John William Quade, Jr.
February 16, 1947 ~ July 29, 2021
John William Quade Jr, 74, of Breton Bay, Leonardtown, died July 29, 2021, in Charleston SC. Born on February 16, 1947, in Oakley, MD, the son of John William “Buck” Quade and Alice Maria’ Suite.
As a young man, John Wm (as he was affectionately known by family and old friends) participated in county baseball teams & pool leagues, Boy Scouts (eventually becoming an Eagle Scout), played guitar in numerous bands and could be seen drag racing his 1967 Impala at Maryland International Raceway. Known for his colorful and feisty personality, some of his childhood friends nicknamed him the “walking bandage”.
After graduating in the last class of Margaret Brent High School in 1965, John enlisted in the US Marine Corps, following in his grandfather Raymond Suite’s footsteps. John served his country from July 8, 1965 until February 29, 1968. When he was wounded in Vietnam in August 1967, he spent most of a year recovering from his injuries at Bethesda Naval Hospital, and subsequently received a Purple Heart in addition to numerous other military awards/ribbons. After his honorable discharge, he continued his education at St. Mary’s College of Maryland, where he met his future wife, Lucy Barbour, whom he married June 7, 2000 in Edgartown, MA.
He received his Bachelor of Arts degree from St Mary’s College in 1971 and then attended the University of Baltimore Law School. He worked as a Law clerk for Judge Joe Weiner, and practiced as an Assistant State’s Attorney from 1973-1975. John served in the MD House of Delegates from 1978-1982, where he represented District 29 of Charles-St Mary’s, chaired the St Mary’s & Charles counties delegation, and was a member of the Joint Committee on Community and Economic Development, Subcommittee on Banking, and the Joint Committee on Insurance.
After politics, John continued to follow the developments within St Mary’s County by regularly attending the county commissioners meetings. He became a licensed real estate agent working for Jack Rue Real Estate, O’Brien Realty, Millison Enterprise, and then received his license as a Certified General Appraiser. He opened Brick House Realty & Appraisals in Leonardtown and specialized for many years in commercial real estate transactions and appraising.
John was an avid golfer, playing locally and in numerous states. He was a long-time member of Breton Bay Golf & Country Club, and served on its Board of Directors, part of the time as its President. He was also a former member of Mirasol Country Club and PGA National, both in Palm Beach Gardens, FL. He was a member of the US Golf Association.
John was a member of the American Legion Post 221 in Avenue, the VFW Post 2632 of California, St Mary’s Historical Society, the Seventh District Optimist Club, Disabled American Veterans, Fleet Reserve, Maryland Waterman’s Association, and the St. Mary’s County Democratic Club.
In addition to his wife Lucy, John is survived by his siblings: Janice & Alfred Abell of California MD, Ray & Angel Quade of Clements and Debbie & Gary Farrell of Mechanicsville. He is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews and was beloved by his wife’s family. He was predeceased by his siblings Catherine Ann Mattingly (Ronnie) & George Bernard Quade.
The family will receive friends on Monday, August 9, 2021 from 9:00 AM to 10:30 AM in the Mattingley- Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a funeral service will be held in the Funeral Home Chapel at 10:30 AM, with Deacon Joe Llyod officiating. Interment will be held at Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, VA at a later date.
Contributions may be made to the PKD Foundation1001 E 101st Terrace Suite 220 Kansas City MO 64131 PKD Foundation https://pkdcure.org/ 800.PKD.CURE;pkdcure@pkdcure.org, the Historic St. Mary’s City Foundation at HSMC Foundation, Attn: Howie Grube, howieg@dighistory.org or call 240-538-3942, and the First Tee Organization (introducing the game of golf to kids and teens) at firsttee.org.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A. & Crematory, Leonardtown, MD.





Lucy and John’s family. We both knew John growing up and always enjoyed a conversation talking about old times. He was always a perfect gentleman. May the many wonderful memories made over the years, bring you all comfort and peace at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Lucy and family,
Thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time.
John will be missed by anyone who had the privilege of meeting
Him. May God comfort you and fill your life with daily memories of a life well lived.
John William was a great storyteller and a fun person to be around. He was a hero, who served his country in wartime and in peace. May his family be comforted by his full and amazing life!
Lucy and John’s family. Our thoughts, and prayers are being sent to all. I loved my cousin and I am so sad for all of the family that has to let him go. I know he will be at peace and now in a better place. Love and prayers to all.
Margie Vallandingham Hicks
Lucy and family,
John was always one to put a smile on your face, or welcome you in, no matter what. I have adored John since I first met him at St. Mary’s College, and then to find you and John together when I returned to St. Mary’s County to live was such a gift. He loved living and was always looking forward to the next adventure. Maybe a trip south, or playing a round of golf, always surrounded by friends, food and drink. He will be greatly missed and my memories will always bring a smile to my face. The Linton family sends you their condolences, prayers and love.
He supported me when i joined the marine corps in 1983 and gave me advice of what he went thru back then and was my godfather…..i saw him swear in in Annapolis a long time ago…..
I will always remember John William, he was always so welcoming and kind and never without a smile. May he rest in peace. My thoughts are prayers are with the family.
My Thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time!
Our prayers are with Lucy and John’s siblings. We are part of the extended family, having been joined by Rosemary, Lucy’s sister. Our prayers for peace and comfort for the present time of grief and sadness, but also for the long-term time in the days/months ahead. May God richly bestow His grace and may it be received as a heavenly gift. May the family feel the love of friends as well. Don and Glenna Bigelow
We will greatly miss John Q.! He was so much fun and always had a good story to tell! I am sure he is up in heaven having a party! May he Rest In Peace and we send Lucy all our love and sincerest condolences. 🌹
Lucy, Lorena told me the sad news. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I wish you strength and courage to go through this very sad time. May you find peace in the support of your family and friends with whom you may be able to share memories and good times.
John william was not only my uncle but a great leader. Great man that I looked up too. If I needed someone to talk to he was the man I could go too. I thought the world of him. And he thought the world of me and his whole family especially his wife Lucy. U fought the fight for years. God had other plans for u. A better place in heaven with your sister my mom cathy and your brother George ❤ we all will live in your memory. There’s one thing u taught me. And that is try to be a better person than u were yesterday and today. My son caysn loved seeing u. You were great to him. And when he gets older I’ll tell him the great man u were. Again thanks for everything. See u soon 💘
Family of John William, May Our Heavenly Father keep you in his special care during this celebration of John’s life and eternal life with Our Lord and Savior! Thanks Lord for letting me share in the life of John And My buddy George and Ray from cutting tobacco on the farm , sharing a meal on the family farm going to school together, baseball, Boy Scouts , life in general and John was always a good person to talk too and so now Lord l ask you to grant John Wm peace and that he may share eternal life with you and all his family that has gone before him ! Amen! 🙏 Jeff Guy
to the Quade family, please accept my sincerest condolences. I also would like to thank John William for his service to his country.
Lucy, we are so sorry about John William. He was a good friend and a special person. We will miss him as will all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend.
Lucy and the Quade family, John was a very special person and his personality always filled the room. He really enjoyed people and always willing to help out with advice or giving a hand. May he Rest In Peace. He will truly be missed. May you all find peace and comfort with God’s hand. Keeping you all in my heart and prayers. God Bless
I am very sorry to hear of John William’s passing. Sending prayers to the family.
I was so sorry to hear of John’s passing. Sending thoughts and prayers to Lucy and John’s family during this difficult time.
“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble” PS. 46:1