Hayden Nicholas Wynkoop
July 21, 2003 ~ August 8, 2026
Born in: Leonardtown, Maryland
Resided in: Montross, Virginia
Hayden Nicholas Wynkoop of Montross, VA (formally of Clements, MD) passed away unexpectedly on August 8, 2026. Hayden was the son of Julie Wood Wynkoop and Ben Wynkoop. In addition to his parents, Hayden is survived by his sisters McKenzie Stone (Hunter) of Bushwood, MD and Carly Wynkoop (Jarrett) of Hollywood, MD, one niece, Brynleigh Stone and four nephews, Brantley Stone, Baylor Stone, Jace Russell and Boone Stone. Grandparents Barbara Wood, Joyce Bennett and Bill Wynkoop, as well as numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Hayden is preceded in death by his grandfather John Wood, Jr.
Hayden enjoyed hunting and fishing, and although his patience was short, he bagged his first turkey at the age of 13. Since an early age, Hayden could be found in a garage or out in the yard tearing apart a motor or souping-up an engine; whether it was a car, go-cart, if it had a motor, Hayden loved to dive right in. Above all else, Hayden loved his family deeply and adored his niece and four nephews and would spend his time with them goofing off and being crazy Uncle Hayden.
The family will receive friends on Monday, August 17, 2026, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. with prayers recited at 7:00 p.m. at Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, August 18, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Avenue, MD with Father Timothy Baer officiating. Interment will follow in Queen of Peace Cemetery, Mechanicsville, MD. Serving as Pallbearers will be David Wood, Kenny Wood, John Wood IV, Danny Stone, Rob Wood and Howard Wentworth, Jr. Honorary Pallbearers will be his niece Brynleigh Stone and nephews Brantley Stone, Baylor Stone, Jace Russell and Boone Stone.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in memory of Hayden Wynkoop to Mother Catherine Academy (MCA), 38833 Chaptico Road, Mechanicsville, MD 20659.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com.
Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.
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Visitation: Monday, August 17, 2026 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home
41590 Fenwick Street
Leonardtown, MD 20650
(301) 475-8500
Mass: Tuesday, August 18, 2026 11:00 am
Holy Angels Catholic Church
21340 Coltons Point Road
Avenue, MD 20609
(301) 769-3332
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We are deeply sorry for the heartbreaking loss of Hayden. There simply are no words that can ease the pain of losing someone so dearly loved. May you find comfort in the precious memories you shared with Hayden and hold those memories close to your hearts in the days ahead.
Please know that you are surrounded by love, and we are here for you in any way you may need—not only today, but in the difficult days and weeks ahead.
Sending all of you our deepest sympathy, love, thoughts, and prayers. May God give you strength, comfort, and peace during this unimaginable time.
With heartfelt love and deepest sympathy. Jay and Sharon
Our hearts ache for you. There are moments in life when words feel so inadequate, and this is one of them. We are devastated by the loss of Hayden, and are holding each of you close in our hearts.
May you find strength in each other’s arms, comfort in the countless lives he touched, and peace in knowing that he was so deeply loved. Though his time here was far too short, the impact he made and the love he leaves behind are immeasurable.
We pray that when the days feel unbearable, you will be carried by the love of family, friends, and the beautiful memories that can never be taken away.
Please know that you do not walk this journey alone. We love you guys dearly and will continue to lift you up in prayer and surround you with love and support always.
With our deepest love and sympathy,
Todd, Stacey, Savannah, Will, and Ashleigh
Ben and Julie, we are so sorry for your loss of your son “Hayden “. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Please reach out if you need anything. Margie and Joe Oliver.
Ben, Julie and family,
We were so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Hayden. Praying that the love of family and friends will help to sustain you in the days ahead.
We will continue to pray for your family ~ that in time God will heal your broken heart hearts.
~ Dustin Alvey
We are so sorry for your son loss (Hayden).
Hayden was good, funny, and chill person to hang out with. The most caring person you would ever come across. We will pray for your family.
Julie, Ben and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss of Hayden. We will keep you in our prayers
Ben and Julie, my heart aches for you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Ben, Julie, and Family,
I cannot begin to understand the shock and pain your family is enduring following the loss of Hayden. I do not know if there is meaning or reason in his departure, but I will always cherish my fond memories of him growing up.
I remember Hayden coming to our house to play with Emily and the many hours Carly, Hayden, and Emily spent together. I remember the games they made up and all the fun they had growing up next door to one another. I still smile when I picture Hayden running around the yard, trying to keep his pants up because he had tied a rope around them, yet they kept falling down. 🙂
I have countless pictures from every season of the children playing together. This is how I choose to remember Hayden—smiling and laughing, with those beautiful blue eyes sparkling forever.
Sending love and hugs to your entire family.
Mike, Iola, and Emily
Julie and Ben,
There are truly no words to express our deep sorrow over the sudden loss of your precious son, Hayden. We know there is a place in your heart that only he could fill. Please know we are holding you and your family close in our thoughts and hearts.
With love,
Jean and Chris
God has him now. Love to the family
Julie, Ben, McKenzie, Carly, and the entire family, I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. I have been praying for you so hard these past few days and will continue. May God give you strength, peace, and comfort to get you through all the hard days. You all are so loved. Please lean on your many friends and family for support. We can’t imagine your pain, but we can try to help love you through the difficult times. Big hugs to those beautiful nephews and nieces who will miss him so much, too. Love and prayers to all. ~~ Minette
Julie, Ben and family,
We can’t begin to imagine the sorrow, pain, and grief you must be feeling at this difficult time. Please know that the Bobby, Gabby, Sydney and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Wise
My heart aches for you and your family during this unimaginable time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sending love and hugs!
I am so very sorry. I will always remember the little boy I taught at Mother Catherine. Sending love to you all.
I can only imagine the indescribable ache you are all feeling due to the loss of Hayden. May the memories you share of him help you through the tough times, and may you find solace in the fact that one day you will all meet him again. 🪽🤍
“The Broken Chain”
by Ron Tranmer
We little knew the day that
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn’t go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories.
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you
You are always at our side.
Words can’t even explain how sorry I am for your loss. Our family is praying for you all daily. Hayden was such a bright light. And it is so hard to believe that light is extinguished. He will be deeply missed. Sending all the love we can muster. God bless you all.
Many of us find ourselves searching for the right words. Loss is profound, and it’s hard to know what to say when you’re trying to offer comfort to dear friends who are struggling with the pain of losing their son, but I hope you know that you have many people who care about you and who are feeling your sadness too. If grief is truly a journey, we are here for you every step of the way.
Julie. My heart aches for you and your family. I am so sorry. I pray for peace and comfort for you all.
Julie and Ben,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
I’m praying for you and your family at this difficult time
Ben, Julie and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your son, Hayden. There is no greater loss than losing a child. We offer our sincerest condolences.
Julie,Ben and family,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your son Hayden. Sending my sincerest
condolences.
Love and prayers,
Shirley and Tom
Julie/Ben and the entire family. My prayers and condolences are with you all at this very difficult time. May his memories provide comfort in the many days ahead.