Ellen Mary Mattingly
May 13, 1924 ~ April 1, 2011
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 6, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church, Leonardtown, MD with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, April 5, 2011 from 5:00-8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 6:30 PM.
Ellen Mary Mattingly, 86, of Leonardtown, MD, died April 1, 2011 in Leonardtown, MD. Born on May 13, 1924 in Bryantown, MD, she was the daughter of the late Steven and Adele Burch Montgomery. She was the loving wife of the late Francis Desales Mattingly whom she married on November 24, 1945 in St. Aloysius Catholic Church; he preceded her in death on December 11, 2000. Mrs. Mattingly is survived by her children; Inez Frazier, Sue Frannie Hilsinger, Roger Mattingly, LeRoy Mattingly, and six grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her son Philip King whom she loved so dearly. Ellen lived in Leonardtown, MD most of her life, and was a member of St. Aloysius Catholic Church. She worked for the C & P Telephone Company in Network Operations for 25 years. Her past activities were shopping and traveling. Ellen graduated from Franklin High School, Baltimore, MD and attended Charles County Community College. Ellen was very devoted to her family and to her church. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, April 5, 2011 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where prayers will be recited at 6:30 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 6, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church, Leonardtown, MD with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be; Inez Maria Mattingly, Roger Lee Mattingly, LeRoy Burch, George Higgs, Jason Hostetler, and Todd Mattingly. Honorary pallbearers will be; The Telephone Pioneers, Catholic Daughter of America, St. Mary’s Hospital Auxiliary, Ladies of Charity, Father Andrew White School C.C.D. teacher, and all of her wonderful friends at St. Aloysius Church, whom she loved very much. Contributions may be made in memory of Ellen Mary Mattingly to the St. Aloysius Catholic Church, P.O. Box 310, Leonardtown, MD 20650, and/ or Leonardtown Volunteer Fire Department, P.O. Box 50, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“Leroy,Roger, Frannie, Inez and the entire Mattingly Family, you have my deepest sympathy. May the wonderful memories you have of your Mom always bring a smile. “
“Roger we were sorry to hear of your loss. Take care and God bless your family.”
“Inez,Sue,Roger,Roy, Grandchildren and-Great Children, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Lots of memories will remain. She’ll never be forgotten. God Bless to all.”
“To Todd and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this tough time. She is in Heaven smiling down, and no more down with no more pain and suffering. With Love, Megan”
“Todd, Donna, I remember how happy you all would be when you came in to my office on Fridays and announced. “I am going to my grandma’s for the weekend” It was obvious you loved each other. My utmost condolences.”
“Our deepest sympathies to Katie and her family. May your grandma rest in peace Katie. She was a beautiful lady, and I wish we had known her better. Our prayers are with you.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the Mattingly family.”
“”To Roger and the Mattingly family, we are sorry to hear of your loss.”
“My deepest condolence to the Mattingly family especially Todd which whom I went to school and his mom. I know Ms. Mattingly will be missed by all Her family. They will be in my Prayers. Take care and be at peace.”
“So sorry for your loss. Please convey my condolences to the rest of your family. “
“Ellen, I enjoyed working with you at the C.&P. telephone Co. We had our little Conversations about our Children and growing-up. You were really a great person and Friend. I will miss you. Rememberance Always, Mary Edna Bowles “
“”We are very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. We first met your mother at Mass and worked with her many years in the Religious Education Program at St. Aloysius. She has been a faithful friend and we will certainly miss her. “”
“To Roger and the entire Mattingly family, we are sorry to hear of your loss. May she rest in peace and forever be in your heart. Charles,Carrie Greenwell”
“Mary Ellen was such a good friend to me and I will never forget her kindness. We had nice talks and fun times. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful person with me. I will miss her.”
“So sorry to hear about Ellen. I worked with your Mom at the phone company. She was always so nice to me and when I would see her out she would be also. I will keep the family in my prayers. Mary Frances (Farrell) Abell. “
“Roger and family, May you find peace and comfort in knowing that your grief is shared by so many. Your mom will be sorely missed. God bless you and your family.”
“I am sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. Having known her and you all my entire life, it is difficult to see people like your Mom go on. I wish you all peace in knowing she is in heaven with your Dad and many others. May she rest in peace. “
“To the Entire Mattingly Family, Roger(Julie)Roy & Randy, Todd. I can not begin to Tell you how this Hurts me as I loved Your Mom Alot. This is Kinda Rough on me right now As I have just lost my Dad back in January. I want you to know I loved your Mother alot. We have had Some good times together & I will Never forget her ever. She has Taught me alot, we Taught the Children at the CCD Program at Father Andrew White School in Leonardtown . She told me that She had lived a Good Life & Loved All her Family. Always Remember all the Good Times. Take care of each other in the Day’s ahead. She has gone to be with Your Dad in Heaven. That’s what she would have wanted anyhow. No more suffering , Remember I love all of You. Take Care.”
“Roger and Family – we were so sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. Please know that our love and prayers are with all of you.”
“Roger Julie and Family- We are very sorry to hear of your loss. May you find peace with the wonderful memories of Ms. Mattinglys long life during this difficult time. You will be in our thoughts and prayers “
“Roger and family, I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Kathy”
“Inez, Roger, Roy, Frannie, and grandchildren, you have our sympathy and prayers during this very difficult time. Remember all the happy times that you shared with her and never let them go. She was a kind, caring and good person which is evident by the wonderful family that she leaves behind. God bless you all.”
“To Todd and Family, Sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother, mother,and friend. She will forever be in your heart and your memories will never be forgotten. May she rest in peace.”
“ROGER,FRANNIE,INEZ,LeROY. SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOTHERS PASSING. SHE WAS A VERY SWEET LADY. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS SAD TIME. GOD BLESS HER AND ALL OF YOU.”
“Roger, Julie, and family; We are sorry to hear of your loss. You were blessed to have a wonderful mother and may she find peace that she is with your father again. Bless your entire family during this time of grief.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May you find comfort in knowing that she has been reunited with your father and other loves ones. “
“Roger – may you and your family find comfort knowing that your Mother is now with your Dad in heaven. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Roger and family: I am so sorry for your loss. I know what you are going through. I still miss my mom a lot. She will be watching over and guiding all of you. She will be in our thoughts and prayers. If you need me please call. Take Care.”
“Todd, I wish you and Noah the strength to sustain you both during this difficult time, and the healing that soothes both mind and spirit.”
“Roger and The Mattingly Family, Sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. Always remember the good times and all the good memories. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sorry we are unable to attend the funeral. Diane and Frank”
“Leroy, although I never met your Mom, she must have been a wonderful woman. How great is that to have been a member of St. Al’s for so many years; the Lord will honor her faithful service to the church, her family and those around her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless. Pat”
“LeRoy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Keep your memories close.”
“Please share my deepest sympathy to my good friend, Todd and the Mattingly Family on the loss of his grandmother. I am certain it is not an easy time for you all right now. Please know that others share your loss. God Bless the entire Mattingly Family. “
“My deepest sympathy to the Mattingly Family. Although, I did not know Mrs. Mattingly, Todd often talked about her throughout the years. It was obvious that she meant a lot to him. To the many family members, I hope there will be comfort in knowing that her memory will remain alive through others and that her spirit will be with you all. The angel is now with god. Hil (Longtime Friend and Former neighbor of Todd and Brian)”
“LeRoy, Roger, and the rest of the Mattingly family; I would like to offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your Mother. I never had the pleasure of meeting your Mom but reading all the fond memories of her here in the guestbook she must have been truly a great lady who loved her church and family deeply. May she rest now in the arms of the Lord for all eternity.”
“Sorry to hear of Mrs. Mattingly’s passing, Our prayers are with you all at this hard time! “
“Todd and the Mattingly Family, I just heard about the loss of your grandmother. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know she will be missed. As often as you talked about her I feel as if I knew her too. May she rest in peace. God bless you and your family. Josann”
“Todd and the Mattingly Family: It truly is a sad day when a loving member of the family passes. I am sure that your hearts are full right now. Do know it’s a part of life that we all go through one time or another. Hold on to the wonderful memories that you all hold. I am certain she will be missed. Todd, you are one of the strongest young men that I know, and I am certain that you will get through this loss. I know how important your “Mom-mom” was to you. Please give your mom my condolences. And, my friend, you know Kate and I are here if you need anything. Blessings to the Mattingly Family.”
“To the Mattingly family – Please find comfort that others are thinking of you at this time. I have fond memories of Ms. Mattingly when I was a young girl and went to school with Melissa. I remember spending alot of time around her. I hope that you are able to find comfort in one another and share your great memories.”
“My Thoughts and Prayers Are With Her Family. She Was My Inspiration When I Was A CCD Teacher At St. Aloysius!! She Was A Remarkable And Beautiful Lady!! May It Comfort You All To Know How Much She Was Loved By Many XOXOX “
“Roger, LeRoy and the entire Mattingly family, my deepest condolences to you. May God bless you all and comfort you in the loss of your mother. Keep your memories close to your heart. She is with your dad now and your guardian angel. God bless.”
“LeRoy – So sorry to hear about your Mother – she was a very lovely lady. Whenever I was out with my Mother, Theresa Anderson, we would always see your Mother and have some nice chats. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. “
“LeRoy and family you have my condolences. God be with you all, keep your hands in his hands.”
“Leroy & Family, How sorry we are to hear of your Mother’s passing. A Grand Lady in the true sense of the word who did so much for the St. Aloysius Parish and the entire community at large. We share your loss in her passing. May Christs love and that of your family and frieds uplift you now and in the days to come. God’s eternal light will shine upon her always! “
“I am sorry to hear of the loss of Mrs. Mattingly. Growing up 3 doors down and I can remember selling her school fundrasiers as well as she was my 1st grade CCD teacher. I can always remember seeing the two shopping at the mall or in the park. Such fond memories. May she rest in peace. “
“So sorry to hear of Mrs. Mattingly’s passing. She and Mom were the best of friends and worked together for many years. I’m sure Mom met her and they are now peaceful and rehashing old times. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. “
“Leroy and Roger, I’m sorry to hear of your moms passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Roger & Family, We are very sorry to hear about your mother, Our prayers are with you & the family.”
“My condolences to Roger and family.”
“Todd and the Mattingly family, I send my love and wish I were there to be with you at this difficult time. May God bless all of you. Todd you have been my best friend since we were goods, if you need me just call. I am only a phone call away. I love you and if you need me just call anytime.”
“So sorry for you loss. Heaven has another angel to look over your family. Take care and please call if you need anything.”
“”Inez, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your mother, May God Comfort you and your family through this difficult time .”
“We are so sorry to hear about Ms. Mattingly’s passing. She was a special person. We taught CCD along side her at St. Aloysius years ago and she taught both of our children 1st grade CCD. She definitely earned her wings her on earth teaching God’s little children. May she rest in peace.”
“Roger and Mattingly family, I was so saddened to read of the loss of your mother. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Dear Inez, John, and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Time will help ease your sorrow. “
“Ciao Todd. Marinella, Nancy and I are now more than ever close to you. We’re deeply sorry for your loss and we’re sure that she will look after you. Ciao my dear friend and be strong. Remo, Marinella and Nancy.”
“I’m so sorry to hear of Mary Ellen’s passing. We were both volunteers for the CCD program at St. Aloysius. She was a lovely person and a devoted volunteer. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m lifting up all of her family members and friends in prayer.”
“Leroy, Roger, and family, Very sorry for your loss, I only met your mom twice but she was a very sweet lady. She lived a good life and I’m certin she’s in a much greater place now! May god grant her peace.”
“Todd, I recall years ago when your grandparents were coming out of the Hecht Company in Landover and we ate at the Hot Shoppe. They were very pleasant and I have never forgotten your grandmother’s laugh. I am sorry to learn that she passed. She made an impression in my life. My condolences to you and the Mattingly Family. Cliff”
“Oh Todd, I don’t know what to say. I am so sorry for yours and your family’s loss. You just mentioned about your grandmother sending Noah a card. May she rest in peace. I will be praying for you and your family. Lt. White”
“Todd, I just heard about the loss of your grandmother. I am sorry for you and your family. Remain strong, my friend. I am sure she will always be in your heart. Take Care, Tommy (Maryland State)”
“Todd “Matt” I am so sorry about your grandmother. If there is anything I can do for you and Noah, let me know. Let your mom know that I am sorry for her loss. Paula (Friend and Co-worker)”
“I am sorry for the loss of Mrs. Mattingly. We send our sincere condolences to Todd and the Mattingly Family. Chad and Kara, Palm Springs, CA”
“My heart is broken. Mrs. Mattingly was such a lovely lady. I know the entire Mattingly family is feeling the loss of this delightful lady. I met Mrs. Mattingly and Mr. Mattingly at Todd’s graduation from the Police Department. Todd and family, be strong, she’s in god’s hands now. Blessings to all, Lena Parrish (Todd’s Friend)”
“Mrs. Mattingly assisted us when we donated Blood, she always had the cookie and juice ready with her pat on the back and her wonderful smile. She certainly was adore by many here in St. Mary’s County. Frannie, Art, Donna, Todd, Becky and the rest of the Mattingly Family, we are deeply sorry for your loss. Charles and Kim (Classmates of Todd)”
“I am sorry to learn the passing of Mrs. Ellen Mattingly. Todd, often spoke of her to us at work. Todd’s mom and family, I am sorry for your loss. Delores, Washington, D.C.”
“Todd, I just learned that you loss your grandmother. I am sorry. Trust that god has taken her to a better place. Give your family my best. Sorry, Hugo”
“TODD AND THE MATTINGLY FAMILY, I SEND MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO YOU ALL. TODD AND I WORKED TOGETHER MANY YEARS AGO. I HAVE FOLLOWED HIM THROUGH MANY LIFE’S EVENTS, PROMOTIONS, HIS GRADUATION FROM THE POLICE ACADEMY WHERE I MET HIS GRANDPARENTS MR. AND MRS. MATTINGLY AND HIS RECEPTION WHEN HE RECEIVED HIS COLLEGE DEGREE; AND, NOW THE LOSS OF HIS GRANDMOTHER. REMEMBER: THOSE WE LOVE DON’T GO AWAY, THEY WALK BESIDE US EVERY DAY, UNSEEN, UNHEARD, BUT ALWAYS NEAR, STILL LOVED, STILL MISSED AND VERY DEAR. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL. PAT ALBRITTON “
“Todd, they mentioned in roll call that your grandmother passed. Man, I am really sorry. If there is anything I can do, let me know. My condolences to your family, too. Kevin”
“Todd and Noah we are sorry to hear that your grandmother passed. We are thinking of you both. Brian often talked about her. Give your mom and the family our condolences. Love you both!”
“OMG, Todd, I just found out about your loss. I am so sorry. You must be devastated! Be strong! Know that your beloved grandmother is in heaven with your grandfather. Her memory will live through you and the rest of your family. Please give my condolences to your mother. Officer Scott Myers (Friend and Colleague) “
“Todd and Noah, I am sorry for the loss of your grandmother/great-grandmother. May god bless you both and the Mattingly Family. I realize this is a diffcult time for you and your family. Please if there is anything we can do, you know we are here for you both. I am sure she is watching over her family and she would be very proud. Ken and Leslie (Friends and Former Neighbor of Todd and Brian)”
“To the Mattingly Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“Leroy, My Condolences for the loss of your Mother, May she Rest in Peace.”
“Todd and the Mattingly Family, I realize loosing a loved one hurts and at this time I know many of Mrs. Mattingly’s family and friends are hurting, just know that she was a good mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and of course a good friend to many. May her memories continue to live through her family. God be with you all. “
“Dear Mattingly Family: I am so sorry for the loss of Mrs. Mattingly. She truly was a classy and wonderful lady. I recall Mrs. Mattingly, her husband Francis (Mr. Mattingly), and Todd’s beautiful mother, Sue when I was in elementary school with their grandson/son, Todd. They came out to the school and made homemade ice-cream for all of us! Years went by and I would often see Mrs. Mattingly shopping in the stores and see Mr. Mattingly sitting in the car. And, Mrs. Mattingly helped with the Red Cross during several Blood Drives and she was so nice. I am sure this must be hard on the Mattingly Family. Please know that Mrs. Mattingly was a wonderful person and she will be missed. Sue and Todd, although I have not seen you all in years, I am still in the county with my family and I have often over the years spoke of you both. May God bless you all. Stephanie Dickerson, Valley Lee, MD”
“So sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Todd, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. God bless.”
“Todd and the Mattingly Family, I just read about the loss of your grandmother. It is with great sadness to me as I recall seeing her at the stores and she always spoke. You family was certainly blessed to have such a wonderful lady among you all. Blessings to all. “
“The Mattingly Family: I just read in the newspaper the loss of Todd’s grandmother, Mrs. Mattingly. I am so sorry for the loss. I met Mrs. Mattingly years ago when Todd and I stopped by to visit one evening. It was one of those.moments that I cherished. She was very sweet. I said a prayer for the family. It’s sad I know. God will bless Mrs. Mattingly.”
“Roger, Julie and Family Sorry to hear about Mrs. Mattingly. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Roger, so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“To each and everyone, my sympathy is extended to you all. I also enjoyed working with Ellen back in the olden days at the phone company and I loved her family. May she rest in peace”
“Our sympathy to the family especially Roger and Julie. Be assured of our thoughts and prayers.”
“Oh my, Todd, I just heard about your grandmother’s passing. We are so sorry for your family’s loss. I know she was proud of you like we all are, although, we miss you here at the school. Please know that you and little Noah are in our prayers. Thinking of you and your family. Jeannett (Teacher and Former Colleague of Todd’s)”
“Inez,I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I pray that God will bless,comfort and give you strength in this time of sorrow.”
“Roger and family..so sorry to hear about your Mom.. Had many good times at the phone company with her..peace to her, and love to all of you…”