you will all be in our prayers and thoughts. May God bless the Abell family. Love Doris & Skip Jones”

  10. “Brian & Allison – We are so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. Bert was such a wonderful man! I always enjoyed seeing him in church and talking to him about education. He touched so many people with his kindness and whit. “

  11. “Very sorry to hear of Mr. Abell’s passing, he was a pleasant and gentle man. He was fortunate to have your love and support. We will keep him in our prayers”

  12. “So sorry for your loss, My thoughts and prayers are with you all,Mr.Abell was my principle at Piney Point Elem. school in the 60’s. “

  13. “Bert Abell was one of the kindest men and a wonderful principal. We will all miss his smiles at the luncheons. May be rest in peace. “

  14. “”Our sympathy and thoughts are with you on the loss.” “

  15. “Brian and Allison, It’s hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-lived life. God Bless”

  16. “Sorry to hear about your dads passing. He was such a wonderful person to everyone who new him. I will miss him so much, I HAVE KNOWN HIM SINCE I WAS A LITTLE GIRL. He IS AT PEACE NOW.”

  17. “When I came to Maryland to work in education, it was nice to meet Bert who had a educational background and experience. He was encouraging to me starting in a new career. He always had a smile on his face at church functions. I will miss seeing him sitting in the near front row at Mass. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Brian. Thank you for always being kind, like your Dad was,and being there for him, even bringing him to Mass. My thoughts and prayers are with you Allison, the rest of his family and all of those whose lives he touched.”

  18. Vernon & Debbie (Drury) Saunders says:

    “So sorry for your loss Bert was a real gentleman. Our thoughts and prayers are with during this difficult time. “

  19. “We are so sorry to hear of Bert’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless”

  20. Tommy and Darlene Hammett Graves says:

    “Allison and Brian, so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. He is at rest and finally with your beloved Mom. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”

  21. “My deepest condolences to the Abell family on your loss. God bless.”

  22. Mike and Millie Huseman says:

    “Our sincerest sympathy to the family and friends of Bert. He was a very nice person and we are sad to learn of his passing. May God greatly bless him now and the family too. Be assured of our thoughts and prayers.”

  23. “Sorry for your loss Allison. Thoughts and prayers for your family. “

  24. “Brian and Allison, So sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. He was such a great man and a wonderful neighbor. May he rest in peace.”

  25. Mary Lee Humphreys (Wilkerson) says:

    “Your Mom & Dad were such good friends of our family. Your Mom taught with my Mother and your Dad became a very good friend as well. My three children all attended Green View Knolls. He was a wonderful principal and we have nothing but great memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The flu is keeping me away but know I will be there in spirit. Love to you and your family.”

  26. “Condolences to Bert’s family. So sorry to hear of his passing. I worked with Bert at the Welcome Center in Charlotte Hall and found him to be the perfect gentleman. I will miss his visits to the Center which he loved.”

  27. “My sincere condolences on the loss of a fine gentlemen. It was my pleasure to work with Bert as Library Media Coordinator from the Loveville Ofice for many years. He will be missed.”

  28. “Brian, my condolences to you and your family. Your dad was always a delight to talk with. “

  29. Carl Denecia for the Herzo Base ASA Group says:

    “Brian & Allison, Berts Fellow Veterans want to express their deep sorrow for your loas and for ours. Bert was a friend to many and an example of what a soldier should be.”

  30. “I was so sorry to hear about Mr. Abell’s passing. He was my Principal at Greenview Knolls Elementary school. He was always a very gentle and plesant man. I have always respected him.”

  31. Mickey and Gloria Ramos says:

    “So So Sorry, What a great person ,what a gentlemen, our community has loss a great person”

  32. “Our sympathy and thoughts are with you on the loss of your father.” “

  33. “With deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will miss him deeply.”

  34. “Brian and family, sorry for your loss. Mr. Abell was our neighbor for 39 years and he was a kind and friendly person always spoke and smiling. Your family are in my prayers.”

  35. “Dear Allison and Brian, Thinking of you and your family in this difficult time. I hope your memories of him provide you some comfort always and warmth in your hearts.”

  36. “”Very sorry to hear of Mr. Abell’s passing, he was a pleasant and gentle man. He was fortunate to have your love and support. We will keep him in our prayers””


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