James "Mike" Michael "Mike" Lacey
November 30, 1958 ~ March 19, 2025
James Michael (Mike) Lacey, 66, of Avenue, MD, passed away suddenly on Wednesday, March 19, 2025. The loving son of Agnes Marie Hayden and James Edward (Jim Ed) Lacey, and stepson of Elbert Hayden, Mike was born on November 30, 1958. He was the grandson of Robert and Estelle Farrell and George Albert and Gertrude Lacey.
Mike attended Holy-Angels Sacred Heart Catholic Elementary School and graduated from Chopticon High School. Mike was a valued employee of the St. Mary’s Nursing Home in Leonardtown, MD for 45 years as a maintenance supervisor. He retired from the nursing home in 2020.
Mike also owned his own antiques and collectibles shops in Charlotte Hall, MD and King George, VA.
Mike attended Mass each Sunday, often at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Bushwood, MD.
Always the devoted son, Mike could be counted on to help his mother, Agnes, with anything she needed, including the maintenance of her beautiful home and yard, all while keeping his own home looking like something from a lawn and garden magazine. He was a friend to so many people and everyone loved and appreciated his kind heart. He will be greatly missed by all of his family and friends.
Mike is survived by his mother, Agnes, his stepmother, Charlotte Lacey, his stepsiblings, Tina Nelson of Clements, MD, Diane Lacey of Loveville, MD, Kathy Cameron of Conroe, TX, and Allen Lacey of Chaptico, MD, as well as his uncle, Clyde Farrell (Jeryle), aunts, Barbara A. Lacey and Barbara Jean Lacey, his nieces and nephews, and many, many cousins.
In addition to his father, Jim Ed, and stepfather, Elbert, Mike was preceded in death by the following aunts and uncles: Bobby and Luvia (Lou) Farrell, Francis Farrell, Joe and Mildred Lacey, Helen and George Seymour, Elizabeth (Puddin) and Ross Huseman, George E. (Dinks) and Phyllis Lacey, Eleanor and Lloyd Russell, Thomas and Loraine Lacey, William Lacey, Loraine and Johnny Hall, Stevie and Louise (Farrell) Lacey, Bobby Lacey, Frances Lacey Duke, Frankie Lacey, and special cousin, Pat Vallandingham.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, March 27, 2025, from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM, with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, March 28, 2025, at 11:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD, with Father Kevin Fields officiating. Interment will follow at the church cemetery. Serving as pallbearers will be Charles Brown, Robert Farrell, Patrick Farrell, Kim Bailey, Allen Lacey, and Angel Claudio. Honorary pallbearers will be Wayne Lacey, Melvin Farrell, Brian Russell, Joe Goldsborough, Bill Lacey, and Keith Smallwood.
Memorial contributions may be made to Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD and/or Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com.
Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.
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So sorry to hear about my old friend Mike rest easy…
I’m so sorry for your loss. He was such a sweet soul. Sending love and prayers for your family. Godspeed! Rose Mary Longfield
When we moved there, Mike and his Mom, Agnes, were the first people to welcome us to the Singletree neighborhood. Mike was always a genuine and kind gentleman. Sandy and I are so sad for his tragic passing and our hearts are breaking for Agnes, his family, and all of his many friends.
We will miss him very much. He was so good to everyone and set an example for everyone to follow. I know our Lord has a special place for him. Sending our love and prayers to the family and everyone who grieves the loss of him. Love, Gloria & Ronnie.
Mike was one of the best people i knew. i have been friends with him like family since 1990. He was always there for what ever you needed we use to joke we would be taking care of people for the rest of our lives and we did . Mike’s memory will last a life time . Many prays for his mother and family during this time .
Agnes, Mike was a wonderful guy. I always thought the world of him. I will always remember you & him stopping by to see me when I was in the nursing home in Solomons. God love you. Patsy Insley
Agnes, Our thoughts and prayers are being sent to you and the family. I have such fond memories of Mike when my Mom was at the Nursing home and he would always go out of his way to do little things to make her smile and lift her spirits! I know he never thought any of us saw his kindness but we did and we sure appreciated all of his kindness and awesome work he did for so many while he was on earth. RIP Mike.
Mrs. Hayden,
I am so sad and sorry for your loss. It isn’t fair and doesn’t make sense. Mike had so much kindness and empathy for people. I am so grateful that I was able to call him my friend. He lived a life that we should all strive to do and he left this world a better place. He is going to be missed so much but what wonderful memories we all have of him. Thinking of you and sending my love during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard”. A.A.Milne
Love,
Patty
Agnes(Mrs.Hayden) I want you to no I’m Thinking & Praying for you, I Have Memory ‘ s of You & Mike at Amish Market in Charlotte Hall, I’m Sad & Don’t Understand Completely Why this Happened, But I Want you To no I Love You, Mike was a True Friend in Life, He would Give & Help Anyone in Need, He was always Respectful to Everyone at Charlotte Hall Amish Market, I enjoyed seeing you Both on Weekends( Saturday), Mike was My Friend, Never Forget Him, If You ever Need to chat , I’m Here, Will Remember All the Best Times at Amish Market, He had the BEST Shop at the Amish Market, Love You Agnes ~ Roy Buckler – Helen
Mrs. Hayden and family,
I want to extend my deepest condolences on the passing of Mike. He was a remarkable individual whose kindness touched the lives of many. Mike had the ability to make everyone feel valued and cared for, always going above and beyond to help those around him. His dedication to his community and love for his family were evident in everything he did.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
-Jay Mattingly
I am so sad that something so tragic happened to such an amazing person. I met Mike when I volunteered at St. Marys Nursing Center and later worked there with him. I’ll never forget how talented he was when it came to decorating the courtyard for Christmas. It looked so magical! He was also so friendly and kind. There was never a time he didn’t go out of his way to ask me How I was doing and give me a tight hug. He had the sweetest Seventh District accent! Mike will truly be missed by so many. I know he definitely made an impact on so many lives. God must have needed another Angel around the thrown. Your love lives on inside of us all Mike. Rest in Peace my Friend. Prayers for Mike’s Mother and all of his Family.
Hollie Ratliff
Mrs. Hayden and family,
I have no words at all to describe the loss that the entire community is experiencing but most of all his beloved family. Mike dedicated nearly 40 years working at SMNC, plus the farmers market so he knew everyone. Mike never met a stranger! As you know, I loved him dearly and this loss has shocked all of us. What I know to be fact is that I am a better person because of his love and example for all of us. I strive each day to love others in the pure way that Mike did. He had a kind word and hug for everyone! I know that he went straight to heaven and was greeted by his beloved family and friends. I know I will see him again and he will remain in the hearts of many in Southern Maryland!
Much love to all of you,
Sharon Nicholson
Saint Michael – the Archangel is a revered figure, known as a warrior angel and protector of the Church and God’s people, often depicted battling against evil and Satan. Mike’s legacy will forever be enshrined in our hearts.
Extremely sorry to hear the horrible news about Mike. Words cannot say the deep heartfelt sympathy we have for the family. This is a needless tragedy that never should have happened.
Mike and I knew each other since his mother was married to my grandfather. He was kind and we spoke many times. Although not mentioned, he had ten step siblings by my grandfather and actually spoke to many of them. We sincerely offer our condolences to Agnes. May Mike rest in peace.
The Karustis family sends sincere condolences, and heartfelt compassion to all of Mike’s loved ones. He is now returned to the arms of our Lord. We will continue to pray for Mike’s soul, as well as for family & friends, that all even in these painful days they may feel the comfort and peace of Christ. Rest in peace, special soul.
My grandma was at the nursing center for many years, we always enjoyed the many garden decorations. We did not know Mike but we really enjoyed his creativity with the decorations and gardens. Rest in peace. Karen K
Mike was a wonderful man who always gave my mother in law extra ice-cream. He will always be remembered for his kindness ! He will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known him !
To Cookie and family. Eddie and I want to send our condolences. So sorry for your loss. May Mike rest in peace.
God-bless the Mike Lacey family, I’ve known Mike for a long time. We were a 7th District family. I had recently visited Maryland months ago, saw Mike at Murphys store in Avenue. Told him I now live in Clover South Carolina. He didn’t realize I had moved. Mike was a good friend and neighbor. Sorry to hear of his passing. ✝️🙏