James Manning "Buddy" Adams

james adams

September 25, 1937 ~ May 19, 2015

JAMES “BUDDY” MANNING ADAMS JR. September 25, 1937 – May 19, 2015 James “Buddy” Manning Adams Jr. died on May 19, 2015 at his home surrounded by his family. He was born on September 25, 1937 in Leonardtown MD to James Manning Adams Sr. and Jean Pierre Belk Adams. He was a lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County. He leaves his wife of 47 years, Charlene Ann (Long) Adams whom he married on October 7, 1967, his two daughters, Deborah Adams and her boyfriend Brent Wilkinson of Hollywood; and Jaclyn Jameson and her husband Duane Jameson of Mechanicsville; and granddaughters Kendall, Payton Jameson, and step granddaughter Kelsi Jameson all of Mechanicsville, MD. He is also survived by his sister, Jeannette Adams Way of Waldorf; a brother Herbert Hardwick and wife Suzie of Shalamar, FL., and many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by both his parents, his sister JoAnne Norris, his brother-in-laws Louis Norris and Tom Way, and his nephew Harold Wood. Mr. Adams graduated from the Charlotte Hall Military Academy. He is a veteran of the United States Air Force and served from 1955-1961. He was stationed in Portsmouth NH, the Syria/Russian Border, where he supported U2 flights in the late 1950’s, Diyarbakir and Adona Turkey, Albuquerque NM, and Andrews AFB in Suitland MD. Mr. Adams worked for the Bell System, known today as Verizon, for 32 years. He was a central office technician and worked throughout St. Mary’s and Charles counties. He also served as a Deputy Sheriff in St. Mary’s County in the late 1960’s. Mr. Adams was a charter member of the Mechanicsville Optimist Club and was a past member of the Mechanicsville Volunteer Rescue Squad. He was a member of the Maryland Farm Bureau and the Veterans of Helen. He was a life member of the Mechanicsville Volunteer Fire Department for 62 years. His most recent role was on the Board of Directors, where he sat for the last 16 years. He looked forward to attending the Maryland State Fireman’s Convention in Ocean City each June. Mr. Adams was a devoted husband and loving Dad and Pop. He would do anything for his “girls”. He enjoyed taking care of the house and yard and doing small maintenance at his daughters’ homes. He never knew a stranger and was friends with everyone. He loved rockfish and hard crabs. He was a lifelong fan of the Washington Redskins and a NASCAR fan for 50 years, ever since he attended his first race Labor Day 1959 in Darlington, SC. He owned a motorhome and traveled the country for 40 years. The family will receive friends on Friday, May 29, 2015 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM followed by fire department prayers at 7:15 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, May 23, 2015 at 9:30 AM in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic church Chaptico, MD with Father Charles Gallagher officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be Jerry Guy Jr., Bobby Guy, Tony Wood, Randy Norris, Nick Norris, Jason Norris, Timmy Long, and Jason Guy. Honorary Pallbearers will be members of the Mechanicsville Volunteer Fire Department. Contributions can be made to the Mechanicsville Volunteer Fire Department, the Mechanicsville Volunteer Rescue Squad and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s County.

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  1. Jackie and Family-
    I’m sorry to hear about your difficult loss. Know that I care and am thinking of all of you. Love you! Therese

  2. Charlene and family , we are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express the true sorrow that we feel in this time of great sadness that you are experiencing. To lose someone so dear to you is so devestating , but he is now at peace and with the angels in heaven. God bless and remember that we are here for you. “

  3. Charlene, Debbie, Jackie, Brent, Duane, Jeanette, Kendall & Peyton. You guys are stuck together like glue just the Buddy would want you to be. We have lost another fine man. I am so sorry hugs, love and prayers.

  4. Charlene and family. So sorry to hear about Buddy. Will keep him and his family in my prayers during this sad time.

  5. Charlene,
    I was shocked to hear about Buddy’s passing and of course, MVFD has lost another top shelf individual. I only hope that you realize that someone who is such a part of you can never really be gone. I am sure he is with Dad and my mother right now looking down on all of us. At times like this realize how much it means to have family, faith, and caring friends. I hope these blessings will be your strength during this time of sadnesss. God bless, Buddy.

  6. Charlene and Family –

    I am so sorry to hear about Buddy’s passing. He was a great friend to my father and a pillar of the community. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

  7. Dear Charlene, Debbie, and Brent, I’m so sorry to hear about this great loss. You have all worked hard to care for him and now he is free from struggles and pain. And you’ll share many great stories and remember good times. May you all find peace in all the memories.

  8. Shelby & Kevin Farrell & boys says:

    Our sincerest condolences to the Adams family. We are keeping you all in our prayers….Rest in peace Buddy. God bless you all.

  9. May you rest in peace Buddy, you where a good friend

  10. Charlene and family,
    We were so sorry to hear about Buddy’s passing. Mày all of your great memories bring you much comfort in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

  11. Charlene and family – I was saddened to hear of Buddy’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Buddy was a dear friend of my father’s and rest assured the two of them are together again watching over all of us.

  12. Charlene and family., So sorry to hear of Buddy passing. UNfortunately we all have to face this at sometime in our lives. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your daughters and there families. May he rest in peace.

  13. Charlene and family, we were so sorry to hear the news about Buddy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sorrowful time. May Buddy rest in peace. Sincerely, Son and Elaine Wood

  14. Charlene & family, we are so saddened for your loss but know that Buddy endured a lot and will now be suffering no more. Prayers for all of you especially Pop’s little grand-daughters.Love, George & Dreama

  15. Dennis & Mary Kay Austin says:

    Charlene & Family
    Dennis and I are so sorry to hear of Buddy’s passing. We shared a few good times with Buddy at NASAR races and in the neighborhood just running into each other. Buddy was always a friendly guy and he’ll surely be missed. We pray God will bless you and give you the power and strength during this most difficult time of life.

  16. Timmy & Bonny and girls says:

    Aunt Charlene, Debbie and Jackie, families. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all during this time. He is now at peace in heaven. It’s been a long year for him may he rest peacefully.

    Love you all.. Hugs.

  17. Jamie & Brenda Mattingly says:

    Charlene & family, we are so sorry to hear about Buddy. He always had the time to stop when he saw me at the cemetery and talk. He was enjoyable to talk with and I will miss that and him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May Buddy rest in peace.

  18. Charlene & Family, So sorry to hear of Buddy’s passing, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

  19. Charlene and Family – We are so sorry to learn of Buddy’s passing. He was a kind person and will be missed. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

  20. Douglas Medley, Public Information Officer says:

    I would like to offer our deepest condolences from all the members of the Bay District Volunteer Fire Department to all of Buddy’s family. There is no doubt that Buddy was a pillar of the Mechanicsville VFD and I just know he is up there in heaven with Billy Simpson keeping an eye on all of us. To Ms Charlene if there is anything our department can do for you or your family please don’t hesitate to give me a call.

  21. Our sincerest sympathy to all the family and many friends, especially his Fire Department extended family. May God comfort you and bless him abundantly for all he has done for so many with his volunteer service. May he now rest in eternal peace.

  22. I had the pleasure of meeting Buddy while I worked at JP Electric and even after I left he kept in touch and always had a kind word for me. I learned a lot from him. He was a man among men and will be dearly missed and I am very glad to have known him. I pray for peace and comfort for all of his family.


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