Mary Lavenia "Lucy" Nelson

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August 18, 1920 ~ May 25, 2010

Services: A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, May 29, 2010 at 9:30 AM in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church Chaptico, MD, with Fr. Baer officiating. Interment will follow in the Charles Memorial Gardens Leonardtown, MD. Visitation: The family will receive friends on Friday, May 28, 2010 from 5:00 PM ~ 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home chapel with prayers being recited at 7:00 PM. Mrs. Mary Lavenia “Lucy” Nelson, 89, formerly of Clements, MD, died Tuesday, May 25, 2010 at Glade Valley Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Walkersville, MD. She was the wife of the late Joseph Elmer Nelson, Sr. who died March 5, 1991. They were married on October 19, 1942. She was preceded in death by her brother, Daniel Brown, and sisters, Edith Bowles and Frances Woodall. Born August 18, 1920 in Avenue, MD, Lucy was the daughter of the late Joseph Benjamin and Mary Roberta Brown. Lucy was an excellent seamstress, and loved music and dancing. She worked in women’s retail before marrying and starting her family. In addition to caring for her children, she was an avid gardener. For more than 40 years Lucy also worked as a clerk and cook at the Chaptico Market in Chaptico, MD. While a resident of Country Meadows of Frederick, Lucy enjoyed making pottery and jewelry, and sewing decorative pillows. Her friends and caretakers at Country Meadows and Glade Valley remember her fondly. Lucy is lovingly remembered by her son, Joseph Elmer Nelson, Jr. (Susan), and daughter R. Charlene Bonham (Bill); three granddaughters, Vickie Kanyan (Brian), Diane Jones (Billy), and Emily Bonham Owen (Pete); and two great-grandsons, Vincent and Zachary Kanyan. Lucy’s nieces and nephews in the Woodall and Kotowski families are comforted by their fond memories of “Aunt Bea”. Long-time family friends Bobby and Diane Anderson, and Jackie and Virginia Tennyson were also very special to her. The family will receive friends at Mattingly-Gardiner Funeral Home at 41590 Fenwick Street in Leonardtown, MD on Friday, May 28 from 5 – 8 p.m., with a prayer service at 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church at 37575 Chaptico Road in Chaptico, MD on Saturday, May 29 at 9:30 a.m. A graveside service will follow at Charles Memorial Gardens at 26325 Point Lookout Road in Leonardtown, MD. Pall bearers will be Billy Jones, Bobby Anderson, Brian Kanyan, Emily Bonham Owen, Ernie Woodall, and Pete Owen. Honorary pall bearers are Bernard Cullins, Jr., Jackie Tennyson, Mickey Nelson, Mike Woodall, Vincent Kanyan, and Zachary Kanyan. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Seventh District Rescue Squad, 21530 Coltons Point Road, Avenue, MD 20609.

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  1. “Lucy was a very special lady. We have missed her the last few years. Sorry to hear she has passed. God Bless you Lucy!!”

  2. Joe Parran, Tina and Nikki Nelson says:

    “To Joe,Charlene and family, Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss. Aunt Lucy was a wonderful lady. She was always so sweet and pleasant to talk with. Since she moved, we have missed seeing her go in and out of the driveway. She would always wave and sometimes stop to chat and see how everyone was doing. See will be greatly missed. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.”

  3. Michelle Thompson & Kelly Faunce says:

    “Joe,Charlene and family Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Aunt Bea was such a wonderful and dear person. we will never forget all the time we have spent together. May god bless you all through this tough time.”

  4. “Dear Emily and family, Please know that you are in my heart and on my mind at this time. May the sharing of memories about your grandmother with family members over the next few days lessen the pain of your loss. With deepest sympathy, Jane Scott “

  5. “Joe & Charlene, My prayers and thoughts are with you. Lucy is with Elmer now and will always be in YOUR hearts. Be there for each other and remember ALL the good times you had with your Mom….”

  6. “Lucy Nelson became part of our “extended” family when our son married her granddaughter Vickie. It was always a pleasure getting together with her for various family occasions. She introduced us to her great Southern Md. stuffed hams, which became one of my husband’s favorite foods. She was a very giving and charming person and we were fortunate to have known her. Lucy was a delightful LADY. God will be welcoming her with open arms. Our deepest sympathy to all of her family. With Love, Pat and Dick Kanyan “

  7. “All of us at Country Meadows,Residents and Co workers alike, will miss Lucy. We were privileged to have called her our friend. “

  8. “Emily and family, My sincerest condolences to you on your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the days to come. May the peace and comfort of knowing that your grandmother is now in the arms of our Lord bring you peace. With deepest sympathy….”

  9. “Lucy was truly a beautiful and kind lady who will be missed by all who knew and loved her. I will miss her at the Easter, Christmas, and Thanksgiving holiday dinners that she so lovingly invited me to share in with her and family.”

  10. “Our prayers are with you all. Lucy was a wonderful, kind and loving woman. She will always be remembered with love. “

  11. “Dear Charlene & Family, I only met Lucy once, but I know from everything I have ever heard from Charlene what a wonderful woman, wife, mother, and grandmother she was. You will miss her, but you will always have the wonderful memories of her to cherish. With deepest sympathy, Leila Walker”

  12. “Joe, Charlene & families – So sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. She was such a lovely person. We know you will have many lasting memories of her. With our deepest sympathy – Maxine & Harry”

  13. Rose Brinkmann The Brinkmann Family says:

    “Chaptico will not be the same without Miss Lucy. Our condolences on your loss of a very special lady. “


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