Eleanor Josephine "Quade" Clarkson

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January 11, 1942 ~ April 30, 2019

Eleanor Josephine (Quade) Clarkson, age 77, of Bushwood, Maryland, peacefully passed away on Tuesday, April 30, 2019, surrounded by her loving family. Eleanor is survived by her devoted husband of over 55 years, Joseph E. Clarkson, Sr.; her loving children, Christa Jacobson (John) and Joseph E. Clarkson, Jr. (Stacie); grandchildren Josephine Faith Jacobson and Trey Lawrence Jacobson; Sisters-in-law Diane Quade and Patricia (Clarkson) Krisko; brother-in-law John Krisko; her nieces, nephews, extended family and countless friends. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased in death by her granddaughter, Sophia Lynn Jacobson in 2008 and her only brother, George L. Quade, Jr., in 2010. Eleanor was born to Alice (Morgan) Quade and George L. Quade, Sr. on January 11, 1942. She spent her childhood in her beloved Bushwood, Maryland, helping the family store and boat rental business, chasing her big brother George and his friends, spending time with best friend, Chloe Burch, water skiing, soft crabbing, trot lining, and fishing. She also had a love for horseback riding and animals, especially dogs including Brownie whom she won at a school auction. Eleanor attended Sacred Heart Catholic School and St. Mary's Academy, graduating in 1960. Eleanor went to work for the FBI in the fall of 1960 and eventually transferred to the Federal Reserve Board. After being set up on a blind date with Joe Clarkson, then a student at Georgetown University, she instantly fell in love and brought him to Bushwood to meet the family. Joe became an official part of the family when the two married at Sacred Heart Catholic Church on June 15, 1963. With Joe employed by the Department of Justice in Washington, D.C., the couple settled in Upper Marlboro, Maryland, where they attended St. Mary's Catholic Church and she enjoyed singing in the choir. They welcomed daughter Christa in 1972, followed by son Joey in 1975, and Eleanor became a devoted mother and wife for the next 40 years, volunteering at St. Mary's Church and School, supporting her children in their athletic and academic pursuits, and trying to make Joe walk the line. Joe took the girl out of Bushwood, but Bushwood never left her heart, and Eleanor spent many weekends and extended summer stays in Bushwood, or whenever her mother or brother would call to inform her the crabs were running. When Joe retired in 1995, the couple built their present home on St. Catherine's Sound, just around the point from the Quade family. Since that time, Eleanor returned to her childhood roots, attending Sacred Heart Catholic Church and singing in the choir, helping at the family store, picking raspberries, working in the yard, soft crabbing, fishing off her pier, spending time with her grandchildren and attending auctions with dear friends and family. She also volunteered with the 7th District Volunteer Rescue Squad Auxiliary, and enjoyed dressing as an early settler at the Blessing of the Fleet each fall. Eleanor will be deeply missed by her family and the 7th District community. Viewing will be Monday, May 6th, 2019, from 5:00-8:00 p.m. at Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home in Leonardtown, Maryland with prayers at 7:00. Mass of Christian burial will be conducted Tuesday, May 7th, 2019, at 10:00 a.m., at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Bushwood, Rev. Francis J. Early presiding. Interment will follow in the Sacred Heart Cemetery. Pallbearers will be: George L. Quade, III, Vincent Bergling, Michael Vance, Brian Tate, Wyatt Bowling, and Hank Bowling. Honorary Pallbearers will be: Sacred Heart Choir, 7th District VRS Auxiliary, Diane Quade, Pat and John Krisko, Chloe Frantz, Peggy and Richard Colliflower, Juanita Guy, Joan Lacey and Frankie Hodges. In lieu of flowers, contributions on behalf of Eleanor’s memory may be made to the 7th District VRS Auxiliary, P.O. Box 7 Avenue Maryland, MD 20609, Mother Catherine Academy, 38833 Chaptico Road, Mechanicsville, MD 20659 or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625 Leonardtown, MD 20650.

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  1. Sorry for the loss of one of our sweetest ladies and singers in our choir, at Sacred Heart. She had a beautiful voice and over the months we have missed hearing that voice. Now she will be singing with the Saints in heaven. Who knows, maybe we will hear her in our choir sometimes?

  2. Our loss is heaven’s gain. Eleanor was a kind and loveing person. Always had a good word for everyone she met. The Seventh District has lost another treasure. I’m sure she was met by her Mother and Father and her brother George with open arms. Our hearts are heavy knowing that we won’t see her beautiful smile until we meet again. We love you my friend.

  3. Becky & Ronnie Trossbach says:

    Joe & Family,

    Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Ms. Eleanor was one of a kind, such a sweet lady whose smile could light up a room. Heaven has gained an Angel.

    Ronnie & Becky Trossbach

  4. Christa & family, I’m so sorry for the loss of your mother. I’m keeping you in my thoughts & prayers. I hope the memories of your mother bring you peace & comfort during this difficult time.
    Love,
    Monica Heinlein

  5. Christa and Family,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your many memories of your dear Mother bring you peace and comfort always. God Bless. Thinking of you always sweetie. Love, Lynnette

  6. Joe and Family,

    Eleanor was always a part of my life in Bushwood and I will always treasure my memories of her. She was a strong, loving and funny lady and I was blessed to know her. You will be in my prayers.

    Love from Ruth A.

  7. Our love and prayers to you, Christa and your family during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of visiting with your Mom when she came with you to work. There is definitely another angel in heaven to watch over you all.

  8. I first met Eleanor at Quade’s Store while visiting my sister and brother-in-law, Trisha & Jim Kelley. Our Aunt Rita was with me and she and Eleanor hit it off immediately. Eleanor was delightful and I’m sure she will be missed by all. God will take care of her now.
    Our deepest sympathy to the whole family.
    Mary Sherman and Rita Leskoske

  9. So sorry for your loss. Even though we know Eleanor is at peace it is our loss to bear and miss her smiling face. My prayers go out to you Joe and your children. She was a great lady.

  10. Dear Christa and Family,
    We are deeply sorry for your loss. We pray the love and fond memories of your mom will carry you through this difficult time. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

  11. Trueman Cross Slingluff Montfort says:

    From all of the families of Chickahominy we send our sincere condolences…personally, I would simply say that Eleanor always treated me with kindness and compassion…a true giver….she even understood when I asked her to ease up on picking so many raspberries unless she was gonna give me some of her mom’s jam!…lol…my heart felt sympathies to such a great family that we are forever connected to going all the way back to our great great grandparents at the original store, mill and cannery serving the steamboats at Bushwood wharf. Rest In Peace Dear Eleanor – Monty

  12. Our Deepest Sympathy to Eleanor’s Family. We always enjoyed the interesting stories she shared about Wendy Bartending at Quade’s. So we know Wendy was waiting to greet her with an ice cold drink and a crab net. We shall truly miss her stories. Praying you find courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

  13. To Joe,Christa & Joey &families-And all the Quades, Eleanor was such a kind and caring person:always ready to help where needed.So full of life: Bushwood(& esp.Quades) will not be the same. Our love and prayers to all.

  14. Joe & family, As Chaplain of the Seventh District Vol. Rescue Squad & on behalf of our members, we extend our deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Eleanor. She was a lovely person who’s volunteer spirit with our Auxiliary did not go unnoticed. The membership is grateful for her efforts to support the Rescue Squad. Rest in Eternal Peace Eleanor. You have earned your heavenly rewards.


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