Katherine Fayrene "Sissy" Frazier
December 21, 1945 ~ April 12, 2011
Services:
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 15, 2011 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church, Leonardtown, MD with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will be private.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Thursday, April 14, 2011 from 5:00 PM -8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 6:30PM.
Katherine Fayrene Frazier, 65, of Leonardtown, MD died April 12, 2011 in Leonardtown, MD. Born December 21, 1945 in Leonardtown, MD, she was the daughter of the late James Virgil and Fayrene Hallmark Mattingly, Sr. She was the loving wife of Terry W. Frazier whom she married on February 12, 1964, he preceded her in death on January 1, 1989. Kathy is survived by her children Jeffery Scott Frazier and Tracey Frazier Mattingly, as well as 2 grandchildren, Holly Frazier Summers and David Alexander Mattingly. She is also survived by her siblings, James Virgil Mattingly, Jr. of Arlington, VA., Rosemary M. Cox and Patricia M. Robrecht of Leonardtown, MD., and Frances Farrell of Longview, TX. She was preceded in death by her brother, John Andrew Mattingly, Sr. Kathy graduated from the St. Mary’s Academy in 1963, and worked as a Business Financial Manager for the United States Navy, Patuxent River, MD., retiring on February 5, 2002 after 39 years of service. After retiring from government service, she enjoyed watching her grandson Alex and volunteering her time to the St. Mary’s Hospital Auxiliary and Gift Shop. She looked forward to the hospital bazaar, where she would display her crafts. Kathy spent many hours making floral arrangements that she donated to the gift shop for resale. She spent 2 terms as Treasurer and President of the St. Mary’s Hospital Auxiliary, and was Chairman of the Auxiliary Golf Tournament and many other fundraisers. She was also active in the Fraternal Order of Police in Great Mills, MD. The family will receive friends on Thursday, April 14, 2011 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM in Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 6:30 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Aloysius Catholic Church, Leonardtown, MD on Friday, April 15, 2011 at 10:00 AM with Fr. John Dakes officiating. Interment will be private. Pallbearers will be Brett Frazier, Christopher B. Cox, Jim Robrecht, Jr., Brian Frazier, Jim Robrecht, III and Kyle Robrecht. Honorary Pallbearer will be David Randall Mattingly. Contributions in memory of Kathy may be made to the Make-A-Wish-Foundation 5272 River Rd. Suite 700 Bethesda, MD 20816 and/or St. Mary’s Hospital Auxiliary P.O. Box 527 Leonardtown, MD 20650. To send a condolence to the family please visit our website at www.mgfh.com. Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, P.A.
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“Virgil, Rosemary, Patty and the entire family: Kathy will be missed. She was loved by all who knew her. God has another angel. She will forever watch over you all and guide you all. Sissy is now pain free and at peace. She will be in our thoughts and prayers. Take Care.”
“I was saddened to hear of Sissy’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and her abundance of friends at this most difficut time. “
“Patty, Rosemary, Tracy, and family – I am so sad today. Kathy will always be remembered for her friendship. She was my boss (and a very good one), but she was always compassionate and wanted to help everyone. She gave me all her beautiful clothes one time when we’d both lost weight. I felt like a queen in them. We have lost a great person and friend. I will miss her always. “
“To Tracey, Patty, and family: Sissy’s passing was a shock and a major loss for us all. She was a fine lady who loved life and truly lived in the joy of her family and friends. We will all miss Sissy but the memories of this wonderful person will live on in all of you! Our thoughts and prayers go with you.”
“Trace & Family, Our prayers are that you can find the strength to get through this senseless loss. It’s never easy losing a loved one – but there’s a shining light for us to focus on, it’s knowing that we are better people having known Sissy. She will be missed, she was good folk. “
“”I hope this helps in your darkest hour….My Children and family please don`t look so sad, please don`t cry. I am in the arms of Jesus here in Heaven now with loves ones . Please do not try to question God, don`t think He is unkind. Don`t think He sent me to you and that He changed His mind. You see, I am special and I`m needed up above. I`m the special mom you gave Him, the product of your love. I`ll always be there with you. So watch the sky at night. Find the brightest star that`s gleaming. That`s my halo`s brilliant light. So my children and family please don`t look so sad, please don`t cry. I am in the arms of Jesus. ~Author Unknown My heart aches over your loss””
“Virgil, Patty, Rosie, Tracey, Jeff and family – Kathy was a very special friend to me and I will miss her so much. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“PATTY & FAMILY, SO SORRY TO HEAR OF KATHY’S PASSING. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.”
“So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to the family.”
“So sorry to hear of Sissy’s passing. Please expect my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.”
“To all of Sissy’s family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find comfort in your memories of family gatherings, vacations, etc.”
“Sissy was a wonderful woman and a definite angel. Always a good time and lots of smiles when she was around! So sorry for everyone in the family, she will be truly missed by so many people. Rest peacefully Sissy.”
“Tracey, Virgil, Rosie, Patty: You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Lord must need Kathy in heaven for a special reason to call her at such a young age. Please let us know if we can help in any way. “
“Our deepest sympathy to the entire Mattingly Family. Virgil,Patty,Rose Mary, Jeff,Tracey,David & Alex. May God Bless you All in the Days ahead. “
” Patti, Rosie and families,it was such a shock to hear about Sissy’s passing. All our prayers to you all. I remember her as a happy laughing young lady, and now she is home with her Mom and Dad and without pain. “
“Patti & family,Sorry to hear of Sissy’s passing. Our prayers are with you.”
“”Patti & family – “Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time”. ” “
“Tracey all of you are in my thoughts & prayers. Kathy was a lovely lady and it was a pleasure knowing her. May God Bless all of you and give you strength in the coming days.”
“To Sissy’s family,I am so sorry to hear about your loss.She was a great lady and will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers goes to all of you. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Sissy was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed.”
“To the whole family. We were so saddened to hear of Sissy’s death. May god be with each one of you in this time of sadness. “
“I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray GOD grants you comfort in the days and months to come. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. “
“Tracey, I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I know you two were very close. My continued thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. “
“Can’t believe Kathy is gone. She was such a fun supervisor at TID many years ago. Always looking out for someone and helping them get ahead. Have seen her recently at the Hospital Gift Shop and she looked great. God bless all her friends and family in this difficult time. She’s in my prayers. Pat Hall”
“Patty, Rosie and family: We were so sorry to hear of Kathy’s death. You are such a close family and we know what a loss this is to you. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this sorrowful time. She is in a better place with your mom, dad, Jo Jo, and other family members. Just remember that one of these days you will be with her. Sincerely, Son and Elaine Wood”
“Tracey, We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you and the entire family. We love you all very much! D.D., Karla, and Mason”
“To Kathy’s family, my deepest condolences. Kathy was always a happy person, I remember her from the FOP with Terry years ago. She loved to volunteer and give back to her community. What a wonderful person she was. Keep your memories close to your heart. She is your guardian angel now and always watching over you all. God bless you all.”
“Patty, Tracey and family, I am so sorry to hear about Sissy. I’m here for you whenever you need me.”
“Tracey – We are so sorry for the loss of your Mother. You know she is an Angel in Heaven looking down on you and your family right now. Be strong and I hope you know you have many friends who care. Love you, David and Alex. Please know that we are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.”
“Patty & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept our sincere condolences for the loss of your sister Kathy. “
“Our deepest sympathy to the entire family. Steve Soaper and Debbie Ferguson. “
“Holly, I am sorry for your loss, may your wonderful memories help you thru this difficult time”
“Our prayers are with you all. Sissy was a wonderful woman, and gave her love and warmth to everyone she knew. “
“Tracey and Jeff, I just can’t believe it. Your mom was always very good to me as you know. I just saw her not to long ago and of course she was talking about your kids even though Holly is grown now. I will always think about her and I know she will be in your hearts and thoughts daily. Please take care of yourselves.”
“Patty, Rosemary, & family. So very sorry to hear of your loss. I was sorry to hear of Kathy’s illness and shocked to hear the news this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“To Sissy’s family,my thoughts and prayers are with all of you,I have fond memories of her.”
“Tracy, so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom! I know she will be greatly missed. Thinking of you during this difficult time!”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. We are only a phone call away should you need anything at all. “
“Dear Virgil, Rosie, and Patti Kathy’s death is a total shock to me. God bless you all and my sympathy goes out to all of you. Sissy will be with her Terry, mom and dad and Jo Jo again. Love Di”
“Patti & family – “Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time”. “
“We had just learned of Sissy’s illness earlier this week and are saddened to hear of her passing. All her family will be in out thoughts and prayers over the coming days.”
“Patti & Family … Although it’s difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.”
“Patty, (Mattingly Family), So sorry to hear about Kathy. God Bless.”
“To the family of Sissy Frazier, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Ted and Nancy Harwood”
“So sad to read this news this morning. I didn’t know she was even ill. You are all in my thoughts and prayes.”
“Our deepest sympathy to the family as they and we will miss Kathy very much.”
“I have many good memories of Kathy, she always made me smile. Our sympathy to all of the family, we will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Tracey – So very sorry for your loss; I know how close you were to your Mom and can’t imagine the pain you are dealing with! Know that she is in a better place and not suffering. What a great loss. May God give you the strength to get through the days ahead! You are in my prayers!”
“You all are in my thoughts and I am praying for each and every one of the family. “
“To Sissy’s family, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Sissy’s death this morning. I only recently heard she was ill. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time.”
“Patty, Rosie and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief and sorrow. May God shower His comfort and grace upon you.”
“Tracey,Patty and Rosie my deepest sympathy at the loss of Kathy. She was such a caring, giving and fun loving person. She was an inspiration to me when I first worked at what was then CSD and later IMD at PAX. She was a super boss and friend. God bless you all in your time of sorrow.”
“”We were very sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing…”
“Tracey, You will always be one of my girls. My heart breaks for you. Love you, baby girl.”
“Tracey – We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“Dear Patty & Rosemary, When I think of Kathy I always smile, what a lovely and vibrant lady with a sense of humor that would rival any comic. Kathy always put others first and never met a stranger. Your lovely mother Fayrene lives on through each of you kids, touched with her kindness,compassion, and sense of community. Kathy will be missed by all who knew and loved her. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Best Love,”
“Tracey, Patty and Family, we were deeply saddened to hear of Kathy’s passing. She was truly a remarkable woman and will be greatly missed by all. May you all take comfort in the fond memories of her. Our sincere condelences are sent during this difficult time. “
“Patty and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of loss. We are so very sorry.”
“Jeff, Tracey & Family, We are so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Tracey I know your mom was your best friend, hang in there. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“Tracey – My heart breaks for you during this difficult time. I know you truly adored your mother and considered her your best friend. Please find comfort in knowing that your Mom was so proud of everything you have accomplished and the wonderful women you have become. My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family.”
“To all of Sissy’s family, My most heartfelt condolences to all of you during this difficult time. My prayers are for you to hold onto the memories of Sissy and her generous spirit as you grieve. I hope you are comforted by her many loving friends. I am so sorry for your loss.”
“Tracey and family-With our deepest sympathy for your loss! God has another of his angels! Prayers for the entire family! Alvin, Adam and Jennifer Robertson-Strickland”
“To all of Kathy’s family, My sincere thoughts & prayers are with you all. I have many, many fond memories working with Kathy. She was a great supervisor and mentor to me during the early years of my Government career. She had a hand in launching me in the right direction in the financial management world. Kathy was also a dear friend and we shared many laughs and good times. Remember all the fun times with your Mom, sister and best friend. It is those memories that will get you through any sad times. St. Mary’s Hospital Auxiliary, Gift Shop and the entire community suffers a great loss of a wonderful person. The Lord saw her suffering and took her into his arms. May she rest in peace with the angels. “
“Our deepest sympathy to all of Kathy’s family. We will always remember the good times and Kathy’s wonderful sense of humor. She will be missed by all who knew her. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. Dick and Jackie Solomon”
“To Kathy’s family, you have my deepest sympathy. I am a former coworker who benefited greatly from knowing Kathy.”
“Patty and Tracey, So sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing, you all have such a great family, I am sorry for your loss. God’s Peace and Blessings to you.”
“Tracey & Family – my condolences to you & your family at this difficult time. May God give you strength and a enter peace. God bless you.”
“Patty and Family: Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.”
“virgil,rosemary,patty,jeffrey,and the rest of sissy’s family.i was shocked and saddened to hear on the radio this morning the news about sissy.condolences are certainly in order for you all. she will be sorely missed. may god be with her.”
“Rosemary, Patti and family – I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking about you all – Tism”
“Tracey, Patty & Family. I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences go out to you and your families.”
“Patty, Tracey, and family – I am saddened by Kathy’s passing and hope you will find strength in your family and friends in the coming days and months. I enjoyed the time I worked with Kathy when I was a new BFM and she always made me smile. She will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.”
“Patty (entire Mattingly family): I was deeply saddened to hear of Kathy. I wish I had the words to comfort and sustain you in your grief, but I know there are none that will take away any pain you are feeling now. My deepest condolences and prayers for God’s peace at this difficult time.”
“Patty and Rosemary, just heard of Kathy’s passing. She was so young. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Eileen Jones”
“Tracey & family: I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you & your family at this time. God wanted another angel by his side. She is now soaring the heavenly sky watching over all of you! God bless. Shirley”
“We were very sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow. God Bless.”
“I pass on my most sincere condolences to everyone in the family. Sissy was such a wonderful lady, full of laughter and light. Her passing is a great loss to the entire community, but particularly St. Mary’s Hospital and the Leonardtown community who knew her as a beloved friend. “
“Tracey, I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom and Best Friend. I know she meant the world to you.. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Hang in there girl and lean on your family and friends to get you through..”
“Tracey, I am so sorry to hear of our mom’s passing. It is hard to lose your mom. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Patty, Rosemary, Tracey & Family, I pray your faith and memories of Kathy will comfort you during this difficult time. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. “
“To Patty and family, I just saw the news…I am so sorry for your loss.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time.”
“Tracey, Jeff and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“So very saddened to hear of Kathy’s passing. I remember lots of fun and lots of laughing when we hung out during our high school days at the academy. May God Bless her family at this very difficult time. Rest in Peace, Kathy.”
“My sincere condolences to Kathys family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “
“Deepest Sympathy.”
“Rosemary and family; Just heard about Kathy so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayer go out to you and the family.”
“Patty, Rosemary; Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Memories of love and friendship are treasures to carry with you always.”
“Rosemary & Patti, so sorry for the loss of your sister. The Community has lost a truly giving person. Take Care, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Linda”
“Always thought you were “Cool” at good old SMA. Hope to see ya on the other side Katherine.”
“The Mattingly and Frazier families: I didn’t know that Sissy had been ill. She was a sweet and kind person. Her mom and I were close for years. I took her for a Corvette ride with the top off. Sissy and I spoke of this occasion and prior to taking her out for her ride Sissy told me to make her Mom’s day. Your family has always had a special place in my heart. God Bless all of you.”
“Tracey – My heart breaks after hearing of the news about the loss of your Mom. The way you spoke of her was amazing. Please know that your friends at work are there for you whenever you need us. Your family is in my prayers.”
“Tracey and family, My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. “
“Tracey, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. I know she meant the world to you.. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time.”
“So very sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of loss.”
“Patty, Rosemary, Virgil and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I was totally shocked when I was told of her passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Our sympathy to Jeff and his family during this time of loss.”