Linda Mae Downs Pilkerton
September 9, 1949 ~ July 27, 2013
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday July 31, 2013 at 11:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church Bushwood, MD with Fr. James Downs officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday July 30, 2013 from 5:00 PM ~ 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with prayers recited at 7:00 PM.
Linda Mae Pilkerton, 63, of Avenue, MD, passed away on July 27, 2013 in Avenue, MD. Born on September 9, 1949 in Leonardtown, MD she was the daughter of the late Walter Bailey and Mae Perlina Downs.
Linda Mae is survived by her husband Anthony "Andy" Pilkerton whom she married in Holy Angels Catholic Church, Avenue, MD on November 8, 1969. She is also survived by her children Kenny Pilkerton (Alice) of Shady Side, MD; Craig Pilkerton (Heather) of Mechanicsville, MD; Tracy Delahay (Richley) of Leonardtown, MD; and Denise Hayden (Mark) of Mechanicsville, MD. Siblings, Gloria Jean Pilkerton and Brenda Kay Webb both of Avenue, MD, and 10 grandchildren.
Linda Mae graduated from Chopticon High School, Morganza, MD in 1967. She worked as the postmaster for the United States Post Office for 30 years retiring as postmaster of Chaptico, MD in February 2012.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, July 30, 2013 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, July 31, 2013 at 11:00 AM in Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Bushwood, MD with Father Leonard James Downs officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Pallbearers will be Don Pilkerton, Lawrence Pilkerton, Jay Pilkerton, Stanley Pilkerton, Mike Farr, and Warren Webb.
Contributions can be made to the Seventh District Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 7, Avenue, MD 20609 and/or Hospice of St. Mary’s, P.O. Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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“To Andy and all the family: I was sorry to hear of Linda Mae’s passing, yet now she is out of pain and will be with her parents. She was a very sweet person to know. I enjoyed singing with her in the choir. I too was sorry she did not get to enjoy her retirement for very long. She will be missed.”
“I have fond memories of Linda Mae babysitting Beth and I…Fun times playing with Kenny, Craig, Tracy, Denise and all the other neighborhood kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow. She is now watching over you. With deepest sympathy, “
“To all of Linda Mae’s Family. We are so sorry to hear of Linda Mae’s passing. We know she will be greatly missed by all of you. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.”
“Linda was a great woman, I had the pleasure of working with her at Chaptico post office. She was always checking on me like she was my own mom, always thinking about others an helping with anything she could. She will be missed greatly, but never forgotten. She will be watching over an taking care of everyone like usual. I will always remember the good times an her jokes. Andy and family you are in my prayers. Diane & Hailey”
“Andy & Family, Our hearts hurt for you now. May God bless you and give you the power to get through this. We know that she was a loving wife, mother grand mom sister aunt and and friend . She will be missed.”
“Linda’s family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.”
“Andy, Craig and Family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Linda May was a great lady. Keep alive all those great memories. May she rest in peace.”
“My prayers to the family she was a great lady. “
“It’s hard to find the words to console a family who has lost and loved someone so precious. Linda Mae was special to all of us. Our hearts and prayers are with you.”
“Dear Andy & Family, We are so sorry to hear about Linda Mae. We will all miss her very much and we are so sad. “
” It’s sad to hear the news of Linda Mae’s passing. She was a beautiful person. I grew up with the Downs family in 7D at the “Point”. I had very many fond memories there. May knowing others care, help lift your burden of sorrow. God bless Andy and family.”
“Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. “
“Andy and Family, So very sorry to hear of Linda Maes’ passing. She was a very strong person to plan everything like she did. She will be missed by her family and her many friends. Rest in peace now, Linda. May God bless you all.”
“Andy, Kenny, Tracy, Craig, and Denise, We are so sorry to here about Linda Mae. All of her pain and suffering is now over, and now she has been reunited with her Mom and Dad. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything for you during this difficult time.”
“Andy and Family, Heartaches in this world are many, but to love and lose is worse than any. The tears in our eyes we can wipe away, but the ache in our heart will always stay. Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you each.”
“Praying for all of you during this most difficult time. Linda Mae will be missed by all. “
“Deepest sympathy to the family….great person who’s life was cut way to short….God bless you Linda Mae. “
“My prayers and thoughts are with you. Aunt Sue”
“”To Andy and all of Linda Mae Family” My Heart Goes Out To All Of You In In This Time Of Need. “To Linda Mae Family” My sympathy to all of the family I know what it is like to lose a love one I have been through all not a year yet sense I lost the love of my life. Justremember that death leaves a broken heart but wonderful memories will last a life time. may linda Mae rest in peace now her work on earth is done and the Good Lord will take care of her now. Just rmember that she is at peace now. “
“Andy and family – We are so saddened to hear about Linda Mae and please know we are thinking about you and praying for you. Linda was a “second” mother to Beth and Dianne while babysitting and we will always remember how she made things so much better for all of us with her kind ways. Take care and always know that Linda is still watching over you every step of the way.”
“Our thoughts and prayers to the family. She was a beautiful person and will truly be missed. “
“Andy, Denise, Tracey, Craig, Kenny, and families. We are sadden to hear about the loss of Linda. May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead. Tears will dry, smiles will fade away, but memories last forever. Linda Mae will be missed. We pray that God will comfort you during these grieving times. “
“Andy,Kenny,Craig,Tracy,Denise and the grandchildren so sorry for the lost of Linda Mae she was a all around person. I’ve got so many memories with her that I will alway’s keep close to my heart. Thinking and praying for u guy’s. RIP Linda Mae gone but never will be forgotten.”
“To the Pilkerton Family – We were so saddened to hear of Linda Mae’s passing. Cherish the memories and may you find comfort in knowing that she is in Heaven and at peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“So very sorry for the entire Downs and Pilkerton families. She is now at peace singing with the angels. Hold your memories close and she will be with you always.”
“OUR THOUGHTS AN PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY. “MAY SHE REST IN PEACE””
“Linda was such a sweet lsady and a wonderful choir member. We have missed her so much. She also had a great sense of humor. I know that she will be with us in all of our choir endeavors. God bless all of the family.”
“So sorry to hear that Linda Mae has passed. She is at peace. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family. She was a wonderful person and will be missed. Sharon & Jamie Lathroum”
“To Linda Mae’s Family, I am so sadden to hear of Linda Mae’s passing. She was ALWAYS such a fun person. We had some great times with our girls’ softball teams. She will be greatly missed. I have you in my prayers and thoughts. Be there for each other and remember all the good times. She is with her Mom and Dad and they are watching over you. God Bless you.”
“ANDY,KENNY,TRACIE,CRAIG,DENISE AND FAMILY, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS SAD TIME. LINDA MAE WAS SUCH A SWEET AND KIND PERSON AND SHE WILL BE TRUELY MISSED. GOD BLESS HER AND YOU AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE IN HEAVEN AND WATCH OVER US.”
“Andy & Family, It’s hard to understand why people we love are taken from us,but find comfort in knowing you were all a special part of Linda’s life as she loved her family so much. When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help you find your smile. May happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time. God is always in your corner at a time like this…..and so are we if there is anything we can do for you. In Friendship,”
“Please know I am thinking and praying for you all, she was a wonderful woman.”
“Tracy and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this difficult time. “
“Anthony and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of sorrow. May you find peace in all the memories of love shared.”
“Brenda Kay & family, I am so sorry to learn of your sister’s passing. She is in a better place now with no pain. Hold all of her memories close to your heart and please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers.”
“Andy & Family, may your best memories keep you strong. God Bless Linda Mae and all her extended family.”
“Andy, Tracey, Denise, Kenny, Craig and the family, Linda Mae was a sweet woman with a laughter that I will not forget. Sharing your wonderful memories will help ease this sad time. Know that you and your family are in my prayers.”
“Andy, Kenny, Craig, Tracy, Denise, Gloria Jean and Brenda Kay, Even though your heart is breaking know that Linda Mae will always be with you and watching over each of you. Share your memories with each other for they will help you get thru the tough days ahead. Linda Mae will never be far away and if you listen with your heart you will feel her love all around you. Thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. “
“We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. “Wherever a beautiful soul has been there is a trail of beautiful memories”.”
“Thinking of the whole family on the loss of Linda Mae. She was a special person to say the least. Going to miss the camping trips with her and Andy, and the rest of the gang. May she rest in peace. Thoughts and prayers with you all… “
“Andy and Family, Linda was a wonderful lady with a great sense of humor and truly giving heart.She was a wealth of information and experience. The Postal Service was lucky to call her one of their own.I feel honored to have worked with her and known her… “
“Brenda Kay and Gloria Jean, I am so sorry to read that you have lost Linda Mae. Sending prayers your way during this very difficult time.”
“Our deepest sympathy on your loss. May memories of the good times help ease your pain during this very sad time.”
“The Pilkerton/Downs Family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of your beloved Linda. God bless.”
“With deep sympathy from The Perry Family at this very sad time. “Thelma Lou” was such a beautiful lady, she will be missed. “
“Denise and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Kay and all the Pilkerton family. Our sincere condolences to you and your family on your loved one’s passing. Rest in peace.”
“To Linda Mae’s family, my deepest condolences on your loss. Linda was always a fun loving person and knew how to have fun. She will be greatly missed. Keep your memories close to your hearts and she will always be there. God Bless you all.”
“Andy and Family, Please know that Linda left many wonderful memories wherever she was and her sense of humor was loved by all. Know that we all send you many heartfelt condolences and may God’s love comfort you at this time. “
“My prayers are with the family. I worked with Linda at the Post Office and learned alot from her. She will be truly missed.”
“My thoughts and prayers go to the Pilkerton Family. Linda Mae was a smart, hard working, kind professional who was always helpful to others. She will always be thought of in high regard. “
“Andy and Family – Our hearts are heavy knowing the pain and sorrow you are all going through. It is so hard to lose someone you love but also so hard to watch them suffer. Remember all of the happy times that you shared with Linda Mae and all of the memories that you made. Know that she is in heaven now, watching over you and she suffers no more. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can help you in any way. God bless you all.”
“It was an honor to have known such a wonderful person. We will truly miss her and seeing her around. The memories we have with her will forever hold a place in our hearts. Please know we are here for any of you for whatever you may need. May God embrace and comfort all of you during this difficult time. “
“Andy, KENNY, CRAIG, TRACEY , DENIS AND the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We now have a another special Angell in heaven watching over us. Linda will be missed.”
“Tracy~so sorry to hear this sad news. May she rest in peace. “
“To the family of Linda Mae; Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. Linda Mae was one of the finest ladies I know. When I first met Linda I made a friend for life. She was always there for me and my family and I will never forget her kindness. She was such a pleasure to work with and made going to work each day fun. We could tell how devoted she was to her family by all of the stories she would tell us. We came to know all of her kids and grandkids and had never even met some. She was very proud of all of them. I know how much you are going to miss her because I have missed her so much since she retired. She was a wonderful person, so caring and giving to others. Andy, if there is anything you need please know that we are here for you. My husband and daughter join me in saying we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. With all our love…”
“Denise and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Just know how much others care and share in your sorrow. Heaven certainly got a Beautiful Angel!! Love You Bunches XOXOXO”
“Andy, Kenny, Tracy, Craig, Denise and Family, Words, however kind, can’t mend your heartache: but all of us who care and share your loss wish you comfort and peace of mind. Linda was a very good friend of ours since High School. We cherish the great times we had with her on Cruises, Atlantic City, Dover, Ocean City and all those New Year’s Eve Parties! She will always be in our thoughts and hearts. Love you all and please know that we are here if you need Anything! “
“We extend to Andy and all the family our sincerest sympathy. We are so blessed to be related to her, to have grown up with her and we loved her alot. May she find peace now in heaven in the arms of Our Lord and Blessed Mother and may the Holy Spirit help to console all of you during this most difficult time. “
“Tracy, we are so sorry about your Mom. She was a sweet lady and will be missed by many. You and your family are in our prayers.”
“Andy, Kenny, Tracy, Craig and Denise, Your Mom was a very special lady. She raised 4 wonderful children that she can be proud of! We now have another angel in heaven looking down on us. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts.”
“Andy and Tracy,Our thoughts & prayer’s are with you and your family at this difficult time. “
“Andy&Family,I growed up with Linda Mae and she was one of the nicest persons you would ever meet.She was always there when I played in the Wanderers and I always enjoyed her coming over and talking to me.Andy, you and your wife where special people and I will always remember you guys.She is in Gods hands now but we will always miss her.Andy we will pray for you and your family and if there is anything we can do, please let us know”
“Thoughts and prayers to all the family.”
“Andy & Family I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Linda Mae was a great lady I remember all the fun times in the neighborhood. She will truly be missed. But she will be watching over all of you.”
“TO THE PILKERTON AND DOWN’S FAMILY, LINDA MAE LIVED BESIDE MY IN-LAWS BEFORE HER AND ANTHONY GOT MARRIED. MRS NELSON MISSED HER WHEN SHE MOVED TO AVENUE. SHE DID NOT HAVE ANYONE TO ROLL HER HAIR UNTIL I MARRIED BUTTON’S. LINDA MAE WOULD ALWAYS JOKE ABOUT THIS. NOW SHE CAN ROLL MRS NELSON HAIR IN HEAVEN UNTIL I GET THERE. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE. “
“ANTHONY AND FAMILY, WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS AT THIS SAD TIME. MAY GOD BLESS AMD WATCH OVER YOU. “
“My sincere condolences to the Pilkerton family. Linda worked for me for a time at Lusby. She was a delight to be around. Linda always had a smile on her face. She has many friends in the Postal Service that mourn this great loss. May the Good Lord Bless and Keep her. “
“Andy & Family: There are no words to make losing her easy. She was always a lady and a friend to anyone she spoke too. Linda Mae will be missed by all who knew her. I’m so sorry for your loss and may God bless you during this difficult time.”
“Andy, Brenda Kay & Gloria Jean, My heart goes out to you at the loss of Linda Mae. She was truly a wonderful person – giving, loving and always ready with a smile. I will keep all of you and the entire family in my prayers. I am sure that she is gracing heaven with her remarkable presence. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. “
“Andy and Family, Deepest condolences to all of you, I know how much you’ll miss her. She truly loved her family and was proud of all of you. “
“Tracy and family, You are in my families thoughts and prayers, God Bless.”
“Dear Andy and Family, I’ve read through all the condolences, hoping to help me find the words to express the saddness I feel for you all. I pray that you find comfort in all the wonderful things that so many have written. And knowing how much Linda Mae was loved, along with the memories that she has left with everyone who knew her. I will always hear her laughing when I think of her. God Bless you Linda Mae and God Bless all who love you.”
“Andy and Family., So sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and condolences are with you and yours. Louis”
“Andy and family – We are so sorry to hear about Linda. We had some wonderful times with her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”
“Andy and Family, Our sincere sympathy to you and all the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. She was a special person and will be truly missed. Jimmy & Irene “
“To all of Linda Mae’s family and dear friends we offer our sincerest condolences. May she now rest in peace with our Lord and Savior and may He also bless each one of you. “
“We feel very lucky to have met and known Linda Mae. Linda Mae was a wonderful lady and loved by all who crossed her path. We are deeply saddened by her passing and hope that the family can find comfort in knowing that she touched so many lives. “
“Our condolences to the family, she was a fine lady and will be missed by many. Godspeed.”
“Andy and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you.”
“Andy & Family – Linda Mae was a fun loving lady and we had so many good times with her. Heaven sure is full of laughter as the Lord has gained a wonderful lady. Keep the memories close to your heart to get through the difficult days ahead. You have a “Special Angel” to look down on each one of you. “
“Andy and family, So sorry about Linda Mae’s passing. I still can’t believe it. She is no longer suffering. Hold on to all the memories. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Linda was a great person and friend. R.I.P…….”
“To Andy and All of the Family: There’s never a teardrop that God doesn’t see. He knows when a sparrow falls from a tree. There’s never a moment when God doesn’t care, never a time when He won’t hear our prayer. Take comfort in that Linda Mae is at peace now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Andy and family, we are so sorry to hear of Linda Mae’s passing. Our prayers and sympathy go out to all. She has touched so many people, and will truly be missed by all who had the honor of knowing her. May she rest in peace.”
“Sorry for the entire family my prayers are with you all.”
“Andy and family, We were so sorry to hear about Linda Mae. She was such a kind and sweet person and was taken way too soon. We’re keeping you and your family in our prayers.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Pilkerton family. Remember all the good memories you created with Linda Mae.”
“Linda was a very special person, she will be missed by many people.I enjoyed being her friend and co-worker may god bless her family”
“Tracy my condolences to you and family sorry for your loss.”
“I am so sorry to read of the passing of Linda Mae. You are in my prayers. Remember all the good time you had as a family.”
“”Andy, Gloria Jean, Brenda Kay, and to your entire beautiful families please know we are so saddened to hear of Linda Mae’s passing. She was taken far to soon and I can only imagine how much she is missed. May your hearts and thoughts be filled with wonderful memories of days gone by and keep her spirit with you each and every day.””
“So saddened & shocked by this heartbreaking news. We so enjoyed seeing Linda & “Tony” at John Beans b’day dinner Feb 2012. May God keep His hand of comfort on her family & know we feel & share this grief with all. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.”
“I am so sorry to hear about Linda Mae our prayers go out to the family. “