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Dorothy Ann Putman Bailey

July 29, 1935 ~ July 9, 2026

Born in: Frederick, Maryland
Resided in: Bushwood, Maryland

Dorothy Ann Bailey, affectionately known as “Duff,” 90, of Bushwood, MD, formerly of Frederick, MD, passed away peacefully at her home on July 9, 2026. Born on July 29, 1935, in Frederick, MD, she was the beloved daughter of the late Viola Putman and the late Lester W. Putman.

Duff shared a loving marriage with her husband, the late Philip R. Bailey. They were married on August 2, 1958, in Frederick, MD, and spent more than 60 wonderful years together before Philip’s passing on July 17, 2019.

She leaves behind a family who will cherish her memory, including her son, Lester R. Bailey (Kaye) of Chaptico, MD; her sister, Katheryn M. Cioffi, of Frederick, MD. She is also lovingly remembered by her grandchildren, Chrissy and Kevin Jones, Jacquline and David Coefield, Jonathan and Brittany Bailey, Justin Peery, and Jill Phan, as well as her daughter-in-law’s, Jan Bailey, and Tamara McGinnis. In addition to her husband, Duff was preceded in death by her son, Michael Bailey, of Fulton, MO, and her siblings, Frances R. Wilkins, Lewis H. Putman, Carol M. Benton, and Susan K. Rizzo, Ralph R. Putman all of Frederick, MD; Lester O. Putman of New Mexico; and Betty V. Wellen of Knoxville, TN.

A proud 1953 graduate of Frederick High School, Duff went on to earn her Elementary Education degree from Towson State Teachers College in 1957. In 1973, she moved to St. Mary’s County, MD, where she devoted 30 years to shaping young lives as a teacher in the St. Mary’s County Public Schools before retiring in June 1990. She also enjoyed working alongside her family as a co-owner of DJ’s One Stop Shop.

Duff found joy in life’s simple pleasures. She loved playing cards, getting lost in a good book, spending time on the golf course, and enjoying lunches filled with laughter and friendship. Her generous spirit extended throughout the community as she volunteered with Holy Angels, St. Clements Island Museum, and the 7th District Optimist Club. Whether through her career, her volunteer work, or the kindness she showed to others, Duff made a lasting impact on the lives of many.

Her family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Mary Rencher and Dorian Hernandez for the exceptional care, compassion, and friendship she provided.

The family will receive friends on Thursday, July 23, 2026, from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM, with prayers recited at 7:00 PM, in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, July 24, 2026, at 10:00 AM, in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD, with Father Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow at Sacred Heart Catholic Cemetery, Bushwood, MD.

Serving as pallbearers will be Jonathan Bailey, David Coefield, Nathanyal Lyon, Samantha Lyon-Carpenter, Sean McCleaf, and Walter Raley.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Duff’s memory to Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.

Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com.

Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.

 

Services

Visitation: Thursday, July 23, 2026 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home
41590 Fenwick Street
Leonardtown, MD 20650

(301) 475-8500

Prayers: Thursday, July 23, 2026 7:00 pm

Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home
41590 Fenwick Street
Leonardtown, MD 20650

(301) 475-8500

Mass: Friday, July 24, 2026 10:00 am - 11:00 am

Holy Angels Catholic Church

Avenue, MD


Interment: Friday, July 24, 2026 11:20 am

Sacred Heart Catholic Cemetery
23070 Maddox Road
Bushwood, MD


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  1. Duff was like a Big Sister when I was a kid. We were next-door neighbors on Lee Place in Frederick in houses that our fathers had rented and later purchased from their father, Lewis W. Putman. Duff’s younger brother, Ralph, was about my age and she broke up more than a few “disagreements” between us as we reluctantly grew up. When she went off to college and then to teaching, we sort of lost track, but caught up easily a few times. I’m sad that we haven’t been closer in recent years, but we talked by phone many times. The loss of Phil, and then Michael was very hard for her. I will truly miss her—may she rest in peace in the arms of her Heavenly Father. jim putman

    • We are so sorry for the loss of your mom prayers for family The Thompson family

    • It meant the world to us that you could be here. Thank you for traveling so far to put a smile on our faces at such a trying time. Lester & Kaye

  2. Duff will shine on forever. She was always so happy and enjoyed being surrounded by family and friends. No matter how old your parents are, it is never easy saying goodbye. Thinking of you, praying for serenity.

  3. Sorry to hear that we’ve lost another good lady. I know she’s in a better place and looking down on us and smiling at us as she joins Phil.
    Prayers for all.
    Bonnie

  4. My sincerest sympathy to Duff’s family and her many friends. It was always a pleasure to be with her at the card table. She was an excellent bridge player but always answered the bid with “I don’t know how to answer you”. Of course she knew how to answer; being a school teacher, I think she always had an answer. She was a good friend to so many and made the best meatballs I have ever eaten. May God continue to bless her and her dear family.

  5. Duff will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus.

  6. What I remember most about Aunt Duff is her infectious, smart laugh; fun fishing days on the boat; visiting Aunt Bea at her house and that amazing chocolate cake. A life well-lived, well-missed and well-loved by her family near and far.

  7. RIP..Duff.
    I will miss having breakfast with you on Thursday morning at Abell Diners. You always come in with a smile on your face.
    Robertha


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