John Edgar Joy

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July 13, 1925 ~ January 8, 2008

Services: A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, January 12, 2008 at 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. Keith Schukraft officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens. Visitation: Viewing/Visitation will be held on Friday, January 11, 2008 from 5:00 - 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where Prayers will be said at 7:00 PM. John Edgar Joy, Sr., 82, of Loveville, MD died January 8, 2008 at his residence. Born July 13, 1925 in Loveville, MD he was the son of the late George Edgar and Anna Missouri Wathen Joy. He was the loving husband of the late Mary Rita Owens Joy whom he married on October 5, 1946 in Our Lady’s Chapel, Medley’s Neck, MD and who preceded him in death on November 14, 2001. He is survived by his children; Ruth Joy Coombs and her husband Ira John, Betty Joy Thomas and her husband C. George, all of Loveville, MD and John Edgar Joy, Jr. of Prescott, AZ as well as 7 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his sister Madeline McCreary of Baltimore, MD. He was a judge at the local election poles from 1947 to the early 1980’s. He was a driver for the State Highway Administration (SHA) for 17 years, retiring in 1986. Many times, while working for SHA, he took prisoners to trash pick-up sites on the local highways and would oversee them, giving them advice on how to walk the straight and narrow path. They fondly called him Pappy. He raised English Setters, sold milk, eggs, firewood and livestock. He worked as a construction foreman. He even did some bartending to make extra money in his younger years. His passion, however, was working the land. He and his wife Rita bought the old Bishop Place in Loveville and turned it into a profitable tobacco farm. He dreamed of owning this land as a teenager and worked tirelessly to make his dream come true. He retired from farming in 2001. His true claim to fame is his compassion, tenderness and strength, all of which he used to help others. He was a dynamic father and grandfather who will always be remembered as the tall, strong “Gindy” with the gentle hands. The family will receive friends on Friday, January 11, 2008 from 5:00-8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be held at 7:00 PM. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, January 12, 2008 at 10:00 AM with Rev. Keith Schukraft officiating. Interment will follow in the Charles Memorial Gardens, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be Frankie Bussler, Chris Bistline, Tommy Alvey, Kim Bistline, Bryan Thomas Sr. and Linda Richards. Honorary pallbearers will be A.J. Bussler (HAT), Mary Dean, Gloria Jean Pilkerton, Ann Pilkterton and Glenn Pilkerton. Contributions may be made to Leonardtown Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 299, Leonardtown, MD 20650 and/or Leonardtown Volunteer Fire Department, P.O. Box 50, Leonardtown, MD 20650.

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  1. “Ruth and Betty, I am sorry to hear about your dad passing, I know your dad was a special person. My prayers are with you and your family. Jo Allen “

  2. “Ruth,Betty,Johnny,John was truly a very special person and all his neighbors in Loveville will miss him. When you saw John Joy coming down the road you always knew you’d get a smile and wave.And at the Post Office he would always stop and talk.What a pleasure to have known him. Keep all your memories close to your hearts and he will always be with you.”

  3. “Our John How dear he was to each of us This gentle man of ours Husband, father, brother, friend His love had a mighty power It drew us in and kept us near His smile a pleasured gift How different life will now be Without him in our midst There are no words to express our grief No one could ever take his place John was a very special man A faithful servant full of grace Now in heaven hand in hand With those who went before Special guardians looking down on us How could we ask for more “

  4. “Betty and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Joy was a wonderful man, may he rest in peace.”

  5. “Ruth, Betty and Johnny: Loveville just won’t be the same without John Joy. He has been a close friend of the Jones family as long as we can remember. He was a pallbearer for Skip’s Dad, Joseph Jones, Sr. He will be missed and mourned in the community. It takes a long time to get used to the loss of someone we love, but it’s important to remember that when people die they leave something very special behind…They leave us memories of many things they said and did. As long as we have those memories, the people we love live on in our hearts and minds. I remember John and Rita’s 50th Wedding Anniversary, I took all kinds of pictures and carried them to them at their house in Loveville and how appreciate they were of them.I remember how much John and Rita loved to dance. May God bless everyone. We live so far away, and will be unable to attend any of the services for John. May God bless everyone. With love, Doris & Skip Jones”

  6. “My heart goes out to the family during this time. John was a wonderful, kind and compassionate man who will be missed in the community.”

  7. Judy (Goddard) Bakewell says:

    “Betty and Family….I was saddened to hear about your Dad passing. Cherish the memories and know that you are in my thoughts. May God Bless all of you during this difficult time.”

  8. “Ruthie, Betty & Johnny – The news of your dad’s death was such a shock. I saw him just before Christmas and his smile then was the same as I’ll always remember. How happy I am to have shared the town of Loveville with you and him. You stood by his side, in sickness and health. There is no greater love. May God be with you all.”

  9. “Our thoughts and prayers are with all. Mr. Joy was such an icon in Loveville and will truly be missed. He was such a kind, caring individual that always smiled. God Bless you all during this time.”

  10. “Ruth, Betty, and Johnny:What can one say that knew this Wonderful Man. Loveville will never be the same. “Uncle John” as what Jeff and I called him was a Gentleman. When they made him, they threw the mold away. As for dancing, he loved the dance floor with a passion. He is dancing with the angels. God Bless all of you in this time of sorrow. He will truly be missed by all.”

  11. “Ruthy & Betty, We are so sorry to of your Dad’s passing. Our thoughts are with you and your families. Linda & Randy Dean “

  12. “Ruth, Johnny, Betty, George, Kim, Chris, Carson, A. J., Frankie and the rest of the family. We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your father, grandfather, great grandfather. John was such a warm and compassionate man. He graciously passed these values on to such a wonderful family. We were truly honored to of known him. If you need anything at all please do not hesitate to call. With Love, Wayne and Eleanor”

  13. “Betty and family,we are so sorry about your Dad, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.”

  14. “Betty & Ruth, We are sorry to hear of the loss of your Father. I never saw Mr. Joy that he didn’t have a smile and a warm greeting. I am sure he is still smiling down on everyone. I feel lucky to have known such a great Gentleman. Joan & Paul”

  15. “Betty, Ruth, & Johnny, My Prayers and thoughts are with you all. John will be dearly missed. He was a wonderful person. May the Good Lord be with you all. Love Debbie”

  16. “Betty, Ruth, Johnny and family: Your Dad will be missed by many but never forgotten. He always had a kind word and wonderful smile for everyone. You are in our thoughts and prayers. “

  17. Chris, Joanne & Zachary Koterwas says:

    “Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. “

  18. Jay and Virginia Pilkerton says:

    “Ruth and Johnny: I was sorry to hear about your loss. Remember he will always be with you in your hearts and minds. Our prayers are with you.”

  19. “Betty and Family, Although I did not know your father – from what I have read about him he must have been a great person. My deepest sympathy to you.”

  20. “Words can not express accurately the type of person John was.John and Rita were my Godparents.Looking back to my childhood,living across the street from them I remember all the things he had done for our family always smiling and willing to lend a hand never asking or expecting anything in return.One more of Gods soldiers have been called home.Ruth,Betty and Johnny my thoughts and prayers are with you,may he rest in peace.”

  21. “Kim and family, just read about your Grandfather passing away. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. “

  22. “I really miss you and love you. We all wish you were with us right now, but you are and I know it.”

  23. “we miss you and love you”


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