Francis Robert "Bobby" Goldsborough
October 2, 1939 ~ July 13, 2011
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, July 19, 2011 at 10:00 AM in S. John's Catholic church with Father Ray Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Monday, July 18, 2011 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD with prayers recited at 7:00 P.M.
Francis Robert “Bobby” Goldsborough, 71, of Hollywood, MD, died in Washington, DC on July 13, 2011. Born on October 2, 1939 in Hollywood, MD, he was the son of the late Delmas Goldsborough and Loretta Goldsborough. He was the loving husband of Pat Goldsborough whom he married in St. John’s Catholic Church in Hollywood, MD on August 31, 1959. Mr. Goldsborough is survived by his children; Terri Quade and Ray Goldsbough (Rhonda) both of Hollywood, MD. Robert is also survived by his 4 grandchildren; Chris Quade, Casey Quade, Joss Goldsborough, and Carson Goldsborough and siblings Tommy Goldsborough of Mechanicsville, MD and Dorothy Ann Lopitz of Hollywood, MD. Mr. Goldsborough is preceded in death by his brother, Joe Goldsborough of Hollywood, MD. Bobby was a Building contractor for J & G Construction and was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County. Bobby was a great friend to everyone he knew, he had a way of making every single person he talked to feel special, because they were to him. If Bobby wasn’t building a house, you could probably find him playing pool. He played pool with the Southern Maryland Pool League for most of his life. He also enjoyed a good game of pitch with his friends and family. When he really felt lucky he and Pat would take trips to Atlantic City, NJ to try their hand at the slot machines. Bobby was an avid and loyal NACAR fan, even though his favorite driver Jeff Burton never won a race. Bobby and his good friend Danny (God Rest his Soul) would have friendly bets about the races. Danny would always win; they decided to up the ante and bet double or nothing. Of course Jeff did not let Bobby down on that one; they talked about that for years. The most important thing to Bobby more than pool, cards, and racing was his family. His marriage to Pat for 52 years was a model for all of us to strive towards. He cared deeply for his kids Terry and Ray. Terri kept satisfying his sweet tooth with her homemade cakes. He was always willing to be the guinea pig for a new recipe and was never disappointed. Bobby was Ray’s right hand man, best man at his wedding and best friend in life. His pride and joy were his grandchildren; Chris, Casey, Joss and Carson. They all looked up to their Pop and each of them has some of his personality. Bobby loved all his family, his brothers, sister, and in-laws. Over his lifetime he has built hundreds of houses, those houses will last a lifetime, like the memories of the man who built them. The family will receive friends on Monday, July 18, 2011 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, July 19, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. John’s Catholic Church, Hollywood, MD with Fr. Raymond Schmidt officiating and Deacon Lou Koeniger co officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be; Hank Hayden, Leonard Bean, Randy Johnson, J.C. Abell, Chris Quade, and Casey Quade. Honorary Pallbearers will be; Clarence Greenwell, Mickey Neill, Allen Jameson, and Gary Callis. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A, Leonardtown, MD.
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“Pat, Dottie, Terri, and Ray – My deepest sympathy to all of you. Bobby had a unique personality that made you smile the minute you saw him. I still remember a long time ago when Pat and Bobby were at ADF bingo with Dottie and me…and Bobby hollered bingo but didn’t have it…we all laughed about it the rest of the night, but Bobby was the most tickled of all. I will always remember Bobby as an easy-going man with a great smile and a hysterical sense of humor. He was truly a great husband, son, father, brother, and friend. He will be truly missed by everyone. “
“I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Bobby. I am numb inside. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. To have known Bobby was a gift to any of us who knew him.”
“Pat, Terri, and Ray: I am so sorry that I am not there right now to offer my assistance and comfort. I feel helpless. It will take time for the pain in our hearts to heal but we will always have the wonderful memories of Bobby—his smile and laughter. Although we have lost the most kindest, happy, and gentle man I know, Heaven has truly gained an angel. Bobby was so loved by everyone that knew him. He was always there offering a helping hand without ever being asked. I am so thankful to both Pat and Bobby for the time they spent together with my mom (Jane). The endless movie nights (as well as their disruptive behavior during a movie) will always be cherished by her. They were the three amigos always laughing until they cried. He will truly be missed but never forgotten in our hearts. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers…with all our love, Dee-Dee, Donald, and Tyler Gladu”
“Bobby, my special brother, where do I begin….with how much I loved you or how bad my heart is breaking. You were the one that was always there for me my entire life. When I needed a place to live, you opened up your home to me and then, doing what you do best, you built me a home. When I was in the hospital, who drove to DC and was walking in my room at 5:30 in the morning…you and Pat. The list could go on and on forever. I know that I was truly blessed to have had you for my brother. You gave me so many wonderful memories and good times that “thank you” just seems so trivial. I promise you that as long as I live, I will do anything I can to help your family….Pat, Terri, Ray and Rhonda and your grandsons that you loved so very much. So you rest peacefully Bobby…..I will love you and miss you forever. “
“I am so sorry to hear about Bobby. My deepest regrets and sympathy to you and the rest of the Goldsborough family. I know that Loretta, Joe & Delmas are happy to have him with them in heavan. He will truly be missed by all that knew him. “
“Pat, Dottie & Family We are saddened to hear about the loss of Bobby. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“” Pat, Terri, Ray and family, I am so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. When ever I hear Bobby’s name I can see his beautiful smile. He had a gift that just made people happy whenever you were around him. Rest in peace my friend. I love you all, I am only a phone call away if you need anything. “
“God needed another great Carpenter in Heaven. Our Deepest Sympathy to Pat and Family. Diane and Freddie Norris”
“Dottie, Pat & Family: so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. he was a wonderful and kind man, always a gentleman and one great, great pool player. I always knew when he was involved in a tournament or regular games, we would all have a grand time and learn alot. Take care…Chris”
“Pat, Ray, Rhonda, Terri, Dorothy Ann, Tommy and family, It is difficult to put into words how saddened Son and I were to learn of Bobby’s passing. Bobby was such a kind, considerate person. Our childhood years were filled with so much fun. We feel like we have lost a family member too. Bobby and Joe, who hasn’t even been gone a year yet, were like brothers to us Adams sisters when we were growing up. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this sorrowful time. With our love, Son and Elaine”
“Terri and family, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God help you through this hard time. Keep your memories close to your heart. That will help to keep you strong. God bless each and every one of you.”
“A great man that will be sadly missed but his memory will remain with us forever. I bet Bobby and Joe are up there remodeling heaven! Our prayers and love to the family. Bud & Edna “
“My Dear friend Terri, Pat, Ray, Dot, and family, there are no words that I can find to tell you how deeply sorry I am for your family at this time of loss for you. I just know that Bobby loved his family more than life itself and was a good man who I have known all my life. I hope the wonderful memories you have of him will hold you and keep you strong, now, during this time of sadness. Terri, I love you my dear friend, and you know you can call me anytime of the day or night, I will be here. God bless you and your family. Bobby rest in peace and know you will be missed by a entire community. Job well done……you were a good man!”
“I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bobby. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this tragic time. “
“To the Goldsborough Family: Keep the memories of Bobby close to heart. He was such a nice man! Always willing to lend a helping hand. Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.”
“To ALL the Goldsbourough Family We are truly sadden by the death of Bobbie. We all grew up in Sandy Bottom and have know the Goldsboughs all our lives and there is not a nicer, more friendly person than Bobby. We can’t express how sorry we are and pray God will give you strenth and guidence during such a difficult time. May God keep you in His Care . Love Wayne and Joan”
“Pat and Family, My deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Hold tight to your faith, your friends, and your memories. May God bless Bobby, and all of your family. Hugs, Karen”
“So very sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing..prayers and condolences to the family. “
“Pat, Terri, Ray and Family; We are so very sorry and saddened to hear about Bobby.Bobby was one of the good guys. We and Everybody will all miss him very much. Thoughts and Prayers with you all. God Bless You Bobby. “
“Dottie, Pat, Terri and family, We are so sorry about Bobby. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Terri, Pat & Family, I’m so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. He was such a wonderful and sweet man! You are in my thoughts and prayers. He will be forever missed. “
“We do not have words to say that can express how saddened we are to hear about Bobby. Pat, you and your family are in our prayers.”
“Terri & Family, We were sadden to hear of your fathers passing. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“We are thinking of you and remembering how we love Bobby & your family. My boys, Doug (Hap) and Todd were so sad to hear about their Dad’s good friend. “
“Ray and Rhonda and all family of Bobby, I am sorry to hear or your loss but pray for God’s wisdom, peace and comfort to you all at this time.”
“Pat and Family: Bobby was one of the finest people I have ever met. His loss is a tragedy for anyone that knew him. “
“To the Goldsborough Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.”
“Terri and Family, We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Love & Prayers to all.”
“Oh Dorothy Ann, I am so sorry to read about your brothers death, and so soon after losing your Mom too. I know how hard it all is and I’m so so sorry. Take care, hang in there, it’s all we can do isn’t it. Old friends still care about each other, and I still care about you. Love to you and your entire family.”
“Dottie, Pat and Family,We were sadden to hear of Bobby’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. He will be greatly missed, Hold on to all the great memories you have to get you through this trying times. It’s never easy losing someone that you love. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do.”
“We are so saddened by your loss of Bobby. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Pat & Family; we are so sorry to hear about Bobby. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“My heart goes out to the Goldsboroug family and friends. I cannot come up with any words to say except I will miss that SMILE. Hold each other tight. Love to you all Jo Allen”
“Uncle bobby I miss you so much. I’m going to miss seeing you at Christmas time and hearing the laughter of yall playing pitch and having a good time. I love you so much and I will see you on the other side. Please give great grandma G and Uncle Joe and Aunt Margret a hug and a kiss for me. I love you Uncle Bobby and may you rest in peace. “
“Sorry to hear of Bobby passing. Ge was a really a great guy, we played pool with him on tuesday and wednesday nights. He had great sportsman ship. He will be missed.”
“Pat, Ray, Terri, and Tommy, I just cannot express how sad I am to hear about Bobby. He was so special. Always the same and always smiling and in a good mood. I will remember all the great times shooting pool together. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you. Claire “
“Dottie, Pat, Terri, Ray and the extended family, I’m at a loss of words right now, actually numb. I am so sorry for this tremendous loss. We’ve all had the great fortune to have been able to share time with such an incredible soul. I only hope you can find some comfort in knowing that Bobby is always in your presence, maybe not visibly, but spiritually (like an angel), and that you can always reach out to him. He was truly special and will be immensely missed. I love you and have been thinking and praying for you. Godspeed!”
“Our thoughts and prayers extend to the entire family during this time of sorrow.”
“To my Dearest Friend Terri, I wrote this today for your family and hopes it helps some! THE HOUSE BUILDER The older man kept going strong all day in the sun, Hot and tired, but knowing there was more to be done. He smiled a smile so wide, in his heart he was dreaming, The tiredness seemed to vanish away, as he saw his vision gleaming. “Man” said a friend the very next day. You are wasting your retirement days away. Your journey is getting shorter, and you should be playing. Why built another house now, is all I am saying”. Now the older man raised his tired, sweaty head. “My friend, in this journey that I have come, Are so many lessons I have learned from. There follows after me, a son who has a need there, He too, must have a well built house right here. You see, my friend, I’m building this last house for him. That is what brings this wide smile across my face, Because very soon my son will be living in this place. So this is the gift of his handiwork, he left for his son, And we know God’s greeting to him was “SON, JOB WELL DONE!!” “
“I know this is a very difficult time, but please take comfort in the fond memories and know that he is now with his Eternal Father. Prayers for the Lord’s comfort and peace to all of you!”
“Terri, I was so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“”To the Goldsborough Family: You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.””
“Pat,Terri,Ray, Rhonda,Dorothy Ann,and Tommy.Words cannot express the HURT in our HEART right now. Bobby was the most happiest go lucky person that we have ever known. He always had that cute little smurk on his face so, you always knew he was up to something. My family has known this man for many many years, growing up right across the street on Clarkes Landing Road. If there is anything that you need or you just want to talk, Leonard and I are here for you if you need anything. “
“Our Prayers & Thoughts are with each family members. Bobby will truely be missed; his funny jokes and wonderful smile that we all saw on Tuesday night pool league. “
“To the Goldsborough Family… I am sorry for your loss, may your many wonderful memories carry you thru this difficult time”
“Pat, Terri, Ray and the rest of the family. We are so saddened to hear of Bobby’s passing. He was always smiling and very friendly to everyone. Even though he is not with you, he will always be in your memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, take care, and be there for each other.”
“To Tommy and family, We are so sorry to hear about your brother. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.”
“Bobby, a special friend, the days may pass but your memory will always remain strong in my heart. I met you & Pat 5 years ago and you welcomed me into your family with open arms. You had a real zest for life that anyone who’s life you touched was enriched. Thank you for being a part of my life and know that I will treasure the memories and time spent with you and Pat. Pat, Terri, Ray & Rhonda, He was the best husband, father, father-in-law & grandfather there was and thank you for letting me share in all the good time the past 5 years with him. “
“Sorry to hear about Bobby. He will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with the family at this time.”
“Uncle Bobby, I have so many memories when we all woked together for grandmom. We seem to grow apart with new families. But our family is always there in time of need. Pat, (not Aunt Pat because I know you did not like me calling you that), Terri and Ray if there is anything you need do not hesitate. Uncle Bobby please gime Mom and Dad a huge for me. I am sure he is cussing you as he always did.”
“Pat & family; I’m so sorry to hear about Bobby and my heart goes out to you and the family during this difficult time. Rest assured that there is a wonderful group of people (my dad included) waiting to greet him in heaven. God bless you.”
“Pat, Terry, Ray & Rhonda, Tommy, Dottie–the sadness is overwhelming…like it’s not real. Another unexpected tragedy of a good Hollywood man. I’m so VERY sorry for your loss. I want you all to know I will always be greatful to Bobby (and Randy) for building us a beautiful home– WHENEVER I talk about it or show it, I mention how WELL it was built–forever grateful. I admired him for buying the land next to us which enabled him to have his children close to him–how many parents have that same dream? I could hear him hammering until dark each evening. And each time you talked with him, his smile was from ear to ear. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I’m only across the field if you need anything.”
“We are so sorry about the passing of Bobby.Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family”
“Our prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to your family.Uncle Bobby was a good man with a kind heart,he would help just about anyone in times of trouble.May the good Lord be with you all. Chris & Patty Buckler”
“Uncle Bobby, John, myself and the boys wish to thank you for all the wonderful memories. Before John and I bought our first home you and Aunt Pat offered us and Craig and Barbara the use of your time share in Orlando so that we could take the boys to Disney World before becoming tied down with a house payment. And then there’s those many cakes that Grandma and I baked together so that “Bobby could have cake” when you came to stay with Grandma. But most of all, there are so many fond memories of Christmas Day and dinner at Aunt Dottie’s. We all laughed so hard we cried over those crazy card games. I know you will be frustrating them in heaven where you are catching everybody’s Jack. My boys are as heart broken as I am. We are really going to miss you. And Uncle Bobby,… would you give Grandma a hug for me, please? “
“Terri and Family, we are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I know he meant the world to you, and your family. We know we will be greatly missed. Please know that you all are in our prayers. GOD Bless.”
“We are so sad to hear of Bobby’s passing. He was a terrific guy, a great family man, a wonderful friend, and a hard worke. He will be missed by those that know and love him. Our condolences to his family, and may you gather strength from the prayers from people who cared greatly.”
“Pat, we are so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Pat, Terri, Ray, and Dorothy Ann: Our prayers and thoughts are with you. The Lord acts in mysterious ways, but know that heaven has a plan that needs Bobby’s help in a special way. Everyone says that time helps heal the pain. Keep remembering the life you shared with Bobby and also remember that you will all be together again some day. “
” My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Bobby had such a beautiful way about him and he will surely be missed. Much love to you all!”
“Our hearts were broken when we heard about Bobby. Our prayers are with your whole family. Bobbys great attitude and fun loving way will be missed tremendously. Love all us Pilkertons”
“Dear Pat and family, We are so sorry to hear of Bobbys passing. What a wonderful person to be around. Always smiling and funny. God bless all of you and know that we are so sad for your loss.”
“Dear Pat,Terri, & Ray –I can’t begin to put into words our deepest condolences. Bobby was the salt of the earth & will be greatly missed by many. You all are in our thoughts & prayers. May God bless & help you find peace & comfort. “
“Such a great guy. He only did things one way — right. He leaves a lot of well made structures behind him. Our prayers are certainly with his family and also with Randy his business partner for so long. “
“Dear Pat & Family: We are so sorry to hear about Bobby. You are in our thoughts & prayers .God Bless all of you.”
“Dear Pat, I’m so sorry to hear about Bobby. My thoughts are prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. ~Bev Hegstrom”
“Dottie and family – so sorry to hear about Bobby. Thinking of you all – Tism”
“We grew up in Sandy Bottom, almost neighbors and had a lot of fun as kids. Bobby always had that special laugh and smile and am sure he still does. We are sending all the family our condolences. May he rest in peace. Johnny and Phyllis Joseph”
“Terri your friends at work are here to support you. May God bless you and your family and know that we are praying for you.”
“Dear Pat, My heart goes out to you at this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“To the Entire Family: I was so, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you! God Bless!”
“Ray, Rhonda and Goldborough Family: You are, and will remain in our daily prayers.”
“We are so very sorry to hear the news. Being friends with our family for many years… well, just like losing one of our own. Many Prayers being said.”
“Pat, I just found out tonight when I saw Linda McClave’s post on Facebook. I am truly sorry for your loss and for all that you, Dottie and the family are going thru.”
“Thoughts and prayers to the Goldsboroug family.”
“Ray and Family;we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Dear God, you do not willingly grieve or afflict your children. Look with pity on the suffering of this family in their loss. Sustain them in their anguish; and into the darkness of their grief bring the light of your love; through Jesus we pray. Amen. “
“Goldsborough family I am sorry for your loss. Bobby was a good man who loved his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of you.”
“My prayers and thoughts are with you Pat and the entire family. I always enjoyed talking to him, and I was glad I got to see him at the pool banquet. He will be missed and may he rest in peace.”
“Pat, Terry and Ray……I just heard about Bobby and my heart just aches for all of you. I’ll never forget our trip to Florida and how much fun we had!!! He was a wonderful father, grandfather and husband….Pat, I am so very sorry and I have truly missed you all.”
“Dottie, I just read about the loss of your brother,and I am very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers. Love and Peace.”