Joseph Alfred "Alfred" Dillow, III.

joseph dillow, iii.

April 10, 1924 ~ January 22, 2020

Joseph “Alfred” Dillow, III. “Argie/Popdaddy”, 95,of California, MD formerly from Hollywood, MD passed away on January 22, 2020 at his home. Born on April 10, 1924 in White Hall, MD he was the son of the late Alice Roberta Goldsborough Dillow and Joseph Alfred Dillow, Jr. Alfred was the loving husband of the late Betty Dean Dillow whom he married on June 25, 1949 in Holy Face Catholic Church Great Mills, MD and who preceded him in death on February 25, 2013. Alfred is survived by his children Michael Mervell Dillow of Hollywood, MD, Mark Gregory Dillow of Lexington Park, MD, Joanne Marie of Lexington Park, MD, and 4 grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his siblings Thomas Dillow, Charles Dillow, Robert Dillow, and Alice Dillow. He was a lifelong St. Mary’s County, MD resident. Alfred graduated from St. Mary’s Academy in 1942 and attended the University of Maryland. He served in the United States Army from 1944 to 1951, during World War II. Alfred was the owner of Joseph A. Dillow Home Builders in California, MD, retiring in 1976. He was a member of the Rotary Club, St. Mary’s County Historical Society, and Knights of Columbus. His hobbies included cooking, traveling, tennis, cutting firewood, and stuffing hams. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, January 29, 2020 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, January 30, 2020 at 10:00 AM in St. John’s Catholic Church Hollywood, MD with Father Ray Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Serving as pallbearers will be Michael Dillow, Michael Sean Dillow, Mark Dillow, Brandon Dillow, Austin Dillow and Dale Tarleton. Contributions may be made to the Lexington Park Vol. Rescue Squad P.O. Box 339 Lexington Park, MD 20653.

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  1. Prayers and condolences to the Dillow family. I knew Alfred since I was little he used to come visit my grandparents Jim and Betty Wible. He always was nice and wore great smelling cologne. He will be missed greatly. I thought the world of him.

  2. Al was such a wonderful person in our Rotary Club. His booming voice was often utilized for prayer at our meetings for many years. I recall his work as head of the Town Creek Water Company and his cordial and sincere Welcome anytime I visited his home. We will all miss him.

  3. Bill and Carol Moody says:

    Alfred was a wonderful man. He had a love of history and of our County, and was active in our Historical Society. One of our fondest memories of he and Betty would be on Friday nights when Carol and I went to the Dry Dock and there they were, and we had great chats. we would discuss what wine they had, why, and sometimes I would get a taste..He led a full and active life, and certainly helped shape the history of St. Mary’s County. Thank you Al!!

  4. Very sad to hear of Al’s passing. We all have lost a dear friend. I always appreciated Mr. Dillow’s passion for our history and St. Mary’s County. May he rest in peace.

  5. So sorry to hear of Mr. Dillow’s passing, it was always a joy seeing him at Blue Wind enjoying dinner and some wine. My thoughts and prayers go out to to his family. Losing a loved one leaves a hole in your heart but memories are what keep them alive.

  6. So sorry to hear of Mr. Dillow’s passing, it was always a joy seeing him at Blue Wind enjoying dinner and some wine. My thoughts and prayers go out to to his family. Losing a loved one leaves a hole in your heart but memories are what keep them alive.

  7. Dear Mark and family,

    Since Paula and I have for all intents and purposes relocated to Rhode Island, had it not been for Carol Kelley I would not have know that Alfred passed away. I can count the number of truly nice people I have been fortunate to meet in my life on one hand and have fingers left over. Your father was one of them. I don’t think I ever remember saw him without a smile on his face and a kind word to share. He will be missed.

    Please give my best to Joanne. Take care and stay safe.

    Bill

  8. May your family find much comfort in the promise found in John 11:25


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