Lois Ruth Anderson Hodges
February 1, 1947 ~ January 31, 2018
Lois Ruth Anderson Hodges, age 70, died peacefully at her home on Wednesday, January 31, 2018. Born February 1, 1947, in Leonardtown, Maryland, to the late Albert and Dolly Anderson, Lois is survived by her daughter, Lois Annette Hodges, and her siblings, Jennings Anderson (Sheila), Bert Anderson (Jackie), Faye Downs (Lee), Nancy Bowles (George), and Janet Schwab (Julian), and many nieces and nephews.
Lois was a life-long resident of St. Mary’s County. She graduated from Margaret Brent High School in 1965. In 1963, Lois was proud to be crowned the St. Mary’s County Queen of Tolerance. In her younger years, Lois enjoyed playing softball, playing many years with Earnshaw’s and finishing her softball career at Capt. Sam’s. Lois played short field and was a great left-handed batter who hit with power and for a high average. She was on many all-star teams and was MVP of her team several times.
Lois’ greatest love and joy was her daughter Annette and her family. She always demonstrated the qualities of hard work, determination and independence and instilled these qualities in those around her. Lois looked after everyone, always putting the needs of others before her own. She was the family matriarch who was visited often for advice, guidance, an extra hand, or simply her loving smile. Lois was a beautiful person inside and out, and an extraordinary mother, sister, aunt and friend.
Lois considered one of her greatest achievements purchasing the farm of her late great uncle, Dick Barber, known as Barber’s Hope, in 1991. She truly loved being on the farm, and was content sitting on her porch watching the birds and enjoying the beauty of the farm. Lois was an excellent cook, especially known for her hot pickles and holiday eggnog. The farm became a gathering place for the family, and several family members or neighbors were often found on her porch eating crabs and sharing stories.
Family and friends are invited for visitation to Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home in Leonardtown on Monday, February 5, 2018 from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 6, 2018 at 10:00 AM in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church in Chaptico, MD with Father Michal Sajnog officiating. Interment will follow in Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers for Lois will be Annette Hodges, Dale Anderson, Ebby Bell, Vic Anderson, Takisha Bowles, Derrick Bowles, Dillon Bowles, and JR Anderson. Honorary Pallbearers are Donna Gardner, Dee Norris, Julie Marcos, Loretta Fields, Ashley Solan, Cody Anderson, Shelby Anderson, and Weylin Anderson.
Contributions may be made to St. Mary’s Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, 2185 Peabody Street Leonardtown, MD 20650.
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Annette/ love you always
Dear Annette: My heart goes out to you. Your mom was one of the nicest people I had the privilege to know. She was SO proud of you! Please know that Lois has earned her wings. She will ALWAYS be with you. May God give you strength in the coming days. God Bless you.
Annette,
We are so sorry for the loss of your Mom. She will be missed by many, but none more than you. You are and have always been very special to us and our hearts ache for you during this difficult time. Your Mom was so very proud of you and your accomplishments. Memories are the legacy of love and may many happy memories fill your heart always.
Annette & Family: So sorry to hear of Lois’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold tight to the memories. She is with the Lord now. Wishing you peace and comfort at this difficult time.
Annette and family, so said to hear of Ms. Lois passing. She was always a joy to talk too.. You and the entire family are in our thoughts and prayers — RIP
Annette, sorry to hear of the Loss of your MOM. May she rest in Peace. Lv Ann Bowles
Annette and family,
Please except our blessings and condolences during this difficult time. But we pray to the father above. To reach out to you and comfort you and your family , and ask him to touch them during this difficult time !
Love Donna & Mike & Josh
Sorry to hear of Lois. I went thru high school with her. We were the last graduating class of Margaret Brent High School. My condolences to her daughter.
Sorry to hear of Lois. I went thru high school with her. We were the last graduating class of Margaret Brent High School. My condolences to her daughter.
Annette My thoughts and prayers are with you in the untimely passing of your Mom and my special sister-in-law. May God comfort you during this difficult and sad time. Please let me know if I can be of any help you.
Dear Annette & Family, Please accept my condolences on the loss of your beautiful mother and my long time friend. Memories of car pooling to DC years ago, working at the race track together, card games and family get togethers, I’ll cherish forever. May she Rest In Peace.
Annette & Family
So very sorry to hear the news of your Mom. Very special lady for sure. Please know that Helena and I will keep you in our prayers.
Dear Annette and Family, So sorry for your loss. Praying you find peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
Dearest Sweet Annette….so very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. My heartfelt sympathy/condolences to you and your family.
Dear Annette, So sorry for your loss. I am deeply saddened by the news of your loss. I pray that God will grant you the strength. My most sincere condolences.
Annette,
Sending my thoughts and Prayers to you.
Mary Ann
Annette and family, My deepest sympathy to all. Lois was such a sweet, kind, woman. She always had a smile on her face, which will always be remembered.
Dear Annette: I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. I have not seen her in many years but remember her mostly from elementary school days. We actually made out First Communion the same day at St. Joseph’s Church. I remember her as a beautiful and fun-loving person with a contagious smile. I will pray for you and I know that you will cherish all of the wonderful memories you have of her. RIP Lois!
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Hodges and Anderson families at this time. May the many happy memories that you created and shared with Lois provide you comfort during this difficult time.
Dear Annette, Jennings, Bert, Faye, Nancy and Janet – I am so heartbroken over the loss of cousin Lois. I was scheduled to visit with her on Friday. I was so looking forward to visiting with her as I always admired Lois’ beauty from the days of her being crowned Queen of Tolerance – none other than beautiful! I know she was welcomed into Heaven with opening arms from all of our many loved ones before her! How special that the 1st of February was her birthday and so many other special birthday’s such as her Dad and my Dad are around the date God called her home! Losing a mother and a sibling is absolutely devastating but, I pray that God will give you all strength to carry on her legacy and be able to laugh about all the funny things and hold all the most precious things close within your hearts! I love all of you so much! Hugs!
Annette, Jennings, Bert, Nancy, Janet and Faye.
I so sorry for the loss of Lois. I know how much everyone will miss her, but you’ll have your stories and memories of her. Be strong for each other, and Annette, if you ever want to talk, you know where I am. Let me know if you need anything.
To Lois’s family, So sorry for your lost. Lois was a wonderful person, she always had a smile and was loved by so many. May God watch over all of you at this time.
Annette – We can’t stop thinking of you with heavy hearts.. You loved your mom so much, so close to her, protective of her. Life is precious and we never know the day or hour when we’re called home. Nothing prepares us to bid farewell to that someone we have cherished all our lives. Undoubtedly, you shared your life and love without reservations, having no regrets. We can only imagine how proud she was of you. Our hearts and prayers are with you in this unspeakable grief. Love you.
Dear Anderson Families, Truly sorry to hear of Lois’s passing. I remember her as a lovely person inside & out. Condolences also from my Mom & Dad. Unfortunately, due to health issues, it’s doubtful they’ll be able to attend services but asked me to please convey their sorrow. We remember all of your support when Carl & Steve passed & are eternally grateful for your kindness. Your Mom & Dad raised wonderful people & the community is fortunate to have you. Please know you are in our thoughts today & always.
Dear Annette,
Only pure love can bring this deep sorrow you are now feeling. Your mother passed this love to you,and was so proud of you. Forever this special lady will remain in your heart.
Dear Annette, I’m writing to express my sincere condolences on the passing of your Mom and my Aunt. I have and will always treasure the memories that I spent with you and Aunt Lois in my younger years. I certainly had some fun times together with you and your Mom. As a teen I especially remember the fun times that your Mom and mine knew nothing about!! I know you will cherish those memories and all that you shared with her as well. I will always be thankful for the special bond we have and the memories I will keep forever in my heart for Aunt Lois. I love you and pray that God will comfort you and keep you in His care.
Annette and Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. I know she will be missed deeply. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Janet & Julian and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your dear sister’s passing. May you find comfort throughout this difficult time in knowing that family and friends are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Annette, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Annette, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her terribly, but may all the good memories you have of her help you through the difficult times ahead. You’re in my thoughts.