James Leo McCoy
May 19, 1937 ~ January 12, 2009
Services:
A Funeral Service will be held on Friday, January 16, 2009 at 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. Joe Orlando officiating. Interment will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Bushwood, MD.
Visitation:
Viewing/Visitation will be held on Friday, January 16, 2009 from 9:00 - 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home.
James Leo “Jim” McCoy, 71, of Chaptico, MD formerly of Darwin, MN died January 12, 2009 at his residence. Born May 19, 1937 in Darwin, MN he was the son of the late Charles and Jette Keigan McCoy. He was the loving husband of Patricia Lynn McCoy of Chaptico, MD. He is survived by his daughter Jennifer McCoy of Lutsen, MN and his brothers Harold McCoy of Cold Spring, MN and Charles McCoy of Citrus Hills, FL. Jim graduated from Darwin High School “Class of 1955” and attended Charles County Community College. He was a security specialist for the Department of Defense for 23 years until his retirement in June 2007 and he also served in the U.S. Air Force. He enjoyed playing golf, baseball, doing yard work, watching NASCAR and spending time with his family and friends. The family will receive friends on Friday, January 16, 2009 from 9:00 – 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, where a funeral service will be held at 10:00 AM with Rev. Joe Orlando officiating. Interment will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Bushwood, MD. Pallbearers will be David Delozier, Daniel Delozier, Cory Friest, Johnny Joy, Larry Joy and Ronnie Joy. Contributions may be made to Hospice of St. Mary's County, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“Patty and Family, I have known Jim for manys years and have had a lot of lovely chats with him and they always ended in lots of laughs. He will truly be missed . “
“Patty I am so sorry about Jim my thoughts and prayers are always with you if you need anything please call me I am a phone call away. I know this is a hard time but remember when mom passed you told me that she was in a better place, not suffering anymore and now Jim has joined mom and is in a better place and at peace. Love ya Kitty”
“When I first came to Pax I worked with Jim on the NAS Police Department. He was retired Air Force and I am retired Coast Guard. We learned a lot from each other and worked together well. We tried to get on the same shift as much as we could. Rest in peace my fellow vet.”
“Patty and Jennifer: My life will forever be enriched by knowing Jimmy. I couldn’t have wished for a better friend. Work was never dull when he was around. I liked when he came into the office, sat down with his Mister Donut coffee, and made time to chat with us every morning. He ALWAYS had candy at his desk and he was dressed up even in blue jeans. Though I am sad that he is gone I know he is in a better place (probably playing golf). “
“Patty, I am so sorry for your loss. Jim was truly an amazing person that I had the pleasure to know. When I started my first base job at Webster Field he was my supervisor. I did not realize how lucky I actually was until he was moved to Pax River. Please know that I am praying for you and the family. Love, Stacie”
“Patty and the McCoy Family, my deepest sympathy. May the good memories keep and comfort you during this sad time. Debbie”
“Patty and the McCoy family – I just don’t know where to start. I first met Jim back in 1991 when I came to Security. He had a infectious and mischievious personality. We became thick as thieves. We always had a story to discuss about work. I will always remember when we were in Bldg. 425 and him sitting on top of the picnic table outside when he was on “smoke break” with George Rolfe, Larry Richards and John Bean and various other stragglers. I remember the year he went from an Outstanding to Satisfactory employee. He was NOT happy. That was a topic with him and his “office wife Norma” for years. Once we got to Bldg 442, he sat kinda/sorta across from me. We would laugh and carry on so bad and tell jokes. By this time he had a new “office wife Jane.” He always kept chocolate kisses in a jar on his desk. Jim was an immaculate dresser and took pride in his appearance. We had a inside joke about the Recycle Box in the office. I would always call him “Jim McCoy, the Bad Butt Boy.” I will never forget him. Patty, my thoughts are with you. I am so glad you had that time to spend with him. He was a good guy!”
“Patty, Someone once told me that you never have to worry where your partner is, all you have to do is look to heaven and you know he is there safe. Remember that he is safe and in a better place. Thinking of you in my thoughts and prayers. Dorothy”
“Aunt Patty, I am so sorry. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you out. I will be praying for you during this difficult time. Love, Brandy”
“Dear Patty, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please call me. Jane “
“Patty, I am so sorry to hear about Jim. I can only hope you find peace in knowing he’s not in any pain anymore. He was such a nice guy and will be truly missed. Hang in there sweetie and if you need anything please let me know. Love You, Aggie”
“To the McCoy family, I met Jim when I worked in the Security Pass Office at Pax River in 1994. He was always so friendly and a super nice person. He always brought sunshine into a room. Even though we lost touch over the years, when we did run into each other, he always greeted me with his own genuine and friendly way. I’ll always remember his kind and fun-loving nature. I hope you take some comfort in the following poem. May God bless you and keep you in the palm of His hand at this difficult time. My heartfelt condolences… In Loving Memory of You © by Debbie Heydrick Quietly I’m remembering you in the silence of my heart. Each thought of you, a treasure while we are now apart. At times I’m filled with longing; Your face I’d love to see, To feel your warmth, to hear your voice, to have you here with me. But God has a plan; He created you and numbered all your days. May he hold you in His loving arms and surround me with His grace. With the hope of reunion in Heaven one day, I entrust you in His care. Cherished memories of you live on in my heart. Your life is a gift we share. “
“Patty (PJ) and family, God Bless you at this time of sorrow. Please know he is out of pain, safe and watching over you now. Memorial: God saw him getting tired, a cure not meant to be, so He wrapped His arms around him and whispered, “Come with me. I’m asking God to give you the joy, the comfort and the love that Jim has given to everyone he came in contact with. I have known Jim for over 20 years and he has been nothing but a true friend. Just knowing Jim has enriched my life. Be Blessed. Steve, Geraldine, Terrell and Terrence Lee “
“Deepest Sympathy to the McCoy family! May his soul rest in peace! No more suffering and pain as God holds him in the palms of his hands. An old cousin from Iowa”
“Patty, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Mary Ann has been giving me updates. You are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Patty, I am sending this after we have all said our good-byes to Jim. This is certainly not the end for Jim; it is only the BEGINNING. And what a BEGINNING it is! You are to be commended for the way you were there for Jim and how lovingly you took care of him. We will all miss Jim; but now my prayers are for you. Just know the Lord will sustain you and give you the strength and the courage to meet each new day. And one day, when the Lord is ready, we will all be together again. May the Lord Bless you and keep you in his care. We love you, Norma and Edsel”
“Patty, I just wanted to express my condolences and for you to know that I am here if you need me. “
“Patty, you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. I am truly sorry for your loss. We are all thinking about you. Shelly”