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Mary Monica Long

June 5, 1945 ~ August 23, 2026

Born in: Leonardtown, Maryland
Resided in: Mechanicsville, Maryland

Mary Monica Long, age 81, of Mechanicsville, Maryland, passed away peacefully on August 23, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.

She was born on June 5, 1945, in Loveville, Maryland, to the late George and Mary Payne. She graduated from Margaret Brent High School in 1963. She married the love of her life, Richard Elmer Long, at St. Joseph Church. Together, they shared 61 beautiful years of marriage and built an amazing family that Mary cherished beyond words.

Mary lived a life defined by her extraordinary kindness, resilience, and unwavering dedication to those she loved. For many years, she touched the lives of countless local families by providing compassionate childcare services within the community. Demonstrating her lifelong spirit of growth, she enrolled in courses at the local community college at the age of 50. This led to a rewarding career as an administrative assistant at Patuxent River Naval Air Station, from which she proudly retired in 2011.

Mary found joy in life’s simple pleasures. She loved playing softball, watching the Washington Nationals, spending time outdoors, birdwatching, and admiring beautiful flowers. She enjoyed playing bingo, listening to good old-fashioned country music, playing cards, and taking memorable trips to the casino to play slot machines. Above all else, she loved spending time with her siblings, in-laws, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Her infectious smile and humble spirit brought comfort and joy to everyone who knew her.

Mary’s legacy of love lives on through her surviving family. She is survived by her children, Sherrie Beachy (Darrell) of Mechanicsville, MD; Vickie Banagan (Jeff) of Clements, MD; and Jeff Long (Kristen) of Mechanicsville, MD. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Shane Beachy (Kim), Andy Banagan, Jessica Warden (Tyler), Jessica Banagan, Connor Banagan, Kate Long, Nicholas Long, Noah Long, and Anna Long; her great-grandchildren, Aiden Beachy, Zach Maples, Hunter Beachy, Dylan Maples, and Taylor Maples; and her siblings, Jean Woodburn (Francis) of Great Mills, MD, Eddie Payne (Maryann) of Avenue, MD, George Payne (Joan) of Mechanicsville, MD, and Barbara Vallandingham (J.C.) of Avenue, MD.

Mary was preceded in death by her beloved parents, George and Mary Payne; her brothers, Blinks and Buck; her cherished son, Richard Long (Jenn); and her loving husband, Richard Long, affectionately known as “The Fuzz.”

Throughout the years, Mary received exceptional care from Stephanie, Luz, and Gurley, whom she considered true members of her family. Their unwavering dedication, loyalty, and love meant the world to her, providing profound comfort and peace throughout her life’s journey.

The family will receive friends on Monday, August 31, 2026, from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM. in Our Lady of the Wayside, Chaptico, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 11:00 AM. with Rev. Chip Luckett officiating. Interment to follow in Queen if Peace Cemetery, Helen, MD.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to A.C.T.S. (A Community That Shares), P.O. Box 54, Bushwood, MD 20618 and the Mechanicsville Volunteer Rescue Squad.

Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com.

Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.

Services

Visitation: Monday, August 31, 2026 10:00 am

Our Lady of the Wayside
37575 Chaptico Road
Chaptico, MD 20621


Mass: Monday, August 31, 2026 11:00 am

Our Lady of the Wayside
37575 Chaptico Road
Chaptico, MD 20621


Interment: Monday, August 31, 2026 12:00 pm

Queen of Peace Cemetery
38888 Dr. Johnson Road
Helen, MD


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  1. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Miss Mary now you can rest in peace in heaven with your loved ones. Hugs and ❤️

  2. Sherry Vicky Jeff may your mom rest in peace. So many great memories growing up together.i called her aunt mary.she was the kindest person you would ever meet. She is going up to heaven now. I bet you they will have a big old party. My mom and dad my best friend Ricky and the one and only the fuzz . Good bye for now ❤️ you .from pat. Mike. David

  3. Sending our thoughts and prayers to all of you. So sorry for your loss of such a sweet lady.

  4. Roy Buckler ~ Mechanicsville says:

    Thoughts & Prayers are With The Entire Long & Payne Family’s, Mary & Fuzzy was Wonderful Couple, Use To Work Father Andrew White School( Friday Night Bingo), Fuzzy was in Knights of Columbus ~1470, He was Faithful to Work Bingo on Friday’s Until He was Not able to, Fuzzy & Mary Faithful There Together, She is Happy with Fuzzy Again, Great People, Loved Them Both, Roy & Marie Buckler ~ Mechanicsville

  5. My most heartfelt thoughts and prayers are sent to all of Mary’s family. As children, my sister Betty Lee (now deceased) and I spent many hours at the Payne house in Loveville playing with Mary and Barbara and having lunch with the two of them. They always had the best mashed potatoes. They were great neighbors and friends and it’s wonderful to look back on good times with old friends.

  6. I remember my childhood and you are there always. I remember your advice and a shoulder to lean on. Thank you. Prayers and love sent to all the family. Aunt Mary, may you rest in peace and tell all our love ones hello.

  7. Vickie & family so sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers 🫶🙏🏻
    May your mom Rest In Peace

  8. So sorry for your loss. Keeping all in my thoughts and prayers.


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