Jay Jaehwan Nam

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September 2, 1959 ~ December 26, 2022

Jay Jaehwan Nam passed away on December 26 at the age of 63. The first of four children, he was born to Dong and Gyeong Nam on September 2, 1959 in AnDong, Republic of Korea. Jay grew up in the country of South Korea and his family moved to Fayetteville, NC when he was 17 years old. Once in North Carolina, he attended the Westover Highschool in Loveville and later earned his Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering at NC State University. After graduation he moved to Lexington Park, MD for his lifelong career. Jay married MyungHee Choe on September 21, 1986 in Annandale, VA. They first moved to Towncreek and then 14 years later built a house in California, MD where they raised their family and live there to this day. In August 2021 he was first placed in Johns Hopkins Hospital, Baltimore MD, where he was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML). There, he underwent 6 rounds of chemotherapy and in December 2021 had a bone marrow transplant. He relapsed in July 2022 and was selected to participate in a clinical trial but due to the complications of AML he passed away. Jay and MyungHee had two children. As a Flight Test Engineer, Jay served the government, working at the Patuxent River Naval Base in Patuxent River, MD for 35 years. In retirement, he was passionate about running and joined the Chesapeake Bay Running Club. One of his goals was to run a marathon in every U.S. state but was only able to complete marathons in MD, NC, and GA due to Covid and AML. Jay was a member of SAYSF church for about 14 years and later at Sunghyun Baptist Church in California, MD for over 17 years. At his church he served on the media team and as a Deacon, Treasurer, and Cell Leader. His passions were swimming, tennis, running, and table tennis. For a short time, he also had a passion for beekeeping and windsurfing. Throughout his life he competed in tennis and running, as well as swimming and playing table tennis recreationally with church members. He was a sweet husband and fun loving father. He was truly a care-free, good-natured soul with a good sense of humor. Wherever he was, laughter followed and he never failed to make you smile. He was always a stickler for the rules, punctual, and was very responsible. Surviving in addition to his wife MyungHee, are his two children, Sarah Nam with her spouse Chel Moore (MD), and Samuel Nam (MD). He was preceded in death by his parents, brothers Day Nam with his wife Lauren, Sey Nam with his wife Choong, and Gina Nam with Gary.

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  1. Jay was a devoted man to God. He was a good and hard working deacon. Now he joined God’s heaven where he worked hard to go in.
    Personally to me he was a good tennis player. He was not fancy player, just played hard. I could never beat him. But we played many hours together. I am going to miss him. Hey buddy, let me know if they had tennis court in heaven.
    Steve Kim

  2. 친구 하나가 갔다.
    아직도 하고푼 일이 많은 나이에 갔다.
    완쾌되기 까지는 세월이 많이 걸리더라도 부르지는 마세요 라고,
    우리의 기도가 이루어지지 않는다는것 알지만,
    그래도 지금은 데려가지 마세요라고 기도 했다.
    주말만 되면 하늘을 바라보고 파란색이면
    우리는 테니스 코트에서 만났다.
    다리에 힘이센 친구는 열심히 뛰는 무적이었다.
    우리는 건강했고 부지런히 쉬지 않고 한백년을 칠것처럼 공을 쳤다.
    그러던 친구가 먼저 갔다.
    예수가 아버지 할수 있으면 이잔을 나에게서 걷어 가 주세요 라고 피땀 흘리며 기도 했지만 신은, 아버지는 그 기도 듣지 않았다. 친구는 아버지 곁으로 불려 갔다, 아들 탄생 다음날에….
    잘가라, 친구여

  3. Absolutely loved Jay’s energy and enthusiasm, his impish nature, and the devilish way he would cruise by me in races, making his none-too-subtle trademark move. The last time was in the 2019 Annapolis 10 miler. We no sooner started when he flew by me, threw me a grin, and then left me in his wake. Just his way of saying, pick it up, guy, Jay’s gonna blow by you. Again. And sure enough, he’d be gone in a flash. Did that to me every time.
    We also swapped stories about our gardening and beekeeping adventures. Jay was quite proud about a vegetable garden he had planted for his parents. We were in complete agreement that the best tasting veggies are the ones you plant and harvest yourself. But much more so when you plant them for someone else’s enjoyment. Jay was particularly amused by my tale of when during my beekeeping days I received a frantic phonecall from my local post office that my “huge” order of bees had arrived – and that I should absolutely get down there and pick them up – like NOW!!! – Gary Howard

  4. Our only work trip together was 5 years ago and it was Jay’s first time to a Brazilian steakhouse. Although we only did a few green light flips, Jay was excited on the idea of limitless steak. He would always have a biggest grin whenever the topic of this occasion came up. I’m convinced his excitement for this particular experience was only topped by his love for running but then again, Jay was always enthusiastic on everything that he did.

  5. We are eternally grateful for the work done by Jesus which assures us, through faith in Him, that we may come into the presence of the Father. We look forward to seeing you again at that great gathering, knowing that you trusted only in Him and His work for us. You are sorely missed for now.

  6. Jay explaining to me that he figured out you can use an old covid mask to keep your face warm against the inevitable chill of the wind off the water in the winter.
    It was always a an honor & a pleasure to spend time with him, and I am sorry not to have more.

  7. Jay was part of a unique and exclusive group of 3, “The Husbands of the 3 Choe sisters”. Jay, Don Yu, and myself share a very special bond that was so dear to us. In God’s providence, the 3 Choe sisters, Myung-Hee, Myung-Nam, and Myung-Ok, brought us together to live our lives together as family. We shared each other’s joys and trials, we witnessed all or our children’s births, holiday’s, and all special milestones in our all of our families lives. We shared so many meals together, prayed together, laughed and cried together. The group of 3 is now 2 here on earth, however, we will forever remain 3 in spirit and will meet again in heaven! – Thom Garrett


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